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A friend of mine has been in a relationship with the love of his life for over 10 years now. They promised not to have sex before marriage but after 10 years, one thing led to another and they started having "it". She has always been there for him since they met in college but recently, he has been having some reasons to suspect she is seeing someone else.
First, she was going out with an oil worker and when acousted by my friend about it, she apologized and begged and was remorseful. then she said she has ended it. After that, she told my friend that another rich guy is making passes at her and she doesn't know what to do. The rich guy has been pressuring her to go see his people but she has declined because according to her, she doesn't like the guy. To cut the long story short, She lost her phone recently and this rich guy gave her about 100,000 naira to buy a new phone which she collected. She called my friend up and showed the phone to him, and they "made out together". Now my friend is inviting her over to their house for the first time to meet his parents and she politely said cant come because she is on her per*od. My friend doesn't have a job now,(believing God for a miracle sha) so he doesn't want to propose yet. He loves her so much and thinks she loves him too. He is very confused and doesn't want to take a decision he will regret later.

Please Everyone should Advice....No abuse please

There's no difference between a government that rules for years and acheives nothing and a guy that dates a girl for 10years without engaging or doing anything tangible..That's by the way though



He doesn't have a job and he want's to take her to see his parents== For real

She's on her period == lame excuse,she's fed up with your friend and wants to hang out with rich dudes..

she is on her period.. thats d excuse?

maybe she doesn't wanna sleep with him in his parents house..

abi, how period take concern introduction?

hmmm suspicious! she might be seeing another guy. tell ur friend to ask her when she will have chance to see his parents... let's see the excuse she will give this time. if she is faithful, she will give u a date.but if she's not..she won't.

Back in those days in the Bible, they found it difficult to understand the handwriting on the wall, but trust me these days, U don't need any glasses or interpreter for U to understand handwriting in a relationship .

Op keep inviting her, continue to observe her actions while taking notes of her excuses as ur inferences, at the end when U can't take it any longer, from ur observations and inferences please draw ur conclusion(s).

This post just made my day, I've not laughed since morning but this thread made me to laugh like a lunatic
See as people wey dey joint just dey look me like mumu.

OP, God bless you for making me laff, am very grateful.

Odilafta:
There's no difference between a government that rules for years and acheives nothing and a guy that dates a girl for 10years without engaging or doing anything tangible..That's by the way though



He doesn't have a job and he want's to take her to see his parents== For real

She's on her period == lame excuse,she's fed up with your friend and wants to hang out with rich dudes..

He wants to show her that he is serious about committing to the relationship that's why he invited her to see his parents. He didnt want to let her wear engagement ring for many years . He just graduated from university this year.

shortgun:

This post just made my day, I've not laughed since morning but this thread made me to laugh like a lunatic
See as people wey dey joint just dey look me like mumu.

OP, God bless you for making me laff, am very grateful.

Take it easy bro....no pour your drink o. But whats so funny about the post ?
the young man just needs your advice

Nawa oo

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She doesn't like the guy but she likes his 100k.



She is not loyal, tell your friend that she is dating the rich guy and some other guys.

He just graduated from school this year and already talking about engagement?? Weird ones!

Tnycee:
Take it easy bro....no pour your drink o. But whats so funny about the post ?
the young man just needs your advice

You are asking me wots so funny about the post?

How can a guy who is jobless be competing with guys who work in an oil company and another who can afford to buy a phone for 100k?
Experience has taught me that naija women will always flow in d direction of available cash, this is why guys with cash can afford to buy and discard girls at will.
The post is all about a guy who is on a looooooong tin. I find it very amusing.

This my friend stuff dn boring naaaa
We already know say na you

WAitn go happen be say you go start to dh toast other babes

Thanks for all your responses, all the comments were very important.