Mrskillz1:
Owk, I've read Tim Lahaye's why you act the way you do and am san-phleg. I'm 90% san_phleg and 10% choleric.

This is a really nice thread

Phleg-mel. Always known that. My bestfriend is a Choleric. That's why we don't get along.

sparkleice:
Am San/Mel

melchol:

lively when with friends, moody when alone. Cld be emotional attimes...

spicyv1:
Just wanted to add Dammytex, all θf those faults you mentioned, you will only find in a choleric who hasn't dealt with those issues. I for one, being Choleric, I am naturally prone to impatience and anger. But when I saw the negative impact it had on my relationship with spouse and people I had to make a decision to change and work at changing. I haven't stopped being passionate and opinionated because that cannot change, I have only learnt to pay more attention and respect to other peoples opinion. Rather than doing things on my own, I find myself asking for input and honestly, I made an amazing discovery, there is power in submission! Honestly! And since the choleric is a power freak lol, that discovery has been a major tool. At least I still get to have my way and every other person is happy. Isn't that just devious? ( Making the wicked sound laugh. Hehehohohaha.

Onegai:
So what will a Sanguine Melancholic female like me need? I tend to like Phleg-Chlors, but they're all laid-back jerks (ignoring me after coming on strong).

Here's the thing: Sometimes, a choleric suits another choleric. You can't always use temperament as a guide. All I know is that I've never seen a dominant sanguine marry another dominant sanguine, someone has to shut up eventually. I have seen San-Chlor marry Chlor-San, some are unhappy.

dammytex:


OK mami,
Why I want a Mel-San? I'd still prefer her to a Mel-chol. Things will be a lot easy with her and I'm not sure I like female competition, I like to just respect and honour her for whom she is. Being a Mel, the most difficult thing about her would have to be mood swings and that I understand.

Out-think me; maybe. Out-smart me; even maybe but out-charm me; never (trust your guy naa). My Sanguine no be mumu oooo.
BBC Knowledge+Comedy Central=Perfecto. I always love humour while learning things. I remember things learnt while flexing than things learnt being serious. In fact, I hate being serious (weird right? don't worry; I know). Only God knows how I will propose. In school, I used to read my Engineering Maths textbook (Stroud 1 & 2) while strolling up and down the street.

Conscience; I guess that's a plus to my advantage.
Super organized; thank God. At last, I can find my pairs of socks well arranged somewhere.
Are you saying, Mel-sans could also be a Michelle Obama, a good political wife? Yeh pa!!!

Willing to pay any amount for a free MEL-SAN in the house please...

Waiting...

chiheal:
A mel-chlor. She wakes up happy and full wit life n energy. She sees a butterfly helpless n almost dead n suddenly her eyes ar full with tears.
She gets to d bus park n she refuses to pay #10 increase Whc was placed by d driver. She finally gets her way wit d driver n kept d #10. less Dan 5kms away sees a begging disable n gives him #200. She gets to d office n is smiling wit everyone n BT CNT stand any one delaying her plans to meet her target. D pens are well arranged n every file appropriately filed she helps a client a little too much because of d cute child. She gets home n expects everything to b in d its place else she becomes immediately tensed n sad. She makes dinner n he didn't eat or didnt compliment her meal. Next she is thinking maybe he doesn't like my food anymore n blurts out her feeling n he apologies d next she doesn't feel like seeing or speaking to anyone until her work is dn. She watches movies n cry half d way. You break up wit her n she doesn't care n tells u she is happy to kiss ur sorry ass gudbye n a month or 2 mnths later she is calling u asking to know wat she did wrong n argues wit u abt hw it wasn't her fault BT urs. Wen she loves n is convinced dt u love her; she publicise it every chance she gets; fights to defend her love for u to who ever think she shudn't love u.
DTS d life of a mel-chor

chiheal:
A mel-chlor. She wakes up happy and full wit life n energy. She sees a butterfly helpless n almost dead n suddenly her eyes ar full with tears.
She gets to d bus park n she refuses to pay #10 increase Whc was placed by d driver. She finally gets her way wit d driver n kept d #10. less Dan 5kms away sees a begging disable n gives him #200. She gets to d office n is smiling wit everyone n BT CNT stand any one delaying her plans to meet her target. D pens are well arranged n every file appropriately filed she helps a client a little too much because of d cute child. She gets home n expects everything to b in d its place else she becomes immediately tensed n sad. She makes dinner n he didn't eat or didnt compliment her meal. Next she is thinking maybe he doesn't like my food anymore n blurts out her feeling n he apologies d next she doesn't feel like seeing or speaking to anyone until her work is dn. She watches movies n cry half d way. You break up wit her n she doesn't care n tells u she is happy to kiss ur sorry ass gudbye n a month or 2 mnths later she is calling u asking to know wat she did wrong n argues wit u abt hw it wasn't her fault BT urs. Wen she loves n is convinced dt u love her; she publicise it every chance she gets; fights to defend her love for u to who ever think she shudn't love u.
DTS d life of a mel-chor

faith2ogesco:
love Melchor ladies. dunno y.
love Melchor ladies. dunno y.

chiheal:
u ar right abt d way we calm down. My bf tells me to shut up whenever am getting tensed n we laugh it off

chiheal:
My dear it can b devastating even for us melchor most times. Like getting pple to do stuff n wntin everytin to b perfect Whc nearly Neva happens except am dealing wit a mel-chlor or mel-phlag. Am even quite amused dt u find us charming cos only he who wears d Shoe knows WHR it hurt

chiheal:
U ar absolutely right so Whc ar u? Sanpleg?

Mosandie:
Im a full blown phleg...a little mel i think. Read dis frm beginning to end..(after setting work aside cos i think ive worked hard enough this week, team TGIF) and guess what

Khene24:
This is a nice thread.
So I just found out that I'm a Melsan.. Gives reason for my mood swings and pretty explains why I act the way I do most times.

Melsan:
Interesting!!!

MissJoy29:

You a MelSan?