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Pdizzle:
Okay sir. Problem number two; being unreal with yourself. If its all about being a friend only you got something wrong, read your initial post. You talked about "taking a shot" hehe. Man, know thyself.

Lol...yeah i wanna take a shot..is that a sin?

izaray:
Lol, i dnt av any either, so try d one he just gave to you,

lets see how it is going to work out for you


Goodluck, and pls, dnt 4get to tank us later

Alright bae...but what if you are the girl in question...what will you expect? Or what will be your reactions to later conversations

Gflat:
Lol...yeah i wanna take a shot..is that a sin?

god don cach u no be sin

Gflat:
Alright bae...but what if you are the girl in question...what will you expect? Or what will be your reactions to later conversations

Nothing is new anymore na, op, two things are involved,


its either we become frnds, or you want to ask the other side of d game.


But wait a minute, wat's dat light u are turning on/off meant for? Lol

izaray:
Nothing is new anymore na, op, two things are involved,


its either we become frnds, or you want to ask the other side of d game.


But wait a minute, wat's dat light u are turning on/off meant for? Lol

Its a song..."Turn on the light" by lil wayne

Btw, what is in the other side of the game??

ghost1718:
god don cach u no be sin

I don't get it...what is God catching me for

Gflat:
Lol @finisher

I called her just this morning...and i don't wanna "stalk" her neither...was thinking maybe i should alt till thursday...good or bad idea?

Thursday is okay. But weekend might be better o. At weekend, you might even call twice, that is on Friday and probably Sunday. You have enough stuffs to talk about within this period....how interesting the week was, plans for the weekend, how church service went, preparation for the new week etc....don't ask questions whose answers are personal or too many questions until she feels comfortable with you; you might just start talking about your own week and naturally, she'd flow with you. Just be casual, friendly and real.
Moreover, highly ambitious/busy guys mostly have time during weekends; program that into her subconscious memory and she'd understand you're not the type that goes hunting for girls' phone numbers....afterall, that's the aim of this topic. She won't even suspect that at all.

You can only start playing the 'caring guy' role as your level increases, for now it would only be labelled 'disturbance'.

This is just my opinion.

izaray:
Nothing is new anymore na, op, two things are involved,


its either we become frnds, or you want to ask the other side of d game.


But wait a minute, wat's dat light u are turning on/off meant for? Lol

You should be giving enough tips here o...You're in a better position to do so.

Mrval20:
You should be giving enough tips here o...You're in a better position to do so.

Is it now an interview?

Gflat:
After the call, i stored her number to check her out on whatsApp...OMG she is so pretty and i think i'll have to "take a shot"

Now the situation is, what can i do not to look like someone who was actually trying to "play his way in" ??

Please advice

Herein lies the problem (bolded).

There's no chance of playing around anything. Once you contact her again, your game is up. Now she knows you want her, in some way. And are interested.

This is a good thing. Then proceed to act like a normal dude who wants her sexúally.

Your intention to fvck any girl is legitimate - if you think it is legitimate. Masking your intent and desire for the girl makes her see you as a 'friend'.

Don't wait for 6 months and then freak her out with "Surprise, surprise: I have a díck!"

Don't dull too much on the phone too, invite her out as soon as possible.

Yes, please. Let me make it clearer: If you were the lady in question, what character(s) will this our bro display that would make you think he isn't being sincere about stumbling upon your contact in his old diary?
Let's start from there...Your time is ticking

This is really sad because this is not face to face ish..we r talking about online "toasting" here...

mizzkeji44:
Dont you have a gf before?

Do you wanna be his gf now?

izaray:
Lol, i dnt av any either, so try d one he just gave to you,

lets see how it is going to work out for you


Goodluck, and pls, dnt 4get to tank us later

Op, this could be the girl in question oh!
She just dey look you like: see mumu..
See monkey...

chisco82:
Do you wanna be his gf now?

Dont get it twisted...

I was jux askn a questn.

Gflat:
Yeah, was thinking about that but she would still know i am up to something...i wanna catch her unaware...or should i chat her up on whatsapp now?

U wanna catch her unawares? Ok. Jst call her 2days from now. Tell her it's u again, u want to tell her something and she should listen 1st before saying anything. That u like her. It's been on ur mind but u didn't knw d best way to break it since u both probably dnt knw each other. Tell her u'll like to take her out n u're patient enuf to start as friends . be blunt, she's probably heard those same words in many different ways.


If she no gree, abuse her father n delete her number from ur fone, and her voice n face from ur head

Mrval20:
Thursday is okay. But weekend might be better o. At weekend, you might even call twice, that is on Friday and probably Sunday. You have enough stuffs to talk about within this period....how interesting the week was, plans for the weekend, how church service went, preparation for the new week etc....don't ask questions whose answers are personal or too many questions until she feels comfortable with you; you might just start talking about your own week and naturally, she'd flow with you. Just be casual, friendly and real.
Moreover, highly ambitious/busy guys mostly have time during weekends; program that into her subconscious memory and she'd understand you're not the type that goes hunting for girls' phone numbers....afterall, that's the aim of this topic. She won't even suspect that at all.

You can only start playing the 'caring guy' role as your level increases, for now it would only be labelled 'disturbance'.

This is just my opinion.

Dude, you are awesome!!!

BuddhaPalm:
Here in lies the problem (bolded).

There's no chance of playing around anything. Once you contact her again, your game is up. Now she knows you want her, in some way. And are interested.

This is a good thing. Then proceed to act like a normal dude who wants her sexúally.

Your intention to fvck any girl is legitimate - if you think it is legitimate. Masking your intent and desire for the girl makes her see you as a 'friend'.

Don't wait for 6 months and then freak her out with "Surprise, surprise: I have a díck!"

Don't dull too much on the phone too, invite her out as soon as possible.

When is the right time to invite her?? Immediately?

marieolae:
This is really sad because this is not face to face ish..we r talking about online "toasting" here...

Yeah, your opinion is highly welcomed

But wait o. If she's that beautiful, chances ate that other guys are planning strategy. You gat to move fast and forget her suspicion cos she has already guessed your intention. Ladies' minds travel far.

Mrfils:
U wanna catch her unawares? Ok. Jst call her 2days from now. Tell her it's u again, u want to tell her something and she should listen 1st before saying anything. That u like her. It's been on ur mind but u didn't knw d best way to break it since u both probably dnt knw each other. Tell her u'll like to take her out n u're patient enuf to start as friends . be blunt, she's probably heard those same words in many different ways.


If she no gree, abuse her father n delete her number from ur fone, and her voice n face from ur head

Get away from here!

Tymax:
But wait o. Of she's that beautiful, chances ate that other guys are planning strategy. You gat to move fast. Forget her suspicion. She has already guessed your intention. Ladies' minds travel far.

Yeah...right, but i don't wanna seem like the "desperate" dude...remember she asked the question..."How can i help you"

Gflat:
Yeah...right, but i don't wanna seem like the "desperate" dude...remember she asked the question..."How can i help you"

Hmmm dat question is heavy. I think you need to start with WhatsApp, then advance to more phone calls. If your WhatsApp profile pic is not "representing" you need to change it to something dripping with swag. You know what I mean.

Chat her up and don't give her any compliment on her beauty. You can do that later like it's an afterthought. It is important for you to relate with her like an old friend.

Gflat:
When is the right time to invite her?? Immediately?

Without mincing words; what do you really want with/from her?

BuddhaPalm:
Without mincing words; what do you really want with/from her?

Relationship

Gflat:
Relationship

Good.

The easiest way to get into a relationship with any girl is to sleep with her asap. The cocktail of oxytocin, dopamine and co will create all the bonding you need.


That aside, you don't really want this particular one girl - you want good looking girls like her. And there a great many number of them.

To get the one girl you want, you have to become good with women in general.


On a final note, to be able to get the kind of girls you really want; you have to become a man of STANDARDS. You see, you know absolutely nothing about this girl, but you want to date her already.

You don't know if she lies a lot, steals, prostitutes, has the same worldview as yourself, can cook, is excellent in bed, etc. Women want men who screen them against a set of standards - it gives her comfort that she's not just another replaceable vagína. But that you like her for her.

mizzkeji44:
Dont get it twisted...

I was jux askn a questn.

Lol! No mind me oo.
This is nairaland for you.
So plz don't take it serious.

Gflat:
Get away from here!

Lol! See ooo.
Bros that guy wicked ni.
He no want make your dream come through...

Gflat:
I am not the kindda guy that "hit and run" i am the kindda guy that "hit and keep hitting" but physically and emotionally

I love that statement you are my kind of guy, that is why I keep hitting some of my ex till now

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Gflat:
Yeah...right, but i don't wanna seem like the "desperate" dude...remember she asked the question..."How can i help you"

dude have u called that babe ?? If so beef me