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Do i Have To Deflower Her To Prove I Love Her?? by xchiz(op):
I basically live most of my life evading commitment and going for sex-real sex- with experienced partners that have been so long in the game one would forget they were once virgins.

Recently i fell deep in love with this tall slender lady. She turned out to be a virgin. i have deflowered only one girl in my life and i hated it.
for several nights now,my girlfriend makes out with me to the extent of taking our clothes off and even brings my Limo close to parking in her virgin garage. she even said she wanted me to do it and kept turning me on for hours. i almost did but she began to shake each time i want to penetrate. i gave it up.

Now my friends think i should have done it if i was in love and committed to her as i claim. is this true? cos i hope she doesn't see it that way. Even though she wanted me to,she was shaking whenever i came close and even held my stuff from pushing in,i can't do it if that continues! it feels like using force!
i need advice!
Re: Do i Have To Deflower Her To Prove I Love Her?? by Princessderaa(f): 1:05pm On Nov 07, 2014
do nt disvirgin her,luv her unconditionally,care nd treat her ryt she will neva forgt u
Re: Do i Have To Deflower Her To Prove I Love Her?? by xchiz(op): 1:18pm On Nov 07, 2014
Princessderaa:
do nt disvirgin her,luv her unconditionally,care nd treat her ryt she will neva forgt u
even when she wants it?? i'm human too na
Re: Do i Have To Deflower Her To Prove I Love Her?? by angelsing(m): 1:32pm On Nov 07, 2014
Let me start first by saying premarital sex is wrong. Now that said, its either u do it now that she wants u to or u will be surprise some guy will do it for u then u will be too shocked to blame her. You said u have disflowered a girl before, I don't know how u went abt it that made u scared but its not always easy taking away a girl's virginity cos it take lots of energy and time to do it the right way so she won't feel much hurt while u are doing it. Just do it gently and preferably do it doing her ovulation period cos her hormone will be super high making her very wet but remember to use protection if u don't want to father a baby soon.. Best of luck
Re: Do i Have To Deflower Her To Prove I Love Her?? by Nobody: 1:33pm On Nov 07, 2014
Do you have to destroy her life before you know have killed her career?

Fleeting pleasures of sin...
Sin being deceptive since the Fall of Adam.
Re: Do i Have To Deflower Her To Prove I Love Her?? by Mynd44(mod): 1:40pm On Nov 07, 2014
How old is the lady? If she is an adult, why not ask her what she wants?
Re: Do i Have To Deflower Her To Prove I Love Her?? by Nobody: 2:11pm On Nov 07, 2014
Why are you scared of disvirgining a girl? Thought its the best sex everhuh
Re: Do i Have To Deflower Her To Prove I Love Her?? by Nobody: 3:08pm On Nov 07, 2014
emusmith:
Do you have to destroy her life before you know have killed her career?
being a virgin is a career??
Disvirgining a lady does not destroy her life FYI.
Re: Do i Have To Deflower Her To Prove I Love Her?? by faithugo64(f): 3:15pm On Nov 07, 2014
op treat her the way you would want your daughter to be treated by her boyfriend!
Re: Do i Have To Deflower Her To Prove I Love Her?? by jotey(m): 3:33pm On Nov 07, 2014
beta chop her pomo nw way u c free chance
Re: Do i Have To Deflower Her To Prove I Love Her?? by Princessderaa(f): 7:21am On Nov 08, 2014
xchiz:
even when she wants it?? i'm human too na
dont b selfish.tink wit ur head/brain nt ur third leg
Re: Do i Have To Deflower Her To Prove I Love Her?? by Princessderaa(f): 7:22am On Nov 08, 2014
xchiz:
even when she wants it?? i'm human too na
dont b selfish.tink wit ur head/brain nt ur third leg.stop putin her in de mood
Re: Do i Have To Deflower Her To Prove I Love Her?? by DesChyko: 7:39am On Nov 08, 2014
Oga.. Satisfy the urge and forget this long story.
Sex or no sex, what will be will be.
Re: Do i Have To Deflower Her To Prove I Love Her?? by wheesin(m): 7:52am On Nov 08, 2014
YES DEFLOWER HER BUT MAKE SURE U REPLACE THE FLOWERS ONCE U ARE DONE undecided
Re: Do i Have To Deflower Her To Prove I Love Her?? by daben1(m): 8:06am On Nov 08, 2014
Eeeeya, so virgins still dey!
Re: Do i Have To Deflower Her To Prove I Love Her?? by Jkvivi2020: 8:12am On May 09, 2015
Pop d cherry before she use pikere wash puna then tell u say now virgin. Now essential commodoty.
Re: Do i Have To Deflower Her To Prove I Love Her?? by Nobody: 8:21am On May 09, 2015
The fact about the fact is that the fact will always be the fact irrespective of distinctive argumentative fallacy. Premarital Sex is wrong and that's Truth an unbending fact.
Re: Do i Have To Deflower Her To Prove I Love Her?? by Nobody: 8:23am On May 09, 2015
~ Yes..deflower her ! goodluck man
Re: Do i Have To Deflower Her To Prove I Love Her?? by Nobody: 9:02am On May 09, 2015
By nw itz either the op has deflowered or they've broken up or hez still thinking if he sud deflower her or nt.
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