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PLEASE I NEED HELP
someone plz explain to me the reality
in marriages. Though as an optimist, I am inclined to
believe that God designed marriage to be enjoyed. But
stark realities are staring me on the face. Realities that a
vast majority of marriages are in shambles. they are
either dead, dieing, comatose, or at best...walking dead.
me I don tire ooooo. this is important cos for us single
ones I need to know so I don't make a life long mistake.
IS MARRIAGE A MISTAKE? seriously considering
becoming a eunuch. cos it seems marriage complicates
simple things. plz serious comments needed. preferably
from married folks. #seriouslyconsideringsingleness4life. but for moral reasons it would be far better to get a baby mama, get a kid or two, and live happily ever after..........as a single man.

its OK

just need a juxtaposition between the realities of marriage and its strong areas(if any)

Ask your parents, preferably your mum, what marriage is all about.

IF I HAD MY WAY, I WONT MARRY, BUT THEN, ITS IMPORTANT TO RAISE YOUR KIDS IN AN IDEAL FAMILY ENVIRONMENT WHERE YOU HAVE FATHER AND MOTHER, FOR THE SAKE OF THE CHILD'S SANITY

doingreat:
PLEASE I NEED HELP
someone plz explain to me the reality
in marriages. Though as an optimist, I am inclined to
believe that God designed marriage to be enjoyed. But
stark realities are staring me on the face. Realities that a
vast majority of marriages are in shambles. they are
either dead, dieing, comatose, or at best...walking dead.
me I don tire ooooo. this is important cos for us single
ones I need to know so I don't make a life long mistake.
IS MARRIAGE A MISTAKE? seriously considering
becoming a eunuch. cos it seems marriage complicates
simple things. plz serious comments needed. preferably
from married folks. #seriouslyconsideringsingleness4life. but for moral reasons it would be far better to get a baby mama, get a kid or two, and live happily ever after..........as a single man.

You haven't met the right person yet. When you do, it will all make sense.

Lordabas:
You haven't met the right person yet. When you do, it will all make sense.

ya I know all that. right now my head is rolling for somebody. she seems to b the right on. but fact is nomatter how 'inlove' u guys were wen u get married, 2 years down the line, everything becomes normal, love go run, catacata go start.