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I Need Your Advice. by gnykelly(m): 11:28pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
there is this girl that caught my attention earlier this year. love her, love her attitude. perfect example of wife material. wooed her and she agreed. after some time I discover that there is another guy at the end of the table. she never told me, but was able to figure it out. I asked her she replied she is her friend. and he is based in dubai. I told her she should put my pics on her DP and I will do the same. she refused flatly. I waited and study the whole thing. one of the possibility that came to my head was that she wanted to use me as a buffer in case that guy fail him. so I decided to ask her this question' if you and I are walking on the street someone ask you who i was'. she said just friend'. then I told her I don't want her friendship again. she was furious but I wasn't bulged because I will be at the loosing end if I invested time and money. do you guys think I've been selfish with my attitude or acted right in my best interest. |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by GboyegaD(m): 11:41pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
You are more than selfish because you chose to end the relationship because she wouldn't use you as her DP. It is her DP and not yours and she has the right to use whoever or whatever she wants. |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by Chy27: 11:43pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
[ [/qucolor] gnykelly: |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by Nobody: 11:58pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
GboyegaD: you talk like a fool. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by GboyegaD(m): 12:06am On Nov 25, 2014 |
Wonderlands: If I do not belong to your school of reasoning you call me by a name right? So who then reasons like a fool between us? If you do not like my reasoning then ignore instead of exposing yourself on here. |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by Nobody: 12:12am On Nov 25, 2014 |
How much do you sell ice fish Cus u mentioned in your post that you sell fish? Pls pm me if it 100 Thanks |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by ronald4lif(m): 12:14am On Nov 25, 2014 |
You did the right thing fam, she's not into you, she's rather into the other guy, she's a time waster. Move on, earlier the better 1 Like |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by gnykelly(m): 12:22am On Nov 25, 2014 |
ronald4lif: that is my major suspicion. she was into me. she wanted to use me as buffer in case the Dubai guy fork up. |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by MisterLongman(m): 12:23am On Nov 25, 2014 |
GboyegaD:Sorry to say this but that guy is right..... You don't need holy water to wash your face to see that the dude is being played. |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by GboyegaD(m): 12:30am On Nov 25, 2014 |
MisterLongman: It depends on how you choose to see it. He is just her boyfriend and she is not obliged to live by his dictates. It is her phone and she chooses what she is comfortable with as her DP. If he isn't comfortable with her decision, he should move on as he has. Trying to run someone else's life because you are dating the person is highly selfish and a sign of insecurity. |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by MisterLongman(m): 12:38am On Nov 25, 2014 |
GboyegaD:Did you miss the part where she said she would call him just a friend if she was asked by anyone while strolling together on the street. I don't agree with forcing her to use his pic as her dp but with those two instances, the girl has another plan on her mind |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by GboyegaD(m): 12:43am On Nov 25, 2014 |
MisterLongman: I'm not sure that part was in the original post and if it was, then I must have missed it. It is good he has moved on. |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by MisterLongman(m): 12:49am On Nov 25, 2014 |
GboyegaD:Okay |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by Taleeysun(f): 1:17am On Nov 25, 2014 |
Op Are you sure you need my advice? |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by Equado(m): 2:20am On Nov 25, 2014 |
Ryt call mate....dump the h*e |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by Nobody: 2:30am On Nov 25, 2014 |
Wonderlands:10000000 likes |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by zoeee(f): 5:08am On Nov 25, 2014 |
Naah... U did just fine |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by gnykelly(m): 7:58am On Nov 25, 2014 |
GboyegaD: well I wanted to love her completely. but don't you think it is wise for me to clarify before I placed my trust. I was willing to place her pics on my DP for every girl in my life can see but she was un willing on her side. |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by gnykelly(m): 8:02am On Nov 25, 2014 |
Taleeysun: say something. |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by FLAWLES(f): 8:08am On Nov 25, 2014 |
............. |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by Nobody: 10:15am On Nov 25, 2014 |
FLAWLES:dis gal.u b clown! lmao |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by chimerase2: 10:28am On Nov 25, 2014 |
Selfie with her first before I advice |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by FLAWLES(f): 10:49am On Nov 25, 2014 |
pinkiepetite:.my sister..hw er u |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by 2goodbobo(m): 11:52am On Nov 25, 2014 |
Dont go into that relationship with your whole mind,body and soul if you dont want to be hit by disappointment in the end. Show real commitment when she is ready to do same. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by Cholls(m): 1:45pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
gnykelly:my brother nah! U r not selfish u just display to her what a real man really is(confident and know what he wants) |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by GboyegaD(m): 2:53pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
gnykelly: I understand your point of view however, if you put a girl's picture on your DP and she doesn't reciprocate, that doesn't suggest she doesn't love you. |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by gnykelly(m): 2:59pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
GboyegaD: in love I don't think we should hide anything. she was hiding something as I suspect. |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by GboyegaD(m): 3:11pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
gnykelly: In this car she might be hiding something our she might not be so convinced about your intentions yet as such she is taking her time. |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by herdeythoun(f): 3:25pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
gnykelly:...u acted the best way,is she not happy and proud to have you.? |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by gnykelly(m): 4:21pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
herdeythoun: she does not want to take her ground. so I took mine |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by 1one: 4:30pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
Wonderlands: You couldn't have said it any better. |
Re: I Need Your Advice. by Nobody: 5:12pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
GboyegaD: True this. |
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