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One of the signs you may need to quite a relationship is when the person you love so much and desire to marry is making it difficult for you in terms of attention, communication, expression, kindness, availability etc, but is making it very easy for someone else.

If you are packaging yourself, building confidence, working on yourself, developing yourself etc, to suit someone who doesn't give you much attention, while a careless person who doesn't give a damn on several things, is having easy access to the same person you are trying to suit, then you may need to cut off.

Any relationship draining your efforts should be avoided and marriage should not be considered yet until things change; and if the person is right for you.

Got part of this insight from someone.

You are right. Toxic and parasitic relationship should be avoided at all cost!

If you are stressed, walk away…

If it takes you everything you have to secure a scholarship that even the green arrow describes as persistent, then I don't think you can see any difference between day and night

Nack and pass, relationship go find you.

When a relationship drains you, then it's not a healthy one. Move while you can.

Men prioritize yourself and don't settle for less


In your relationships, open your eyes wide like the eagle and at any distress signs you perceive run away

Don't be deceived by cheap sex! Faked attention, prepare and focus as if you are sitting for GRE

Have confidence, aim for the top amd go for the best of the best, infact let your standards be so high....don't dilute your strong bloodline with idiot wayward children of perdition


Dont say I did not warn you. If you miss it like this na grace of God remain o

Most of you na cheap sex go finish you because of low self esteem.

Always remember! If a woman starts stressing you. Walk out!
In this generation you can't be footing bills on one useless someone's daughter her father can't provide for
And majority of women have nothing to offer!
So why stress yourself?

ACRI:
Men prioritize yourself and don't settle for less


In your relationships, open your eyes wide like the eagle and at any distress signs you perceive run away

Don't be deceived by cheap sex! Faked attention, prepare and focus as if you are sitting for GRE

Have confidence, aim for the top amd go for the best of the best, infact let your standards be so high....don't dilute your strong bloodline with idiot wayward children of perdition


Dont say I did not warn you. If you miss it like this na grace of God remain o

Most of you na cheap sex go finish you because of low self esteem.

Who no go no go know, this is actuallly a life saving advice for young men building themselves. Don’t settle for less

The emphasis on marriage is too much in this nation. Ha ba! Mainwhile, many arent happy in this thing called marriage. Ha!

Your great grandparents, grandparents, & parents didn't get it right by hammering too much on it, and you are doing the same.

Satan don win over trillions of souls in this area.

Many great people are single. If marriage is so necessary, Jesus would be married. Even Paul was not married. Many of Jesus'disciples weren't married too.

So, what's your problem?

ebubeson:
Any relationship draining your efforts should be avoided and marriage should not be considered yet until things change; and if the person is right for you..

One of the things I’ve learned from experience is that people rarely change, and when they do, they are not to be trusted.

Nairaland is always slow to post news

Peter obi go show himself say e fit exercise, d dodoyo don break neck.

As if that's not enough, same man who criticize going for medical treatment abroad don japa go treat himself

Love, you don't rush it nor fake it, it only comes natural.

Anything apart from that is panda

BATified2023:
Nairaland is always slow to post news

Peter obi go show himself say e fit exercise, d dodoyo don break neck.

As if that's not enough, same man who criticize going for medical treatment abroad don japa go treat himself

Probably fake news. Do you have video of him hospitalized?

They're not interested in you, simply move on

It’s not always easy to let go in the beginning.
But once you gather courage and let go, there’s always peace that flows from within

BATified2023:
Nairaland is always slow to post news

Peter obi go show himself say e fit exercise, d dodoyo don break neck.

As if that's not enough, same man who criticize going for medical treatment abroad don japa go treat himself

Where did you get this nonsense from

IF YOU CNA SETTLE FOR LESS OR NOT IS NOT THE ISSUE ..

THE ISSUE IS STUDY A LITTLE BIT OF RED FLAGS LIKE IF SHE CAN ASSIST OR READY TO WORK AND SUPPORT A FAMILY ..

ALL THESE ARE D REAL SIGN IF YOU ARE WASTING YOUR TIME WITH HER OR NOT ..

ESPECIALLY WITHOUT ATTENTION AFTER SO MANY TRIALS AND THE LIKES PLEASE LEAVE because LOVE OR LIKENESS IS A NATURAL THING THAT WILL COME WITHOUT MUCH EFFORT..


AT LAST PLEASE TRY AND MARRY RIGHT BECAUSE IF YOU MARRY WRONG YOUR OWN DON FINISH 😭

Don't settle for less don't settle for less has made a lot of ladies pass their prime and turn 49+ all because of this statement.


Same way with some men they turn 59+ still very single without a child 🤔

Please I settle for less but at the end we build together and now we are far better times 3 of what we started from ..

So what works for you doesn't work for all some will settle for less and still find their feet ..

Please stop affecting people's life or turning them into agony all in the name of don't settle for less...

MaddKingg001:
Who no go no go know, this is actuallly a life saving advice for young men building themselves. Don’t settle for less

OP, who hurt you? seriously, who hurt you? Your pain is dripping from your writing. Take it easy. It is just a hole. There are countless other holes out there.

Omo I don wash hand comot from love matter ,Thunder fire love like this

Are you not loved at home

Move on joor

You are right,go for who loves you.

This is a tough pill to swallow, but it's the truth. When you're doing the most to win someone over and they're giving you the bare minimum, it's usually a sign they aren't the right person. It's better to walk away early than to drain yourself trying to prove your worth.

Leave .. don't become a pest ...

If the person you're interested in is not showing interest you go elsewhere

ACRI:
Men prioritize yourself and don't settle for less


In your relationships, open your eyes wide like the eagle and at any distress signs you perceive run away

Don't be deceived by cheap sex! Faked attention, prepare and focus as if you are sitting for GRE

Have confidence, aim for the top amd go for the best of the best, infact let your standards be so high....don't dilute your strong bloodline with idiot wayward children of perdition


Dont say I did not warn you. If you miss it like this na grace of God remain o

Most of you na cheap sex go finish you because of low self esteem.

Well said.

Men should up their games too. Women are mastering it and winning too much (over what self?).

I can write a book on my last relationship...

She show me shege, me Badoo

Omo I cut...

Samuels90:
If you are stressed, walk away…

Easy to say than done

But anyway if you have the courage to walk just 🚶‍♂️

Breaking relationship is better than Breaking marriage

The person isn't into you...go and love another person instead of wasting Ur precious time and resources....or else ,u go soon start paying bills from the friend zone