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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by lockupman(m): 4:55am On Oct 10, 2014
Abegi! Leave that thing, so the guy is now dumping ground where she can dump the remains of her deep sh*t pussycat. If na me, I nor go 'chop' I go just taste and run.



Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by lockupman(m): 5:12am On Oct 10, 2014
Talk has always been cheap!



rozzay:
My honest opinion- d lady must be a big fool for coming bak to tell u dat, were is her shame. Nawa oo.
As for me weda u become president or all d men dumped me my no is my no, I can neva go bak to my vomit. Simple

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by lockupman(m): 5:20am On Oct 10, 2014
Story for the gods. Girls don't like Gud guys even though they say it they do 'mouthwisely'. They can't help but crave and trip for Badt guys while friend zoning the Gud guys. Its more beneficial playing the Badt guy than the good.



femimailbox:
If u still really love her sincerely then welcome her with caution, carry on with her and make her know true love. U will do it in good faith not because she deserve it but because u still love her, but if not let her go!
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by ifymusa(f): 6:45am On Oct 10, 2014
Zohan:

Are you sure u're not the one?
[color=#006600][/color] oh yes am d one
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by nairaman66(m): 7:14am On Oct 10, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

How many girls guys go show love? Nansense!
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by nairaman66(m): 7:15am On Oct 10, 2014
lockupman:


Story for the gods. Girls don't like Gud guys even though they say it they do 'mouthwisely'. They can't help but crave and trip for Badt guys while friend zoning the Gud guys. Its more beneficial playing the Badt guy than the good.




Real talk dude! That mentality has always been wired in their brains since time memorial.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by devine99(m): 7:19am On Oct 10, 2014
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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by nairaman66(m): 7:19am On Oct 10, 2014
YankeeJoe:
Helo fellow nairalanders, greetins 2 y'al..

Pls i got an experience i wud gladly luv 2 share wit u & seek ur positive advice..

I met ds gal i loved so dearly in 2006 on her bck frm skul. @1st sight, i developed a strong feelin 2 wards her ( i dnt mean infatuation, lets any man persecute me), we got along as frnds n along d line, i made my intentions knwn 2 her but she turned me down. She claimed bn ok wit me jus being a frnd 2her.

I felt d pains bt learnt hw 2 deal wit it while i continue my life wit sm1 else...
In 2013, she started showin emotional feelins 2wards wit d intention of bn in a serious n committed relationship wit me...

She came up wit d claim dat her ex did nt luv her like she wntd hence,
she quited d relationship ( na me be d maga wey go blve dat kind cock n bul story abi? Or na me go cum luv u pass nw afta dos nigas don finish wrk?)


Truth is, her ex(s) ve al used n dumped her bt nw she has rememba me (2 her she feels am a spare tire; God 4bid!!)..

She's up wit d claim dat we were both 2 young & inexperienced 2 date bck then.. Dat she alwz luvd n cherished me...

My qstn is: y wud a lady frnd-zone a guy dat sincerely luvd her bt afta wards go bck 2 him afta bn mesmerized by oda rouged guys?

Guys, pls, wat do u tink abt ds?

I think she wants to commit her kitty to you for safe keeping. Take the chance man! Don't be a dvck.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by swing4real(m): 7:30am On Oct 10, 2014
@OP Would you please write in a proper manners next time and stop being lazy, atleast try to complete your sentence. I hardly understood what you wrote or were you writing from your phone?
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by monex(m): 7:33am On Oct 10, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

you seem to be missing the more important question:

does she love him or is she only back because others have left her and he is the only one available.

This is not a Guy-vs-ladies fight. would you encourage him to go into a relationship that may be one-sided to his disadvantage?

my advice is that he sticks to just being casual friends with her for sometime. She is still in the rebound phase at the moment and he wouldn't want to be used as rebound.

I also suggest that he does not have sex with her: for someone who liked her a lot before, sex could end up making him more connected and emotionally involved with her.

...but will guys ever listen
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by 01karma(m): 7:33am On Oct 10, 2014
LadyCaty:


Dnt use wat apnd btwn u nd a gal nd judge everi1..
all girls are the same jor. cry
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by 01karma(m): 7:34am On Oct 10, 2014
baba11:
I can't stop laughing reading this!!!...you learn d hard way.....
my brother i suffer enh! shocked
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by 01karma(m): 7:37am On Oct 10, 2014
sulmeza:
ehya,i feel 4 u bro...glad it's a tin of d past nw
my brother suffer enh.. Yea its been a long time its happen sha.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by JuicyGee(f): 7:37am On Oct 10, 2014
ihedinobi2:


Hehehehehe...

Seriously, that is a very funny question. You don't seriously mean that sex is all you women are good for, do you?

Not that I agree with that dude though. I don't.

I kw some women are boring.. but why should he speak of women in that manner embarassed cry
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by LadyCaty(f): 7:57am On Oct 10, 2014
01karma:
all girls are the same jor. cry

All guys are d same den..
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by 01karma(m): 8:03am On Oct 10, 2014
LadyCaty:


All guys are d same den..
angry
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by LadyCaty(f): 8:07am On Oct 10, 2014
01karma:
angry

angry
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by 01karma(m): 8:18am On Oct 10, 2014
LadyCaty:


angry
hahaha why the angry face grin cry angry tongue
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by weazzy(m): 8:28am On Oct 10, 2014
toecyne:
Hammer the kpekus for a sometime.
hahahahahahaahahaaha i love dis advice
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by sage2(m): 8:48am On Oct 10, 2014
ifymusa:
[color=#006600][/color]Let him tell her d truth and let her be more over planty pipo dey wait

She no see the pipo wey dey wait before. Una never see anything una don dey cry.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by hotwax: 9:01am On Oct 10, 2014
The girl that stayed with you for that 5 years is your woman. Look no further.

That yeye one sees you as plan B.

Dont let her derail your life. You have already found your woman.

On a second thought, you can taste a pssy sha. It doesnt hurt. Have a taste of what she they use do yanga. The thing go done over expand. Just manage it like that and dump the btc_h
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by LadyCaty(f): 9:01am On Oct 10, 2014
01karma:
hahaha why the angry face grin cry angry tongue

Natin smiley
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by 01karma(m): 9:03am On Oct 10, 2014
LadyCaty:


Natin smiley
ok then angry
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by dabossman(m): 9:11am On Oct 10, 2014
@OP, so you want to tell me that in that 6yrs you did not date any lady or shine any congos? You were just being a good boy, waiting for the day she will love you back? I hear you.

I wonder if the roles where reversed, would you and the many guys who have commented have a problem with it. How many guys have ignored girls who were in love with them to go chase other girls, only to come back after many years to marry the good girl they once treated unfairly. Countless, I'm sure. Chai, it truly is a man's world. It's okay for a guy to go about sowing the useful seeds of his youth, only to come back at 30-something with watery sperm that can't even impregnate a woman in hyper-ovulation, to want to marry the cute innocent chic that has been crushing on him for ages. The guy won't be seen as "used and dumped" then o.

Oh, OP you are counting on marrying a virgin abi? A girl who has never even dated another guy before ba? I wish you good luck. Truth is you don't really love her as much as you claim. So, just go ahead and do what we all know you want to do. Chop and clean mouth.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Seunboss(m): 9:14am On Oct 10, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.
. No, lady. Any guy wuld b mad cos d prob is dat she sees him as d spare she can com 2 afta avin fun. Y did she go for thos guys nd not him. You probably do not undastand a guy's pride. Infact, most guys wuld not want 2 spit dis out cos their homies wuld laff at 'em. U culdn't b d side guy wen tins were nice nd tight bt wen oda guys av had d best part, she brings d remnant. Marriage or not, i wuld rather go for a fresh chic. Younger nd more less used

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Hanibal(m): 9:31am On Oct 10, 2014
2sExy1:
You b mumu... Start as friends and see if you will come out alive.
You just a boy... I dont argue with boys.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Seunboss(m): 9:35am On Oct 10, 2014
tenovaten:
sleeping with a woman inform of payback does not make you a man, infact resisting her is what makes you one!!!
. U don't decide, gurl. If u did, u wuld decide wat wuld work in favour of d females like u are doin now. We don't always av 2 be nice. Just rememba dat.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Seunboss(m): 9:39am On Oct 10, 2014
JuicyGee:
Wait first o.. all these dudes saying friendzone friendzone, so you guys mean you cant keep female frnds without being either her bf or bed warmer. Smh undecided..
. Point is if u say we can't date cos we frendz, then don't com back wen u don't av a choice. It is insultin
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by KAYD007(m): 10:23am On Oct 10, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

your head dey for ya a.nus...and you will give such advice to your own brother?
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Komex(m): 10:54am On Oct 10, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

Story for the gods
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by mrnigeria(m): 10:54am On Oct 10, 2014
01karma:
Guy make sure you knack her front and back. I don't have pity for girls again. One nearly run my life.

After spending my school fee on this girl, she dump me the next month, she dey tell me say she be virgin, virgin way dey chop suya, they beg recharge card shocked

well, i had to go and do kponkpon work( carrying stones and sand with clement, digging pit and all hard labours of life) to pay my school fee grin

i for don become drop out na God save me grin

since that time, if i see any girl they come my way i go just change road sharp sharp. shocked because hoes ain't loyal.
Lol bro. This really got me cracking. Hoes aint loyal.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by baba11(m): 11:02am On Oct 10, 2014
01karma:
my brother i suffer enh! shocked
no be small tin ooo..

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