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Tell them o


The vow seems like nothing to them.
I can't imagine swearing before God and his congregation and going back on it.

Tell them o


The vow seems like nothing to them.
I can't imagine swearing before God and his congregation and going back on it.

I just knew from the title that the poster will be a woman. Nigerian women of today, always forming most faithful, yet when they see money they run faster than bolt. I will never forget how a married women slept with adenuga's driver thinking he was his P.A just so as to get contracts, now her marriage is dead and gone. Never say you will never cheat on your spouse, instead pray that God delivers you from all temptation. As long as we are humans we are bound to fail and go astray from time to time, that's why God is so forgiving cause he knows humans are flawed...

bukatyne:
And has done it again! very nice thread

I also wonder
[b]Children out of wedlock are not as stigmatized as before [/b]so I don't know why he/she cannot have one or two kids and keep sleeping around

no child deserves to be stigmatized because s/he is born out of wedlock or for d parents mistake(s).do you know what it can cause? You cant choose who you parents are you know.

Hmmmn God help me ooo. This marriage issue nor be beanz at all oo. God help me.
I think just like we put in every effort to our jobs and carreers to make it work and be a success, the same attitude should be geared towards our marriages as well. Nothing Good comes easy. GOD help me.

Single ladies during their blossom youth years deal with single men, they rough handle and treat them vry badly, they dump them after their hard earned effort, whenever or anyhow they like, they pick among their suitors and use them as they like, some do her upkeep, some recharge phone 4 her, some pay her school fees, some help in doing project 4 her, at the end after getting what they want, they still play on the feelings of these young men, and take it as fun..an average young girl has dated at least 6 boys and a married man, between age 16 to 25, and this is the mild cases, the vry nasty one would have dated about 9 boys, 3 different married men one or two papas. Women re a big creation flop, i wonder how God feels about these lost species, then when they want to get married they hope they would get a faithful husband! Noo laws of karma always prevails, what goes around comes around. Ur husband will always cheat on u, relentlessly, just as u did to many suitors at ur earlier age..

Edusouls:
Single ladies during their blossom youth years deal with single men, they rough handle and treat them vry badly, they dump them after their hard earned effort, whenever or anyhow they like, they pick among their suitors and use them as they like, some do her upkeep, some recharge phone 4 her, some pay her school fees, some help in doing project 4 her, at the end after getting what they want, they still play on the feelings of these young men, and take it as fun..an average young girl has dated at least 6 boys and a married man, between age 16 to 25, and this is the mild cases, the vry nasty one would have dated about 9 boys, 3 different married men one or two papas. Women re a big creation flop, i wonder how God feels about these lost species, then when they want to get married they hope they would get a faithful husband! Noo laws of karma always prevails, what goes around comes around. Ur husband will always cheat on u, relentlessly, just as u did to many suitors at ur earlier age..

6 and 9 boys, 3 married men and 2 papas ke. Stop being economical wiv the numbers. .

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Decryptor:
Cheating Wife Detected!

Why r u worried now?
Do me i do u, man no go vex
He give me syphilis,i give am aids abi hiv, equation balanced!

greatgod2012:
It is very disheartening and amazing, yet trending on how many couples are cheating on each other after they have made a public vow to stick and be faithful to their partner in the presence of God and everyone present at the solemnization of marriage/wedding ceremony.
Many people are no longer ashamed to cheat on their spouses, infact, to some it's like a thing to be proud of when breaking the marital vow.
In the holy book i believe in, it is written therein that, it is better not to make a vow than to make it and not fulfilling it.
While discussing about it with someone, he said maybe those involved in cheating on their partners aint aware that they're breaking any vow, which makes them not better than a betrayer. I think at this junction, we need to examine the vow made by the couple to each other on their wedding day and see if it's different from making a vow..........



To the groom........the officiating minister(either in church or court) asks.....do you (groom's names) promise to take this woman(bride's names) as your legally and only wife, to love and care for in health and sickness, in wealth and poverty, for better and for worse, and also to forsake other women, till death do you part? And the man answers...........Yes, i do!

To the bride.......the officiating minister (either in church or court) asks...........do you(bride's names) take this man(groom's names) as your legal and only husband to love and care, in health and sickness, wealth and poverty, for better and for worse, and also forsaking other men, till death do you part? And the woman answers..........Yes, i do.

If this is not a vow, i wonder what it is.
It is high time people start taking their marriages serious, everybody knows him/herself very well, if you know that you have problem keeping to your marriage vow, then, please remain single, it's better than making a vow and not keeping it.
I don't know the party that is more involved, be it husbands or wives, but please, if you're into extra-marital affairs, please, stop and retrace your steps. Also, if you're planning to get married, ensure and decide to keep to your marital vow, and as you're doing so, you're doing yourself a lot of good as well as putting a stop to all ridiculous stories we hear and read about couples cheating on each other.

Apart from the fact that cheating on one's spouse is unhealthy in every aspect one may look at it, it is also full of regrets at the end of it all.

Before i stop..........a food for thought for us all, treat your spouse the way you want him/her to treat you.


If you're a man, and you're cheating on your wife, how will you feel if it's your wife that is cheating on you?


If you're a woman, and you're cheating on your husband, how will you feel if it's your husband that is cheating on you?

May God help us all.

..... How many of u ladies dey take us in sickness and poverty?

This marriage thing is just too overated,just enjoy it while it last, its usually ended before it begins.

moca:
Hy coogar! Wait a minute!
Did u just say d woman's weight can make d man look outside?
Ok fine
But what about pregnant men?

a pregnant man is still desirable to some. as a nigerian woman, her bargaining power has the same weight of an atom. a woman has little room to manoeuvre...

Me think we hv more pregnant men than fat women and they look disgusting.
Puh! Its a turn off for most ladies and can equally make ladies look outside

U see, equation is balanced here

hardly!
a man's bargaining power is higher than that of a woman....pregnant men or not! you also forget nigeria still allow polygamy - a man can hide under that guise and chase after as many women as he deems fit. women don't have such incentives.

Coogar please I need a favour from you and I know you are capable of doing it




















Please kindly
































shut the fok up







n.b please no be fight

coogar:
a pregnant man is still desirable to some. as a nigerian woman, her bargaining power has the same weight of an atom. a woman has little room to manoeuvre...



hardly!
a man's bargaining power is higher than that of a woman....pregnant men or not! you also forget nigeria still allow polygamy - a man can hide under that guise and chase after as many women as he deems fit. women don't have such incentives.

SAMBARRY:
Coogar please I need a favour from you and I know you are capable of doing it

Please kindly
shut the fok up

n.b please no be fight

you are the type a husband would cheat on. you just possess ears as wide as DSTV dish but it hardly functions.

haven't i told you to make your opinion & leave mine alone? how won't a husband cheat on you with this your disgusting attitude? you have a problem with following simple instruction.

it's not about your humongous bòobs & your adipose-celled bootay. your attitude has to be sparkling too & that includes listening more & talking less when a superior gender is before you.

you are lucky today is sunday, i would have torn you into shreds.

That is your headache. I said shut thefok up because you're fond of arguing blindly but good enough iam not going to engage you with any back and forth discussions because I can't even give you the opportunity to waste 3 minutes of my 24 hours so therefore have a nice day

coogar:
you are the type a husband would cheat on. you just possess ears as wide as DSTV dish but it hardly functions.

haven't i told you to make your opinion & leave mine alone? how won't a husband cheat on you with this your disgusting attitude. you have a problem with following simple instruction.

it's not about your humongous bòobs & your adipose-celled bootay. your attitude has to be sparkling too & that includes listening more & talking less when a superior gender is before you.

you are lucky today is sunday, i would have torn you into shreds.

You rude thing


anyway

okotv:
in other words, cheating a married partner is wrong but sleeping around can be tolerated as long as you are not married

I wonder o

coogar:
a pregnant man is still desirable to some. as a nigerian woman, her bargaining power has the same weight of an atom. a woman has little room to manoeuvre...



hardly!
a man's bargaining power is higher than that of a woman....pregnant men or not! you also forget nigeria still allow polygamy - a man can hide under that guise and chase after as many women as he deems fit. women don't have such incentives.

Naaay!
Any lady that admits to desiring a pregnant man is after d pocket
No wonder d likes of iwuanyawu can still marry at 72.
Also,note that pregnant men hardly lasts in bed. Some cant even perform except when enhancement drug is taken.
Nothing seexxxy about a pregnant man.
They got no reason to be pregnant.
At least some ladies hv genuine reason.

Coogar!
If u r pregnant, i implore u to hit d gym

There is nothing I respect more than the sanctity of marriage. In all my "baddest guy ever liveth" runs i've never gone close to a married woman. Why? Cos I know the implications, when a couple stand before the alter and make vows before man, angels, spirit and God to be faithful to each other, that's some serious sh**t. Wonder why its only adultery and not fornication that's mentioned in the 10commandments? Go figure.
It's not by power, but I hope God will give me the grace never to cheat whenever I get married.

As for those saying if cheating is not okay marriage, then it shouldn't be for relationships. Well my answer to that is simple, how can you cheat on what you don't own? The both of you ain't married for f***sake so nobody owes anybody any allegiance. Only when you're married can you claim right of ownership. Until then "taste the waters" that's my motto

moca:
Naaay!
Any lady that admits to desiring a pregnant man is after d pocket
No wonder d likes of iwuanyawu can still marry at 72.
Also,note that pregnant men hardly lasts in bed. Some cant even perform except when enhancement drug is taken.
Nothing seexxxy about a pregnant man.
They got no reason to be pregnant.
At least some ladies hv genuine reason.

so what do men enjoy in women with humongous tummies? surely, you must get the drift now why husbands may look outside when the wives stop looking attractive.

Coogar!
If u r pregnant, i implore u to hit d gym

i am fitter than a butcher's dog!
the last time i went to the gym, a chic from phillipines followed me home just because of my abs.

SAMBARRY:
That is your headache. I said shut thefok up because you're fond of arguing blindly but good enough iam not going to engage you with any back and forth discussions because I can't even give you the opportunity to waste 3 minutes of my 24 hours so therefore have a nice day

back in the days, i would have had 6 men hold you down in broad day light & have you circumcised on the street. thank your stars we have evolved.

If wishes were horses beggars will ride




unfortunately wishes are not horses and so beggars won't ride. Sorry your dream/wish can't materialize.it will perpetually remain a wish till jesus comes




bet wait o there's still solution.they are selling beautiful dogs in apapa road.you fit buy one and call y friends to take their turns on the dog bet don't forget to padlock im mouth before e bite off that thing you put inside boxers

coogar:
so what do men enjoy in women with humongous tummies? surely, you must get the drift now why husbands may look outside when the wives stop looking attractive.



i am fitter than a butcher's dog!
the last time i went to the gym, a chic from phillipines followed me home just because of my abs.




back in the days, i would have had 6 men hold you down in broad day light & have you circumcised on the street. thank your lucky stars we have evolved.

Edusouls:
Single ladies during their blossom youth years deal with single men, they rough handle and treat them vry badly, they dump them after their hard earned effort, whenever or anyhow they like, they pick among their suitors and use them as they like, some do her upkeep, some recharge phone 4 her, some pay her school fees, some help in doing project 4 her, at the end after getting what they want, they still play on the feelings of these young men, and take it as fun..an average young girl has dated at least 6 boys and a married man, between age 16 to 25, and this is the mild cases, the vry nasty one would have dated about 9 boys, 3 different married men one or two papas. Women re a big creation flop, i wonder how God feels about these lost species, then when they want to get married they hope they would get a faithful husband! Noo laws of karma always prevails, what goes around comes around. Ur husband will always cheat on u, relentlessly, just as u did to many suitors at ur earlier age..

Choi......you are wicked ehhhhhhhh
See casting

greatgod2012:
thank you my sister.
Anyone who can't keep to his/her marital vow but desire to have kids can achieve it without necessarily committing him/herself to any vow.
For men, they can achieve their desire through surrogacy and for women, they can achieve it through anonimous sper*m donation........and every one is happy without causing anybody the heartache of infidelity.

if everybody has the mind set as yours the world will be a better place thumbs up I guess you are a marriage counselor

coogar:
so what do men enjoy in women with humongous tummies? surely, you must get the drift now why husbands may look outside when the wives stop looking attractive.



i am fitter than a butcher's dog!
the last time i went to the gym, a chic from phillipines followed me home just because of my abs.




back in the days, i would have had 6 men hold you down in broad day light & have you circumcised on the street. thank your stars we have evolved.

CHISOS!!!!! Coogar don finish me ooooo! ROTLMSAO!!!!!
Sambarry and you must obviously have had some serious e-quarrels in the past and this current one seems to be a carry over. Fascinating and funny!

On this topic I believe Coogar echoes my thought on the wife's responsibility for keeping herself fit and attractive for the husband. Nothing peeves me as much as a relatively young woman with a protruding belly who ain't pregnant though! Yikessss!

SAMBARRY:
That is your headache. I said shut thefok up because you're fond of arguing blindly but good enough iam not going to engage you with any back and forth discussions because I can't even give you the opportunity to waste 3 minutes of my 24 hours so therefore have a nice day

Spot on. No be today

sandijey:
6 and 9 boys, 3 married men and 2 papas ke. Stop being economical wiv the numbers. .

yea he should cause does numbers are small it should be 13 boys and 7 married men you ladies are quick to judge us men. You ladies think you can have fun with who ever you want b4 marriage then when u r married you now want to settle down I think men will settle down to I don't think so

CzarChris:
There is nothing I respect more than the sanctity of marriage. In all my "baddest guy ever liveth" runs i've never gone close to a married woman. Why? Cos I know the implications, when a couple stand before the alter and make vows before man, angels, spirit and God to be faithful to each other, that's some serious sh**t. Wonder why its only adultery and not fornication that's mentioned in the 10commandments? Go figure.
It's not by power, but I hope God will give me the grace never to cheat whenever I get married.

As for those saying if cheating is not okay marriage, then it shouldn't be for relationships. Well my answer to that is simple, how can you cheat on what you don't own? The both of you ain't married for f***sake so nobody owes anybody any allegiance. Only when you're married can you claim right of ownership. Until then "taste the waters" that's my motto

@bold

If this is your attitude, then let your girlfriend know about it so that she won't sleep with you without protecting herself, trusting that your relationship is exclusive and that you won't infect her with any STDs.

Seened:
CHISOS!!!!! Coogar don finish me ooooo! ROTLMSAO!!!!!
Sambarry and you must obviously have had some serious e-quarrels in the past and this current one seems to be a carry over. Fascinating and funny!

On this topic I believe Coogar echoes my thought on the wife's responsibility for keeping herself fit and attractive for the husband. Nothing peeves me as much as a relatively young woman with a protruding belly who ain't pregnant though! Yikessss!

it's a turn off!
a friend of mine told me how his wife went to the mall & his colleague saw her. few moments later, the colleague called my friend to congratulate him of his wife's "pregnancy".

my friend was like - "my wife? pregnant?" it took a while before it registered in his head that his wife's protruding belly has been mistaken as pregnancy - and i dunno if it's me, you hardly ever see black women in the gym.

they would rather use their money to buy indian hair.

SAMBARRY:
If wishes were horses beggars will ride
unfortunately wishes are not horses and so beggars won't ride. Sorry your dream/wish can't materialize.it will perpetually remain a wish till jesus comes
bet wait o there's still solution.they are selling beautiful dogs in apapa road.you fit buy one and call y friends to take their turns on the dog bet don't forget to padlock im mouth before e bite off that thing you put inside boxers

you have had your 8 minutes of being in the limelight now, it's time for you to take a hike if you don't have anything to contribute.

The truth of d matter x pple dnt fear God d way dy fear tins of d earth. Some bodi wll b in God's presence mak a vow neva 2 do a particular tin n in 2years or less u wll see d person doin it. D tin it who wll cheat wll always cheat whether he/she has made d vow or not. A guy/girl who can hardly maintain a single r/ship wt find it diffcult 2 stick 2 one partner after marriage. It keeps me wondering wen I hear some info dat afta 1-3 years of marriage dat couples re planning 2 divorce cos 1 of d partner x cheatin!!!! God hear our prayers.

@Coogar;

Now thats funny!
Personally it's been a source of worry for me lately: getting a girl who will be committed to staying fit as I am. After all the 5 1/2 packs I am working out on is partly because of her.

I am like "I want to be my best for my boo", and she's like "whatever! I just need me a made man". WTF!!!!

BABE3:
It's like it's a law for Nigerian women to add at least 20 kg after marraige. Have you seen Dakore Egbuson lately?
It's also a law for them to switch to tieing wrappers.

How do we except married men not to cheat biko?
How hard is it to control your appearance and what you put in your mouth....

You know, I am sometimes tempted to think you are not a lady.

What of ladies who are fit, good in bed and gives husbby regularly and the men still cheat?

Like the OP clearly stated, if a person cannot stick to his/her vows, don't bother

Farouksenior:
Bottom Line : add the fEar of God. [most dudes nd babes claim Godfearing durin courtship but after marriage...kabooom!!!!]

Honestly that is the koko

Infact, people who do not have the fear of God shouldnot bother with church/court wedding.Go for trad and be fine.

If you jknow that size matters after when he or she adds, you will cheat, do trad.