My sister i won't lie to you... If i should lend my guy money, The respect i have for him will gradually diminish, Seriously.
Why i go dey borrow ma man money..

Meanwhile i nor dey borrow person money wey i nor fit give

The minute he start spending on you.

BreezyRita:
The last girl said the best thing to do to be on a safer side is not to lend at all or if you must lend, lend what you can afford to lose.

...nuff said!!!

If there's geninue love and he spends on me too when he has, I don't see why not. But then, it has to be a sum I can easily give up and forget in case something happens. But if he builds an excuse on the fact that I lent/gave him money before to start turning into a liability, then that will be the end of it.

And about the question of at what stage, as long as it takes the love and trust to build.

Most definitely I can.
Stage- @ d point were he has spent abt times 50 of d amount on me. Simple

rozzay: Most definitely I can.
Stage- @ d point were he has spent abt times 50 of d amount on me. Simple

Taa!...See ya mouth...lol

Lacomus: The minute he start spending on you.

Seriously? You spend on her to borrow from her??

sexymoma: My sister i won't lie to you... If i should lend my guy money, The respect i have for him will gradually diminish, Seriously.
Why i go dey borrow ma man money..

Meanwhile i nor dey borrow person money wey i nor fit give

you see their mentality ?

Who says this aint a fish head

rozzay: Most definitely I can.
Stage- @ d point were he has spent abt times 50 of d amount on me. Simple

bunch of stingy little girls !!

Yanyanyanyan .... See her lips like 5naira note ..... Why do you deserved to be spent x50 ? Bunch of liars ..... Hmmm, if u form for here na person mugu u still be abeg !

Hmmmmmm....

Sleeping tins

Will commet when I wake up

sexymoma: My sister i won't lie to you... If i should lend my guy money, The respect i have for him will gradually diminish, Seriously.
Why i go dey borrow ma man money..

Meanwhile i nor dey borrow person money wey i nor fit give

No wonder!
I did that last friday, she looked for a way to pick fight with me and that was the last day we talked

sexymoma: My sister i won't lie to you... If i should lend my guy money, The respect i have for him will gradually diminish, Seriously.
Why i go dey borrow ma man money..

Meanwhile i nor dey borrow person money wey i nor fit give

But u can collect from him? Selfish woman

BreezyRita:

Seriously? You spend on her to borrow from her??

How cum there's no specific time for him to start spending on u. He takes u out on a date, buy everything, gives u t fare. But when he need help, u don't deem it fit for u to help him, u don't deem it fit for u to be part of his success.
Nigerian women mentality....smmhhh

BreezyRita......the question should be 'at what stage should ur bf start spending on u?'



General opinion, guys start spending from d very first day, yet the issue or borrowing is now debatable

Bigsteveg:
But u can collect from him? Selfish woman

Collect nor be borrow o..

imoleay0:
No wonder!
I did that last friday, she looked for a way to pick fight with me and that was the last day we talked

The thing is money lent from lovers can never never be paid back.

sexymoma: The thing is money lent from lovers can never never be paid back.

I told her to lend me but she promised to give me, the fight came up when she started asking me what I needed the money for. What do you suggest I do?

imoleay0:


what do u suggest I do?

Did she lend you the money

sexymoma: Did she lend you the money

I told her to lend
me but she
promised to give
me, the fight came
up when she
started asking me
what I needed the
money for. What do
you suggest I do?

imoleay0:

I told her to lend
me but she
promised to give
me, the fight came
up when she
started asking me
what I needed the
money for. What do
you suggest I do?

Bros i nor know oooo.. Try explain things to her na, tell her what you need the money for and promise her you gonna pay back.

sexymoma: My sister i won't lie to you... If i should lend my guy money, The respect i have for him will gradually diminish, Seriously.
Why i go dey borrow ma man money..

Meanwhile i nor dey borrow person money wey i nor fit give

to have posted this kind of comment, how old are you ? *smh*

Make I just dey look

tosyne2much: to have posted this kind of comment, how old are you ? *smh*

Meaning

I will say it depbeds on the guy, if I'm dating someone I've been friends with for a long gym then sure I can lend him money the trust is already there and I know he won't ask if he didn't need it.

But if we just met recently and u asked me out sometime later and then immediatly u start to ask for money, come on I look like maga to u, what kind of guy would ask his woman for money early in the relationship when neither of u r sure of how serious it is, it will show he doesn't have pride in my opinion.

and I know that some guys will argue "but they spend on u immediately" that's different because if you ask me on a date u don't expect me to pay the bill but if you do no problem I will pay but then I will friend zone u immediately cause I can't date a cheap guy.

#girls!!! I totally give up

It becomes a furious confusion to me.let me think b4...i jump into conclusion

To be realistic if i will surely lend 4rm my gf...she must have stick with me for long time and know everything about her...incase i can't return it on time i will able to tolerate any insult 4rm her...so that our relationship won't be finally jeopardise