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why do guys hav to put themselves way more in order to meet a potential somebody to land a date or acquire a
relationship with? it really angers me,
pisses me off, frustrates me, makes
me want to violently explode often
times, also, why do guys have to
have "balls", have guts, initiative,
assertiveness, overall, who or what
made it the rule, the social-norm,
status-quo that guys have to do the
pursuing, chasing, approaching,
initiating conversations, asking out?
Seriously, I get sick and tired,
frustrated, on how guys get labeled
p******, wimps, cowards, being
feminine, for being less of a man for
being passive, not approaching or
asking out, it makes me sometimes
feel like going on a killing spree, or
fighting, beating up a girl's bad-boy,
player of a boyfriend out of jealousy,
anger, frustration!, as in, I would like
to stand up for all of the lonely,
bitter, frustrated guys who are virgins
or have not much success with girls,
women. It's unfair because it's like
as if girls, women, get dating and
relationships handed to them on a
silver platter, they can be insecure,
have low self-esteem and still get a
boyfriend but guys can't if they are
like that, guys have to be comfortable
and content, secure with themselves
while being single, it's okay for a girl
to need or want a boyfriend, a
relationship for validation but never
the other way around, they don't have
to do the work in order to acquire it,
and overall I'm sick and tired of how
life, society, culture, expect us guys
to toughen it up all the damn time, to
be strong, masculine, assertive, to be
a leader, take-charge, initiate, I see
that as a chore, why is making things
happen a masculine thing, manly
thing? where is the god damn logic
in it?So what if we guys have
testosterone? doesn't mean we have
to use it!Another thing too, is that
guys have to take personal
responsibility for their own lives far
more than girls do, here is a f***in'
example:"realize that people try to
help you all the time, but your LAZY
ass ALWAYS blames society instead
of taking initiative and making
yourself more attractive the opposite
gender. ADAPT! Don't cry about
women not wanting you, find out
what they want and use that to make
yourself more attractive."This is what
this one guy argued about gender
roles and balls, testosterone, if I
could smack his face without getting into
legal trouble, without getting
arrested, I probably would, but since
I don't want to suffer the
consequences, I won't do
it:Man...this is what I'm talking
about! You act like taking the
initiative is some kind of burden or
drudgery. Most normal, red-blooded
guys enjoy taking the initiative and
do it automatically. It's not a matter
of "have to". A normal testosterone
level and, at least, average
intelligence, should ensure that a guy
has more than enough assertiveness
and initiative to get and maintain a
relationship.It's sad that any guy
would see simple initiative in meeting
and dating a girl as a chore

i only read one fifth of it.



Op, if u think education is costly, try ignorance.




Just a little task of wooing a lady u are complaining, den try being a lady and u will run mental

Who has read this pasted post?? I need summary, I'm allergic to long texts.

*spacebooked* i hv alot 2 tell u

Can U please write in less dan 10 lines? I'm allergic to reading long compositions dat don't affect my life

STILL WONDERING IF PEOPLE STILL READ NOVELS AND TEXTBOOKS THIS DAYS.......OOOH INTERNET

Kendrick93 you again?!.....I see you seriously want to make FP .."back to the topic:I've thought of these same issue but @ last I figured out that its just a natural obligation for all male genders,both humans and animals.

I really don't understand your post,who does?

and ur point is?number nd summarise ur work biko

KELVINXY:
Kendrick93 you again?!.....I see you seriously want to make FP .."back to the topic:I've thought of these same issue but @ last I figured out that its just a natural obligation for all male genders,both humans and animals.

here is your FÜCKING answer OP

Tot I was the only one allergic to reading long compositions that doesn't affect my life. Good to know there are others like me.

A SUMMARY WOULD DO THE MAGIC.