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"If you die without experiencing orgasm, you've lived a wasted life" — Female pastor tells women

A female pastor has sparked reactions online after stating that women should learn to enjoy sex within marriage and experience orgasm.

The pastor made the remarks in a viral video while speaking about sex, marriage and the importance of sexual knowledge among married couples.

‘God created sex’

According to her, sexual pleasure is part of what God intended when He created sex, stressing that women have the right to enjoy intimacy in marriage.

“If you die without experiencing orgasm, you’ve lived a wasted life. I like to say to women when I teach about sex that any woman, even if you’ve been married for 100 years, if you die without experiencing orgasm, you’ve lived a wasted life.

“God created sex, God instituted sex, and as a woman, you have the right to enjoy orgasm.”

She added that women should be willing to learn about sex rather than assume that marriage and childbirth automatically provide sufficient knowledge.

‘I got married as a virgin’

The pastor also shared her personal experience, revealing that she entered marriage as a virgin and initially knew little about sex beyond what she had learnt from biology.

“There is a need to learn. A time came after a few years in a marriage because I’m a good girl. I’ve never known bad things.

“I got married as a virgin. The only thing I know about sex is biology. Nothing else.”

She explained that after having a child, she eventually realised that she needed to gain more knowledge about intimacy within marriage.

“And it came to a point in my marriage, and sex is not about having children because at the time where I became aware that I needed to learn about sex, I’d already had a child.

“And I knew that, okay, I need to understand because this is a body of knowledge. Is it like a university?”

‘There are women ready to do the things you cannot do’

The pastor said her decision to learn more about sex began after she encountered educational material on the subject.

She recalled initially resisting such teachings because she considered herself a morally upright woman.

“When I started to learn about sex in marriage as a married woman, one of the first videos I saw from somebody who was going to teach about sex, she said, all of you married women, I was guilty.

“I was just like, you don’t want to do what you are supposed to do? I’m not learning.”

She said she later understood the need for couples to pay attention to their sexual relationship, warning that neglecting a spouse’s needs could create room for problems within a marriage.

“In Yoruba, it means we will lick it for you. Like if you leave your husband, there are wolves.

“There are women, ladies ready to do the things that you cannot do.”

The pastor concluded by stating that she believes God permits couples to explore different approaches to intimacy within marriage.

“And God is not against other styles in marriage.”


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Jennyclay and verminnel hope una dey hear sha

Yes I'm virgin haven't had sex before[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=140829422]"If you die without experiencing orgasm, you've lived a wasted life" — Female pastor tells women

A female pastor has sparked reactions online after stating that women should learn to enjoy sex within marriage and experience orgasm.

The pastor made the remarks in a viral video while speaking about sex, marriage and the importance of sexual knowledge among married couples.

‘God created sex’

According to her, sexual pleasure is part of what God intended when He created sex, stressing that women have the right to enjoy intimacy in marriage.

“If you die without experiencing orgasm, you’ve lived a wasted life. I like to say to women when I teach about sex that any woman, even if you’ve been married for 100 years, if you die without experiencing orgasm, you’ve lived a wasted life.

“God created sex, God instituted sex, and as a woman, you have the right to enjoy orgasm.”

She added that women should be willing to learn about sex rather than assume that marriage and childbirth automatically provide sufficient knowledge.

‘I got married as a virgin’

The pastor also shared her personal experience, revealing that she entered marriage as a virgin and initially knew little about sex beyond what she had learnt from biology.

“There is a need to learn. A time came after a few years in a marriage because I’m a good girl. I’ve never known bad things.

“I got married as a virgin. The only thing I know about sex is biology. Nothing else.”

She explained that after having a child, she eventually realised that she needed to gain more knowledge about intimacy within marriage.

“And it came to a point in my marriage, and sex is not about having children because at the time where I became aware that I needed to learn about sex, I’d already had a child.

“And I knew that, okay, I need to understand because this is a body of knowledge. Is it like a university?”

‘There are women ready to do the things you cannot do’

The pastor said her decision to learn more about sex began after she encountered educational material on the subject.

She recalled initially resisting such teachings because she considered herself a morally upright woman.

“When I started to learn about sex in marriage as a married woman, one of the first videos I saw from somebody who was going to teach about sex, she said, all of you married women, I was guilty.

“I was just like, you don’t want to do what you are supposed to do? I’m not learning.”

She said she later understood the need for couples to pay attention to their sexual relationship, warning that neglecting a spouse’s needs could create room for problems within a marriage.

“In Yoruba, it means we will lick it for you. Like if you leave your husband, there are wolves.

“There are women, ladies ready to do the things that you cannot do.”

The pastor concluded by stating that she believes God permits couples to explore different approaches to intimacy within marriage.

“And God is not against other styles in marriage.”


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Nigerian pastors go just make Christianity tire you

She is teaching the right thing na.

You thought Christianity is all about properity and prophecies!

This is kind of church i love going to. Someone talking about real life activities and responsibilities.

Christ in the Bible didn't preached. He teaches. Two different things.
Teaching will widen your view about a particular topic.
Preaching na lamba.

Sonnobax15:

Nigerian pastors go just make Christianity tire you

And I put it to you that the life of a woman is not defined by orgasms. There is more to life than s3xual gratification!
Ask Marie Curie.

Who died and made you our spokesperson?

LordIsaac:
And I put it to you that the life of a woman is not defined by orgasms. There is more to life than s3xual gratification!
Ask Marie Curie.

Traditions are changing, lifestyles are changing but remain religions though it's also adapting..
Threaten people with fire and heaven is a criminal offence to ones life...

Kemical23:
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Threaten people with fire and heaven is a criminal offence to ones life...

See it. No rest for the wicked

LordIsaac:
And I put it to you that the life of a woman is not defined by orgasms. There is more to life than s3xual gratification!
Ask Marie Curie.

Bros, when woman no open you dey say "which oda dey dis life if you no cum?"; so try dey, dey balance

I actually agree with her to a large extent

Jennyclay and verminnel hope una dey hear sha

Those ones nah evening news paper,oil no dey there again....

I hate it when a married woman discusses sex intimacy, it becomes worst to me when a supposedly wife of a pastor or a female pastor teaches sex topic, to me, to me oh, it's utterly disgusting and shouldn't be encouraged.


Don't teach people what they don't wish to learn. Dont open people's eyes to sin and immorality in the name of reaching nonsense. You should focus on teaching married women how to make money to support their husbands financially and how to support their husbands financially in various ways to help the family stand stronger financially/economically even if the man says no, and not this rubbish sex education that will only mislead many married women who have been happy without it

LordIsaac:
And I put it to you that the life of a woman is not defined by orgasms. There is more to life than s3xual gratification!
Ask Marie Curie.

Tell them my brother.


At a point in life, sex ought to become the least issue one should focus on.


They are trying so hard to mislead many women with all these unnecessary sex talks and education.



The life of a woman is not tied to orgasm, even me as a man, I am becoming tired of sex already and the things that now make me happy and fulfilled are gradually moving away from sex, talk more of women whom nature handed the key to sexual chastity and control

I can't stop laughing

I agree with her in many ways. What I still find funny is how a lot of Nigerians will castigate her for saying the very same things they do in hiding. People still think God lives outside of them lol whatever you do that others do not know about or see is known to Him, how? cos he's in you as you are in him, every human alive. Someone says a pastors wife should not discuss sex like sex is a plague. She's just educating ignorant people like 90% of y'all who marry wives/ husbands and abandoned them because you claim to be holy forgetting we are humans first before any religion. And when your spouse starts getting attracted to something else she or he can't get from you, you cry foul. Una too like to deceive unaselves for this parts of the world sha

Diamond098454:
I can't stop laughing

Keep laughing na. You when know say you like am very well. Better look well make you no go give yourself to missionary bros when know nothing else leaving you frustrated without going deep turning you inside out ooh. Cos once you marry am na final

franchasng:
Tell them my brother.


At a point in life, sex ought to becomes the least issue one should focus on.


They are trying so hard to mislead many women with all these unnecessary sex talks and education.



The life of a woman is not tied to orgasm, even me as a man, I am becoming tired of sex already and the things that now make me happy and fulfilled are gradually moving away from sex, talk more of women whom nature handed the key to sexual chastity and control

Lol just be deceiving yourself you hear

Anyone who wakes up will claim to be a pastor. Content creators.

You can never hear such being talked about in a mosque, yet when some Christians condemn such talks in a so-called "church", they're labeled hypocrites.

There's a place and time for everything.
A church is a place for worship and gospel, not a bar, or a brothel.

Explicit sexual talks should be kept outside the church.
Then again, beware of false prophets/preachers.

Upon all the sex talks everywhere, daughter of jezebel wey call herself pastor still carry am enter "church".

By their fruits, you shall know them.

Mariangeles:
You can never hear such being talked about in a mosque, yet when some Christians condemn such talks in a so-called "church", they're labeled hypocrites.

There's a place and time for everything.
A church is a place for worship and gospel, not a bar, or a brothel.

Explicit sexual talks should be kept outside the church.
Then again, beware of false prophets/preachers.

Upon all the sex talks everywhere, daughter of jezebel wey call herself pastor still carry am enter "church".

By their fruits, you shall know them.

This is what actually happens when scammers, Criminals and prostitutes call themselves pastors or pastoress. these unscrupulous people have made Christianity a big joke.

If you don't change oil wella, Omorr streets go change am. Many marriages are sex starved . Sexually Frustrated men and women full streets.

As how, after taking left right, right left you want them to experience orgasm.
Orgasm kọ, Oddgasm ni

Any guy that sees me will understand without to much talk. A guy don't need to come close to me if he doesn't know himself because only my eyes can make a guy cum

Smiles smiles don't mind me.........just joking

kiddaz:
Keep laughing na. You when know say you like am very well. Better look well make you no go give yourself to missionary bros when know nothing else leaving you frustrated without going deep turning you inside out ooh. Cos once you marry am na final

Diamond098454:
Any guy that sees me will understand without to much talk. A guy don't need to come close to me if he doesn't know himself because only my eyes can make a guy cum

Smiles smiles don't mind me.........just joking

I cum in peace.

Hi

acmev2:
I cum in peace.

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All I can say is that theology students have started graduating and getting jobs to preach

Dtruthspeaker:
See it. No rest for the wicked

if not ignorance why will you call someone wicked just because they don't like your religion...
I don't blame you I only blame those who brainwash everything out your brain...

This kind talk naim make many elderly women de cheat upandan because there de find orgasm


Kudos to y’all

BondRiv:
Anyone who wakes up will claim to be a pastor. Content creators.

Before it was motivational speakers that migrated to pastoring. Today, content creators are doing same. At the end of the day, every house in Nigeria particularly the Southern part will become church.

That annoying boy has finally deactivated. They don’t last long. They troll for a few months then disappear. I’ve seen hundreds come and go.

Women are weird. They will claim they’ve never achieved such even when using toys. That you don’t understand your body doesn’t mean another person’s child will aid you in discovering yourself. The act does not come with awards of any sort. Get your rocks off any means you deem fit. Life is bigger than an eight-minute activity.

Jennyclay and verminnel hope una dey hear sha

Those ones their orgasm nah View-once.

Boreholes dey get orgasm?