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Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by or3gon: 3:39pm On Nov 06, 2014
Cutehector4u:
as in eh..the thing jus dey vex me,..
i dey feel u joor! any babe wey dey do am, it's her choice nobody dey force am

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Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by Nobody: 3:42pm On Nov 06, 2014
Cutehector4u:
Nobody is subjecting anybody to manual labour......... Its a choice,,.. For instance like me now..if i happen to b livin on my own in one room apartment and i happen to hav a girlfrnd...and she wants to come ova , i am not stopin her... Its her decision , not mine... If she wants to cook for two of us, i am not stoppin her, its her decision...if she wants to wash my clothes, dsame thing too, i am not stoppin her, its her decision... Afterall,i was takin good care of myself befor i met her.... Shey u grab... So i laff wen i see posts like this especially frm the ladies sayn dat guys should stop forcin dr girlfrnds to do chores for dem....its reaaly really hilarious... If dey dnt like it, den dey should stop it...nobody is forcind dem too.. I cnt force a girl to cook for me or wash my clothes or order her around wen i knw i hav t paid her bride price...no one does that..its only the stupid girlfrnds who want to play housewife dat do all these nonsense and still be complainin...
Preach!!!!

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Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by Nobody: 3:45pm On Nov 06, 2014
dechandel:

Co-habitating na for girls wey dey chop the house rent their papa give them o grin
Before they are through with the four years in uni.. They must have terminated countless belle grin
craze geh!
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by Nobody: 3:50pm On Nov 06, 2014
I once had a friend who lived with her abusive bf simply because he paid the bills. tried talking to her but she wouldn't listen, cut the long story short, she never graduated and they broke up. if she had invested her 4years in school and not chasing after her bf she would be somewhere else right now. Luckily her father is "well off" she now works for him
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by fuckshit: 4:09pm On Nov 06, 2014
Cutehector4u:
Nobody is subjecting anybody to manual labour......... Its a choice,,.. For instance like me now..if i happen to b livin on my own in one room apartment and i happen to hav a girlfrnd...and she wants to come ova , i am not stopin her... Its her decision , not mine... If she wants to cook for two of us, i am not stoppin her, its her decision...if she wants to wash my clothes, dsame thing too, i am not stoppin her, its her decision... Afterall,i was takin good care of myself befor i met her.... Shey u grab... So i laff wen i see posts like this especially frm the ladies sayn dat guys should stop forcin dr girlfrnds to do chores for dem....its reaaly really hilarious... If dey dnt like it, den dey should stop it...nobody is forcind dem too.. I cnt force a girl to cook for me or wash my clothes or order her around wen i knw i hav t paid her bride price...no one does that..its only the stupid girlfrnds who want to play housewife dat do all these nonsense and still be complainin...
FÜCK!! FÜCKING good one. it's their FÜCKING choice. grin grin

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Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by molason: 4:10pm On Nov 06, 2014
Mondisweets:
I once had a friend who lived with her abusive bf simply because he paid the bills. tried talking to her but she wouldn't listen, cut the long story short, she never graduated and they broke up. if she had invested her 4years in school and not chasing after her bf she would be somewhere else right now. Luckily her father is "well off" she now works for him

Seriously bro it's becoming something of great concern. So many cases I know of here in school
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by Nobody: 4:11pm On Nov 06, 2014
fuckshit:
FÜCK!! FÜCKING good one. it's their FÜCKING choice. grin grin
lolz
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by dechandel(f): 4:47pm On Nov 06, 2014
KiddaBlingzz:
craze geh!
I craze pass you?? tongue
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by Sleekyshuga(f): 4:48pm On Nov 06, 2014
Months back, I commented on a thread like this sad sad..

It all boils down to your upbringing and foundation, though most girls change when they get into higher institutions sad..

It so hurt when I see girls doing this, sincerely.. Funny enough, I got talking with some people (random discussion), n we stumbled on this topic.. 6/10 told me it's the 'Latest Trend', n that I am only being a novice shocked shocked..

For goodness sake, why should I move my stuffs into a bf's house (some1 my parents may not be aware of, 4 d time being), n turn out to be a flat mate, all because I want to be a good gf?

I used to have a neighbour like that, and we nicknamed them 'Couples'.. Today, they are @ peace, n tomorrow, they are shouting @ each other, even resulting to slaps shocked..

I keep asking: Pls, how do these girls pass their exams? How do they have their freedom? How do they associate with others? How do they avoid unwanted pregnancies? Do they ever have their quiet time?

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Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by Nobody: 5:00pm On Nov 06, 2014
Kachisbarbie:
Emmm...truetalk
__but you shouldn't tag it stupidity
I know of a girl way back in school - the main reason she graduated was because she was cohabiting with our assistant course-rep

@ a point they had a misunderstanding and she moved out- you need to see her grades that semester.
The next semester - she ran back to the guy...lol
Lol, no be small tin ooo....sharp Gal
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by SeverusSnape(m): 5:01pm On Nov 06, 2014
Op tell them, those who have ears let them hear and those who have eyes, let them see. As a guy,I can't allow my Girlfriend stay with me, because as time goes on, I'll just lose interest in her, This is something I've seen severally, the girls moves in, do all the house chores for the guy and so they also enjoy unlimited sex, After a while,the guy gets tired and sends her packing to her hostel. why won't he get tired?....After he has been able to see everything there is to see and explored his sexual fantasies beyond his imagination.

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Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by BreezyRita(f): 5:08pm On Nov 06, 2014
Babes be like: "if I don't take care of him, who will??"
SMH for them sha.......
Moving in is kinda extreme. Hope they'll learn now.
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by Nobody: 5:12pm On Nov 06, 2014
dechandel:

I craze pass you?? tongue
see you #YimuSquared

you and i know say i no fit craze. And i can only craze pass you when i run mad which is impossicant
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by Nobody: 5:30pm On Nov 06, 2014
Kachisbarbie:


Oriegwu
I'm coming this weekend
*kill yasef* tongue
na this fyn gal wan come ma plc ? grin , because it's you I'll allow you to stay for a month, when are you coming sef ? grin
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by Rapaltar(m): 6:07pm On Nov 06, 2014
Paddy....Nor spoil market for us ooo....... cryPaddy....Nor spoil market for us ooo.......
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by molason: 6:33pm On Nov 06, 2014
Rapaltar:
Paddy....Nor spoil market for us ooo....... cryPaddy....Nor spoil market for us ooo.......

Paddy dat one na bad market o. Cz after u don sample the girl finish, tendency dey say u go dump am.
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by Mznaett: 10:10pm On Nov 06, 2014
Like it's a must...well,,i've got a friend like that whose dad was a councillor back then in sec.sch...i mean the whole school knew her to be a virgin...despite her beauty..which was true.
And now,,she is in a higher insti...she no longer sleep in her room except when her roomate is not around and then she invites the guy in..
Funny enough,she is the one taking care of the dude. infact,she hardly attends lecture and whenever we bring the issue of her going so low,she'd be like 'babe c dnt dare go there'
well, i really do nt blame her cuz that's her first.
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by bravekid(m): 10:25pm On Nov 06, 2014
Sleekyshuga:
Months back, I commented on a thread like this sad sad..

It all boils down to your upbringing and foundation, though most girls change when they get into higher institutions sad..

It so hurt when I see girls doing this, sincerely.. Funny enough, I got talking with some people (random discussion), n we stumbled on this topic.. 6/10 told me it's the 'Latest Trend', n that I am only being a novice shocked shocked..

For goodness sake, why should I move my stuffs into a bf's house (some1 my parents may not be aware of, 4 d time being), n turn out to be a flat mate, all because I want to be a good gf?

I used to have a neighbour like that, and we nicknamed them 'Couples'.. Today, they are @ peace, n tomorrow, they are shouting @ each other, even resulting to slaps shocked..

I keep asking: Pls, how do these girls pass their exams? How do they have their freedom? How do they associate with others? How do they avoid unwanted pregnancies? Do they ever have their quiet time?
I Swear Down...Missy you're Cute!!
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by adepiero: 10:25pm On Nov 06, 2014
Cutehector4u:
Nobody is subjecting anybody to manual labour......... Its a choice,,.. For instance like me now..if i happen to b livin on my own in one room apartment and i happen to hav a girlfrnd...and she wants to come ova , i am not stopin her... Its her decision , not mine... If she wants to cook for two of us, i am not stoppin her, its her decision...if she wants to wash my clothes, dsame thing too, i am not stoppin her, its her decision... Afterall,i was takin good care of myself befor i met her....
You are right, nobody forced her to do it but there is something you are missing and i'll state it below;

If you live on your own and you have a girlfriend, it is normal for her to visit even when you don't call her to come over. No be her lover you be?

If she cooks, wash, or do any other form of manual labour for you! yes you didn't force her but she is only trying to tell you that she has a wife material quality

Personally I don't like the idea of a girl moving in with a guy when they are still undergraduate or even when they are in spinsterhood self. but if a lady can sacrifice her privacy to be with you, then just know that she loves you deeply and girls like that should be cherished.

**A lucky Man never appreciates a good woman until she becomes his EX**
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by Mznaett: 10:35pm On Nov 06, 2014
@sleeky,,do i know u 4rm somewhere? and if i may ask,,u reside in ozuboko off abuloma right?
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by Sleekyshuga(f): 10:38pm On Nov 06, 2014
bravekid:
I Swear Down...Missy you're Cute!!
Thanks kiss
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by Sleekyshuga(f): 10:41pm On Nov 06, 2014
Mznaett:
@sleeky,,do i know u 4rm somewhere? and if i may ask,,u reside in ozuboko off abuloma right?
Are you referring to me? Nah, dearie.. I don't stay around there, and if I've ever visited Abuloma all my life, I guess, just thrice cool.
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by bravekid(m): 10:45pm On Nov 06, 2014
Sleekyshuga:
Thanks kiss
Anytime!
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by Mznaett: 10:50pm On Nov 06, 2014
Aiite dearie...i think my sight played prank on me..dats y
so,when next will u be visiting us?
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by Sleekyshuga(f): 11:27pm On Nov 06, 2014
Mznaett:
Aiite dearie...i think my sight played prank on me..dats y
so,when next will u be visiting us?
Lol @ sight playing pranks on you grin grin..

I really don't visit places, save when necessary but still, twill be fun seeing a female NLander cheesy LIVE.. The 1st and 2nd time I came around, twas to visit the much talked about 'Lotus', n d 3rd was to visit a frend's frend grin who gave birth..
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by 100Cents: 11:39pm On Nov 06, 2014
When the silly girl will be there shouting, " harder, harder, ouch "...

OMG...

Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by Mznaett: 11:51pm On Nov 06, 2014
like seriously,, lotus z a place to be believe me..well,u've seen hw ph city looks like and it won't be bad if on ur next visit,,we both hang out @least,2exploit more on ph's world. lol
Gudnyt dearie,,my eyes are blunt i cnt c clearly again..nice chatn wit u
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by Nobody: 12:18am On Nov 07, 2014
Morally and spiritually wrong.
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by Sleekyshuga(f): 12:20am On Nov 07, 2014
Mznaett:
like seriously,, lotus z a place to be believe me..well,u've seen hw ph city looks like and it won't be bad if on ur next visit,,we both hang out @least,2exploit more on ph's world. lol
Gudnyt dearie,,my eyes are blunt i cnt c clearly again..nice chatn wit u
Hahaha... Me na PH brought up oo.. Spent all my years in PH grin...All the same, u will be notified when next I visit Abuloma..

Good night..
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by 1miccza: 12:28am On Nov 07, 2014
Cutehector4u:
Nobody is subjecting anybody to manual labour......... Its a choice,,.. For instance like me now..if i happen to b livin on my own in one room apartment and i happen to hav a girlfrnd...and she wants to come ova , i am not stopin her... Its her decision , not mine... If she wants to cook for two of us, i am not stoppin her, its her decision...if she wants to wash my clothes, dsame thing too, i am not stoppin her, its her decision... Afterall,i was takin good care of myself befor i met her.... Shey u grab... So i laff wen i see posts like this especially frm the ladies sayn dat guys should stop forcin dr girlfrnds to do chores for dem....its reaaly really hilarious... If dey dnt like it, den dey should stop it...nobody is forcind dem too.. I cnt force a girl to cook for me or wash my clothes or order her around wen i knw i hav t paid her bride price...no one does that..its only the stupid girlfrnds who want to play housewife dat do all these nonsense and still be complainin...

Oga in as much as I agree with you on some points,others are questionable she can do all of what you have written and you care less but don't you think making herself a perpetual wife when you know you're dating is taking things too far?It only stifles you and deprives you of your privacy and freedom.. Something tells me you are into cohabitation already...
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by Sanguine(f): 1:58am On Nov 07, 2014
See ehn, If you like go write this one ontop billboard mount ontop every bus-stop ehn, My brother, all those girls go just read am troway face. And they'd be like ''all that one na for your pocket. E nor consign you''.
Some humanbeings are just diehard incorrigible! Even God sef just sidon there ontop him BigThrone dey shake him mighty head. So wetin manpickin like we go do, ehn? Abi nor be our elders talk say na as you lay your bed you go lie ontop am? Ehn
Anyhow sha, OP welldone you hear? You have done your own part. God bless your hustle. More grease and palmoil to your elbows and knuckles.
CHEERRSS!!
Re: The Modern Day Girl And Stupidity by Nobody: 2:16am On Nov 07, 2014
1miccza:


Oga in as much as I agree with you on some points,others are questionable she can do all of what you have written and you care less but don't you think making herself a perpetual wife when you know you're dating is taking things too far?It only stifles you and deprives you of your privacy and freedom.. Something tells me you are into cohabitation already...
no am not....

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