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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by tobey2ng(m): 1:02pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
The devil u knw is beta than angel u dnt knw.The 2nd guy wil only take advantage of u because he never want u buh u did.watch ur back babe |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Tintinix: 1:04pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
equlibrium: May God continue to bless Nairalanders like you who make my day and put laughter in my mouth. 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by EazyBoi(m): 1:05pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
silversonuc:I no go bet bt I sure say na true u talk. 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by harffie(m): 1:07pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
vivaciouzz:Before I comment.......I hope your bf isnt here on NL...hmm?? |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by abduldope(m): 1:08pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
tolaxin:---------> |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Youngpo413: 1:08pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
Superstar007: surprised? Na their way... |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by tuffgongjo(m): 1:10pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
barcanista:The cult guy will locate$cut your "P". Lol 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by harffie(m): 1:11pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
clemzo101:hehe you get 1000000 likes... make the guy sharap... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by tommiebuck(f): 1:28pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
my dear, leave the both of dem now. u cant date a cult guy nd fink u re in d best hand. now u knw u nd ur new bf are not safe. to safe your new love, quit dating him, to safe urself from your ex... i do not know, mayb u shld ask our ogas at the top |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by tommiebuck(f): 1:29pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
harffie:lols 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by victomancer(m): 1:30pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
These hoes aint loyal chucky234: |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Meggy007(f): 1:30pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
EazyBoi: LOL. Couldn't agree more. Dumb and dumber this post. This is what happens when one thinks 'short term' when getting into a relaish. You saw the good in a cultist and went on to date him,now you wanna bail on him for someone else? Oh well carry on, maybe 'the good in him' will make give give you his blessings as you do so. You didn't ask anyone's opinion to date him, now you do to ditch him. Pele o. You can't have your cake and eat it. I sha wish you get out alive...and prolly unscratched; and then GET SENSE! 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by shagaman: 1:31pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
whats your C.G.P.A in school? you are in between two knackees.....you better face your studies |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Odunharry(m): 1:33pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
50calibre i see u i swear many gals are confuse and they aint loyal |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Odunharry(m): 1:34pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
PastorOluT:gbam... Gals love bad boys 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Izi4real(m): 1:35pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
Hmm...... Your story reminds me of a course mate of mine back then in school. She happened to date a cultist unknowingly to her that he was. In the process she got to know and because she values her life, she had no choice than to remain as his girlfriend until after graduation. I don't know if she was finally able to keep him off. But the truth is, some cultist may be naturally good but that virtue has been compromised hence the moment you step on their toes, they are always ready to bite and they bite really hard. Now come to terms with this: knowing so well that he is a cultist, how many times have u tried leading him to Christ (ie if u know the Christ) to redeem his soul. I personally don't believe in running away from challenges in relationship, especially if there is genuine Love. This didn't change the fact that dating a cultist is putting your life on a life line because I have seen persons who were endangered because their friend was a cultist, then think of what happens to his girlfriend. Answer this sincerely ''If u haven't met or sorry crushed into (as u called it) the new boy, you would have remained with d cultist, right? Yes! Then, believe me; you are selfish and self centered. You are truly not leaving him because he is a cultist, there is definitely another hidden reason and the truth is you may not even know the true reason. To me, seeing (dating) a cultist no matter how kind/good he is, was the first mistake. Crushing into the new boy was d second most deadly mistake. Take our advice, leave both of them. But first leave the new boy. Then leave the cultist. Ensure the cultist come to terms with the fact that you are not leaving him because of another. Finally when you do, don't rush into another relationship, give your time, energy, resources and love to your studies. Believe me, its the best and you will live to always appreciate that decision. 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Odunharry(m): 1:37pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
safarigirl:lmao..first dude distraction??rily 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by PastorOluT(m): 1:38pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
Odunharry: And interestingly its was ok till she found knew bobo n suddenly realized d guy was a cultitst n not good anymore. Now she seek advice, what advice does she want, leave the new guy n go back to the cultitst i guess? |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by chinchong: 1:39pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
tolaxin:anybody wey won buy dis guy should contact me |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Odunharry(m): 1:43pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
sandijey:nice one 3 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Odunharry(m): 1:43pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
sandijey: |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by AdeniyiA(m): 1:43pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
worst still, none of the two guys will marry her o. Later one innocent guy would see her and think he's seen an angel ... i just pity men and our black market patrol 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Odunharry(m): 1:48pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
PastorOluT:atimes gals cause problem for themselves....imagine after some will say guys are wicked nt knowing mst times they are the cause.. Ds thing is funny o..maybe she expect the first guy to smile n watch how she will ditch him for another guy or he thinks he is a fool |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 1:51pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
I'm not even sure what a "cultist" is, but come on. Be practical. On one hand, you're possibly risking someone else's life on a whim and feelings you're not even sure about. One the other hand, you've been made aware of what your bf of three years is capable of (or at least of the fact that he has no problem persistently and believably threatening such an outcome). Also, the guy you like appears to have no problem breaking up a standing relationship (not that you're any less guilty...). When you find yourself in a state of "confusion" with your feelings, deal with the facts. Scratch that - how about always dealing with the facts GL. 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by ugoezeik(m): 1:52pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
aumeehn:lol hahaha I swear guy u r nt ok lol. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Felixadded(m): 1:53pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
vivaciouzz:I'm not gonna judge u, but, let me chip in these; I guess u're a lier, u're confused, u're a cheat and it's obvious, u don't really know what is good for u or what u really wanted! I don't know why, we humans have a way of framing what is termed BLACK, a white! Why? U claimed u knew from the outset that he's a cult, yet, u accepted his proposal, and stood by/with him, when u felt u're now insecure, u wanna opt out! Three years is ain't a joke! Can u even vouch u wouldn't leave this new guy to another one in d future? Hmm, u're amazingly amazing! |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by tranxo(m): 1:53pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
vivaciouzz:You sound like you are still in sec. school. Face your studies. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by PastorOluT(m): 1:54pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
Odunharry: Smile, ladies causing problem for themselves since the Garden of Eden! |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Odunharry(m): 1:56pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
Superstar007:u dey mind some of them |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by harffie(m): 1:57pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
tommiebuck:Na so# |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by nallypaul(m): 1:59pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
I have to be realistice here, dumping your ex is wrong based On this realistic reasons. He is caring,protective,available,loving and above all is that he is there for you. You will never succeed is you leave him like that. For the fact he is a cultist is for you to change is when you have tried all you could that you can tell him your leaving him based on that note. But is a failiure to you that you can't make the man you claim you love better man. Let me stop here for now. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Odunharry(m): 2:01pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
honeric01:another good question |
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