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Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by randy(op): 6:47pm On Mar 17, 2008
please, be sincere in your opinions
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by MsLurker(f): 7:05pm On Mar 17, 2008
It goes for good girls too.
But I think it's due to loving someone not good for you.
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by oziomatv(m): 7:40pm On Mar 17, 2008
Because they choose blindly and beleive that all that glitters are gold.

       If you're a victim, next time choose someone that has something in common with you,  they never fail.
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by Nobody: 7:45pm On Mar 17, 2008
oziomatv:
Because they choose blindly and beleive that all that glitters are gold.

If you're a victim, next time choose someone that has something in common with you, they never fails.
exactly.
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by Busta(f): 7:46pm On Mar 17, 2008
goes both ways abeg.
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by oziomatv(m): 7:48pm On Mar 17, 2008
Busta:
goes both ways abeg.
Please explain how.
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by Busta(f): 7:56pm On Mar 17, 2008
oziomatv:
Please explain how.
What is there to explain?
Both good girls and good guys suffer in relationships. The sufferness is not limited to only guys
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by oziomatv(m): 7:59pm On Mar 17, 2008
My answer is the reason why they suffer.
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by Nobody: 8:01pm On Mar 17, 2008
its nature
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by MsLurker(f): 8:07pm On Mar 17, 2008
@ Oz,

They are in love with an ideal or image.
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by oziomatv(m): 8:09pm On Mar 17, 2008
you're right lady.
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by Busta(f): 8:09pm On Mar 17, 2008
oziomatv:
My answer is the reason why they suffer.
- wrong spouses
- fear of being lonely
- stupidity
- not being able to understand that "NO" means "NO"
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by Sisikill: 10:28pm On Mar 17, 2008
Good Question, let's break it down shall we. . .
In a relationship, A guy

Lords over their girlfriends/wife - Obey his Au.tho.Ri.ty or he'll accuse her of not submitting to him as the Bible instructs.
Can have all the sex they want with or without their girlfriends - Body no be wood now
Is waited on hand and foot by their slaves. . .err. . .I mean their lovely girlfriends (because the sad women have been brainwashed into thinking husband is scarce)
Believes compromise is only a word in the dictionary.
Never takes responsibility for his failings. . .why should he? After all the women there to be blamed for everything
Goes and comes as they place. . .They who must not be questioned.

You ARE right oh, look how much these men suffer. Eeeya, I think this calls for a party to celebrate men. They soooooo deserve it. I'll buy the cake.
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by TheSly: 10:41pm On Mar 17, 2008
because good guys are very foolish and also they r not smart!
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by 4Him(m): 10:45pm On Mar 17, 2008
Because good guys think showing weakness is a way of keeping the girl.
The secret to the success of a bad boy is the air of "i could care less" he exudes . . . some call it confidence.
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by lawyer(m): 3:17am On Mar 18, 2008
Ahhhhhh! Good topic. i used to be a good guy in a relationship and i suffered terribly from it. Now am a born again convert of the bad guys club and relationships are so good and beautiful to me that i sometimes knock my head and ask myself "what took me so long to become this bad and enjoy the fruits of a one-sided relationship?" grin

The I dont care Syndrome is the key to a girl's heart especially when you break up with her with no remorse.

Being a good guy is simply been a mumu. End of story!
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by Nobody: 4:56am On Mar 18, 2008
®~^Sly^~®:
because good guys are very foolish and also they r not smart!
Meaning you are a bad guy?

4Him:
Because good guys think showing weakness is a way of keeping the girl.
The secret to the success of a bad boy is the air of "i could care less" he exudes . . . some call it confidence.
Which one are you?
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by acidrop(f): 5:14am On Mar 18, 2008
good guys my feet, if they are really good guys y are they suffering
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by Nobody: 5:27am On Mar 18, 2008
@post
because he's not dangerous enough. . . i like a man that can put an alive crab in his pant and still not feel the pain
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by 4Him(m): 5:33am On Mar 18, 2008
stillwater:
Which one are you?
Thou knowest.
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by Nobody: 5:58am On Mar 18, 2008
I'm not a mind reader, which one are you?
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by godspride(m): 8:42am On Mar 18, 2008
Any body here so we can discuss about why we good guys always suffered in relationship and i really want to share my experience with you guyz, my name is Oluwashola male from ketu, lagos.
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by hammers(m): 9:12am On Mar 18, 2008
A guy may suffer in any relationship but as long as he reaches the promise land, all the suffering is worth it grin grin
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by efuah(f): 9:22am On Mar 18, 2008
If u want to suffer u surely will!
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by kalmebad(f): 9:46am On Mar 18, 2008
@poster
Its a vice-versa thing, both ladies/guys suffer in relationship
It is not anyone choice,but rather the turns of fate sometimes not fair on mankind
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by iice(f): 4:38pm On Mar 18, 2008
efuah:
If u want to suffer u surely will!
[color=#9900ff]Gbam![/color]
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by joycee87: 10:11pm On Mar 18, 2008
because guys too dey Bleep up na hm make them dey suffer pass
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Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by Busta(f): 1:54pm On Apr 25, 2008
efuah:
If u want to suffer u surely will!
lol

Then again, they say love turns u into a fool . . .
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by Nobody: 2:03pm On Apr 25, 2008
Because good boys always go for bad girls just like good girls go for bad guys!
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by Nobody: 2:05pm On Apr 25, 2008
michelin89:
Because good boys always go for bad girls just like good girls go for bad guys!
not always smiley
Re: Why Do Good Guys Always Suffer In Relationships by Nobody: 2:13pm On Apr 25, 2008
ibkaye:
not always smiley
But it's always so exciting (for the bad I mean) grin
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