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Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Thinkr(m): 2:46pm On Nov 07, 2014
Tashamania:
Ask him for permissions to use the car. Its his car, not yours. And you're not his wife.. I don't know why this is a big deal.
You can ask him for it jokingly but don't call him selfish, for the fact you are giving him sexx doesn't mean he must please you all round. Women sha! We can be greedy oh.

I'm sure you are enjoying other benefits that comes with been the woman of a car owner, yet you're not satisfied until he gives you one..
Lmao* the bolded got me laughing. So the girl don't need sex too? Nawa
Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Nobody: 2:47pm On Nov 07, 2014
firstEVA:
He just bought another car, isn't he suppose to give me one, is it that he doesn't genuinely love me or he's just being selfish.

I can guarantee you that, so many people calling you names would expect same if they were in your shoes.
__ Now, don't get it twisted...I didn't say you're right. It is entirely normal for the average lady to expect some 'fringe benefits' from a man she is in a committed relationship with (I don't know your definition of committed though)

It's not selfishness,if he wants to give you anything - fine...but, don't go fighting/asking for it. It's not your right - @least,not yet. Probably when you guys are married.
__ maybe you don't have a job yet and he feels you can't maintain it. Which is the truth.

So, be patient...think broader for yourself by yourself...if you know what that means

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Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by remsonik(f): 2:47pm On Nov 07, 2014
op you are one of the many women who gives naija women a bad name. Instead of you to sit up and achieve what he has achieved,who told you u cant work hard to buy ur own car. My sister work hard and make enough money to even buy a better one than he has already.
Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by singhabhishek25: 2:47pm On Nov 07, 2014
I do not understand the purpose, have you tried to talk with him and know the reason?
Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by IYANGBALI: 2:48pm On Nov 07, 2014
firstEVA:
gold digger how? Is it a dash? Just to use pending when I buy mine, whats so bad about that?
go buy yours he is neither your husband nor your father. You are just one of his numerous casualities grin
Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Nobody: 2:48pm On Nov 07, 2014
Keep waiting for a boyfriend not even husband self to buy Car or give you his own... cheesy you get big eye... shocked Person wey never marry you, then you want dey drive him car round town. If you leave with him fine, then he can give you one,but if you stay in Lagos and he base in pH then you want him to give you so you'll play with it with all those small boys...big eye you. Why not buy a car yourself? Big eye shocked No be your mate dey buy car? So until man give you car or buy you car then you are fulfilled shey? Big eye sad shocked
firstEVA:
He just bought another car, isn't he suppose to give me one, is it that he doesn't genuinely love me or he's just being selfish.

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Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Vivly(f): 2:48pm On Nov 07, 2014
booqee:
the mod who put this on front page just want to humiliate the op firstEVA grin
I swear down!!
She had already closed the thread.
Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Nobody: 2:49pm On Nov 07, 2014
Thereishel:
firstEVA i hail you with all the insult heaping on you, you still control your temper. Good character with excellent home training.
they don't know me, my pic is not out there, so it really does not matter to me, thanks anyway.

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Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by IYANGBALI: 2:49pm On Nov 07, 2014
remsonik:
op you are one of the many women who gives naija women a bad name. Instead of you to sit up and achieve what he has achieved,who told you u cant work hard to buy ur own car. My sister work hard and make enough money to even buy a better one than he has already.
that's my girl. Kiss kiss
Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Peejayybold(f): 2:50pm On Nov 07, 2014
Thief make he give you car today and tomorrow u will leave him for another maan.
Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by logica(m): 2:50pm On Nov 07, 2014
Princecalm:
What do you need a car for?Do you know what it takes to maintain a car or all you care is about driving because am sure when the car is faulty you will also expect him to bring money for the repair.
No mind am. The bobo probably knows how much his earning potential is tied to being mobile. And he bought a back-up car in case one begins to misbehave. Meanwhile the eleregbe here thinks his cars are for cruising around town and profiling. The man was looking at having a car as an asset not to become a liability which of course it becomes if he passes the car to this ingrate here.

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Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Nobody: 2:50pm On Nov 07, 2014
ty265:

don't waste your vote on her just bcoz of what happend....she's not worth it afterall. Vote for the other girl
you and firstEVA av a point. Miss nairaland shouldn't behave like dat. that post by vivly wasn't nice. But she apologised!
Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Nobody: 2:51pm On Nov 07, 2014
booqee:
oh my.. thanks dear! how did u know?

No mind am na ashewo boy,him see boo for ur name him rush go check ur profile whether him go see boo'bs
Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by sexylogan(m): 2:51pm On Nov 07, 2014
Chaleeee:
Success is not sexually transmitted. Work and buy your own car.

https://www.nairaland.com/1822466/girlfriend-3-weeks-nearly-killed#24854148

grin
Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by IYANGBALI: 2:51pm On Nov 07, 2014
firstEVA:
they don't know me, my pic is not out there, so it really does not matter to me, thanks anyway.
kai,I go go think and write the one wey go make you cry,wait I dey come,no go o grin

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Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Nobody: 2:51pm On Nov 07, 2014
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Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by sharubutu(m): 2:52pm On Nov 07, 2014
firstEVA:
He just bought another car, isn't he suppose to give me one, is it that he doesn't genuinely love me or he's just being selfish.

To start with, are u married to him already?
If yes, then he's not just selfish but wicked.
If no, & u're just his girlfriend, then ojukokoro lon se e.
Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Nobody: 2:53pm On Nov 07, 2014
IYANGBALI:
kai,I go go think and write the one wey go make you cry,wait I dey come,no go o grin
cry say person die abi wetin happen?

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Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by IYANGBALI: 2:53pm On Nov 07, 2014
logica:
No mind am. The bobo probably knows how much his earning potential is tied to being mobile. And he bought a back-up car in case one begins to misbehave. Meanwhile the eleregbe here thinks his cars are for cruising around town and profiling. The man was looking at having a car as an asset not to become a liability which of course it becomes if he passes the car to this ingrate here.
omo oro lo so o paro. Owo lobirin moo
Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Nobody: 2:53pm On Nov 07, 2014
undecided

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Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Nobody: 2:54pm On Nov 07, 2014
The kin confidence u get for ur toto ehn to dey demand motor ,it can't be that sweet

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Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by UnknownT: 2:55pm On Nov 07, 2014
OgaTheTop2:
For all the years I've known my woman I've been paying for house rents, I've bought and changed two cars, I've bought land and done so many other financial obligations single handedly. Then I changed job to federal job. While on probation I didn't have much to spend. I needed money, I needed to pay rent and buy another car. I sold my car to meet up with some financial obligations due to change of job and environment. During this downtime, I asked my woman for support financially. She refused. She said she was into contributions at her office. Contributions in two places o angry, while I worked my azz out. Things later picked up for me. My entitlements were paid. I bought another car and three months later bought a jeep. She's been on my neck for driving lesson and ultimately release the car for her. I never bothered. I told her to use her office contribution for buying a car of her choice. As to release my car, No way! angry
If by woman u mean wife, u guys are heading a wrong destination. Both of you should be mindful of each other

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Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Orikinla(m): 2:55pm On Nov 07, 2014
[size=18pt]You may claim that he is your man, but to him, you may not be his woman.

Don't get it twisted. [/size]

When a guy is happier talking to another babe than being with you, he is not yours.

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Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by KingAdeOluomo1(m): 2:55pm On Nov 07, 2014
firstEVA:
He just bought another car, isn't he suppose to give me one, is it that he doesn't genuinely love me or he's just being selfish.
God knows the way u treat him

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Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by IYANGBALI: 2:55pm On Nov 07, 2014
firstEVA:
cry say person die abi wetin happen?
just wait I dey go google the one wey go pain you grin
Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by remsonik(f): 2:56pm On Nov 07, 2014
IYANGBALI:
that's my girl. Kiss kiss
You need to ask her if shes working or she earns enough to be able to maintain a car?
Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Nobody: 2:56pm On Nov 07, 2014
firstEVA:
He just bought another car, isn't he suppose to give me one, is it that he doesn't genuinely love me or he's just being selfish.
Go buy ur own car!
Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by pinkshell(f): 2:57pm On Nov 07, 2014
U are going off the rails,
What az ashewo and chinese got to do wit wat is bin said now?
Ur 1st statement is enuf(a man doesn't tlk too much ).
Abi no be GF dey turn wife 1day?


kilokeys:


when u r in a committed marriage.. u can complain.

right now.. just manage the cash equivalent given to a sidechick offering sex.. ehn

even chinese ashi na 15k per night.. u wan come drive motor of 4m.. chai.
Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Besto(m): 2:57pm On Nov 07, 2014
smh...daz ow one of my babe actually had money dat cud get ha iphone 5 but insisted she cnt buy fone above 2k wit ha moni...
i shook head n said in my mind...u go die wit that bb bold 2 wey u dey use desktop charge battery.. (maga was seriously waitin for me to say babes i will buy u the fone instead)
Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Odinaka00(m): 2:58pm On Nov 07, 2014
Raymondenyi:
This are the stupid things we see from silly girls everyday, keep on show casing ur self's as lesser being only existing to feed of others and seek what u parasitize from others, n yet u want the same men to respect you and see u as equal being as himself. U expect him to treat u as a queen... is that not foolish n Hopeless?
From the way u are seeming, I know u would have never contributed anything to thus man's life, u haven't help him achieve any milestone, this is a struggling young man, and because he got a 2nd car, he should give u one....... The greed and hopeless selfishness of ladies make me puke.. Very disgusting.

U think u giving him sex, qualifies u to earn of his Struggles? U re nothing more, cos he can get same sex from anybody anywhere, even a love peddler, so nothing makes u special... Go and clean ur lazy silly as up n seek for ways to make ur own money.. silly girl..

Spits on thread

Hia! Nna nwanne mezie ebere inula? Iwe gi adila oku, it seems like op is ur ex lol

@the topic u have just shown us that u re a material girl, I pray I never marry ur type maka chi...........kupu
Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Kyase(m): 3:00pm On Nov 07, 2014
Vivly:
we thank God. How's the trekking going?
GoalllLlllllLllllL
23-0
Halftime

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Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by nairaman66(m): 3:00pm On Nov 07, 2014
Tashamania:
Ask him for permissions to use the car. Its his car, not yours. And you're not his wife.. I don't know why this is a big deal.
You can ask him for it jokingly but don't call him selfish, for the fact you are giving him sexx doesn't mean he must please you all round. Women sha! We can be greedy oh.

I'm sure you are enjoying other benefits that comes with been the woman of a car owner, yet you're not satisfied until he gives you one..

Even if he gives her one, one day she will want the other! Women an insatiable! Apparently most of them..

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