rozzay:
My honest opinion- d lady must be a big fool for coming bak to tell u dat, were is her shame. Nawa oo.
As for me weda u become president or all d men dumped me my no is my no, I can neva go bak to my vomit. Simple

u be correct gal jor

valdes00:

Lolzz... Lik dstv wen network bad abi..

heherhehe no b me tok dt one o

Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

May you continue to eat left overs lase awon Irunmole.

Sunshinelady:
@OP, d grl u r datin now or d grl u will even marry , u tink say oda guys never still knack d kpekus (as u pple wuld say) abi? & u nko 4dose past 5yrs havnt grls been knackin u too? D truth is dat mayb u never rilly loved her in d frst place

in oda wrds he shld knack his own jejely sneak out abi, good gal @shines teeth@

Bro what ever you do,just make sure you use a condom and Bleep her hard!!

Pervert1:
am not surprised ladies are the only ones supporting this lady...why can't Nigerians ever be objective 4 once!

she is our sister n we have to say the truth,y shoulime d he complain here on NL if he wants her.d best is let her go n find sm1 else.everyone has made mistakes in one time or the other.

silversonuc:


hehe dat one pain u shey?

Pass bullet sef

[quote author=Sunshinelady post=27001877]@OP, d grl u r datin now or d grl u will even marry , u tink say oda guys never still knack d kpekus (as u pple wuld say) abi? & u nko 4dose past 5yrs havnt grls been knackin u too? D truth is dat mayb u never rilly loved her in d frst place[/quote

miss or mrs shinshinelady, pls, get my ms straight.. Am nt offended dat she dated oda guys b4 me but my greviance is dat, y shud a lady wnt 2 use an honourable gentleman as a back-up mugu? If i were ur broda, wud u ve support such? I knw u made ur opinion based on sentiment but lets be realistic 4 @least 1ce... Tanks

Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

"Jump at the chance" for real

tania28:
she is our sister n we have to say the truth,y shoulime d he complain here on NL if he wants her.d best is let her go n find sm1 else.everyone has made mistakes in one time or the other.

About the mistake part,i agree..i'm not judging her or anything! No one is perfect! The 'Op' should probably let her go if what's on his mind is to use and dump her. What i'm saying is that the lady can't clearly have a good intention from the facts presented. It's obviously not a good motive,but one actuated by selfishness.

tania28:
yes very true,d guy doesn't love her anymore,so jst come out straight n tell her it can't work.let go ok

If you were in the guy's shoes, U will do the same. No one likes to be seen as 2nd option, talkless of 3rd or 4th option. It's annoying enough. Probably the guy is now well to do or has a bright prospect so she wants to key in.

Well the truth is that she might have sinister motives, or may not have. But on second thought, since both of you know each other for some time it just might work out between you two who knows?. Giving it a try may not be such a bad idea. However, above all follow your gut instincts since they hardly lie. All the best

bknight:
Bro you made a miscalculation; its over 7yrs.

Even Juggernut can't break the wall she would have built in those years.

Perhaps there's a change in your status? You've now graduated and working? Or has she crossed 30?

Look closely, something attracts a pest.

Move on.

Most intelligent detective work... And matured.

Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

If no be small thing I for say u dey craze, na ur problem be that?

Lacomus:
Revenge will be sweet now bt on the other side bros abeg were you in a coma ? How can some one be friend zoned for 5yrs n he still hang around mehn you be original woman wrapper.

Its possible ooo, i was friend zone for abt 8yrs..den wen we got along, dated for only 6mnths(d months b sweet wella ooo) now we bk to d friend zone ish

Hackin:
now who be de bush meat and who be de hunter?

Guy, for where U see Bush meat and hunter for my post?

Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

rada rada

merieam16:
I guess she didn't kno u luv her dat much,buh if u still luv her go ahead wif her,dez nofin wrong in it

Something is wrong o! Girls always have this impression that no matter what they do to a guy if dey say I love you the guy is theirs.

P.S No go back to the gurl ma guy, tell her say you they in a relationship (and no try to sleep with her o, cus I knw some guys).

Smartini:
You seem to have developed ill feelings for her. Your mind is already made up. Nothing we say in here will make you change your mind. Just keep on remaining a good friend to her, since you can't see anything good in her anymore...She'll still be the apple of other men's eyes. Assume the role of an advicer and confidant, not her boyfriend. Get rid of all these thoughts about her being used and dumped... It's not nice seeing her as garbage

....... its not nice seeing her as garbage even though she is.

iheanyi40:
Bros use ya head if u still luv am go bck if not knack am ehh scatter en pvssy wella; she de craze

Hahahahahaha...9ja boiz nor get joy oh

MzMariah:


5 years

Hmmm.

it's not funny cos u ladies are fund of it.

I av noticed this and not d first time. Girls are fond of that when their so called boy friend dumps them.

01karma:
Guy make sure you knack her front and back. I don't have pity for girls again. One nearly run and life.

After spending my school fee on this girl, she dump me the next month, she dey tell me say she be virgin, virgin way dey chop suya, they beg recharge card

well, i had to go and do kponkpon work( carrying stones and sand with clement, digging pit and all hard labours of life) to pay my school fee

i for don become drop out na God save me

since that time, if i see any girl they come my way i go just change road sharp sharp. because hoes ain't loyal.

Dnt use wat apnd btwn u nd a gal nd judge everi1..

NeduLuiZ:
no chance,even if chance dey space no dey,even if space dey no time

[color=#006600][/color] watin nw? E fit b say d gal love dis guy* talking out of experiance*

JuicyGee:


Pass bullet sef

kpele sha, buh seriously ladies are boring @@@@runs away@@@

2sExy1:
it's not funny cos u ladies are fund of it.

Fond of gini Did somebody friend zone you too?

MzMariah:
Fund of gini Did somebody friend zone you too?

na Corper chic friendzone me... But my own style na hin dey pain pass... Indosid no reach am... E don already start sef... She go bite her finger tire... I don do am before and I go deal with this one till I am satified.

To me, I don't see anything bad in friendzoning a dude but be very careful how you go about it... Cos if you fvck for my side, na you go regret am walahi. I am a master of that game... I play it on slow motion.... Slow death and I know the effect on my preys. *evil grin*

JuicyGee:


Ohk! . But I still hate you 4 hee other comment you made. . Watch out in ur dreams coz I'm still gonna strangle you

lolz.. Abeg oo

If I were you OP, I would first go and pay tithe and offering to God almighty for supplying fresh meat to my table.

Secondly, I would start gymming my preek, by doing exercises like preek-pressup, preek-dumbbell curl, and preek-jogging in anticipation of some marathon sessions of Congo shining.

Thirdly, I would invest several cartons of condoms.

You have 5 years worth of knacking to catch up to within the next 2 months before you dump the idiat....

God punish the devil. Amen

2sExy1:
na Corper chic friendzone me... But my own style na hin dey pain pass... Indosid no reach am... E don already start sef... She go bite her finger tire... I don do am before and I go deal with this one till I am satified.

To me, I don't see anything bad in friendzoning a dude but be very careful how you go about it... Cos if you fvck for my side, na you go regret am walahi. I am a master of that game... I play it on slow motion.... Slow death and I know the effect on my preys. *evil grin*

Deal with which one kwa Na so friend zoning dey pain? the thing don pain you whalai.

YankeeJoe:
Helo fellow nairalanders, greetins 2 y'al..

Pls i got an experience i wud gladly luv 2 share wit u & seek ur positive advice..

I met ds gal i loved so dearly in 2006 on her bck frm skul. @1st sight, i developed a strong feelin 2 wards her ( i dnt mean infatuation, lets any man persecute me), we got along as frnds n along d line, i made my intentions knwn 2 her but she turned me down. She claimed bn ok wit me jus being a frnd 2her.

I felt d pains bt learnt hw 2 deal wit it while i continue my life wit sm1 else...
In 2013, she started showin emotional feelins 2wards wit d intention of bn in a serious n committed relationship wit me...

She came up wit d claim dat her ex did nt luv her like she wntd hence,
she quited d relationship ( na me be d maga wey go blve dat kind cock n bul story abi? Or na me go cum luv u pass nw afta dos nigas don finish wrk?)


Truth is, her ex(s) ve al used n dumped her bt nw she has rememba me (2 her she feels am a spare tire; God 4bid!!)..

She's up wit d claim dat we were both 2 young & inexperienced 2 date bck then.. Dat she alwz luvd n cherished me...

My qstn is: y wud a lady frnd-zone a guy dat sincerely luvd her bt afta wards go bck 2 him afta bn mesmerized by oda rouged guys?

Guys, pls, wat do u tink abt ds?

Ask your present babe for advice.
NLders abi no bi so?

[quote author=silversonuc post=27002033]
ya nat serious oo dis geh, seriously wat do gals take us for?[/quote. See some gals can hide feelings. May b na dis guy she luv d guy too for check bck nw him for no wait make d tin reach 5 years