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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by chiefkpokp(m): 10:38am On Oct 08, 2014 |
Believe me The devil is better d angel you don't no. If you stop the guy from smoking, why don't you have more patient to work on the guy to your taste. This case happened exactly to my wife and I. at end of the day God Brought us back to marry. There is no amount of advices we will give I that will change your mind, but if I care to listen, is either you give yourself a break from d two guys And face God and your study, or you go back go your cultist guy and finish what you started, change is constant, cultists is normal for guys this days, 80 percent join because of back but not knowing God is the only backup, my girlfriend now my wife battles to change me from humanizing,gangster things,runs, racket and so, that's why I respect her today, be wise girl, d love of Money is the root of evil. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:38am On Oct 08, 2014 |
vivaciouzz:hmm i advice you should try change that guy from his cultism habit and after that go back to him since you now have evidences that he love you. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:38am On Oct 08, 2014 |
debrihachi:damn ur harsh |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:38am On Oct 08, 2014 |
U r confused madam. Well u just have to decide for yourself, my advice is leave both of them and face your books. 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by ELGREF(m): 10:39am On Oct 08, 2014 |
Let the two go and come back to me,but I don't have money oooooo |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:39am On Oct 08, 2014 |
fabiano09:lol u no well |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by tuffgongjo(m): 10:41am On Oct 08, 2014 |
jmoore:some join d game out of no choice. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:43am On Oct 08, 2014 |
Classyzi:Lol i gyet dt alot |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by 100Cents: 10:44am On Oct 08, 2014 |
slap1: We would have been looking at a sensible girl if the topic was, " Should I break up with my boyfriend because he is a cultist " ? Rather, my crush, my Ex, I am in a dilemma. Smh, these girls sef... 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Jcob(m): 10:44am On Oct 08, 2014 |
You are still learning. When you get to the last bus - stop you will definitely know. Pending that time, enjoy and use your head. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Odinaka00(m): 10:46am On Oct 08, 2014 |
Hia! Nne chekianu ya na, if the cultist kill the other guy you have cluch..mba, crush on, his blood ga adikwa on your hands o, maka na oo n'ihi gi ka yur jelous bf jiri gbuo ya, its better to do the needful o tupu aka mmadu atonuo to aka enwe n'ofe, iwotago? Ehen! Mana you are very greedy o like some people said, how can you love a guy and be having crush on another guy? Nne hapuchaa, I bu confirm play-girl.......how did this topic make fp? This kinda topic should be posted on her own fb wall for all her friendz tulee ya anya ma nyekwa ya ndumodu, not in a big forum like NL..........idikwa sure na admin tinyere topic gi a na fp aburo ur ..............nna ka m mechie onu, tupu ndi a abanuo m o Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!! 8 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Wealthyegg(f): 10:46am On Oct 08, 2014 |
fabiano09: tALKING FROM EXPERIENCE sIR... i HAIL THEE |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Mintayo(m): 10:47am On Oct 08, 2014 |
vivaciouzz:someone is a good guy and and he is a cultist? Someone is kind-hearted and he is threatening to kill another person? I give up! Well,thats something you don't hear all the time! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Emmanuel6(m): 10:48am On Oct 08, 2014 |
henryhemon:You must make sure you are CONTEMPTED |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by darlingnuel(m): 10:49am On Oct 08, 2014 |
bigiyaro:I'm loving this response! 4 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by debrihachi(f): 10:49am On Oct 08, 2014 |
fabiano09:damm am not but it sucks wen u ask for an advice n receive criticism instead....If she was looking for criticism she would V specified it but she said 'I need an advice' life is hard but tz harder wen people r stupid.... |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:50am On Oct 08, 2014 |
jmoore:different definitions from ladies.... |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Mintayo(m): 10:51am On Oct 08, 2014 |
100Cents:As in its do disheartening,see the good qualities she ascribed to the cult guy=good and kindhearted? What in God's name is wrong with some ladies? Op,face your book and leave the two of them,apparently,you are not read to be in reltionship,abeg! 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by NizyO01(f): 10:51am On Oct 08, 2014 |
Someone u always knew was a cultist,even helped him drop some stuff and yet continue dating him suddenly now has so many isshfirst u just looking for an excuse and added "he is a cultist" so that pple justify ur excuse.2nd:U don't know what u want yet,u haven't set a standard for urself,and untill u do that,u will keep wanting someone else....from what I see right now,u lack focus and I won't really blame u,we find ourselves there at one poine or another. u need to take time out to focus on urself...know what u want and need. 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:51am On Oct 08, 2014 |
debrihachi:and urs is.... |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:52am On Oct 08, 2014 |
Couldn't agree more. Best advice. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 10:54am On Oct 08, 2014 |
NizyO01:She is a stu...imagine how she got there. Cult guys dey get cash and swag...both na ladies' prescription. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by WoodcrestMayor(m): 10:57am On Oct 08, 2014 |
Is it compulsory to stay with some1?Whatz bad being single...at least for sumtime? Truth be told,most of these same school/same level relationships don't work.Most girls are ready to settle down immediately after school but the guys are rarely ready. If a guy truly loves a girl,will he tell her to wait till she's 28-30(when he'll probably av hammered) before marrying? Some do work...most don't U're sitting on a keg of gunpowder. Trust me,u dont want to be d reason d oda guy loses his life...wat u're passing thru now will be child's play compared to d trauma u'll go thru. D oda being a cultist means he doesn't know wat he's doing yet.If a young man is calculative,ambitious and has plans for both of you,he won't be in a cult group. Take both off your mind and face your studies cos in the future,u'll most likely look back and ask yourself-"why did I waste my time on these guys?". vivaciouzz: 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Bigcake: 10:58am On Oct 08, 2014 |
vivaciouzz:Babe, you are on point. Simply drop him gradually and not like a hot potato so that he wouldnt hurt you. Cut all visitations and calls to the lowest ebb. If possible let him Know you are now a Born Again Christian. Then try as much as possible to hide the other guy from him for security reasons. In doing this, ensure you dont tell him that you are leaving because he is a cultist. You are still his friend but from a different angle, with time he will let you be. Goodluck have a nice day. |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by henryhemon(m): 10:58am On Oct 08, 2014 |
safarigirl: I'm not going to criticize you but your line thought way too wrong. Do you realize the person you claim to be a distraction is hitting your p? Who is losing? |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by debrihachi(f): 11:00am On Oct 08, 2014 |
tellwisdom:ryt.....wah u busy doing mister? if u busy working or looking for a course t choose u wont v tym t spit dis shit outa ya mouth, tz obvious u not... If u cant help tz fyn at least don't bring da person down |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by debrihachi(f): 11:02am On Oct 08, 2014 |
tellwisdom: |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by henryhemon(m): 11:05am On Oct 08, 2014 |
debrihachi:I guess you guys are in the same business of selling ur cunt to available bidders that's why you became her spokes woman. Some people bring their lack of home training to the public,such a waste. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by clemzo101(m): 11:06am On Oct 08, 2014 |
U know ur bf is a cultist amd u are still with him. What's the problem with children of this days? my dear the earlier u sort urself out of his life the better for u. Dat guy will bring problems to u if u are not careful. A cousin of mine married a cultist all because of love just as u put it, he was shot dead wen she was carring d second baby, now her life is in shambles, a 27yr old lady with 2 children. U tell me which guy will marry her now? Forget about the money he's spending on u since u said he's kind hearted. Dat money isn't even clean, dey do all manner of things to make money. Where u shld ve known how dark his heart is was where he threatened to kill the other guy, dis guys are murderers, armed robbers, rappist, kidnappers and so on.........a word they said is enough for the wise, also remember that the ears dat refuses to listen to advice when the head is cut off it goes to the grave with it. 1 Like |
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