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Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Nobody: 4:48pm On Oct 05, 2014
edwife:
Don you have every right to speak,at least give your opinion because you care and nothing else.

The only thing i will ask of you is to let them be when you know you have done your part,(advice).

Choices,chances and changes.
Yes Ma'm smiley
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by SAMBARRY: 4:50pm On Oct 05, 2014
Of course I won't be called to clean the mess because I have played the good big sister by giving advice so whatever the outcome of his actions are are his alone. I will face my front except he uses my name or our general surname for something fraudulent then I will meddle because I will be affected but if he wants to go on a self destructive journey then the road is free enough. After one warning and he refuses to listen, I will simply watch him go into destruction such that he won't have or see anybody to blame but himself
oyb:
Unless you won't be called in to clean the mess it is your business. There also the question of what the brother is getting into and the possible consequences and the future. It is easy to walk away, but would you regret this later?
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Nobody: 4:54pm On Oct 05, 2014
SAMBARRY:
Of course I won't be called to clean the mess because I have played the good big sister by giving advice so whatever the outcome of his actions are are his alone. I will face my front except he uses my name or our general surname for something fraudulent then I will meddle because I will be affected but if he wants to go on a self destructive journey then the road is free enough. After one warning and he refuses to listen, I will simply watch him go into destruction such that he won't have or see anybody to blame but himself
I think this is easier said than done.
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by SAMBARRY: 4:54pm On Oct 05, 2014
Even if I am called I will activate my ignoring button. If they call my phone I won't pick, if they come to my house i won't open the door, if they send someone to me I won't answer since I have forewarned and they said my mouth is smelling or I should keep quiet and face my front. I'll do just that very very well
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Nobody: 4:58pm On Oct 05, 2014
SAMBARRY:
Of course I won't be called to clean the mess because I have played the good big sister by giving advice so whatever the outcome of his actions are are his alone. I will face my front except he uses my name or our general surname for something fraudulent then I will meddle because I will be affected but if he wants to go on a self destructive journey then the road is free enough. After one warning and he refuses to listen, I will simply watch him go into destruction such that he won't have or see anybody to blame but himself
This for you own sibling whom you love. Hmmmm
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by RoyalRoy(mod): 5:13pm On Oct 05, 2014
To Sambarry and all other advocates of "mind your business"

The moment someone you grew up with, who you share the same blood with and who by one way or the other you have invested in financially, mentally, emotionally and otherwise starts to misbehave and wants to "throw all my efforts into the bin" then it becomes my business.

I have a cousin who came to live with us at a very young age. He was a toddler when his dad passed away and the mum remarried. I personally made sure he never for once remembered he wasn't part of the family.

Bought him all he needed to be comfortable, taught him arithmetic and English in prymary school, watched him play soccer and became a pro in the game. He suddenly came home one day and said he wanted to travel out to Ukrain.

Thats not a problem, he too want to be in "Oyinbo man country". But when he still had 2yrs to finish his University degree which was funded not by his own sweat, and a lot of sacrifices made to keep him on top of his education only for him to suddenly want to "go to Ukrain" to play soccer during this war time just because he has a friend who seems to be doing well and had invited him.

So I should close my eyes, just because he is above 18 and literally watch him go and die? I should forfeit all the investment on him to be useful not to me but himself just because its none of my business? Hell to the capital NO!!!


The moment people realise their actions directly or indirectly affects the life of others the earlier they will know not everybody can keep quiet and watch them activate the "self-destruct" button.

The only way he can get into that Ukrain is if he ran away from home, got all the cash he needs from wherever and never ever looks back....then I know truly...its no more any of my business.


A Yoruba adage says "Ti ara ile eni ba n je kokoro ti a ko baawi, ti o ba bere hurururu l'oru, gbogbo wa la o ni sun!!! (If you see your family member eating an insect and you refuse to caution them, when he starts to suffer and writh with pain at night, you too won't be able to sleep.
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by SAMBARRY: 5:15pm On Oct 05, 2014
oyb:
I think this is easier said than done.
o have done what I am saying before



a cousin of mine wasn't ready to get married at least domestic wise. She doesn't know how to cook and when she came to my house when she was younger and had the opportunity to learn I told her to come to the kitchen and watch me she said she doesn't want hot water to pour on her body. Which one be my own, I left her in the sitting room to continue watching E!


Her mother too knew she couldn't cook yet she was distributing aso ebi and telling all her friends her daughter is getting married next month. I warned her mom she said i should mind my business it is what they call someone into that the person interferes. I said sarcastically emabinu o but I will still come and eat rice even if the marriage doesn't last. She said na me sabi.as I am typing that marriage lasted 4 months. She's back to her mom

her husband didn't allow the cook they attached to her into his house. He said it's his wife only that he wants cooking for him so that if anything happens to him domestically he will trace it


to cut the long story short. The man tried to teach her. She will complain that she's tired of standing. Sometimes in the kitchen when that one is teaching her how to cook she will be filing her nails asking him if it's sexy



sweep na the guy dey sweep the whole place while she's chatting with her friends. She will even raise her legs for the man to sweep the sitting room and tell him to be careful so that dust doesn't touch her



now the babe is at home. They are telling me to come and teach her how to cook.i said shebi shehas mom besides I hhave a baby to take care of. Work too is there. Moreover its none of my business. The time i was talking they said I should mind my business which i am doing and have been doing well
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Nobody: 5:24pm On Oct 05, 2014
^^^
Pls ma isn't there forgiveness and second Chance with you?
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by SAMBARRY: 5:27pm On Oct 05, 2014
Your own case is peculiar. You have invested in his life so you have a right to interfere but if you didn't do any of the above to make him what he is today and you are only related by blood and he tells you mind your business. My dear happily face front because when everything shele in eye go clear and he will understand what you have been saying since. For now he can't understand. Na experience go make him understand fast and perfectly too . I'll rather save all my shouting for wura when she becomes a teenager grin




why should I become hyper over another person's life when my daughter is there smiley
RoyalRoy:
To Sambarry and all other advocates of "mind your business"

The moment someone you grew up with, who you share the same blood with and who by one way or the other you have invested in financially, mentally, emotionally and otherwise starts to misbehave and wants to "throw all my efforts into the bin" then it becomes my business.

I have a cousin who came to live with us at a very young age. He was a toddler when his dad passed away and the mum remarried. I personally made sure he never for once remembered he wasn't part of the family.

Bought him all he needed to be comfortable, taught him arithmetic and English in prymary school, watched him play soccer and became a pro in the game. He suddenly came home one day and said he wanted to travel out to Ukrain.

Thats not a problem, he too want to be in "Oyinbo man country". But when he still had 2yrs to finish his University degree which was funded not by his own sweat, and a lot of sacrifices made to keep him on top of his education only for him to suddenly want to "go to Ukrain" to play soccer during this war time just because he has a friend who seems to be doing well and had invited him.

So I should close my eyes, just because he is above 18 and literally watch him go and die? I should forfeit all the investment on him to be useful not to me but himself just because its none of my business? Hell to the capital NO!!!


The moment people realise their actions directly or indirectly affects the life of others the earlier they will know not everybody can keep quiet and watch them activate the "self-destruct" button.

The only way he can get into that Ukrain is if he ran away from home, got all the cash he needs from wherever and never ever looks back....then I know truly...its no more any of my business.


Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by SAMBARRY: 5:32pm On Oct 05, 2014
Donxavier:
^^^
Pls ma isn't there forgiveness and second Chance with you?
yes there is but she has a mom to do that and or she knows the way to my house when she's ready to learn smiley
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by r231(m): 10:46pm On Oct 05, 2014
What a good day.....

Started from here.... check the first fish grin

And ended here.....

Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by SAMBARRY: 11:14pm On Oct 05, 2014
Ehen so you lied to me that you are a twin abi? You Go hear am tongue
RoyalRoy:
I will start first!!!

I am Roy, a yoruba boy with international sense cheesy

Born, bred & buttered in Naija, single & still mingling!!

I stay in U.S half year & half year in Naija, man must work & chop u know!!

Best colour is anything Red & White.....all things bright & pure I must say!

Roy is an old french word for King, hence the username Royal Roy......I am so Royal & Loyal........yes boss!!!


Am single, not for long I hope, having too much stuff to work on right now & combining family will slow me down....my opinion!

Am a rare specie(according to my friends), Am fun loving, love music like my life, I could be a party freak in a month, and a churchy dude in between!! Lemme just say I do what suits my spirit at the time!

I love football, watch the epl games religiously, I am a great formula 1 fan too, got so much passion for cars, fast & furious u can say that again!!

Special Talent.......ability to convince people (not always 100%)

Enough of me!!


Let's meet you
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Nobody: 2:04am On Oct 06, 2014
I'm one for liberality but as far as my brothers are concerned, ain't no liberality anywhere angry
I love them waaaaaayyyyyyyy too much to watch them fall into trouble sad
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Nobody: 7:39am On Oct 06, 2014
r231:
What a good day.....

Started from here.... check the first fish grin

And ended here.....
Which kind of buka is that? undecided
not even a tablecloth on the table
and the dodo has not even been cut or fried nicely tongue
The fish sef looks malnourished . . is that how a well fed croaker fish looks? Which Canal was this one fished from?

R321 time to step up o! A whole big London boy like you grin
Hope you didnt take edwife to this bush place, cos I can see 2 sets of cutlery cool
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by SAMBARRY: 7:48am On Oct 06, 2014
Lol. The plate sef looks dirty cheesy



e resemble those canteen for under bridge cheesy
chaircover:
Which kind of buka is that? undecided
not even a tablecloth on the table
and the dodo has not even been cut or fried nicely tongue
The fish sef looks malnourished . . is that how a well fed croaker fish looks? Which Canal was this one fished from?

R321 time to step up o! A whole big London boy like you grin
Hope you didnt take edwife to this bush place, cos I can see 2 sets of cutlery cool
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by EfemenaXY: 8:19am On Oct 06, 2014
Oh My Gawd!! grin grin

R231 don suffer. CC, you are brutal oh! cheesy cheesy
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by r231(m): 8:31am On Oct 06, 2014
chaircover:
Which kind of buka is that? undecided
not even a tablecloth on the table
and the dodo has not even been cut or fried nicely tongue
The fish sef looks malnourished . . is that how a well fed croaker fish looks? Which Canal was this one fished from?

R321 time to step up o! A whole big London boy like you grin
Hope you didnt take edwife to this bush place, cos I can see 2 sets of cutlery cool
Table cloth undecided undecided

I look like oyinbo to you grin grin

Wetin concern agbero with overload. cheesy

Best fish in south cheesy
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by edwife(f): 8:37am On Oct 06, 2014
chaircover:
Which kind of buka is that? undecided
not even a tablecloth on the table
and the dodo has not even been cut or fried nicely tongue
The fish sef looks malnourished . . is that how a well fed croaker fish looks? Which Canal was this one fished from?

R321 time to step up o! A whole big London boy like you grin
Hope you didnt take edwife to this bush place, cos I can see 2 sets of cutlery cool
CC u are funny
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by RoyalRoy(mod): 2:12pm On Oct 06, 2014
SAMBARRY:
Ehen so you lied to me that you are a twin abi? You Go hear am tongue
Lollz... I always forget that part of me. I always omit it in my biography.

grin grin grin
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by SAMBARRY: 2:21pm On Oct 06, 2014
RoyalRoy:
Lollz... I always forget that part of me. I always omit it in my biography.

grin grin grin
adonbliv until I see pinshores tongue
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by RoyalRoy(mod): 2:35pm On Oct 06, 2014
SAMBARRY:
adonbliv until I see pinshores tongue
Lollz
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by r231(m): 2:39pm On Oct 06, 2014
RoyalRoy:
Lollz
how come one is taller grin grin grin

so which one is you grin

i bet you going to say the taller one
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by RoyalRoy(mod): 2:44pm On Oct 06, 2014
r231:
how come one is taller grin grin grin

so which one is you grin

i bet you going to say the taller one
Loll... Surprise surprise.... Am the shorter one!!!




****[color=black]first time I didn't lie that I was the taller one though. [/color]




grin grin grin
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by r231(m): 2:49pm On Oct 06, 2014
RoyalRoy:
Loll... Surprise surprise.... Am the shorter one!!!




****[color=black]first time I didn't lie that I was the taller one though. [/color]




grin grin grin
hahahahaha grin grin grin

you guys look alike sha apart from the height.

bet both of you trick chicks and inter switch grin
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by edwife(f): 3:07pm On Oct 06, 2014
RoyalRoy:
Lollz
Wow RR,how cute is that?
Can I steal both of u tongue tongue
Hmm
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by RoyalRoy(mod): 3:07pm On Oct 06, 2014
r231:
hahahahaha grin grin grin

you guys look alike sha apart from the height.

bet both of you trick chicks and inter switch grin
Lolllz....plenty of "this is my boyfriend.... No this is my boyfriend" I guess as time goes by age is making it easier to differentiate.

Lollz
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by RoyalRoy(mod): 3:08pm On Oct 06, 2014
edwife:
Wow RR,how cute is that?
Can I steal both of u tongue tongue
Hmm
hahahaha.... Eddie... I am stealable.... Ermm... He is not stealable. tongue tongue
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Nobody: 3:19pm On Oct 06, 2014
cococandy:
@ shoefreak you're offering me kulikuli instead of bread?
Ajebo like me? embarassed
grin tongue okay, you go collect chinchin?
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by edwife(f): 4:05pm On Oct 06, 2014
RoyalRoy:
hahahaha.... Eddie... I am stealable.... Ermm... He is not stealable. tongue tongue
Awww embarassed not fair,I want two!cheesy
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 5:21pm On Oct 06, 2014
shoefreak:
grin tongue okay, you go collect chinchin?
No!
I want icecream cake.

@royalroy. How cute. Only that I didn't get to see the picture.



I'm a twin too.
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Nobody: 5:29pm On Oct 06, 2014
See edwife o! cheesy
Let sambarry catch u cheesy
She has been eyeing RR since eons and u wanna chance her? tongue

Its just that RR has a thing for gwali gals thats why he is alwats in abuja anytime he is around tongue cheesy

By d way,u wanna divorce ur isi nkwocha husband? tongue kiss cheesy
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by RoyalRoy(mod): 6:20pm On Oct 06, 2014
cococandy:
No!
I want icecream cake.

@royalroy. How cute. Only that I didn't get to see the picture.



I'm a twin too.
shocked shocked shocked really?

Is she as cute as thee too?

Being a twin comes with many advantages.... And some disadvantages. My greatest gain as a twin is wrapped up in the saying "two heads are better than one".


And the disadvantages? Comparisons, competitions and mistaken identity.

Got more than enough "free beatings" in the earlier days, for crimes I didn't commit... Lollz.
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