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Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by lottoe(m): 9:52am On Oct 19, 2014
In my own view a lady that truly loves you will never demand a pin from you, she will even be the one buying things for you. I have dated up to 4girls that i never bought anything for at the start of the relationship, they kept buying things for me, and they were actually concerned about my wellbeing, after studying them for sometimes, i buy gifts for them with joy and they really appreciated it and they never saw it as their right. My advise to the OP is to date a lady that truly love you, infact you will notice she will never demand anything from you.

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 10:16am On Oct 19, 2014
lottoe:
In my own view a lady that truly loves you will never demand a pin from you, she will even be the one buying things for you. I have dated up to 4girls that i never bought anything for at the start of the relationship, they kept buying things for me, and they were actually concerned about my wellbeing, after studying them for sometimes, i buy gifts for them with joy and they really appreciated it and they never saw it as their right. My advise to the OP is to date a lady that truly love you, infact you will notice she will never demand anything from you.
true and a man who truly loves you would not expect any sexxual intercourse from you, he will stay loyal and faithful until your wedding night.

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Sarimah(f): 10:48am On Oct 19, 2014
MisterLongman:

They are not ugly, they are archaic..... And that I believe is worse than ugly...... And most of them are just pretending despite all the facade
ok.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Sarimah(f): 10:56am On Oct 19, 2014
obitee69:


Most of dem. They look pale and dull with a weak fashion sense? Are u an SU cheesy
I'm the founder grin
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by lottoe(m): 11:02am On Oct 19, 2014
Mondisweets:
true and a man who truly loves you would not expect any sexxual intercourse from you, he will stay loyal and faithful until your wedding night.
Yes!, i personally support that, but unfortunately, how many ladies nowadays want to remain a virgin till they get married. Another thing i noticed is that it takes the support of both parties to keep the virginity of the lady till marriage, from my experience almost all ladies tend to give in to a guy when they are madly in love with him,and it just like a reflex act, they cant control it, so it takes a very huge support of the guy to curb her when she tend to get high in love and show some flirtatious behavior.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 11:28am On Oct 19, 2014
obitee69:
Why do most girls in naija especially Lasgidi have this "I must chop mentality"

Immediately a relationship begins, they come with all sortaa demands like: Obie pls can you help me with 10k, Obie can u help me complete my rent? Obie I'm hungry come let's go buy pizza. (when I have a fridge loaded with food) This has caused me not to date a babe for long.

Can't I meet a girl that says: Obie, Let's go to shoprite today. The bills on me!! Or Obie take this 5k and fill ur tank! Or Obie let's not go eat out. Lemme cook u a nice meal please save your money for the future? Can I ever meet such girls?

Of course....But that has to be after Jesus's 2nd coming.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 11:31am On Oct 19, 2014
Nobleval:
Majority of Nigerian girls are hungry....

I have said it & keep saying it.

That Nigerian gurls has been dependent since 1956,they were left behind when Nigeria gained independence on Oct 1st 1960,in which only the men were carried along up on till now 2014,the women of Nigeria must depend on men for survival

#Liability #Liquidity #Burden #Trash #Pity

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 12:16pm On Oct 19, 2014
3cycle:
Broke guys on nairaland. grin
If you can't help a girlfriend in need you have no business starting a relationship.

Being in need comes once in a while(take note),but asking a guy money for cream,breakfast,hair do,airtime...et cetera,is way beyond being greedy,selfish,hungry & dependent.

So stop making it look like we responsible for their 99 problems azz¿

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by dahmylolah(m): 1:35pm On Oct 19, 2014
obongproff:



Babe its not stereotyping. Its d fact oh. Its so bad cos der are more female parasites dan female sane-headed ppl. Now sef day fear to toast bae dis days cos after some days recharge card mata don begin come out. Even d so-called working class babes day follow ask for recharge card. U toast a chic at d office, d next day she wants u to buy her lunch upon say her salary plenty pass ur own. Na wa oh!

D idea of just wanting to 'collect' from guys just doesn't make sense. wink
this shi happened to me ooo... this chic earns much more than i do .. and yet .. she would be like... lunch this ... movies dat ..shopping this ....mehn i tire .....the day she went out and got me lunch .... i had to stop everything i was doing that day ... formed sickness and rushed home ...see praya cos mehn..rapture was bound to happen any min from when i collect that lunch bag ooo grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 2:01pm On Oct 19, 2014
SeaGold:
You are attracted to all this modern tweaking fake girls.

You meet a girl with Brazilian hair, high end phone, designer outfits and in all of her appearance she is jobless and you approach her....


Bro. Na your wallet ooh she dey find.
eye opener
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 2:04pm On Oct 19, 2014
Annypie:
Bet i dnt do dah na*puffy eyes*buh really u guys shuld stop ds sterotype and general perception u haf abt us jare..if nuh,u wuld keep meeting ds type o!
u'v neva done dt b4?? At least 10 times grin
Today is Sunday o. Don't lie o
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 2:39pm On Oct 19, 2014
its a pity.
sauceny:


I have said it & keep saying it.

That Nigerian gurls has been dependent since 1956,they were left behind when Nigeria gained independence on Oct 1st 1960,in which only the men were carried along up on till now 2014,the women of Nigeria must depend on men for survival

#Liability #Liquidity #Burden #Trash #Pity
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 4:45pm On Oct 19, 2014
AgapeCharis:
u'v neva done dt b4?? At least 10 times grin
Today is Sunday o. Don't lie o
lool..chai!d boy haf catch mi oo..oya leme tink,hmmm*its blank*see,am innocent jhrr
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 4:51pm On Oct 19, 2014
Annypie:
lool..chai!d boy haf catch mi oo..oya leme tink,hmmm*its blank*see,am innocent jhrr
innoshent my.......

And come to think of it. U'r a Lagos girl...Hmmmmmmmmmmmm smiley
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 5:01pm On Oct 19, 2014
AgapeCharis:
innoshent my.......

And come to think of it. U'r a Lagos girl...Hmmmmmmmmmmmm smiley
lol..lagos gal kwa??abeg oo.waheva dah tag means..i just live dere ni,i shuttled between lag and enugu tho..so am still innocent!
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 5:01pm On Oct 19, 2014
AgapeCharis:
innoshent my.......

And come to think of it. U'r a Lagos girl...Hmmmmmmmmmmmm smiley
lol..lagos gal kwa??abeg oo.waheva dah tag means..i just live dere ni,i shuttle between lag and enugu tho..so am still innocent!
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 5:07pm On Oct 19, 2014
Annypie:
lol..lagos gal kwa??abeg oo.waheva dah tag means..i just live dere ni,i shuttle between lag and enugu tho..so am still innocent!
eeehn! Enugu? Interesting...d state I did my nysc...ke ka ime? grin

It doesn't make u innocent sha tongue
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 5:11pm On Oct 19, 2014
AgapeCharis:
eeehn! Enugu? Interesting...d state I did my nysc...ke ka ime? grin

It doesn't make u innocent sha tongue
loool..be lookin 4 a crime partner ooo...i am innocent,i am innocent....stop johr!oya just pretend to believe,if nuh...
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 5:14pm On Oct 19, 2014
Annypie:
loool..be lookin 4 a crime partner ooo...i am innocent,i am innocent....stop johr!oya just pretend to believe,if nuh...
Lol
If nuh,,,,wat? undecided
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 5:23pm On Oct 19, 2014
AgapeCharis:
Lol
If nuh,,,,wat? undecided
hmm..if nuh,i will so quit on you,and ur little man wuld be forever starved,....so,just affirm am innocent!*cz i really am jare
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 5:27pm On Oct 19, 2014
Annypie:
hmm..if nuh,i will so quit on you,and ur little man wuld be forever starved,....so,just affirm am innocent!*cz i really am jare
cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy
Oohk...I affirm....















Wait a minute!











Mba! I am winning this. I'll gt u to affirm you are nt tongue tongue
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 5:32pm On Oct 19, 2014
AgapeCharis:
cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy
Oohk...I affirm....















Wait a minute!











Mba! I am winning this. I'll gt u to affirm you are nt tongue tongue
loool!who be ds stubborn dude abeg?? na dere u go old oo..:p
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 5:46pm On Oct 19, 2014
Annypie:
loool!who be ds stubborn dude abeg?? na dere u go old oo..:p
hahaha
U can't jx gv up on me.....plllllsss embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed

grin grin
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 5:49pm On Oct 19, 2014
Nobleval:
Majority of Nigerian girls are hungry....

Abeg collect one punnanie ontop my head.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 5:51pm On Oct 19, 2014
[quote
author=AgapeCharis post=27278296]hahaha
U can't jx gv up on me.....plllllsss embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed

grin grin[/quote]Awwwn,see ur puppy face sha oo..oya beg me first!if nuh,ur
littleman wuld kick d bucket oo..u sure dnt wana take chances hun
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 5:57pm On Oct 19, 2014
Annypie:
Awwwn,see ur puppy face sha oo..oya beg me first!if nuh,ur
littleman wuld kick d bucket oo..u sure dnt wana take chances hun
kick wetin??
Abeg o

Abeg o

Abeg o

Abeg o

Abeg o

Abeg o

Abeg o

Abeg o

Abeg o

Dt should b enough abeg for now and d future smiley
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 5:59pm On Oct 19, 2014
AgapeCharis:
kick wetin??
Abeg o

Abeg o

Abeg o

Abeg o

Abeg o

Abeg o

Abeg o

Abeg o

Abeg o

Dt should b enough abeg for now and d future smiley
lmao!


you never start.....shebi ya stubborn na!*hahahhahahahahahahahha..u knw dah winch laugh abi
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 6:10pm On Oct 19, 2014
Annypie:
lmao!


you never start.....shebi ya stubborn na!*hahahhahahahahahahahha..u knw dah winch laugh abi
holy ghost fire!
I satisfy sanctify myself grin
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 7:14pm On Oct 19, 2014
AgapeCharis:
holy ghost fire!
I satisfy sanctify myself grin
lool..call jesus join na

na 4 2day's meeting we go discuss ur case sef
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by CoCoLav(f): 7:25pm On Oct 19, 2014
If I love a guy, its my pleasure to at least take him out once in a while. I have never dated a guy I didn't buy something for, at least I must know your shirt size and shoe size. But with the number of male leeches I have met, I have decided to lock up. I won't ask and you too don't ask. The minute you buy me something without me asking then my own purse opens without limit. I love a cheerful giver because I am one myself but if I am not sure of your intentions then I'm not spending a dime on you.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by Nobody: 7:43pm On Oct 19, 2014
CoCoLav:
If I love a guy, its my pleasure to at least take him out once in a while. I have never dated a guy I didn't buy something for, at least I must know your shirt size and shoe size. But with the number of male leeches I have met, I have decided to lock up. I won't ask and you too don't ask. The minute you buy me something without me asking then my own purse opens without limit. I love a cheerful giver because I am one myself but if I am not sure of your intentions then I'm not spending a dime on you.

Awwn u must have a nice heart
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Have This "Obiageli" (we Have Come To Chop) Mentality by CoCoLav(f): 7:45pm On Oct 19, 2014
obitee69:


Awwn u must have a nice heart


Awww! thanks. *blushing*

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