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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 7:54am On Oct 13, 2014

Hadizy:
Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie!

Best comment so far. A Million Likes

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by silversonuc(m): 7:55am On Oct 13, 2014

priscaoge:
Once you are 25, stop entertaining people u see NO future with Be focused. Mind the things u do and people u hang out with.

prisca marry me pls @kneeling@

Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Timkush(m): 7:56am On Oct 13, 2014

donroxy:
I have never date a girl that is not a toast of Marriage because I wouldn't wanto mistakenly give her belle and forcefully make her my babymama ... I don't like condom too !!

hmmmmmm.....story from the gods.....lier .....you think say we be leaner or novice for here ....abeg pack your story go ur village .......

Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by gidjah(m): 8:07am On Oct 13, 2014

[quote author=Hadizy post=27069868]Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

GOD BLESS U MY DEAR,u just gave out my mind.Hadiza,what state r u from?

Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by ibietela2(m): 8:10am On Oct 13, 2014

kenex4ever:
yes u can 070389719**, to get d remaining two numbers, they r d 303rd and the 1004th value of PIE. Am her manager-I manage her affairs.

Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 8:13am On Oct 13, 2014

Hadizy:
Lol. I also liked yiur post too. **run, i just kissed someone i wont marry*

really? I'm up for the version whr eryone isn't present

Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 8:14am On Oct 13, 2014

Hadizy:
no was a joke. However i have tested it once was curious to know how sweet it was that most guys admired it. Found it was bitter.

@Hadizy hahaha alcohol sweet die.

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by mstik(f): 8:18am On Oct 13, 2014

I can't date someone that I can't see myself ending up with in the future
no matter how much I like the guy
I can't be jumping in and out of relationships like a secondary school girl
I'm too old for that crap

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by abdulwastecx(m): 8:23am On Oct 13, 2014

chizzy94:
Relationships is like having to pay extra bills. Fvck that! Money over these bitches because they breed envy ..
Nigga, if you plan to be rich you need to work your as.s off and quit chasing anything under skirt.
When you get it right, they'd come right running after you.

i like this bro....
women worship money, if u want women to worship you, then work ur as.s off to get as much money as you can.

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by abdulwastecx(m): 8:30am On Oct 13, 2014

Dating is a form of legalized prostitution... most girls end up dating more than 10 partners before they end up with the so call husband ( aka looser).

it is really heart briken to know that some niggas had already dig your lady..life goes on.

marriage is overrated like all Nigerian traditions. dating is great because it allows nigga to dig hard without paying directly

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Dominicpupuru(m): 8:48am On Oct 13, 2014

Hadizy:
Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie!

So true, this is the most sensible comment i've read here today, kudos!

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by RuuDie(m): 8:53am On Oct 13, 2014

Hadizy:
Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie!

Sh*t... I am in LOVE!!!

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Elcapo(m): 9:02am On Oct 13, 2014

Hadizy:
Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie!

Whoa I must say you're really amazing, I respect your level of reasoning. Bravo!

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by wo1F(m): 9:04am On Oct 13, 2014

Unsurprisingly Hadizy gets all the mention for that eloquent post. At any rate it was an inspired post. There's very few ladies I know with such command of written english and mad comprehension; a certain kinkybraids and now yourself.
Some guy here said he's never seen a girl write that intelligently in his lifetime. He may be right, take him VERY seriously. Keep on stretching your quotient, there is no limit to what you can accomplish.
Plus you're a liberal too. Chaii omo na babes like you dey make me tear shirt fight for viewing centre cheesy

. Check my siggy

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Sogen2(f): 9:07am On Oct 13, 2014

chimerase2:
I would hv been married by nw but she is a witness so she left the man of God
So believe u me I can't do dat unless na side chick way wn give me cat chop
Mind u dat is not dating

so for hw long did u date the witness?

Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by enigmang: 9:08am On Oct 13, 2014

Hadizy:
Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie!

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 9:36am On Oct 13, 2014

Rajan04:
really? I'm up for the version whr eryone isn't present

Lol! Naughty. Don't let my bro see this he will kill you.

[quote author=gidjah post=27098857][/quote]Mix.
Adamawa and Edo

Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 9:44am On Oct 13, 2014

[quote author=Hadizy post=27100880]Lol! Naughty. Don't let my bro see this he will kill you.

Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 9:44am On Oct 13, 2014

Hadizy:
Lol! Naughty. Don't let my bro see this he will kill you.

Mix.
Adamawa and Edo

@Hadizy Adamawa n Edo is that 4 u?

Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Lywiled: 9:44am On Oct 13, 2014

irishCream:
See pretenders everywhere...

When y'all (babes) know deep down ur reason for dating that nigga is for his cash

Or good seex finish

Aside from that u shld be courting not dating

And the guys be test running and sampling punany in the name of dating

Dating without sex is almost impossible. Hollywood has trivialized sex. But we must know that sex is more spiritual than it is physical. because for every1 u sleep with, u form a bond called soul-tie.

Imagine if u've slept with 10 diff persons, how confused u'll b with all those souls tied 2 urs. I'm sure we heard abt 'not being able 2 4get our first love.'
It can also affect u in ur future marriage, causing trust -issues.

In conclusion, if u dn't envisage a person as being ur soul-mate 4 life, dn't think of dating d person. Lol

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 9:57am On Oct 13, 2014

Sogen2:
so for hw long did u date the witness?

good morning ,how u

Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by SAINTDADA: 10:07am On Oct 13, 2014

temigracie:
...I cant date anyone I cant marry.....

Thats one of the major reasons I look out for some important qualities in men I consider dating.....

.....What you cant eat, dont smell it.....lailai!!!.....

atimes u gotta smell it to really knw weda its what u can eat.. That was how I learnt how to eat okpa

Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 10:22am On Oct 13, 2014

Ipledge:
so you think what i said didnt go with the topic

#withThePen... EXACTLY!!!

Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 10:25am On Oct 13, 2014

Timkush:
hmmmmmm.....story from the gods.....lier .....you think say we be leaner or novice for here ....abeg pack your story go ur village .......

Abeg see me see wahala from these yeye people ... U think say everyone is a member of ya village where breaking heart is so normal as passing zhit !! .....

If you believe me you go dash me somtin tongue

Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by brilapluz(m): 10:26am On Oct 13, 2014*

kaboninc:
Some of you guys are just silly. I should go back and slowly read your comment...because you want to present yourself as what..? You should go read my reply to your comment. Always looking for grounds to throw out insults. You miss road.

This is your reply when I asked you if you know what your future holds:

And then I said 'WOW!.....'

Can't you understand simple English words or you're that daft that you feel like starting the day with insults?

Abeg don't add your diseased mindset to this already diseased world. If nothing to do, sleep, morning never break.

....park well joor...i dont have time for people like you....if you know you don't have the patience or the humilty cheesy

to read what i had written from the start,why did you quote me and when did reading and comprehending become an insult to you? shocked

next time mind your own business and forward march.... tongue

what i wrote in my FIRST statement was very clear to all as my OWN OPINION (got that ? cheesy

)...i bet you wud say i have insulted you again grin

Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by daryoor(m): 10:28am On Oct 13, 2014

Hadizy:
Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie!

im gon find you and marry u for this commentaire

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 10:31am On Oct 13, 2014

freecocoa:
So people now see the future and I didn't know? I must be in another planet.

Just how do you know you'll end up marrying the one you date/dating?

If there's one thing I'm sure of in this life, it is that, no one knows what tomorrow holds, therefore impossible is nothing.

tell them

Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 11:06am On Oct 13, 2014

gidjah:
MY dear,dat na SERIOUS trouble abi na gobe !most of us young men hav fallen prey to such antics .but how can u tel if shes is going to be or not?u could start wit d intention of marriage but suddenly noticed she is a no no !How For Do In That Case?

What I mean is that I can't date someone I can never marry,it doesn't mean I want to marry,but when things go wrong,she can stil be see with me as wife

Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by dmediator555(m): 11:07am On Oct 13, 2014

Rapsodee:
Is it dangerous?
Will you advice someone to date a girl he knows he will not marry?
And why say so?

Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by SAINTDADA: 11:10am On Oct 13, 2014

Hadizy:
Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!

Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?

Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.

All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.

Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie!

your analogy is quite baseless as far as am concerned... Yes I recognize the fact that not all relationships must end in marriage... But 4 u to come out here and tell us to jst do things cos it makes us feel happy shows how selfish, naive, and immature u r.... Secondly let me remind you that only fools live for the now alone, cos ur now is often times the bearing to ur future.... Get into a relationship with whom u love and can live the rest of ur life with, however relationships are pretty much unpredictable thus if it ends in marriage Halleluya, If it doesnt, pick up the valuable experiences gained and move on... Only "kids" and hopeless folks jst get into a relationship 4 the sake of it.. and if sex is ur priority, u dont even have to b in a relationship to acheive that... Am sure u wudnt advice ur kids to jst get laid cos it makes them happy otherwise u bcome a mother devoid of any moral virtue whatsover... Some of ur points were valid but d overall tone of ur msg sounds morally bankrupt. Peace!

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by brilapluz(m): 11:28am On Oct 13, 2014

SAINTDADA:
your analogy is quite baseless as far as am concerned... Yes I recognize the fact that not all relationships must end in marriage... But 4 u to come out here and tell us to jst do things cos it makes us feel happy shows how selfish, naive, and immature u r.... Secondly let me remind you that only fools live for the now alone, cos ur now is often times the bearing to ur future.... Get into a relationship with whom u love and can live the rest of ur life with, however relationships are pretty much unpredictable thus if it ends in marriage Halleluya, If it doesnt, pick up the valuable experiences gained and move on... Only "kids" and hopeless folks jst get into a relationship 4 the sake of it.. and if sex is ur priority, u dont even have to b in a relationship to acheive that... Am sure u wudnt advice ur kids to jst get laid cos it makes them happy otherwise u bcome a mother devoid of any moral virtue whatsover... Some of ur points were valid but d overall tone of ur msg sounds morally bankrupt. Peace!

you are absolutely right jare....ad infinitum likes!!!

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Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by Nobody: 11:48am On Oct 13, 2014

irishCream:
See pretenders everywhere...

When y'all (babes) know deep down ur reason for dating that nigga is for his cash

Or good seex finish

Aside from that u shld be courting not dating

And the guys be test running and sampling punany in the name of dating

Iyanmi, adiaga afo ba mi? Ku tang aba! Sai! Afo may nam eti eti, atang attah akpaniko.

Nmuah! cheesy

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