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I belive most of you would be familiar with this. U know d period wen a guy is scoping a chic, still tryin 2 get her 2 lyk u nd all dat. Usually@dat period, d girl probably haz oda toasters dat she hangz out wit besides u. Nd u are aware of dat. It's lyk a contest- which guy will get d gurl. Nd she is enjoyin it. They wuld xpect u to hang on till they finally pick one. Yet, you are not supposed to av oda prospectives lyk she does odawise she b-livs u are nt serious. I tink dats unfair. I mean, wat if u don't choose me@d end. I wuld av wasted ma time. Don't seem fair to me. So, i advise guys, to av oda options nd keep em open even while toastin, so u don't feel hurt or too bad wen rejected. I mean, just lyk a gurl, a broda should be able to keep his options open. Right? Wat do y'all tink?

Who puts all his eggs in one basket these days?? While I'm trying to activate you, I still got other options. I always have other options.

djeezy:
Who puts all his eggs in one basket these days?? While I'm trying to activate you, I still got other options. I always have other options.

ma point xactly, bro. Bt wen d chica finds out, she labels you a player nd cancels you. So, i make sure she does not find out. Problem is, if she finally chooses you, you might alredy be feelin of d oda chics more. I don't double date. Problem becomes tellin her i no longer want to be her boyfriend. She kept me waitin 2 long without an assurance nd also gave me possibilities of heartbreak. I lyk d sure tin anyday. Nt uncertainty.

Seunboss:
ma point xactly, bro. Bt wen d chica finds out, she labels you a player nd cancels you. So, i make sure she does not find out. Problem is, if she finally chooses you, you might alredy be feelin of d oda chics more. I don't double date. Problem becomes tellin her i no longer want to be her boyfriend. She kept me waitin 2 long without an assurance nd also gave me possibilities of heartbreak. I lyk d sure tin anyday. Nt uncertainty.

I understand where you're coming from. When you're asking a girl out, you give her ultimatum. My kind of person I don't ask a girl out more than once maybe cuz I'm used to getting a yes each time I do. So basically if she gives you her answer on time that would determine whether you go about frolicking with other girls or not. You don't ask other girls out yet until you have gotten an answer from the one you're wooing. You just have to keep the others on the balance or interested in you, until it's time to push the activate button.

@djeezy, i get, man. Nice one