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That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by cuteposhy(op): 9:19pm On Nov 22, 2014
This topic may sound like some sort of cliche but permit me to quench the desire burning in the inside of me- the desire to share a first hand experience in relation to this topic.

I once boasted to myself that when the right man for me comes along I would surely know but I was so wrong because the right man for me was there but I didn't notice. I met this guy nine years ago in my first year in the university and we became very close. On several occasions he tried to ask me out but I turned him down because I already had an image of my mr right in my heart as prophesied by a man of God.

After graduation he moved on and I also did same but my first relationship crashed almost immediately it started due to irreconcilable differences. Two years later we met again and I decided to open up my heart to him and today I'm engaged to my friend, brother, love of my life, the same person I once friend zoned.
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by Nobody: 9:21pm On Nov 22, 2014
Whr is EroticAngelina, and whoelse dat is frndzonin me... Yu ppo should come nd read dis...
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by Princecalm(m): 9:26pm On Nov 22, 2014
Nice one,sharing from experience but it might not be always true.
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by Nobody: 9:27pm On Nov 22, 2014
Princecalm:
Nice one,sharing from experience but it might not be always true.
dat is why she put "May" in the topic
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by Princecalm(m): 9:30pm On Nov 22, 2014
Cutehector4u:
dat is why she put "May" in the topic
am not in anyway contradicting what she said.
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by ireneony(f): 9:31pm On Nov 22, 2014
why u come de tell us, keep it to urself. there is nothing like love. maybe y u took him seriously becos e don hammer huhsad
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by Houseofglam7(f): 9:34pm On Nov 22, 2014
True that.
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by Nobody: 9:36pm On Nov 22, 2014
ireneony:
why u come de tell us, keep it to urself. there is nothing like love. maybe y u took him seriously becos e don hammer huhsad
smh
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by Footsoldier(m): 9:39pm On Nov 22, 2014
Ohhh. I see why you always go after every topic.
Cutehector4u:
Whr is EroticAngelina, and whoelse dat is frndzonin me... Yu ppo should come nd read dis...
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by Nobody: 9:39pm On Nov 22, 2014
Watin cosign me*searching for better thread*
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by ireneony(f): 9:40pm On Nov 22, 2014
Cutehector4u:
smh
your neck go break one day grin
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by Nobody: 9:41pm On Nov 22, 2014
Footsoldier:
Ohhh. I see why you always go after every topic.
my brother...... Pls tomoro is sunday.... Am already tired of replyn to stupid comments...
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by Nobody: 9:41pm On Nov 22, 2014
ireneony:
your neck go break one day grin
i don tire for nairalanders... I will soon dissapear ok...
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by iamodenigbo1(m): 9:47pm On Nov 22, 2014
friend zone as in

Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by barthchuks(m): 10:36pm On Nov 22, 2014
she needs to read this
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Just like I did
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by mencade5(m): 10:40pm On Nov 22, 2014
cuteposhy:
This topic may sound like some sort of cliche but permit me to quench the desire burning in the inside of me- the desire to share a first hand experience in relation to this topic.

I once boasted to myself that when the right man for me comes along I would surely know but I was so wrong because the right man for me was there but I didn't notice. I met this guy nine years ago in my first year in the university and we became very close. On several occasions he tried to ask me out but I turned him down because I already had an image of my mr right in my heart as prophesied by a man of God.

After graduation he moved on and I also did same but my first relationship crashed almost immediately it started due to irreconcilable differences. Two years later we met again and I decided to open up my heart to him and today I'm engaged to my friend, brother, love of my life, the same person I once friend zoned.
op make u tell the ladies them. Na them d tin dey affect pass.
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by mencade5(m): 10:40pm On Nov 22, 2014
cuteposhy:
This topic may sound like some sort of cliche but permit me to quench the desire burning in the inside of me- the desire to share a first hand experience in relation to this topic.

I once boasted to myself that when the right man for me comes along I would surely know but I was so wrong because the right man for me was there but I didn't notice. I met this guy nine years ago in my first year in the university and we became very close. On several occasions he tried to ask me out but I turned him down because I already had an image of my mr right in my heart as prophesied by a man of God.

After graduation he moved on and I also did same but my first relationship crashed almost immediately it started due to irreconcilable differences. Two years later we met again and I decided to open up my heart to him and today I'm engaged to my friend, brother, love of my life, the same person I once friend zoned.
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by Nobody: 10:47pm On Nov 22, 2014
I do hope he didn't become your last resort.
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by Nobody: 10:54pm On Nov 22, 2014
I have had friends fall in love with me.I friend zone because I don't wanna loose them if it doesn't work out.sometimes we are wrong to do that; other times we made the right decision.
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by cuteposhy(op): 6:42am On Nov 23, 2014
All the comments made so far are valid. Like I said in my post I was blind not to have noticed him all along. My aim is not to impose but to encourage someone. If you have a guy/girl in your friend zone who is friendly, caring, loving, hasn't laid a finger on you, hasn't taken advantage of you, calls you everyday, gives you gifts, corrects you in a friendly manner, visits you often etc then maybe you should re-evaluate your life just to be sure you're not keeping a good man/woman in your friend zone.
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by cuteposhy(op): 6:45am On Nov 23, 2014
striktlymi:
I do hope he didn't become your last resort.
I decided to give him a chance not because he was my last resort but because he was my best resort.
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by Nobody: 7:01am On Nov 23, 2014
cuteposhy:
I decided to give him a chance not because he was my last resort but because he was my best resort.
Oh! Dis is one of d most reasonable statements eva made by a female in nl.

Kudos madam. Ya head day work wella. Aya fon no fien! smiley
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by Nobody: 7:14am On Nov 23, 2014
Cutehector4u:
Whr is EroticAngelina, and whoelse dat is frndzonin me... Yu ppo should come nd read dis...
lol so u want me to boyfriend zone u? ^^
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by Nobody: 7:49am On Nov 23, 2014
This is serious.
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by Nobody: 8:23am On Nov 23, 2014
cuteposhy:
I decided to give him a chance not because he was my last resort but because he was my best resort.
K, cool!

My concern really is that some ladies only go back to a guy in their 'friendzone' when they run out of options and not because they love the guy.

I am glad your case seems different.
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by Nobody: 7:48am On Nov 24, 2014
EroticAngelina:
lol so u want me to boyfriend zone u? ^^
lol am biger dan dat, i want u to husband zone me
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by chimerase2: 7:59am On Nov 24, 2014
Op like I said u gals mumu die infact una mumu is underrated embarassed
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by Roum(m): 8:06am On Nov 24, 2014
ireneony:
why u come de tell us, keep it to urself. there is nothing like love. maybe y u took him seriously becos e don hammer huhsad
correct!!!
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by Nobody: 4:31pm On Nov 24, 2014
Cutehector4u:
lol am biger dan dat, i want u to husband zone me
lol sorry, I can't tongue
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by Nobody: 8:19pm On Nov 24, 2014
cuteposhy:
This topic may sound like some sort of cliche but permit me to quench the desire burning in the inside of me- the desire to share a first hand experience in relation to this topic.

I once boasted to myself that when the right man for me comes along I would surely know but I was so wrong because the right man for me was there but I didn't notice. I met this guy nine years ago in my first year in the university and we became very close. On several occasions he tried to ask me out but I turned him down because I already had an image of my mr right in my heart as prophesied by a man of God.

After graduation he moved on and I also did same but my first relationship crashed almost immediately it started due to irreconcilable differences. Two years later we met again and I decided to open up my heart to him and today I'm engaged to my friend, brother, love of my life, the same person I once friend zoned.
You were lucky he wasnt hooked during those shakara period, glad ur eyes have been opened.
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by 100Cents: 11:00pm On Nov 24, 2014
cuteposhy:
This topic may sound like some sort of cliche but permit me to quench the desire burning in the inside of me- the desire to share a first hand experience in relation to this topic.

I once boasted to myself that when the right man for me comes along I would surely know but I was so wrong because the right man for me was there but I didn't notice. I met this guy nine years ago in my first year in the university and we became very close. On several occasions he tried to ask me out but I turned him down because I already had an image of my mr right in my heart as prophesied by a man of God.

After graduation he moved on and I also did same but my first relationship crashed almost immediately it started due to irreconcilable differences. Two years later we met again and I decided to open up my heart to him and today I'm engaged to my friend, brother, love of my life, the same person I once friend zoned.
So you saying I should go back and start looking for my secondary school crush ?

This asking out of a thing, I don't know what it means.

We are in France.
Re: That Guy/girl You're Friend Zoning May Just Be The Right One For You! by 100Cents: 11:01pm On Nov 24, 2014
ireneony:
why u come de tell us, keep it to urself. there is nothing like love. maybe y u took him seriously becos e don hammer huhsad
You dey very weekend.

Nah your fellow woman you dey tell this kain thing..
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