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ChisomLexus:
It used to be in church but now most of the guys you meet there are just gold diggers, they hide in one corner and take note of the single ladies who are driving cars that look expensive then start chasing them.

I have caught at least 4 guys doing this in my church

Make man no find food again? Nawa o

Sirchiboy:
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Don't do it in church even though that's where most people think is the best. You might as well go to a nightclub.

Church people have the worst character and are best at hiding it till they no longer need to. Of course when their Pastors are fake, what do you expect?

Find through a trusted friend's partners circle of friends, even that too is fraught with danger but better than most.

And if you are a ma abroad that has made it and come back to Nigeria to find woman marry, ya own don finish bí dat.

Inside dirty.

3kay945:
Go to university, many of those 100 level slim girls are still novice. Look for the ones that are quiet with no flashy dress.

Try to nurture one before her eye open too wide.

You may be LUCKY!

But they're too young..still teenagers.

ChisomLexus:
It used to be in church but now most of the guys you meet there are just gold diggers, they hide in one corner and take note of the single ladies who are driving cars that look expensive then start chasing them.

I have caught at least 4 guys doing this in my church

What about the tons of single ladies ambushing rich guys? Ladies do it far more.

3kay945:
I get few smallie. I am 92% sure dey are Vir. If you interested.

But they like iPhone o

If you can shower them small love and strictly caution them, they may reduce their social media for you..

You may be LUCKY!

am interested

aswani:
Don't do it in church even though that's where most people think is the best. You might as well go to a nightclub.

Church people have the worst character and are best at hiding it till they no longer need to. Of course when their Pastors are fake, what do you expect?

Find through a trusted friend's partners circle of friends, even that too is fraught with danger but better than most.

And if you are a ma abroad that has made it and come back to Nigeria to find woman marry, ya own don finish bí dat.

what about meeting on the road?

potland:
what about meeting on the road?

Even that is better than church sef.

Remember sha that all of this is just generalisation, church might work for some.

The girls you teach after like three years...

From them, you will truly see and feel the one that loves truly

Her respect, care and sacrifice for you will tell you her difference from others

Come to nairaland. Wife materials over plenty for here. I fit give you their names and phone numbers.

Biodun1929:
But they're too young..still teenagers.

that was why i said, nurture them. You dont have to open the Can yet. But if them get to 300l,, and luck not on your side, the seniors would have open that Can before you o.
Meanwhile there are 19neen among them too.
Wish you Luck!

aswani:
Don't do it in church even though that's where most people think is the best. You might as well go to a nightclub.

Church people have the worst character and are best at hiding it till they no longer need to. Of course when their Pastors are fake, what do you expect?

Find through a trusted friend's partners circle of friends, even that too is fraught with danger but better than most.

And if you are a ma abroad that has made it and come back to Nigeria to find woman marry, ya own don finish bí dat.

Your last line remind me of a guy. I saw him videocalling with one lady. THe lady was dressing for occation or something while on Vcall the guy o. A married woman o, whose husband dey abroad accordiny to the guy. Exposing bobbss and asking the guy if the dress was okay. I peep and saw her two oranges completely out of the basket. I just smiled.

I told the guy, since i cant ask you not to cane her, but make sure you dont do it in that house rented by the man.

ogolemati:
do you have a car

wisdomkid:
Do you have a Car, or you're dreaming of getting a Lexus, ehn? Chisom?

Yes I do and i bought it with my own money 100%.

Next!

Nefort:
What about the tons of single ladies ambushing rich guys? Ladies do it far more.

Yes, ladies do it but i think it's shameful that men are also doing it now.

These days you don't even know which guy is coming to you because of genuine feels or because of your money

Sirchiboy:
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Night Bus

ChisomLexus:
Yes I do and i bought it with my own money 100%.

Next!

ok how many of the guys have approached you to gold digger you

ChisomLexus:
Yes, I do, and I bought it with my own money 100%. Next!

Okay, I honestly have no issue with you, your car, or your type of work to get the car. Not everyone is out on Social Media to fight you. Wishing you the best in life. I just find it funny how you attached Lexus to your name. Peace and Love

ChisomLexus:
It used to be in church but now most of the guys you meet there are just gold diggers, they hide in one corner and take note of the single ladies who are driving cars that look expensive then start chasing them.

I have caught at least 4 guys doing this in my church

Wow! I think you might be right because your assertion reminds me of my former neighbour who wasn't doing much at the time but ended up marrying a mid level banker from his church who eventually became the breadwinner of the house.

ChisomLexus:
Yes, ladies do it but i think it's shameful that men are also doing it now.

So it is not shameful when women do it?

These days you don't even know which guy is coming to you because of genuine feels or because of your money

This is the problem men have also been facing since 200 years ago

I would advise you stop showing off your Lexus too much.

There’s no ideal place to meet someone. Any place can be a meeting point.

Dshocker:
So why do you have to attach Lexus to your name?

wisdomkid:
Okay, I honestly have no issue with you, your car, or your type of work to get the car. Not everyone is out on Social Media to fight you. Wishing you the best in life. I just find it funny how you attached Lexus to your name. Peace and Love

When I was creating my Nairaland account I wanted to use just Chisom my first name but it was already taken, I tried other combinations but those were not available also.

Eventually I tried ChisomLexus and it went through, coincidentally this is also the name some of my colleagues use to refer to me unofficially to differentiate me from another lady in the office whose name is also Chisom

ChisomLexus:
When I was creating my Nairaland account I wanted to use just Chisom my first name but it was already taken, I tried other combinations but those were not available also.

Eventually I tried ChisomLexus and it went through, coincidentally this is also the name some of my colleagues use to refer to me unofficially to differentiate me from another lady in the office whose name is also Chisom similar to the way we call our MD AdaZenith

You work in Zenith Head office?