My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? - Romance (34)

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Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Nobody: 9:11am On Nov 11, 2014

spikesC:

So, back to business.
You owe me big time, time to pay your debt

what debt? sad

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by spikesC(m): 10:11am On Nov 11, 2014

Tashamania:
what debt?

Bae, do you really wanna do this undecided

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Nobody: 10:14am On Nov 11, 2014

spikesC:
Bae, do you really wanna do this

oh jeezz spikesc, come on.. grin

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by spikesC(m): 12:46pm On Nov 11, 2014

Tashamania:
oh jeezz spikesc, come on..

This is my serious face angry

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Youngpo413: 12:54pm On Nov 11, 2014

Vikkyk10:
best reply eva

My love

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Youngpo413: 12:54pm On Nov 11, 2014

Vikkyk10:
best reply eva

my love

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by GoodFaith: 2:39pm On Nov 12, 2014

Tashamania:
what debt?

Accounting 101------Credit and debt

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by shakrullah(m): 7:57am On Nov 13, 2014

francizy:
Haba! Even if someone is ugly, you don't compare them with animals.. Not good man.. You wouldn't like it when some other guy says stuff like this to your sister or would you?

u suppose know say na joke now. just for fun

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Nobody: 8:55am On Nov 13, 2014

Tashamania:
Ask him for permissions to use the car. Its his car, not yours. And you're not his wife.. I don't know why this is a big deal.
You can ask him for it jokingly but don't call him selfish, for the fact you are giving him sexx doesn't mean he must please you all round. Women sha! We can be greedy oh.

I'm sure you are enjoying other benefits that comes with been the woman of a car owner, yet you're not satisfied until he gives you one..

so I stumbled over this post and I just kept thinking, "benefits that comes with been the woman of a car owner" pls enlighten me more. grin

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by francizy(m): 8:56am On Nov 13, 2014*

shakrullah:
u suppose know say na joke now. just for fun

Lmao!
Na cuz of una dem girls open this thread oh
https://www.nairaland.com/1991033/all-dissing-miss-nairaland-contestants
See how dem just dey diss each other there like secondary school girls and boys angry

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by firstolalekan(m): 1:38pm On Nov 13, 2014

Samsonklin:
Does it matter if its gibberish? Just take d advise n walk away, its for ur own good

keep the silly advise to yourself and your lousy girlfriend.

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Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Samsonklin(m): 4:22pm On Nov 13, 2014

firstolalekan:
keep the silly advise to yourself and your lousy girlfriend.

Lol.. Ok. Buh bfore I do dat guy, I wil recomend a book for ya, u wil like it.. Its titled "how do I stop being a coward and A goat-like headed person" by Festus Iyayi (he is late though) may his sould rest in perfect peace. Its good, try it.. Thanks.

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by firstolalekan(m): 4:46pm On Nov 13, 2014

Samsonklin:
Lol.. Ok. Buh bfore I do dat guy, I wil recomend a book for ya, u wil like it.. Its titled "how do I stop being a coward and A goat-like headed person" by Festus Iyayi (he is late though) may his sould rest in perfect peace. Its good, try it.. Thanks.

no no no
I have got more important things to read.

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by danbrowndmf(m): 12:43pm On Nov 17, 2014

[quote author=bluelover
post=27863158]i will swear by fire and sun!!!

I dont have a boyfriend and i have never had one. and even if i do i
wont be like you or the op who feels they are entitled to something
because of one boyfriend somewhere.

i have better things and goals i want to accomplish in my life than
thinking of one boyfriend to give me his car or start begging. there is
more to a relationship than that.

there is more to life than relationships also.

like i advised earlier go and work on yourself first before coming here
to throw tantrums over this issue.

#goodday[/quote]chai. u dnt have a boifriend? chai am available na. wink

we can always make it wrk. wink

i knw kukuma get car wey u go request for sef. wink

so it can always wrk btwn ous. wink

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Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by danbrowndmf(m): 12:50pm On Nov 17, 2014

[quote
author=CHoccolaTE post=27863658]Abi oooo! Everybody wants to talk even
those that have never dated or even have any friends from the opposite
sex. Nairaland is where all the pathetic losers come to shine and be
famous cool

[/quote]u jus call pple losers? ur words are to harsh stop taking tinx personal to much dis life no hard like dis oh My belove sister

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by danbrowndmf(m): 12:57pm On Nov 17, 2014

[quote
author=freecocoa post=27864791]The issue's already over flogged, thing
is you didn't wait to understand the reason for my comment, you felt you
have sharp fingers therefore can quote just about anyone hurling
invectives, I know alot about REAL relationships and how they work so
you don't have to lecture me, people older than me seek my opinion on
the subject matter so don't ask me if you made no sense, cos whatever
sense you could have made, got lost in your futile bid to sound all
smart and independent.[/quote]MISS Relationship I Hail oh.

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Dorisbest(f): 8:18pm On Nov 18, 2014

Pipsland78:
For this post, you got me falling in love with you.

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Youngzedd(m): 8:50pm On Nov 18, 2014

Khalessi:
How much did you contribute to buying any of the cars?

Highest like since 2005

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Nobody: 2:38pm On Nov 19, 2014

Dorisbest:
hi

Hi dear, I tried sending you a private message.

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Dorisbest(f): 5:29pm On Nov 19, 2014

Pipsland78:
Hi dear, I tried sending you a private message.

I saw it

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Nobody: 11:41pm On Nov 19, 2014

Dorisbest:
I saw it

ok..wld like to connect wt u

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by wordbank(m): 6:33am On Nov 20, 2014

@op u still dey trek? No wonder our roads dey spoil

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by IAMBREEZY: 1:24pm On Dec 02, 2014

Shaakasi:
Hahahahaha u r a meanie...

we need to talk choco

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by iampartyboy(m): 9:38pm On Dec 30, 2014

Vivly:
You TREK around??
So you don't even have #50 for transport fare yet you want a car?

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by iampartyboy(m): 9:42pm On Dec 30, 2014

firstEVA:
we are in a committed relationship

WE? talk for yourself only tongue

firstEVA:
we are in a committed relationship

WE? talk for yourself only

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by iampartyboy(m): 9:52pm On Dec 30, 2014

eminentme:
*spreads mat with bust meat and kunu in hand* come here, wetin small pikin dey use car do? Abi u think say na your pusssy i'm take buy d cars? C'mon dey trek jor

Tell am ooo cheesy

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by rocgirl: 11:31pm On Dec 30, 2014

wordbank:
@op u still dey trek? No wonder our roads dey spoil

Ahn ahn!

It's not like there's a CAT caterpillar tied under the soles of her Kito sandals! grin

Stop taking a swipe at the situation. No curry is permanet, is nort guud naa! grin

Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:52pm On Jan 07, 2015

eckersley:
Giving him sex?
WHAT DA FK IS WRONG WT [Nigerian] men?
I do not subscribe to nor advocate premarital sex,
Here is my philosophy/stand on sex

1. No woman/lady [even my wife] can EVER give me sex.
Every man should be able to say and practice the same
Sex is a two way street.
A lady cannot lie on a bed and hv sex by/with herself, neither can a man. [don't u mention self-service]
If u say/believe a lady gives u sex, that means she does not enjoy it nor
has urges for it.

Women[like men] hv sexu-al urges but hv trained themselves to tie it to receiving
something from men.
Hence the men think their ladies reward
them[guys] with sex for the gifts/nice treatment they [men] provide.
And the ladies arrange/ make it appear so.

MEN PLEASE, DISCIPLINE URSELF AND CHANGE UR MENTALITY.
I beg u in the name of GOD
DMX ACCURATELY captures this in "What These Bit-ches Want"

I gave you, you gave me - BIT-CH,
I blazed you, you blazed me (c'mon)
Nothing more, nothing less, but you at my door
willing to confess that it's the best you ever tested
Better than all the rest, I'm like, "Aight girlfriend, hold up
I gave you, what you gave me Boo, a nut (f'real)"

Some ladies will say, Na mouth e dey make
Naaah ladies. I also walk the walk
----------

Should a lady and I ever discuss sex in marriage,
I tell them that
No girl NOT EVEN MY WIFE can use sex as a weapon or bargaining
chip against me.
And that I would warn my wife during courtship and after marriage
so she gets it into her skull.

I say sth along these lines
First, I am a firm believer and advocate of husbands and wives
using seperate bedrooms AND INTEND TO PRACTICE THIS TO THE HILT

I do not intend to hv sex during my honey moon and first 6 months of our marriage to drive home my message.
[Cos she'll think I abstained from premarital sex cos we are Christians]
Bt I talk abt this 6 months period so she understands that tho we r married sex is not the end all and be all.

Third, I operate the rule of 2
By that I mean.

If I'm in the mood and make a move on my wife and she turns down my advances.
I won't press or attempt talking her into it.
I just back off
2 days later, I'll approach her again
She says no. I back off
2 weeks after. Another NO
I back off
2 months after. Another No
I back off
Is someone expecting me to say 2 years.
NAAAAH.
For the next 2 years she'll be the sole initiator of sex.
If she comes to me for it, we do it.
If she doesn't come, no sweat
I wonder how that will impact her ego or feeling of being
sex-ually desired
My religion/person does not advocate revenge so it's out of the way

When I tell this to girls who are just my friends,
they say
No naaah. That's wickedness naah
U are heartless
blah, blah, blah

If abstaining frm sex for the 1st 30 years of youthful virility
did not kill me, it can't do so thereafter.

Where I dey go for life far and sex is not the ferry that
will take me there
Peace

Bros...you set.

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Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by Nobody: 2:03pm On Oct 09, 2015

firstEVA:
He just bought another car, isn't he suppose to give me one, is it that he doesn't genuinely love me or he's just being selfish.

E don give you one of the cars? grin

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