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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Lovexme(m): 5:44pm On Oct 09, 2014
great1:


shows your thinking. I hope you find happiness.

Who says I'm not? Don't use a Jerry Springer line on me grin
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 5:44pm On Oct 09, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.
shut da fvck up.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Ladycloud(f): 5:44pm On Oct 09, 2014
iceberylin:

Ĩ ĤÁVĔ ßĔĔŃ ŤĤĔĨŔ ßĔŦŐŔĔ, tĤĔ ÁŃŃŐŶĨŃĞ PÁŔŤ ĨŚ ŤĤÁŤ ŚĤĔ ĎĨĎŃŤ ĔVĔŃ ĶŃŐŴ MŶ ŃÁMĔ embarassed
......ehya sowie..m sure u wouldnt let urself in dah zone again..
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by deboraha(f): 5:44pm On Oct 09, 2014
NeduLuiZ:
i spotted you=one of those female folk that think guys are dumb

So just by those two lines, U could tell I am what U claim I am. I am also sure that by those two lines, U can also tell me my life story, not so?

Or are U one of them bashers? Oga abeg stay ur corner.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 5:44pm On Oct 09, 2014
Jesus take the wheels!! grin

If I were in his shoes (I'm very spiteful, especially when it comes to rejection and chics, but I don't show it), I'll just play along. Fvck her like 100 times, and dump her ar.se when she's in love. Never allow anyone to use you as a tool for settling, after failing on so many fronts.

Anyway, I never get in the friend-zone space. It's either you're on it, or not. Got enough female friends already - dance to tune, or keep it moving.

Pay back is a biitch!

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 5:44pm On Oct 09, 2014
chisco82:

Lol! Wetin i do na?
nofin o

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by MabraO: 5:45pm On Oct 09, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

Girls nd their shallow thinking

She friend zone him for 5yrs he should still go back abi

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Laivia(f): 5:45pm On Oct 09, 2014
Do urself a whole lot of good nd forget abt her....... But if u do hve a thing for her....... Y nt give her a trial?

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by silversonuc(m): 5:45pm On Oct 09, 2014
ifymusa:
It's possible she loves you as she said but was not ready for d relationship than. Why not give her a chance if there is undecided
ya nat serious oo dis geh, seriously wat do gals take us for?
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 5:45pm On Oct 09, 2014
ifymusa:
It's possible she loves you as she said but was not ready for d relationship than. Why not give her a chance if there is undecided
Hear yourself! ifymusa u can't eat ur cake and still hv it .
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Sunshinelady(f): 5:45pm On Oct 09, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.
. Exactly my point!

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by dljbd1(m): 5:45pm On Oct 09, 2014
@OP
From your post it is clear that you've made up your mind.
Therefore I have absolutely nothing to add.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by iceberylin(m): 5:46pm On Oct 09, 2014
Ladycloud:
......ehya sowie..m sure u wouldnt let urself in dah zone again..
ÁM Ĩ MÁĎ.. ŃĔVĔŔ wink cool
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by YankeeJoe(m): 5:47pm On Oct 09, 2014
Famouspecky:
Maga don pay

hahahaha... Babe, me no be maga o... As a mata of fact, i combed her wela.. I only played along because dat babe tink sey i be jonsin jona

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by osasjay(m): 5:47pm On Oct 09, 2014
Hi guys... Pls n Pls hw can sum1 post here on nairaland... hv been on nairaland for a while nw n I don't knw hw to post on nairaland... can sum1 pls help me out...tnks n God bless u..[color=#000099][/color]
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Laivia(f): 5:47pm On Oct 09, 2014
[quote author=MabraO post=27002028]

Girls nd their shallow thinking

She friend zone him for 5yrs he should still go back abi

Yes he shld......... Or is it a crime??
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by IYANGBALI: 5:48pm On Oct 09, 2014
What are you waiting for abi your preek no dey work again?hit her and add her name in the list of “used items”

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by bigt2(m): 5:49pm On Oct 09, 2014
tenovaten:
sleeping with a woman inform of payback does not make you a man, infact resisting her is what make you one!!!
I said to be on a safe side! angry dude has been in the friend zone since
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by YankeeJoe(m): 5:50pm On Oct 09, 2014
yorke1:
This is an insult to your personality. She just want to use you pass time while she wait for another guy to come into her life again before she dump you. You just have to be wise and don't act silly. But i can't really say if you are not going to fall into her trap because pussycat is involve here. And you know the correlation between guys and kittty. Na dere dey com out frm. Use your head bro. if not, the girl will have this notion that we are all f00ls. Pls, dnt give her that impression! I can count on you bro. Goodluck Jonathan to you.

chairman, i no fit fall bobos hand na.. Me too follow screw her wel... I sabi wetin she been want but i jus played along

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 5:50pm On Oct 09, 2014
YankeeJoe:
Helo fellow nairalanders, greetins 2 y'al..

Pls i got an experience i wud gladly luv 2 share wit u & seek ur positive advice..

I met ds gal i loved so dearly in 2006 on her bck frm skul. @1st sight, i developed a strong feelin 2 wards her ( i dnt mean infatuation, lets any man persecute me), we got along as frnds n along d line, i made my intentions knwn 2 her but she turned me down. She claimed bn ok wit me jus being a frnd 2her.

I felt d pains bt learnt hw 2 deal wit it while i continue my life wit sm1 else...
In 2013, she started showin emotional feelins 2wards wit d intention of bn in a serious n committed relationship wit me...

She came up wit d claim dat her ex did nt luv her like she wntd hence,
she quited d relationship ( na me be d maga wey go blve dat kind cock n bul story abi? Or na me go cum luv u pass nw afta dos nigas don finish wrk?)


Truth is, her ex(s) ve al used n dumped her bt nw she has rememba me (2 her she feels am a spare tire; God 4bid!!)..

She's up wit d claim dat we were both 2 young & inexperienced 2 date bck then.. Dat she alwz luvd n cherished me...

My qstn is: y wud a lady frnd-zone a guy dat sincerely luvd her bt afta wards go bck 2 him afta bn mesmerized by oda rouged guys?

Guys, pls, wat do u tink abt ds?

She's simply seeking for emotional validation from you. You're more like her fall-back option.

She's going to spend quality time with you for a while, use your presence to eject the memories of her ex out of her head. When she hits normalcy, expect her to fling you into the trash can.

I'd advice you to turn down the proposal but in a more mild way so as not to hurt her feelings. It's okay remaining a friend at this stage than being a fall-back option.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by MabraO: 5:50pm On Oct 09, 2014
[quote author=Laivia post=27002097][/quote]


Greatest crime ever
If the op does it means them dey follow from him village
That means no real feeling just something to hang in to till another comes

Did u read d silly excuse she gave
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 5:51pm On Oct 09, 2014
Bros revenge is sweet but it's never a necessity. But 5 years no be here o. Them put u for Coma?
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 5:51pm On Oct 09, 2014
Looooool, "Spare tyre". grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by silversonuc(m): 5:52pm On Oct 09, 2014
rozzay:
My honest opinion- d lady must be a big fool for coming bak to tell u dat, were is her shame. Nawa oo.
As for me weda u become president or all d men dumped me my no is my no, I can neva go bak to my vomit. Simple
story for d gods
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Pervert1(m): 5:52pm On Oct 09, 2014
Sunshinelady:
. Exactly my point!
birds of a feather! Clearly you don't mind doing this to another guy! Do it to a guy,its ok,but do it to a girl...you are a monster! Look at that mentality.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by IYANGBALI: 5:53pm On Oct 09, 2014
osasjay:
Hi guys... Pls n Pls hw can sum1 post here on nairaland... hv been on nairaland for a while nw n I don't knw hw to post on nairaland... can sum1 pls help me out...tnks n God bless u..[color=#000099][/color]
you will first write a letter of application to the CEO of nairaland and fill the application form which is 50k non refundable,you den wait for their reply,it normally takes not less 13 yrs to process.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 5:53pm On Oct 09, 2014
rozzay:

nofin o
Okay eeh oo. Carry go ...rozzay rozzay. I feel you.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by eightsin(m): 5:54pm On Oct 09, 2014
Chop and clean mouth bro. But make sure it's virus-free.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by kenex4ever(m): 5:54pm On Oct 09, 2014
Sunshinelady:
@OP, d grl u r datin now or d grl u will even marry , u tink say oda guys never still knack d kpekus (as u pple wuld say) abi? & u nko 4dose past 5yrs havnt grls been knackin u too? D truth is dat mayb u never rilly loved her in d frst place
am beginning to reason along with some of the girls. OP if u actually loved her and u haven't found real love till date, then give her a chance but if u have some one u love or u don't love her again then just tell it to her. Taking ur share and dump her will only add her to ur enemies 4life.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Sunshinelady(f): 5:54pm On Oct 09, 2014
tenovaten:
sleeping with a woman inform of payback does not make you a man, infact resisting her is what make you one!!!
. Very true
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by delors(m): 5:54pm On Oct 09, 2014
rozzay:
My honest opinion- d lady must be a big fool for coming bak to tell u dat, were is her shame. Nawa oo.
As for me weda u become president or all d men dumped me my no is my no, I can neva go bak to my vomit. Simple
Abeg pack well...we know Una type. una full everywhere like okrika. One yeye sister 'brother-zoned' me for almost 2hf years saying 'I don't see you as my bf. You are like a brother to me; we cannot date each other.' Her mouth be like something wey resemble alligator pepper. Few months ago, after some wicked bros don over use the 'area', she come be like ' ahn ahn na, you know I just wanted us to know each other first...' All of una na d same.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by YankeeJoe(m): 5:54pm On Oct 09, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

reall? Why dont u marry her 2 ur broda? Na one wicked motor carri all of una (gals) come.. Bullshit!!

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