salvatore007:
Date her, in d nxt 5yrz dump ha.....

Omo u wicked o

1one:
It just feels like more than half of the replies I've been reading especially from guys are guys between 17-22years old..

"Knack am"

"Hammer am"

"Chop am"

"Give am akpakpo"


Really are your lives habitually hinged on sex?
Is it your necessary-you can't do without it-food

I find it even shady and questionable as to why the OP chose to bring his "plight" here... What exactly do you want us to do or tell you... You've "combed" her already (hopefully you didn't carry dandruff along with the combing exercise), you've made up your mind to use and get your "fair data usage" from her.... So what really is your point.


Truth is inspite of all your smack talk, I feel you still have a thing for her, there's a mixed blend of hurt, bitterness and anger in your post, in fact your post is very thick with it... But still I sense some subliminal attraction that you feel for her and that's why you're particularly hurt.. You're not just bitter because she sees you as a readily available spare tyre, but you're also hurt because you're still "feeling" the girl.


It's normal to feel cheated and used by someone you loved years back but friendzoned you only to come back later on to profess love for you... But thing is this is life... There are most times no black or white... But many grey areas... You may not have been mature enough for her then... She may not really truly have liked you or loved you enough back then, but as the years grew by, she got to learn more and more about you and hence the attraction...



Enough tori jare.. No be my matter... I've already written too long... Sorry for my boring piece.

Is it inconceivable that he would be everything you said that he may not have been and more and she just was being immature herself?

I agree that life is full of non-absolutes but that does not eliminate the existence of absolutes, my friend. Some things are wrong no matter how excusable they may seem. Some things are right no matter how inconvenient they may seem.

That story he told is not a nice one. It's not a painless or kind one. If you are a man at all and have loved you know that when men love they become terribly vulnerable. They expose the most vulnerable parts of their lives to the one they love.

This guy presumably loved a woman who did not deem him worthy of her love. You say she may have learned over time to love him back? That's why it took till her ex went all wrong all of a sudden for her to realize that he was the right man all along?

Look, I know that people make mistakes and all. I never knew how much I could forgive and tolerate personally until I chose to love...twice. But I'll tell you straight up, this is an open-and-shut case. A very simple matter. She does not deserve him. And accepting her now is a big risk. But if he has the capacity to forgive her rejection of him before then he should not waste a moment before accepting her back. If he doesn't, he should just move on.

I did notice that he said he moved on and found somebody else. That's one problem with these things. You have torn loyalties. If this were me, it would not even be possible for the girl to get close enough to me again if I'm with somebody else. I have to still be single to be that available.

Hanibal:
Listen my brother... I dont believe in dis friend zoning fever dat is spreading like wild fire on dis forum. for me I cant get into a serious relationship with a lady who is not first my friend... I wud ave understood her first as a friend before getin into any emotional commitments dats d foundation for lasting love. if u love her... forget "friend zoning" its a phrase coined by unserious boys who are only after sex. if she really loves u and u love her.... pray to papa God wait for his directions and go ahead.
Stop talking abt friend zoning... its kids mentallity.

You b mumu... Start as friends and see if you will come out alive.

tania28:
she is our sister n we have to say the truth,y shoulime d he complain here on NL if he wants her.d best is let her go n find sm1 else.everyone has made mistakes in one time or the other.

Is it still a mistake when you walk into a mud pit with your eyes open wearing your best dress?

Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

Total Bullshìt @the embolden words

Jump ko, fly ni. She be gold?

Nihilist:
If I were you OP, I would first go and pay tithe and offering to God almighty for supplying fresh meat to my table.

Secondly, I would start gymming my preek, by doing exercises like preek-pressup, preek-dumbbell curl, and preek-jogging in anticipation of some marathon sessions of Congo shining.

Thirdly, I would invest several cartons of condoms.

You have 5 years worth of knacking to catch up to within the next 2 months before you dump the idiat....

God punish the devil. Amen

Lmao.. Oh lawd! See wickedness.. Boys are not smiling..

@YankeeJoe, bro, if you are in another relationship already, devote your strength to making it work. Don't just damage somebody else's life for an old flame.

If you're not, here is the truth: Love is very forgiving, so forgiving that it is infuriating. I promise you I know. You can handle forgiving her if she means enough to you.

But understand that she's not your last option. She's not the magic pill that will fix everything. Not unless you yourself name her that for reasons that you are in full acceptance of. You can find somebody else that you can love the way you loved her. It's happened to me twice. So if you choose her make sure it's not because you feel frustrated about finding somebody else.

If you choose her you have to understand that you must wipe the slate clean. You can't EVER talk about how she was anything or did anything. You will treat her like a pure virgin with no stain on her honor. That is what forgiveness means. If you can't do that, let her go now. It may not be easy for you. It may take some time before you totally lose any thoughts of her past. But if you commit to it you will accomplish it.

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pascyj:
Thanks for agreeing.Girls are not smiling.That all the "I love you" girls say na lie.They now want to be players.Girls doing player games to guys. Hey, guys be careful o.The girls don't believe in the love they constantly want to profess monopolistically.Na big WASH!

Gals re fast Learners they ve learned frm d guys

This time u need to think wit ur dick. afterwards u make use of ur sense.

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sage2:


Sorry, there is none. She should go try her luck elsewhere. No time for silly biitches.

Let him tell her d truth and let her be more over planty pipo dey wait

Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

You talk as if she's doing him a favour by being his friend. Jump ko fly ni

My dear,4get all these ple dat said u shld have sex wiv her and leave her. U said u have a gf ryt? And I guess u love ur gf? So y do u disturb urslf wiv wot d girl says she wants? If u really have a gf and u love her,then don't let wot d girl is asking u bother u dear...wen u needed her,she turned u down,so don't give a damn to wot she's saying and focus on wot is ryt infront of u(ur own gf) and knw if anything good wld come out of it. She sld find another guy 4 all I care,bt pls,never u slp wiv her,cus u myt regret it leta. I rest my judgemnet

2sExy1:
You b mumu... Start as friends and see if you will come out alive.

[color=#006600][/color]hey dat bros no Mumu at all na him talk d correct thing

YankeeJoe:
Helo fellow nairalanders, greetins 2 y'al..

Pls i got an experience i wud gladly luv 2 share wit u & seek ur positive advice..

I met ds gal i loved so dearly in 2006 on her bck frm skul. @1st sight, i developed a strong feelin 2 wards her ( i dnt mean infatuation, lets any man persecute me), we got along as frnds n along d line, i made my intentions knwn 2 her but she turned me down. She claimed bn ok wit me jus being a frnd 2her.

I felt d pains bt learnt hw 2 deal wit it while i continue my life wit sm1 else...
In 2013, she started showin emotional feelins 2wards wit d intention of bn in a serious n committed relationship wit me...

She came up wit d claim dat her ex did nt luv her like she wntd hence,
she quited d relationship ( na me be d maga wey go blve dat kind cock n bul story abi? Or na me go cum luv u pass nw afta dos nigas don finish wrk?)


Truth is, her ex(s) ve al used n dumped her bt nw she has rememba me (2 her she feels am a spare tire; God 4bid!!)..

She's up wit d claim dat we were both 2 young & inexperienced 2 date bck then.. Dat she alwz luvd n cherished me...

My qstn is: y wud a lady frnd-zone a guy dat sincerely luvd her bt afta wards go bck 2 him afta bn mesmerized by oda rouged guys?

Guys, pls, wat do u tink abt ds?

Make the girl go look bush, she nor deserve you.

YankeeJoe:


hahahaha... Babe, me no be maga o... As a mata of fact, i combed her wela.. I only played along because dat babe tink sey i be jonsin jona

Bros shebi uve combed her, let her go then. Not like ur right for the poor lady anyways from the way u talk. Im no advocate for being a dummy for ladies but mehn u really dont like the girl so back off and let ur deep seated desire for revenge slide.... pity her.

rozzay:

Story for d gods pls clear u r obstructing my view

Dem go come here come dey form super woman like one thing one thing...All of una na china product!

great1:
To be honest the way it all seems, I dnt think this is real love... She is only after emotional comfort, and to me she seems to be going about it the wrong way. Personally most girls in her position would act instinctively because no one wants to be lonely, or feel used. If she is really genuine, she would draw closer for a while, without discussing her past relationship with you or trying to build what she knows will not last long.

Emotional comfort can only be found in Christ, Not guys..


I feel for her though.... but just apply wisdom with the decisions you make, so you dnt drive her to the deep end.

best post i've seen so far

I 1da wen babes go learn..u c a 9ice guy,u wud turn him 2 friend...guy no accept dat gal..if na me,na chop n quench.

Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

Nne, d thunder that will fire you...dey come

deboraha:
Another thread to bash ladies.#them bashers will arrive soon#

Udonmeanit!!!

salvatore007:
Date her, in d nxt 5yrz dump ha.....

U wicked sha. Lol

ifymusa:
It's possible she loves you as she said but was not ready for d relationship than. Why not give her a chance if there is

Are you sure u're not the one?

JuicyGee:


See ur big head

See your ripe balooons...I said it!

And I meant it!
I meant it!

merieam16:
I guess she didn't kno u luv her dat much,buh if u still luv her go ahead wif her,dez nofin wrong in it

Nne. Love has expiry date

U sound like a force Man...

tosyne2much:
Bwahahaha roflmao.. OP , I could not but reading each sentence.. You are just so funny my guy

Hmm, odiegwu

Henrick007:
under where?

Under that hairy place

After testing the waters of sharks n crocodiles wt her 2 feet. Now she wants to wrap u up like sharwama .. If u fink u still love her, carry go BUT u don't have my blessings !!

Just tell her u proposed to ur gf on oct 1st and introducion is Dec 25th. Give her d job to be ur wedding planner. Fair enuf. Friends forever !!!

Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

haaaaa
u be bad market............

Guess she was 25 when she friend-zoned him.

Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

afta 5yrs? Mtchewww love ko love ni. REVENGE AIN'T BITCH.