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Hello Nairalanders!

I seriously need help and a bit of advice right now. I've been a silent and observant Nairalander for a long time now.

My marriage is barely 6 months old. Got married to the girl of my dreams. I honestly didn't envisage marriage at this stage of my life but it happened because my wife sacrificed a lot for me, and for us to be living as man and wife.

I really love my wife so much, during our courtship, i flirted with girls online which at some point she caught me, and forgave me. But i still didn't learn my lesson, subsequently, this bad habit of mine of flirting with random girls online continued, even despite her catching me again, she still kept on trusting and forgiving me. Now we are married and still, I'm still in the habit of texting and flirting with random girls.

The one that broke her was this particular lady i was flirting with online, she caught feelings for me and even went as far as posting my Pictures with hers on her tiktok page, my wife saw it online and confronted me. I begged her for forgiveness and was trying to reassure her that it was just an online flirting.. She believed me again and trusted me one more time, but now this girl i flirted with online saw my marraige pictures online (ofcos i told her i was single), and now she'has messaged my wife via Facebook and exposed our chat of us flirting to her.

My wife called me from my office and confronted me of the chat (esp the part i told her i was not married). My wife has been crying ever since and i honestly don't know what to do.

I've begged her, but she's having none of it again. Please i love my wife so much and she's currently pregnant.

I'm ashamed of myself and devasted too. I really need all the encouragement and advice right now.

I will be reading your comment,😭🥺

Omo you go carry your cross ooooo as you no dey learn. Even if she forgive you now, you still no go learn.
Forgiveness can sometimes be enablement.
Na to dey beg and dey pray say she forgive you again, even as you no deserve am

I swear i no deserve her forgiveness. But i promise myself from now on i will amend my ways going forward..

Set clear boundaries with these random girls, practice emotional intelligence and go visit a therapist or counsellor for further assistance. You have to respect your wife bro, if the table turns you no go like wetin go occur.

I know bro.. I will. Thanks for this

You need 20 knocks ...and 1 slap

If this story is true, then you’ve ruined your marriage. She may never trust you again, especially after seeing the text in which you told your partner in crime that you weren’t married. That’s the ultimate betrayal. You simply don’t do that to someone you claim to love.

Women may suspect that their husbands could cheat on them, but as long as they don’t catch them in the act, they might choose to turn a blind eye. In your case, you’re not just a chronic cheat; you’re also a chronic liar. Then again, cheating and lying go hand in hand.

Barely six months into your marriage, and you’re already engaging in this kind of nonsense. You had no business getting married in the first place.


Take am.........

Joblessness.

Igodomigodo419:
I swear i no deserve her forgiveness. But i promise myself from now on i will amend my ways going forward..

Your wife is getting punished for ignoring the red flags, and forgiving you countless times.

Bash me all you wabt i prolly deserve this. But i swear i wont do it again

Bahamas95:
If this story is true, then you’ve ruined your marriage. She may never trust you again, especially after seeing the text in which you told your partner in crime that you weren’t married. That’s the ultimate betrayal. You simply don’t do that to someone you claim to love.

Women may suspect that their husbands could cheat on them, but as long as they don’t catch them in the act, they might choose to turn a blind eye. In your case, you’re not just a chronic cheat; you’re also a chronic liar. Then again, cheating and lying go hand in hand.

Barely six months into your marriage, and you’re already engaging in this kind of nonsense. You had no business getting married in the first place.


Take am.........

From you writeup.. you're irredeemable.
So what nonsense advice are you waiting to read from us?.
Till you'll meet your waterloo and the news spread all over, your type can't learn.

Igodomigodo419:
Hello Nairalanders!

I seriously need help and a bit of advice right now. I've been a silent and observant Nairalander for a long time now.

My marriage is barely 6 months old. Got married to the girl of my dreams. I honestly didn't envisage marriage at this stage of my life but it happened because my wife sacrificed a lot for me, and for us to be living as man and wife.

I really love my wife so much, during our courtship, i flirted with girls online which at some point she caught me, and forgave me. But i still didn't learn my lesson, subsequently, this bad habit of mine of flirting with random girls online continued, even despite her catching me again, she still kept on trusting and forgiving me. Now we are married and still, I'm still in the habit of texting and flirting with random girls.

The one that broke her was this particular lady i was flirting with online, she caught feelings for me and even went as far as posting my Pictures with hers on her tiktok page, my wife saw it online and confronted me. I begged her for forgiveness and was trying to reassure her that it was just an online flirting.. She believed me again and trusted me one more time, but now this girl i flirted with online saw my marraige pictures online (ofcos i told her i was single), and now she'has messaged my wife via Facebook and exposed our chat of us flirting to her.

My wife called me from my office and confronted me of the chat (esp the part i told her i was not married). My wife has been crying ever since and i honestly don't know what to do.

I've begged her, but she's having none of it again. Please i love my wife so much and she's currently pregnant.

I'm ashamed of myself and devasted too. I really need all the encouragement and advice right now.

I will be reading your comment,😭🥺

Okay.

Igodomigodo419:
I've begged her, but she's having none of it again. Please i love my wife so much and she's currently pregnant.

You are just there to stress that woman

some married men have 3 girlfriends and still keep it on the low to avoid wahala but you just use your small pikin behavior dey frustrate everyone.

to wipe you old woman slippers dey hungry me

Igodomigodo419:
I know bro.. I will. Thanks for this

shut up joor.

within 6 months you don use begging & apology full your wife ear like small pikin wey no get anything for up.

you will not last in that marriage. no be curse oh. Na just matter of time.

You got a Big problem bro

You need encouragement to continue your regae dance with women or what exactly
[quote author=Igodomigodo419 post=140928671]Hello Nairalanders!

I'm ashamed of myself and devasted too. I really need all the encouragement and advice right now

it is a wrong act but not unusual to young newly wed. The feeling of singleness still dey there.

probably you have some spare time to fiddle wit your fone most of the time flipping different dating sites chatting wit gals.

You av not been occupied wit wat comes wit marriage.likely you av not been enmeshed wit loads of financial responsibility hitting you back to back in dt marriage DTs why.

wat makes majority of us marid people loose interest in frivolities outside marriage is billing.

shebi na man wen get enof cash for pocket and spare tym dey look anoda woman face.

When will men ever change their ways? Give me her number let me encourage her to divorce you... she deserves better

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They swear for you from village nothing you wan tell me.


Just 6months old marriage.


Way Ray say he will be waiting for our advice and comments.



If you like no use your tongue count your teeth advice yourself.

On top story that is probably fake.

Yawn 🥱


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Alright, let's just have a little chat about how lovely it is to have a good, solid relationship! 😉 AcadaWriter

Igodomigodo419:
I swear i no deserve her forgiveness. But i promise myself from now on i will amend my ways going forward..

Give me your wife's number let me call and comfort her for you

Now tell us...u claim u love ur wife....was there something in her u never liked?....6 months of marriage n u r flirting?....man!, u must be a f**l...

Should your wife start flirting with her work colleagues or ex(s), just know say na you use your hands push your wife outside.

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Igodomigodo419:
Hello Nairalanders!

I seriously need help and a bit of advice right now. I've been a silent and observant Nairalander for a long time now.

My marriage is barely 6 months old. Got married to the girl of my dreams. I honestly didn't envisage marriage at this stage of my life but it happened because my wife sacrificed a lot for me, and for us to be living as man and wife.

I really love my wife so much, during our courtship, i flirted with girls online which at some point she caught me, and forgave me. But i still didn't learn my lesson, subsequently, this bad habit of mine of flirting with random girls online continued, even despite her catching me again, she still kept on trusting and forgiving me. Now we are married and still, I'm still in the habit of texting and flirting with random girls.

The one that broke her was this particular lady i was flirting with online, she caught feelings for me and even went as far as posting my Pictures with hers on her tiktok page, my wife saw it online and confronted me. I begged her for forgiveness and was trying to reassure her that it was just an online flirting.. She believed me again and trusted me one more time, but now this girl i flirted with online saw my marraige pictures online (ofcos i told her i was single), and now she'has messaged my wife via Facebook and exposed our chat of us flirting to her.

My wife called me from my office and confronted me of the chat (esp the part i told her i was not married). My wife has been crying ever since and i honestly don't know what to do.

I've begged her, but she's having none of it again. Please i love my wife so much and she's currently pregnant.

I'm ashamed of myself and devasted too. I really need all the encouragement and advice right now.

I will be reading your comment,😭🥺

1. You don't love your wife
2. You are a thoroughly immature boy in a man's skin
3. You need to go for treatment or deliverance for this your sickness
4. After your treatment and healing, come back for advice.


Now, you need only chastisement not help

Some of you aren't street smart! Don't start what you don't know how to hide.

If you are trying to farm engagement with this dvmbb story G0d will pvrn1sh you...


As you no sabi behave yourself you go gats dance to your song.....mvgv

Igodomigodo419:
Hello Nairalanders!

I seriously need help and a bit of advice right now. I've been a silent and observant Nairalander for a long time now.

My marriage is barely 6 months old. Got married to the girl of my dreams. I honestly didn't envisage marriage at this stage of my life but it happened because my wife sacrificed a lot for me, and for us to be living as man and wife.

I really love my wife so much, during our courtship, i flirted with girls online which at some point she caught me, and forgave me. But i still didn't learn my lesson, subsequently, this bad habit of mine of flirting with random girls online continued, even despite her catching me again, she still kept on trusting and forgiving me. Now we are married and still, I'm still in the habit of texting and flirting with random girls.

The one that broke her was this particular lady i was flirting with online, she caught feelings for me and even went as far as posting my Pictures with hers on her tiktok page, my wife saw it online and confronted me. I begged her for forgiveness and was trying to reassure her that it was just an online flirting.. She believed me again and trusted me one more time, but now this girl i flirted with online saw my marraige pictures online (ofcos i told her i was single), and now she'has messaged my wife via Facebook and exposed our chat of us flirting to her.

My wife called me from my office and confronted me of the chat (esp the part i told her i was not married). My wife has been crying ever since and i honestly don't know what to do.

I've begged her, but she's having none of it again. Please i love my wife so much and she's currently pregnant.

I'm ashamed of myself and devasted too. I really need all the encouragement and advice right now.

I will be reading your comment,😭🥺

Eyahh you are so devastated

If you beg am beg am beg am and she no gree, turn am to ogboju something, man up and claim your territory.

See descendants of the great Okonkwo Ebubedike of Umuofia turned to weaklings and vegetables because of useless ideology

You should you appease your grandfather. He is devastated at you.

You probably senior me, but lemme tell you to keep kwayet sir.

You're throwing love upandan. Do you truly know the meaning of loving a woman? You can't love someone that you don't respect.

If you respect and love your wife, all other women, no matter what they look like will be like dirty in your eyes. You'll keep your flirts to your wife only.

She forgave you times and time without number, but you didn't think it eas irresponsible for you to make her go through that?

Shame on you! Shame on you! Shame on you!!!!

Yeah I have no advice for you to make you feel better. Shame on you! You have a good woman, but you don use your irresponsibility to cast trust issues in her. She'll not be the same again. Shame on you.

Just get ready to raise other men's kids because she'll definitely cheat on you.

Tales from Uganda has started again.

Admin why you go push this kin topic come FP?

This one na late night stories with Timi.

Igodomigodo419:
I swear i no deserve her forgiveness. But i promise myself from now on i will amend my ways going forward..

E be like say you no get work or you no get big ambition. You have all the time to be sexting random girls? The moment you get bigger dreams and aspiration, you won't have time for any of those things I swear