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It is difficult to have an honest conversation about love in Africa without talking about money.

Imagine a society where most people are financially comfortable, basic needs are covered and nobody is constantly worried about food, rent, transport or medical bills. Love will probably be judged more by companionship, loyalty, affection, honesty, peace and how two people treat each other.

Now put that same relationship in a society where people are struggling to survive.

Suddenly, “If he really loves me, he will take care of me” starts sounding very reasonable.

A man buys food, pays rent, sends transport money, handles emergencies and solves problems. Those things can easily become evidence of love because they are meeting very real needs.

So when someone says, “A man who loves me will do everything for me,” we should sometimes look beyond the relationship and look at the economy surrounding it.

For someone who is hungry, financial provision does not feel like a luxury. It feels like love because it is solving a problem.

This does not mean every woman is materialistic, and it does not mean men should be financially exploited. It simply means poverty changes the way people experience relationships.

When everybody has eaten, you can argue about romance.

When people are hungry, love and survival can start speaking the same language.

Women are attracted to goid looking men exactly the way men are attracted to beautiful women. The caveat however is that the world is tough and at a point they have to chose a man with money to cater for their needs and that of their future children. Reason why many men will never experience true love what's you are no longer able to provide for whatever reason that lady dissappears.

So in summary, no money no true love. Tinubu oya dey prepare your hand over note cos the economy isn't smiling.

SmartMaster001:
So in summary, no money no true love. Tinubu oya dey prepare your hand over note cos the economy isn't smiling.

You miss it
No money No love its as simple as that , never attach true or genuine to love ... bikkko

Hmmmmmmmm
Not all dogs are loyal
Some are just hungry
They need strength to bite you.

The love you bought with money is the fakest of all time Love.
Kukuma better make dem no love you than, they use money service fake love

I heard this is worse in the US and also the UK to an extent.No money,no love.One would think those places have attained some level of economic stability and financial independence,but nay.Women there,just like in Nigeria still have the gold-digging mindset.Men should always provide more.So pathetic these women folks are.

When there is too much competition and strife, it's true people focus more on survival than what love is. Psychologically, love doesn't exist unless you create a space for it.

Planning is everything, you have no business building massive projects when your people are in lack and striving. People should always come first

Dpsychologist:
It is difficult to have an honest conversation about love in Africa without talking about money.

Imagine a society where most people are financially comfortable, basic needs are covered and nobody is constantly worried about food, rent, transport or medical bills. Love will probably be judged more by companionship, loyalty, affection, honesty, peace and how two people treat each other.

Now put that same relationship in a society where people are struggling to survive.

Suddenly, “If he really loves me, he will take care of me” starts sounding very reasonable.

A man buys food, pays rent, sends transport money, handles emergencies and solves problems. Those things can easily become evidence of love because they are meeting very real needs.

So when someone says, “A man who loves me will do everything for me,” we should sometimes look beyond the relationship and look at the economy surrounding it.

For someone who is hungry, financial provision does not feel like a luxury. It feels like love because it is solving a problem.

This does not mean every woman is materialistic, and it does not mean men should be financially exploited. It simply means poverty changes the way people experience relationships.

When everybody has eaten, you can argue about romance.

When people are hungry, love and survival can start speaking the same language.

Women are attracted to goid looking men exactly the way men are attracted to beautiful women. The caveat however is that the world is tough and at a point they have to chose a man with money to cater for their needs and that of their future children. Reason why many men will never experience true love what's you are no longer able to provide for whatever reason that lady dissappears.

Only a broke man is looking for true love


Rich niggies and ballers don't


We bleep em and move unto the next girl

Most Nigerian girls these days are extremely hungry. It's almost impossible to find true love.

My own curiosity be say, wetin dey make. broke guys to be having erection.

if you don't have money, don't le'ko

A hungry man is an angry man. Love sound like an insult in his ears.

Men are in love; Women are in business.

You may have confused love with desire. They are not the same.

gigabyte13:
Hmmmmmmmm
Not all dogs are loyal
Some are just hungry
They need strength to bite you.

Lol this is hilarious. Loyalty.

Torimaster:
Men are in love; Women are in business.

Another perspective. Men are told to love.

God bless this psychologist .Nigerian women don't need love they need food

Oh, absolutely! A charming observation, really.

Technical Writer

Dem dey find love inside jungle?

It would suprise you to know that this regime has seen an unprecedented high rate of single baby mamas. Some got pregnant due to hunger.
If you're a man with means and also wicked, you'll useless so many women. Hunger bad

If you earn 200k, make sure you ONLY toast girls that less than 100k can handle comfortably, else, you go hear am. Train your taste according to your pocket, love is just around the corner.

You wen Dey sell engine oil Dey complain of poor sales don turn rich niggies 😂😂. Social media sha .
E nor get Wetin we nor Dey see

AlabiKILLER2023:
Only a broke man is looking for true love


Rich niggies and ballers don't


We bleep em and move unto the next girl

Talktalk2022:
You wen Dey sell engine oil Dey complain of poor sales don turn rich niggies 😂😂. Social media sha .
E nor get Wetin we nor Dey see

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We can be anything we want on social media, fake it until u make it...

People are really falling in love these days?👀👀👀.
Everyone should Focus!!!

helinues:
My own curiosity be say, wetin dey make. broke guys to be having erection.

if you don't have money, don't le'ko

Na him be say you no deserve erection na. Abi how you check am? 🤔

AlabiKILLER2023:
Only a broke man is looking for true love


Rich niggies and ballers don't


We bleep em and move unto the next girl

Na this business you dey use to see money to ball? 😁😂

Which is why as a man you can only find true love when you're broke. Anything other than that, you don't know if she's trying to survive and you're her hope or she loves you for who you are.