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12inches1:
Trust me ive talked to her abt it implicitly and explicitly. its not even that she doesnt do MouthAction or the fact that she quickly covers up her body after sex. I can actual do without oral. My issues is that i think that she is still holding this things back from me because she is not my wife yet or in her own words "you havent paid my bride price yet" I may start hoarding things from her also afterall she is quick to point out that we are not married.

If you really love and trust this girl then go ahead and pay her bride price. If after paying she continues hoarding her goodies, simply ask for a refund.

Vivly:
op,.Why do guys feel they are being cheated if they are told 'no sex till marriage'? Is it that hard to find a guy that doesn't believe in pre marital sex?

what do you think you can offer a guy outside sex in a relationship

This is a first...i mean asking question on sexuality section. This young lady refused to date me. Through out my service year she refused my advances. But recently she came around my town for one of those pg exams. To my greatest surprise we had a long hr of fore play d night she was suppose to leave, but n sex...she was ready but am not. Am a V. she didnt knw..but after bin a gentle man all dis while,i realised she wanted d dirty side of me....dat got me thinking did so call good girls want a gentle man or a badoo....

ebube89:
what do you think you can offer a guy outside sex in a relationship

Are you the op?
It isn't about me. Just an objective observation.

RedBenson:
Ok, so what would go wrong if it was the penls aspect you mostly liked abt? Or dont you like penls?

Nothing would go wrong, honestly..and to your other question...

fadjnr:
please enlighten us on the emboldened statement .

Read your Bible or Koran.

RedEboe:
Read your Bible or Koran.

u don fall my hand like that.

Vivly:
op,.Why do guys feel they are being cheated if they are told 'no sex till marriage'? Is it that hard to find a guy that doesn't believe in pre marital sex?

If a confirmed Virgin girl tells her man to wait till marriage chances are that he will respect her more. But if a non-virgin girl tells a guy the same thing, he'll be like "so na me you wan use do mugu after you don enjoy with other guys." Can you blame him really?
If a lady wants to preach the doctrine against premarital sex,it's best she lives by example and remains virgin until she gets married.

fadjnr:
u don fall my hand like that.

Yes i have.

RedEboe:
The only time you should call an ex-chic is strictly for booty calls i.e whenever you are strategically inviting her to come over to your place and have $ex for old times sake.

U guys shud cut us some slack. Girls get Hot too u know. So wen we respond to dose booty calls, dont tink we dont want it too. I mean, its easier to av s3x wit an ex dan wit a total stranger. (Dats if we're not in any relationship o or if d bobo is not doin well in d bed department). My opinion.

veegirl:
U guys shud cut us some slack. Girls get Hot too u know. So wen we respond to dose booty calls, dont tink we dont want it too. I mean, its easier to av s3x wit an ex dan wit a total stranger. (Dats if we're not in any relationship o or if d bobo is not doin well in d bed department). My opinion.

Logical enough

RedEboe:
I respect your views about there being more to dating other than multiple relationships.

No, I hardly ever got involved in love triangles because I tried not to be too emotionally attached to the girls I was with. As such whenever, they expressed strange behaviors or movements towards other guys or anything of that sort, I just let them go. No long story.

Correct.Now you sound human.I was starting to feel:"What a robot!".

anssy:
am no kid, I am in my late 20s, I have a reason why I asked questions concerning a.NAL sex. Thanks for enlighting me, I am grateful.

wu b dis 1?

Tashamania:
Nothing would go wrong, honestly..and to your other question...

Why didnt you answer the other question?

RedBenson:
Why didnt you answer the other question?

I dont want to

fadjnr:
Have you considered writing a book on your past experiences. You go sell o.

Nah, writing a book would mean ultimately revealing my true identity, I don't need that.

Have u ever had a girl sleep over without getting intimate?

Psittacus:
This is a first...i mean asking question on sexuality section. This young lady refused to date me. Through out my service year she refused my advances. But recently she came around my town for one of those pg exams. To my greatest surprise we had a long hr of fore play d night she was suppose to leave, but n sex...she was ready but am not. Am a V. she didnt knw..but after bin a gentle man all dis while,i realised she wanted d dirty side of me....dat got me thinking did so call good girls want a gentle man or a badoo....

Most girls (good or bad) want a man, any MAN that can satisfy them in bed and in other areas of life. It's in the female DNA, so you better sharp up and wise up.

veegirl:
U guys shud cut us some slack. Girls get Hot too u know. So wen we respond to dose booty calls, dont tink we dont want it too. I mean, its easier to av s3x wit an ex dan wit a total stranger. (Dats if we're not in any relationship o or if d bobo is not doin well in d bed department). My opinion.

EXACTLY, Booty-calls with an Ex can be a mutually beneficial experience, sorry for not stressing on this point earlier.

hugoart:
Correct.Now you sound human.I was starting to feel:"What a robot!".

I'm very human!

Chrisjane:
Have u ever had a girl sleep over without getting intimate?

Yes, many times...I can enjoy the company of beautiful women,with or without $ex.

Op,this is a matured thread.
Give me a reasonable(affordable, sweet slim babes,correct locale) ashewo den you know in Lagos.
Thank you o.

hugoart:
Op,this is a matured thread.
Give me a reasonable(affordable, sweet slim babes,correct locale) ashewo den you know in Lagos.
Thank you o.

Control your hormones, son!

RedEboe:
Control your hormones, son!

Lol, i neva wanted to ask any question buh i fink i must ask dis1, how can sum1 control his sexual urge?

Nawaoh so this thread is still moving on a fast lane? i dey suspect op wash put sotey people dey rush this thread. Lol nothing do you jare.

Cybermugu1:
Lol, i neva wanted to ask any question buh i fink i must ask dis1, how can sum1 control his sexual urge?

Try to constantly get your mind actively distracted and focused on other human activities rather than $ex, then you'll make some headway. Such other activities include reading, writing, strolling, hanging out with your boyz, focusing on your work/business and on HOW TO MAKE MORE MONEY.
I'm giving you this advise not just on moral grounds but on technical grounds. When a guy's mind is occupied with $ex 24/7 chances are that if/when an opportunity finally presents itself, such a guy may not last up to 11seconds during intercourse.

Emmysteve:
Nawaoh so this thread is still moving on a fast lane? i dey suspect op wash put sotey people dey rush this thread. Lol nothing do you jare.

Thank you.

RedEboe:
Try to constantly get your mind actively distracted and focused on other human activities rather than $ex, then you'll make some headway. Such other activities include reading, writing, strolling, hanging out with your boyz, focusing on your work/business and on HOW TO MAKE MORE MONEY.
I'm giving you this advise not just on moral grounds but on technical grounds. When a guy's mind is occupied with $ex 24/7 chances are that if/when an opportunity finally presents itself, such a guy may not last up to 11seconds during intercourse.

Lol, the moment he see pant he don pour.

RedEboe:
Thank you.

Have you been catch cheating how was the experience like?

Ucheosefoh:
Have you been catch cheating how was the experience like?

I've never been caught cheating...pure luck, I guess!

there is this lady who flirts with me and says all kinds of
Intimate things to me when we outside , she gets jealous
when. i talk about my g/f ...buh d problem is when i try to
make advances towards her when we alone she shuts me
out...d last one i tried she hit me on d back and was
vexed.....abeg make una advice me coz i fink i have been
friendzoned nd d question is....y will you flirt with me
outside even in front my friends and become something
else when we alone.....i guesss women are more
complicated than i thought.......oh i forgot to mention that
we have been friends and coursemates for years
now....been a loyalist to her academically tho.....smh!!!

Ok,the ladies man. How is your retirement,I hope you are enjoying it? My questn is,how do you make a lady feel at home with you after the initial convo of getting her phone no and probably taking the relationship to the next level. (2) during your active yrs are you usually comfortable with all types of women around you(I mean any kind) even up till now?