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Please what do you mean by little girl! What are your specified age group? Every ladies or women are entitled to their own opinion and consent. If you asked them out they rejected you please look elsewhere...

To sincere - I had never experienced it before. May be I do create friendships before I state my minds after.

gigabyte13:
Same way she feels when she shows you all the green light and you turn everything to red light...........
Have you ever rejected a girl before
That girl will hate you for life
Nothing wey you wan explain give her wey she go understand.

Some men can still accept friendship not ME though, but women, dem go hate you for life for rejecting their advances

bro I learnt this the hard way lol, my female neighbor was just all around me, pestering me and making me really uncomfortable. I didn't know that was her own way of greenlight, so I made the mistake of cautioning her to let me be.
Omo since that day I turned her greatest enemy lol., she have been frustrating my life in the compound ehh, but yet anytime there's danger(snake,rat,spider), I'm always the first person she runs to....
I have heard her numerous times through my window complaining to her friends that I humiliated her, that she was just liking me and I embarrassed her lol
Women are just very funny and childish seriously

L1TTLE:
Why does it feel so awkward when you ask a girl out and she says no, even if you don't resent her nothing is the same anymore.

Because u dont know how to convert a No to a yes. Not it all cases but in alot of cases a No can swiftly or incredibly change to a yes.

Infact when a girl says yes too quickly thats a red flag

A No is not the end of the world. It can also be a redirection

If she says no you move on. Her saying no or yes is her exercising her power. Your own power is the decision you make after she says no. Still being friends with her would just make you a mumu though 😅

Op, i get your point. it can get akward because she might still believe you haven't taken No for an answer and to avoid you believing by still talking to her or she talking to you after she rejected you, would lead you to believe she might accept you one day or that she is playing hard to get, which some females do. Females are very confused and complicated beings. There have been cases where the same female who spits that she would never ever date me, would be lying in my bed after a few months. and refuses to leave.


So to make it clear she probarbly would not want to speak to you ever again. Not that she hates you but to drive her feelings of not wanting you, across robustly in some cases.

Rejection is not a big deal, though it might be for some. yes, it would feel sad especially if you really liked the female. It's natural


I have been rejected more than a hundred times, i have also been accepted more than nearly 50 times. We as boys would be rejected many times that is how your confidence grows

Bigsin:
You supported someone who said the op has no "game"
Squirrel, not everyone hunts women like it's a sport.

...when a simp talks...
It's no one's fault you are a simp, your kind don't exist in my reality.

Kelvin3476:
Many of these girls might be known for sometime from same area .

Not all girls are strangers to some guys

...and not all guys are familiar with the way of girls

Una wey dey try understand women, I greet una oo!

L1TTLE:
Lol and this is supposed to be embarrassing? Going by your analogy you've assumed I'm that guy who sees a girl on the street i just ask her out, before i ask you out we would've been friends for a while, I don't ask a girl out on a whim, is it abnormal to care about someone you've known to some extent? so you're naive for assuming that too.

No too drag talk with that guy

It really shouldn't be awkward especially when you come to know that those creatures dont know what they really want. If you just stay by, be friends, the more you meet her, call her, you can sleep with her without any relationship though she still might foolishly assume you're now dating after sex. Naso them just be. If she say no to you, she'll say yes to someone you're 60% better than.

Dalohad:
Protection against 'Debit alerts'. I guess.

Lol

Man that one follow, most times it's saving grace of God from the kingdom of darkness.

In my whole life if I ask you out and you say No trust me you do not exist again Omo.....and if you give me your number and you waste time before replying chat Omo I go block you ASAP Omo....even if you dey form hard to get me I no send you ooooo Omo....if I ask for your number and you give excuses Omo I go pass you like Lx 470 Omo.....how person way no be virgin go dey stress you abobi nawa for you ooooo

nurudeen181:
It really shouldn't be awkward especially when you come to know that those creatures dont know what they really want. If you just stay by, be friends, the more you meet her, call her, you can sleep with her without any relationship though she still might foolishly assume you're now dating after sex. Naso them just be. If she say no to you, she'll say yes to someone you're 60% better than.

One Biggo for you! Winger!

Deicide:
If she says no you move on. Her saying no or yes is her exercising her power. Your own power is the decision you make after she says no. Still being friends with her would just make you a mumu though 😅

Right, stop being friends with her and I'm that guy who can't take rejection, y'all just love talking not caring wether you make sense or not, you just dey contradict yourself.

Echika01:
In my whole life if I ask you out and you say No trust me you do not exist again Omo.....and if you give me your number and you waste time before replying chat Omo I go block you ASAP Omo....even if you dey form hard to get me I no send you ooooo Omo....if I ask for your number and you give excuses Omo I go pass you like Lx 470 Omo.....how person way no be virgin go dey stress you abobi nawa for you ooooo

Your name supposed be omo.

jaxxy:
Because u dont know how to convert a No to a yes. Not it all cases but in alot of cases a No and swiftly or incredibly change to a yes.

Infact when a girl says yes too quickly thats a red flag

A No is not the end of the world. It can also be a redirection

One Decali for you! Striker!

LordLicifer:
Op, i get your point. it can get akward because she might still believe you haven't taken No for an answer and to avoid you believing by still talking to her or she talking to you after she rejected you, would lead you to believe she might accept you one day or that she is playing hard to get, which some females do. Females are very confused and complicated beings. There have been cases where the same female who spits that she would never ever date me, would lying in my bed after a few months. and refuses to leave.


So to make it clear she probarbly would not want to speak to you ever again. Not that she hates you but to drive her feelings of not wanting you, across robustly in some cases.

Rejection is not a big deal, though it might be for some. yes, it would feel sad especially of you really liked the female. It's natural


I have been rejected more than a hundred times, i have also been accepted more than nearly 50 times. We as boys would be rejected many times that is how your confidence grows

Point!

LordLicifer:
Op, i get your point. it can get akward because she might still believe you haven't taken No for an answer and to avoid you believing by still talking to her or she talking to you after she rejected you, would lead you to believe she might accept you one day or that she is playing hard to get, which some females do. Females are very confused and complicated beings. There have been cases where the same female who spits that she would never ever date me, would lying in my bed after a few months. and refuses to leave.


So to make it clear she probarbly would not want to speak to you ever again. Not that she hates you but to drive her feelings of not wanting you, across robustly in some cases.

Rejection is not a big deal, though it might be for some. yes, it would feel sad especially of you really liked the female. It's natural


I have been rejected more than a hundred times, i have also been accepted more than nearly 50 times. We as boys would be rejected many times that is how your confidence grows

Thats where she's wrong though, because inasmuch as those who don't know anything about me keep saying all sorts of thrash here, i never go back to such girls, like if she changes her mind now it won't work anymore because i don't feel same way anymore, talking to her still is because i have no ill feelings, if i had stopped talking to her ehen then e really pain me, for me to still keep talking to her it means I'm over it, she fit talk tomorrow say i became her enemy simply because she said no to me, and the way she'll paint and exaggerate it ehn I'll seem pathetic, so no, I'll keep talking to her, its just not same anymore thats all I'm saying.

NotOfThisWorld:
If you're friends, that could make it awkward. That's why you should study her first, to see if she likes you too. In any case, there's no need to be embarrassed if she turns you down. You can always reduce your interaction afterwards if you need to.

'...That's why you should STUDY her first...'
Word!

Fab112:
Na single mom raise this boy I am sure.Go and fact check

hehehe why na. Have mercy na

itzadorable333:
Lol how do you 'really care' for someone you know nothing or almost nothing about? By your reasoning, you 'really cared' for every girl you approached. If this is the case then yours is a case of naivety.

I wonder how you will really care for someone that doesn't care about you. Though I'm still afraid of rejection, in fact I feel embarrassed when a girl rejects my advances but I don't resent the girl, in fact I feel indifferent about them afterwards and if something makes us interact I talk to them like I have never spoken to them about relationships. I usually try to be as polite as I would be if we never spoke about relationship. I mean I literally erase the experience from my mind or brain, wherever experiences go.

CYBERWEAVER:
Una still dey ask girls out?

Since I doubled my hustle na them dey ask me out o.

But sadly na my hustle I dey date now...

Even the one who treated me bad before dey text me every morning now... But I no dey reply because I dey busy.

I block her mtn, she dey use glo now 😅

Way Forward!

fattprince:
I wonder how you will really care for someone that doesn't care about you. Though I'm still afraid of rejection, in fact I feel embarrassed when a girl rejects my advances but I don't resent the girl, in fact I feel indifferent about them afterwards and if something makes us interact I talk to them like I have never spoken to them about relationships. I usually try to be as polite as I would be if we never spoke about relationship. I mean I literally erase the experience from my mind or brain, wherever experiences go.

Very on Point! This is the way of Men. For Men are, by nature , hunters. When I use the word ' hunt' I don't mean 'abuse' or 'harm' I mean 'giving' or 'going after'. By nature men are created to go after the women of their choice, while by nature women are created to run until they are caught by either the one they want or the one they don't. This is what makes the game interesting both for the man as well as for the women- The Chase, the Hunt. This is what makes Mating or Sex so passionate, for that's the reward of the Chase. This is the nature of the relationship between Man & Woman.
The Man is created to ask , the woman is created to answer.
Lol show me a woman who does not love or want to be chased or hunted and I'll show you a man.

itzadorable333:
Very on Point! This is the way of Men. For Men are, by nature , hunters. When I use the word ' hunt' I don't mean 'abuse' or 'harm' I mean 'giving' or 'going after'. By nature men are created to go after the women of their choice, while by nature women are created to run until they are caught by either the one they want or the one they don't. This is what makes the game interesting both for the man as well as for the women- The Chase, the Hunt. This is what makes Mating or Sex so passionate, for that's the reward of the Chase. This is the nature of the relationship between Man & Woman.
The Man is created to ask , the woman is created to achased
Lol show me a woman who does not love or want to be chased or hunted and I'll show you a man.

You've been yapping about game, and you've been on this thread since the beginning, i have this gift of analyzing people and the way you talk it connotes someone who doesn't have game in the real world, thats why you seem so obsessed with games, and you don't even have enough experience to speak on the topic, because which kind belief you carry so? And the confidence you use in spewing it as if its even correct is amusing.

dauntless15:
You've been yapping about game, and you've been on this thread since the beginning, i have this gift of analyzing people and the way you talk it connotes someone who doesn't have game in the real world, thats why you seem so obsessed with games, and you don't even have enough experience to speak on the topic, because which kind belief you carry so? And the confidence you use in spewing it as if its even correct is amusing.

Lol this one is beyond you, step aside.

itzadorable333:
Lol this one is beyond you, step aside.

Lol deflection when someone of higher intelect challenges you won't work, you just dey spew thrash since someone had to muzzle it.

dauntless15:
Lol deflection when someone of higher intelect challenges you won't work, you just dey spew thrash since someone had to muzzle it.

lol it seems you're inclined to gossip, which is not in man's nature. I'm sorry, I'm not your kind.

itzadorable333:
lol it seems you're inclined to gossip, which is not in man's nature. I'm sorry, I'm not your kind.

Gossip with someone who has been spewing thrash on a faceless thread since yesterday? Thank God you know I'm not your kind, you have too much free time thats why.

dauntless15:
Gossip with someone who has been spewing thrash on a faceless thread since yesterday? Thank God you know I'm not your kind, you have too much free time thats why.

Hahahaha, sorry

franksam209:
bro I learnt this the hard way lol, my female neighbor was just all around me, pestering me and making me really uncomfortable. I didn't know that was her own way of greenlight, so I made the mistake of cautioning her to let me be.
Omo since that day I turned her greatest enemy lol., she have been frustrating my life in the compound ehh, but yet anytime there's danger(snake,rat,spider), I'm always the first person she runs to....
I have heard her numerous times through my window complaining to her friends that I humiliated her, that she was just liking me and I embarrassed her lol
Women are just very funny and childish seriously

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Embarass her as how
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L1TTLE:
Thats where she's wrong though, because inasmuch as those who don't know anything about me keep saying all sorts of thrash here, i never go back to such girls, like if she changes her mind now it won't work anymore because i don't feel same way anymore, talking to her still is because i have no ill feelings, if i had stopped talking to her ehen then e really pain me, for me to still keep talking to her it means I'm over it, she fit talk tomorrow say i became her enemy simply because she said no to me, and the way she'll paint and exaggerate it ehn I'll seem pathetic, so no, I'll keep talking to her, its just not same anymore thats all I'm saying.

Yes, you are right but she may not understand it how you meant. you wan show her say e no pain you say she no gree, correct! but she fit no see am like that.


In some societies it would be seen as harrasment