veegirl:

U're Talkin trash. Wat do u know abt self worth? I hope u're a virgin else i'll b very disappointed.

26 and still a virgin. See, is not about being judgemental. We all make mistakes but making our mistakes sound justifiable is a no no. Btw, i'm a Christian and not a hypocrite.

Lordlexyy:
26 and still a virgin. See, is not about being judgemental. We all make mistakes but making our mistakes sound justifiable is a no no. Btw, i'm a Christian and not a hypocrite.

1) Are u even male or female?
2) Are u a virgin by choice or just lack of opportunity?
3) I hope u dont ma$turbate or watch porn cos if u want to b a virgin mk sure u do it 2 d last.
N.B i'm not tryin to justify any mistake. Did u hear me say goin to his house wz a mistake?

Mrfils:
Gee! Op forget! Which one is "use and dump"? We all use each other na? Why making it one-sided?

what op wrote does not change anything it will still happen more to ladies,na 2day yarn.sh dy for back.

Lordlexyy:
Yeah, its aint crime i know but the act doesn't make it appropriate either. Except perhaps, your self worth means nothing to u, that i understand.

i think you are being bit of harsh and judgemental here cos its nt really abt self worth,i wouldnt judge any1 here cos you wouldnt know wat the lady is facing..most ladies does dat to please their so called boyfriends.well one tin is certain,most guys dnt value girls that agrees to evrytin they says,atimes you ve got to be difficult.but dnt be over difficult.

Thank you jare, op. Some girls just like being dumb and silly, just like the one across my place. Spends everyday with the boyfriend, when the guy's mum travelled, she literally moved in as wife and mother. And the most annoying part is that the guy is still in school, not someone that can take care of you if anything should happen. I hope the guy marries her sha, cause if he doesn't, hmmm, na God go judge them.

veegirl:

1) Are u even male or female?
2) Are u a virgin by choice or just lack of opportunity?
3) I hope u dont ma$turbate or watch porn cos if u want to b a virgin mk sure u do it 2 d last.
N.B i'm not tryin to justify any mistake. Did u hear me say goin to his house wz a mistake?

Listen girl, i don't follow what rules society lays. I am first a Christian and i allow my conduct to be guided by God's prescription (the Word). Like i said earlier, i make mistakes but i don't dwell on it to justify it. As to your question, i decided to be one and God provided the right environment. I am a full blown young man with vision and aspiration.

Dozie730:
what op wrote does not change anything it will still happen more to ladies,na 2day yarn.sh dy for back.

Yh it must happen in fact! Who said it wouldn't? My beef is dat he made it sound as if boys jst 'use n dumb' girls... Its a giv n take something na

valkaka:



i think you are being bit of harsh and judgemental here cos its nt really abt self worth,i wouldnt judge any1 here cos you wouldnt know wat the lady is facing..most ladies does dat to please their so called boyfriends.well one tin is certain,most guys dnt value girls that agrees to evrytin they says,atimes you ve got to be difficult.but dnt be over difficult.

Stop the twist and turn. Nobody put a knife to your neck to submit your womaniless, is a choice and be ready to face the consequences. What is bad is bad, stop sugar coating it to sound reasonable. God and tradition abhour it.

ladies never learn, guys never change

Truth be told, some ladies hate the truth and the cool or straight guys are to them boring. They simply love the challenges

valkaka:
..no man who
wanna marry you for real
and loves you, will agree
to you coming to spend a
night or weekends in his
house..

I'm a proof that your assertion above is wrong. Since it worked for me, it worked and can work for others as well.
I support you giving morals to ladies, but backing it up with unverified facts is a gross error of overgeneralization.
I chose to ignore the remaining part because it is an insult to the women I and some men have given our last names.
I don't expect remorse from you. I just want to set you aright.

Ladies ladies ladies. Topic don finish for NL? Only ladies ladies ladies since morning.

Well said op..if only my fellow ladies will listen

Lordlexyy:
Listem girl, i don't follow what rules society lays. I am first a Christian and i allow my conduct to be guided by God's prescription. Like i said earlier, i make mistakes but i don't dwell on it to justify it. As to your question, i decided to be one and God provided the right environment. I am a full blown young man with vision and aspiration.

prescription bawo ??
Like say heaven na one big pharmarcy with God as its pharmacist and we humans a large bulk of sick bleeps....

sounds true though

valkaka:
LADIES, for a man told you
' i will marry you ' doesn't
mean that he WILL or HAS
married you, whenever i
view my inbox, i see
laughable messages like '
he said he will marry me
and this is the 3rd year
since the day he said it ' he
promised to marry me and
now am pregenant for
him and am afraid to tell
my parent ' since the day
he told me he will marry
me, i have being satisfying
him sexually and he is not
making it realistic, bla bla
bla..

C'mon LADIES, believe me,
most females this day
who got prego and
dumped, were as a result
of ' promised marriage
and not fulfilled '.. When
will you girls learn and
grow up, i believe a lady
who is waiting on GOD
ain't waiting on man..

" man propose, God
dispose " doesn't mean
you sleep in man's house
every weekend and satisfy
him sexually, making
yourself a slave to the
word ' i will marry you '.

Let me tell you
something,. My elder sister
never for once introduced
her boyfriend or any man
to the family until a man
came to the house himself
and made his intention
known to my family,.. You
don't have to introduce
every man who says ' i go
marry you ' to your family,
show some respect and
save yourself some
humliation, if a man
wanna show some proof,
give him your folks
address..

Stop falling cheap to sex
starved kids., no man who
wanna marry you for real
and loves you, will agree
to you coming to spend a
night or weekends in his
house, thats a direct word
for PROSTITUTE.

A real Man keeps to his
word of a life together
with a woman and see it
fruitful NOT to take
advantage of her because
he drops the word '
marriage ' on her.. Alot of
our ladies have being used
and dumped, but a
woman who knows her
self worth can't fall for
such nonsense..

‪#‎BE_WISE‬ °
‪#‎smiles‬ °

OP the same LADIES u claim that have been USED and DUMPED , ain't they getting MARRIED..?
DID THEY ever complain to u that MEN are not doing so
..?
OR do u think GOD will MOULD new LADIES for the men..?
MOST men still take home FINISHT PRODUCT of another man..
U just have to ADVISE the MEN ok...!!!!
ADVISE MEN to insist strictly on VIRGINS when settling down..DAT will make our LADIES secure their VIRGINITY and further curtail mpuu..!!!

Lordlexyy:
Stop the twist and turn. Nobody hand a knife on your neck to submit your womaniless, is a choice and be ready to face the aftermath consequences. What is bad is bad, stop sugar coating it to sound reasonable. God and tradition abhour it.

smh even though most ladies are desperate,many of dem does dat to please their boyfriends which is why aint judging any1.still they ve to understand dat guys dosnt value easy and desperate girls dis days.you ve got to ve some pride somehw.

kayciano:

OP the same LADIES u claim that have been USED and DUMPED , ain't they getting MARRIED..?
DID THEY ever complain to u that MEN are not doing so
..?
OR do u think GOD will MOULD new LADIES for the men..?
MOST men still take home FINISHT PRODUCT of another man..
U just have to ADVISE the MEN ok...!!!!
ADVISE MEN to insist strictly on VIRGINS when settling down..DAT will make our LADIES secure their VIRGINITY and further curtail mpuu..!!!

i think you are blowing evrytin out of proportion based on biased mindset..no1 is toking abt marrying virgin here,we are toking abt how cheaply most ladies are being misled in the name of marriage promises,thereby dumping the girl at some point for anoda.its very unfair.lets nt get it twisted,its tru most ladies are desperate,but smh i think most guys do contribute to their desperation.ladies fall for wat they hear,wat guys told dem.so we shud stop taking advantage of the fact that we are d one to propose for marriage thereby ruining most girls their life.

DesChyko:


I'm a proof that your assertion above is wrong. Since it worked for me, it worked and can work for others as well.
I support you giving morals to ladies, but backing it up with unverified facts is a gross error of overgeneralization.
I chose to ignore the remaining part because it is an insult to the women I and some men have given our last names.
I don't expect remorse from you. I just want to set you aright.

you are a proof...hmmmmm..if i shud recall my quote,i dnt generalize,i meant most guys and ladies..so if you think urs is a success,wat abt the odds...infact you need bit of more information globally and internationally.
wtf the majority is 90percent..dont say that my facts are unverified just cos urs worked,of which we aint sure abt.that urs worked dosnt mean that others did.many ladies are victim of such deceit.many guys too re fond of that.just thank ur star that you are one of the good guys.

valkaka:
LADIES, for a man told you
' i will marry you ' doesn't
mean that he WILL or HAS
married you, whenever i
view my inbox, i see
laughable messages like '
he said he will marry me
and this is the 3rd year
since the day he said it ' he
promised to marry me and
now am pregenant for
him and am afraid to tell
my parent ' since the day
he told me he will marry
me, i have being satisfying
him sexually and he is not
making it realistic, bla bla
bla..

C'mon LADIES, believe me,
most females this day
who got prego and
dumped, were as a result
of ' promised marriage
and not fulfilled '.. When
will you girls learn and
grow up, i believe a lady
who is waiting on GOD
ain't waiting on man..

" man propose, God
dispose " doesn't mean
you sleep in man's house
every weekend and satisfy
him sexually, making
yourself a slave to the
word ' i will marry you '.

Let me tell you
something,. My elder sister
never for once introduced
her boyfriend or any man
to the family until a man
came to the house himself
and made his intention
known to my family,.. You
don't have to introduce
every man who says ' i go
marry you ' to your family,
show some respect and
save yourself some
humliation, if a man
wanna show some proof,
give him your folks
address..

Stop falling cheap to sex
starved kids., no man who
wanna marry you for real
and loves you, will agree
to you coming to spend a
night or weekends in his
house, thats a direct word
for PROSTITUTE.

A real Man keeps to his
word of a life together
with a woman and see it
fruitful NOT to take
advantage of her because
he drops the word '
marriage ' on her.. Alot of
our ladies have being used
and dumped, but a
woman who knows her
self worth can't fall for
such nonsense..

‪#‎BE_WISE‬ °
‪#‎smiles‬ °

so u mean to tell me an otherwise chaste lady would fall for that crap...just the mere talk of marriage or promised marriage and she gives it all up? haa na wahh oh..@op don't under estimate these women they are not as dumb as most ppl make them to be..most times they are even wiser..when things backfire on them cos of their desperation they tend to claim the victims...now i don't mean there aren't lots of men who take advantage of unsuspecting girls..but there is more to the picture tho....how many girls can u confuse with marriage these modern times...hmm.maybe its the kind of girls i know sha..they wise die!!

DesChyko:


I'm a proof that your assertion above is wrong. Since it worked for me, it worked and can work for others as well.
I support you giving morals to ladies, but backing it up with unverified facts is a gross error of overgeneralization.
I chose to ignore the remaining part because it is an insult to the women I and some men have given our last names.
I don't expect remorse from you. I just want to set you aright.

That it works for you doesn't entirely make it right. What is the moral of lady camping with another man before marriage? Society may applaud it, but it surely doesn't have the support of Christianity and tradition. Except may be you are trying to make your rules as it suits you. The value of a woman is to have a man come around her home during courtship or have the permission of her parents to take her out. It may sound old fashion, but this is a system that has proven effective and respectful over the years. The summary of it all is for both parties involve to abstian from sex until marriage and girls will do well to set boundary to that effect, cos true relationship that is meant to last and work does not seek for sex as a test, and would not allow sex to come between.

veegirl:

U're Talkin trash. Wat do u know abt self worth? I hope u're a virgin else i'll b very disappointed.

Sweety dnt worry urself dear, no mature minds, we classify spending a weekend or a night with either ur guy or a fiancee as a prostitution, except if oxford dictionary has finally change d definition of prostitution over d night! That ops might be a deeper life member who do their tins only in secret, no offense!

veegirl:

I'm not 'guilty' cos its not a crime. I spend weekends not cos of promises of marriage but because i want to. I'm not like some hypocrites dat'll come here and start claimin wat dey're not.

Babe, I like u jare. Good to be real. Der is notin wrong in spending a weekend in a guy's place, if dats wot u want. Shikena!

Lordlexyy:
..What is the moral of lady camping with another man before marriage?

You must have missed this..

Deschyko:
..I support you giving morals to ladies,.

Perhaps, you should slow your row when it comes to reacting.
My point is, the end justifies the means.
I'm not one of so many words in my serious moments.

agohmamuda:
Ladies are d cause of their own problems. They always say "I need a serious guy" "someone I can settle down with". They don't like the truth. And some wicked men/guys will say stuffs just to get dem laid.

so is it a crime for a lady to clearly state her intentions about a relationship? Why does a guy have to lie just to get laid ... Honesty should be the trademark too bad its not.

NeduLuiZ:
so is it a crime for a lady to clearly state her intentions about a relationship? Why does a guy have to lie just to get laid ... Honesty should be the trademark too bad its not.

I guess I didn't express my self well. All I intend saying is that most ladies enjoy be told sweet tins / lied to.

veegirl:

I'm not 'guilty' cos its not a crime. I spend weekends not cos of promises of marriage but because i want to. I'm not like some hypocrites dat'll come here and start claimin wat dey're not.

Dnt mind d hypocrites xpecially this op,adviser to d ladies on marriage matter. Na ur type dey easy to deceive

agohmamuda:


I guess I didn't express my self well. All I intend saying is that most ladies enjoy be told sweet tins / lied to.

with the above,the act of guys lying is still not justified

NeduLuiZ:
with the above,the act of guys lying is still not justified

Guy,u don win.

Lordlexyy:
Yeah, its aint crime i know but the act doesn't make it appropriate either. Except perhaps, your self worth means nothing to u, that i understand.

This is high level prostitution.

veegirl:

I'm not 'guilty' cos its not a crime. I spend weekends not cos of promises of marriage but because i want to. I'm not like some hypocrites dat'll come here and s
tart claimin wat dey're not.

You spend weekends?clap for ur self.one day he will ignore u n look for somebody else that will spend weekend with him.

geophysics:

You spend weekends?clap for ur self.one day he will ignore u n look for somebody else that will spend weekend with him.

Really? So now dat u've said dis i'm supposed to do wat? Be sad? *chuckles* human beings.

agohmamuda:
Ladies are d cause of their own problems. They always say "I need a serious guy" "someone I can settle down with". They don't like the truth. And some wicked men/guys will say stuffs just to get dem laid.

mamuda, so u sef dey here? Nice one bro...you know who's talking to you already *wink*