nickz:
i have female friends with hairs around their body (hands and legs)...they are the smartest girls i've ever met,sometimes out of reflex ijust tend to brush my hand against their skins..the tickle from that sh1t can get exciting

facial hair tho,i have only seen two people on earth with it
my aunt and a close friend
my aunt(who is in her early 50's) sees no need to cut it
cos according to her she is past her game as she has 4 grown up kids and a late husband
i love her
but growing up wasn't the same story
she was harsh,never smiled....always fond of giving me hard knocks on my head

i got to bond with her only recently
when i tried playfully to bite the ears of a very close female friend
that sting on my cheek,i was shocked
and i don't hide feelings
when asked her what that was,she called me "mumu....bottle face"
she said she had facial hair,but she cut it off very very well
only very observant people notice

what moved me was she was very pretty,light skinned,kind,always willing to help...she was just a nice modafuqa....
since then my perception about my aunt just changed(i started talking more with her and regular visits....her love towards me is just too 'motherly')

story short.......i can date a girl with skin on her face if she keeps it as clean as my female friend i just talked about,but i can't marry her(cos i don't believe in marriage)
but the way people treat them is just awful

if i see a girl with a beard,moustache or whatever you may choose to call it i won't hesitate to make her my friend

that's where the problem is! She doesn't want to be your friend, she wants to be your lover! Your not hesitating to make her your friend sends a realer message to her. That she is not attractive hence, you want to get cose to her so that she doesn't feel bad about it. You also think she is not strong enough to stand it. Your action to make her your ffriend is even more depressing, my dear.

lmao @some people....i just wonder if there is any soul that's more hairy than giftest4life and myself

Ishilove:

Na una type dey push women go do wetin dem no suppose do.

Society can kiss my hairy ass. If y'all are so concerned about our facial hair, then it means y'all are jobless. Channel that concern to other worthier causes. Like the starving children in Somalia or something. Or to your government officials robbing you blind.

Leave our biabia for us!!!

Whether you like it or not, we react to how the society view us. According to Charles Cooley, the society is a looking glass. It tells you how you are just as a glass (mirror) does. If you are not concerned, why are you sharing how you live your life as a "bearded" lady, and how you are seen by even your mother, siblings and ex? Why did the OP post it in the first place?

Stillfire:
Haaa, the Igbo curse. I guess it means having more testosterone. More testosterone, more sex.ual prowess, stamina, flexibility, action, power, etc . If you dunno ask Jennykadry.

Jenny dey her own..dey mind her business as usual....abstaining from earthly sin and freeing self from all forms of kpekus to live a peaceful, long and charitable life but for wiaaaa...You had to drag me back into sin. . This one you talking as if you position camera for my bedroom dey watch all my flexible moves eh kwa? well just so you know, you won't get much out of the camera in the bedroom. The sitting room is mostly where the action lies

@Topic
Hair removal cream does it for me.

bamidele029:
No offensive but I find it unattractive

see english

Classicman47:


Its absolutely her bizness to refer to whoever she wants to. But d way & manner she is talking abt it makes it appear as if its kind of fashionable to hop frm boyfriend to boyfriend just for the hell of it. Just one question, like how many boyfriends will she like to add to her list before she gets serious talking abt fiance or even husband? Boyfriends no be achievment now. If anything, she is giving hersef unnecessary heartaches whenever d next guy just up & leaves after abusing her womanhood to his fill.
Well i understand some ppl really dont have anything to show for their existence except very irrelevant stuffs like this crap.


And guy i thot u were supposed to mind ur own bizness? cus when i checked, it was not u i quoted. Or did she hire u to attack me on her behalf? nawao

And we all have seen that your sole reason for existence is jumping from one thread to another disgracing your hopeless self, whose fault is it that you don't understand basic english? Pray tell how it is any of your beeswax what I decide to do with my life and my body? I can decide to feck whomever I want while actually loving it and keeping my head high, while you get to keep beating/hating your miserable life, wishing you can tap this but sorry, that's never gonna happen.

Lmao @ having no fiancé or husband, hehehe, see how ignorant you are? Where is it written that everyone must get married? Or you think every woman is like the ones raised in your household who have nothing to look forward to except waiting, fasting and praying for a man to take over from where their parents stopped feeding them? Women like us don't get married to escape poverty or show that we have achieved something, you can't even write properly yet you have the nerves to talk about achievements? May amadioha pay you a very gruesome visit for that, instead of you to look for ways to improve your life of squalor you are here talking crap about someone else's fab life and fyi, I'm typing this sexily lying in the hands of my BOYFRIEND, now you can kill yourself.

honeric01:


How extreme is your hair?

Mine's actually very minimal.

It is called hirsutism (excessive production of hormone:androgen). It is also one of the features of female virilization(hirsutism+masculine built etc).
It shouldn't downgrade your self confidence in anyway, I have seen some men say they love these features.
"Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder'
➕
I found out that most hirsutes are very smart, intelligent, just and strict.
Nothing do una jor, make una carry go ✔✔

You find this mostly among the igbos and ibibios(akwa iboms), i wonder why?

Classicman47:

Its absolutely her bizness to refer to whoever she wants to. But d way & manner she is talking abt it makes it appear as if its kind of fashionable to hop frm boyfriend to boyfriend just for the hell of it. Just one question, like how many boyfriends will she like to add to her list before she gets serious talking abt fiance or even husband? Boyfriends no be achievment now. If anything, she is giving hersef unnecessary heartaches whenever d next guy just up & leaves after abusing her womanhood to his fill.
Well i understand some ppl really dont have anything to show for their existence except very irrelevant stuffs like this crap.
And guy i thot u were supposed to mind ur own bizness? cus when i checked, it was not u i quoted. Or did she hire u to attack me on her behalf? nawao

Help me understand this...How is this any of your business?

emecheboy2:
Wetin concern me

Na wa o! This one suppose be man na.

emecheboy2:
Wetin concern me

I have seen this lady here in lag before

freecocoa:
It has never caused a problem, if anything, the guys have loved it, you know they get to play with it and all .

My last boyfriend was even angry when I cut it.

Thank God you decided to cut them....

I love it wen she has a little bear on her chest, anything more or when it extends to her face 'I WILL TAKE TO MY HILLS'.

Before I met her I used to feel funny around bearded ladies, avoided them cos I could not just cope with that thought.
But now I am comfortable with it, she's got hair in some funny places that I like and find attractive, as for the beard we just trim with scissors so as not to provoke their growth, but my only fear is that am very hairy also, hope its not gonna make our kids more hairy than us

Ishilove:
You should see my chin now. Mum says it is "nkriki-nkriko". Bumps, zits, ingrown hair and other nasties. So rough.

I don't allow most peeps touch my chin because I don't want them to feel the sharp edges of the biabia, except of course, my mum and sibs, when they want to inspect the beard. Bro calls my enemy 'Oliver de Coque', and threatens to rub hair fertiliser on my chin when I'm sleeping. Lol

My admirers and toasters alike have no issues with the biabia. I'm very hairy, so it isn't a surprise that the hair extended to my chin. Mum says "whoever will like you will like you, biabia or not."

Even my eyebrows sef are full enough to plait shuku and base. It seems God gave me all the hair on the production line that day. Smh. God is great

Ishi nwa nnem, hehehe pishure or idonblivit

lizzymomma:

but that's unfair now, don't bearded ladies deserve to be loved?

It is not my fault , it just disgust me maybe when I meet a girl I'm passionate about having beards ... I may be able to live with it but now ..... Grrrrrhhh !!

Same way I once hate menstrutation until my sister removed the phobia !

Epathra:
where is he? what happened to his line?

His lines dey on.



Happy Sunday

soonest:
You find this mostly among the igbos and ibibios(akwa iboms), i wonder why?

that's true

freecocoa:
And we all have seen that your sole reason for existence is jumping from one thread to another disgracing your hopeless self, whose fault is it that you don't understand basic english? Pray tell how it is any of your beeswax what I decide to do with my life and my body? I can decide to feck whomever I want while actually loving it and keeping my head high, while you get to keep beating/hating your miserable life, wishing you can tap this but sorry, that's never gonna happen.

Lmao @ having no fiancé or husband, hehehe, see how ignorant you are? Where is it written that everyone must get married? Or you think every woman is like the ones raised in your household who have nothing to look forward to except waiting, fasting and praying for a man to take over from where their parents stopped feeding them? Women like us don't get married to escape poverty or show that we have achieved something, you can't even write properly yet you have the nerves to talk about achievements? May amadioha pay you a very gruesome visit for that, instead of you to look for ways to improve your life of squalor you are here talking crap about someone else's fab life and fyi, I'm typing this sexily lying in the hands of my BOYFRIEND, now you can kill yourself.

Nne there is nothing worth holding ur head up high when u are sleeping around.

And for the records, i really dont think i fancy bearded women dat much. So there is no reason for me to wish i can tap "this", whatever dat means.
Happy sunday

Classicman47:


Nne there is nothing worth holding ur head up high when u are sleeping around.

And for the records, i really dont think i fancy bearded women dat much. So there is no reason for me to wish i can tap "this", whatever dat means.
Happy sunday

I'm holding it so high, there's nothing you can do about it and since I've not slept with you, you have no business with my life, try to understand that, even though we know how hard that is for a dumb head like you,but just really try, even in your next life, you'll never compare to the men I roll with so stop fantasizing already, anu mpama.

Ishilove:

You learn to cope with it noni. I was 18 when the hair began sprouting on my chin with vigour and panache. The irony is I was among the wicked students that was laughing at a female classmate whose face was marked with biabia just two years previously, in SS3. Two years later, my own start to grow with a vengeance.

So how do I cope? I started by using my fingers to pluck them. When the biabia became too many, I moved to depilatories. The first one was named 'Anti-depil' hair remover. Then I moved to another one ''All Clear" hair remover. That one is very nice. Even has a free moisturiser in it

However, I noticed that the more I used it, the thicker the biabia became. What I mean is this: the shaft of a strand of beard is thick, even thicker than the hair on my head. Infact, I had to shave with the depilatory every four days.

It got to a point that I became vexed with it and let it grow out in all it's hirsute glory.

you are a damn good writter!

freecocoa:
Mine's actually very minimal.

Hehe, can I see any? face or upper chest area? tall request lolz

honeric01:


Hehe, can I see any? face or upper chest area? tall request lolz

You know you can't, btw your wife dey our union?

Igbo women sabi get hair for chest and chin for afrika, mhen!:::::::: no any other tribe but igbo

Joslyn:
I'm very hairy on my legs but have few strands of hair on my jaw. I think it's hereditary cos my dad is very hairy. Its not abnormal.

The definition of abnormal is something that you don't see everyday, that is not commonplace. A woman with hair on her chin is very abnormal!

BE CLEAN SHAVEN
@lizzymomma, thanks for this thread you are doing a great favour to bearded ladies. Do not mind those commenting without consideration for the feelings of those ladies in beards.

My advice to bearded ladies is that they should avoid letting it grow bushy. It is definitely not a comfortable sight for most men and women. If men could be clean shaven why not women who in the first place are not naturally supposed to be bearded. So you can manage your situation well, do not let it weigh you down. Cheers.

laser therapy for permanent removal of unwanted hair...it works

90% of ladies with chin hair are very wicked. Mama okey, mama ngozi, mama Adaeze and co for my area. Very wicked women! I no fit shout jare.

Light hair on the hands, legs and chest are preferable.

OrlandoOwoh:

Whether you like it or not, we react to how the society view us. According to Charles Cooley, the society is a looking glass. It tells you how you are just as a glass (mirror) does. If you are not concerned, why are you sharing how you live your life as a "bearded" lady, and how you are seen by even your mother, siblings and ex? Why did the OP post it in the first place?

I'm responding to the OP's questions, not society or worrefa. If I gave off the impression that I am bothered about what 'society' thinks about my facial hair, then I must say that it is a vey wrong impression.

Get this: I can never be bothered about what I have a limited control over.

soonest:
You find this mostly among the igbos and ibibios(akwa iboms), i wonder why?

I think it's because most igbo men are hairy (very hairy). So, they pass the hairy gene to their kids including the girls.