Wonderlands:
thank God i don't have friends because i am not the social type, so it's just i and my girlfriend all alone, no stories for the gods to hear

Gbam, these guys keep exposing themselves everyday and claim to be socially happy people but they all have sad stories..

Smh..

Op,don't say anything to her....just collect ya last share,then set her free...no nid 2 listen 2 wateva she gots 2 say

naijaboiy:

Yea...its very obvious that they will use alcohol as an excuse to cover up their shameful act.

The reason why I said the guy Fùcked up was because he allowed them to still go clubbing without him. Trusting his stupid friend.

People have blamed alcohol for their various stupid acts and they expect people to simply believe. I don't know how she was drunk to the extent that she didn't know her own boyfriend.

I've never been drunk to that extent

In situations like this a NIGGA just has to move on. This is exactly what I stated in my newest thread. His woman didn't love him 100%...I mean why should you leave your man to go clubbing with his friend? Where's the fun in that?

If your woman can leave you when you aren't feeling well to go clubbing with your hommie then she don't love you 100%. That's just fact.

Their excuse about being drunk is just bullshit.

https://www.nairaland.com/2014514/reasons-why-should-encourage-friends

all is just a lame excuse. ur friend fuc'ked ur girlfriend real hard. savouring her puss'y. what a wonderful experience for ur friend. i hope u know the next step to take?

[size=18pt]Guy, Forget shayo, forget any excuse... 1. You yourself you weak 2. Your friend bad and 3. your supposed girlfriend is loose. piomkwem![/size]

[size=14pt]Analysis
1. Why u go sey make ur friend and your babe comot go club.... you no be man? abi u no get sense ni?
2. Let us not deceive ourselves, you friend don already wan yansh that babe, na you just give them opportunity, from the moment they left, the deed was done.
3. I wan ask one question, after the clubbing, why she no go house or come back your place... so all the time wey the guy dey rub am for club (wey her eye still clear) she no know abi... she self come follow the guy go wherever dem go, yansh themselves finish... wait, you be mumu oh, you dey expect say she go tell you before? [/size]

. Wicked guy

Bebetter:
[size=18pt]Guy, Forget shayo, forget any excuse... 1. You yourself you weak 2. Your friend bad and 3. your supposed girlfriend is loose. piomkwem![/size]

[size=14pt]Analysis
1. Why u go sey make ur friend and your babe comot go club.... you no be man? abi u no get sense ni?
2. Let us not deceive ourselves, you friend don already wan yansh that babe, na you just give them opportunity, from the moment they left, the deed was done.
3. I wan ask one question, after the clubbing, why she no go house or come back your place... so all the time wey the guy dey rub am for club (wey her eye still clear) she no know abi... she self come follow the guy go wherever dem go, yansh themselves finish... wait, you be mumu oh, you dey expect say she go tell you before? [/size]

If that friend of urs is really happy with your relationship, he wouldn't have told you...since both of them were drunk, that doesn't count as your gal cheating on you, rather he took advantage of her drunkeness! Just discard that ur FIEND, and move on with your babe.

Dude,this is really serious,but d best approach is to take things easy and simple.

Just accept the fact that it has happened, confront the chic and let her know u are aware,then break up wif her. She might plead if she really loves u but its better to just let her go cos the thoughts would always be a burden on d relationship if u choose to continue.

As for the guy,at least he felt d guilt and apologised. I've heard of cases where the friend would keep macking the chic and never say d truth....that's very dangerous cos they might start having cruel intentions towards u. So in ur own case, just forgive the guy and keep a safe distance. He isn't a good friend.

Does this friend of yours have a girlfriend ? You know what to do.

"You claim to be a nigga but i f**kd ur wife" --- In 2pac's voice.

naijaboiy:
Mehn you Fùcked up o

Try and call your girlfriend sha and hear what she has to say too.

Alcohol na bastard sha

for dem to straff on d same day means that they have been crushing on each other.. Don't blame it on alcohol... Konji na bastard

misszainab:
If that friend of urs is really happy with your relationship, he wouldn't have told you...since both of them were drunk, that doesn't count as your gal cheating on you, rather he took advantage of her drunkeness! Just discard that ur FIEND, and move on with your babe.

Misszainab and u're fine oh but whc kind advice b dis nah? the girl who could leave her sick bf at home and go clubbing with his friend didn't love him in the 1st place and IMO doesn't deserve forgiveness, that is if she even asks for it sef. Cos from the look of things, the girl is tired of the relationship and was prolly seriously looking for a way out and d mofo presented one when he gocked himself by suggesting to them (that's if he did) to go on without him.

busky101:
for dem to straff on d same day means that they have been crushing on each other.. Don't blame it on alcohol... Konji na bastard

Busky

100Cents:


She enjoyed it.

But you caused it.

This is the kind of carelessness most guys display with their girls, later one lady will say, " My bf boss is asking me out "...

Letting your guards down isn't a way to life..

Nonsense. How did he cause it?

farano:
Your dream no get part 2 bro . You dream pass Oga Joseph

Lol...I wasn't dreaming actually. I'm the type try to utilize any opportunity that come my way. Btw all my dreams usually come to pass...

AgapeCharis:
hmmmmn

Waiting for farano's reply

Farano's reply was not encouraging at all but don't worry as a guy who knows how to find his way, I will surely over come her...

Eyaaaah...

Konji nor d warn person...



D thing go jst rise lyk flour wey yeast full inside..

SuperMartins:
Busky

superman

nobilis:
Confront ur girlfriend first and know what she will say. Possibly, she is too scared to face you and that may be why she hasn't said anything about it to you. It might also be that the guy is lying to you. I know it doesn't make sense. But it just might be possible. Ask her to confirm the truth of the matter.

If ur love for ur girl is worth fighting for, then you don't have to discard her because she made a "drunken" mistake. You might find ways of punishing her for that mistake but u don't throw her out.

People will always come here and tell you stuff like, "once a cheater always a cheater", "I can't continue in a relationship with a cheater". Don't listen to any of them. There is a big difference between a habitual and unrepentant cheater and someone who made a mistake.

No two relationships are alike. So don't believe all d info u'll get here. because some people who will give u such break-up advice are as single and miserable as ever. In d midst of all the confusion u're feeling right now, there is a calm voice inside ur head whispering to u what u shld do. Listen to dat voice and follow your heart.

Love conquers a lot of things and most times the litmus test for love is the gravity of the offence for which you can completely forgive your partner. Forgiveness doesn't make u a fool. Rather it makes u strong.

You exhume maturity in your comment - lots of it, bros and I like you for that. O.p, please take this advise. He has said it all.

Wetin go make u no blive say she don dey do am for school b4 ur friend too had his chance.. Clearly,they both liked eachoda to av gone dat far even if alcohol dey inside their body..alcohol only reveals true intentions of d tipsy person..

Mrfils:

Misszainab and u're fine oh but whc kind advice b dis nah? the girl who could leave her sick bf at home and go clubbing with his friend didn't love him in the 1st place and IMO doesn't deserve forgiveness, that is if she even asks for it sef. Cos from the look of things, the girl is tired of the relationship and was prolly seriously looking for a way out and d mofo presented one when he gocked himself by suggesting to them (that's if he did) to go on without him.

My dear everybody is entitled to his or her own opinion.

misszainab:
My dear everybody is entitled to his or her own opinion.

Ok I agree. U're still fine sha

A drunken mistake. If you love her then you can forgive her. Confront her and see her reaction. If she shows remorse. Advice her why such should me happen and about fleeing from all temptation of she really cares about ou. If she shows remorse. Don't touch her for next 3 month -6 months and do HIV test for her.make sure you do t strafe her without condom.

If she is not ready to change and symptoms of Olonsho persist?

Go see another girl straight.

Ps. A confirmed girlfriend will never leave you at home to go clubbing with yor paddies. No matter how hungry d clubbing deh ginger am.

Try n hold urself bro....dnt let ur babe smell a thing show her more luv, care n attention and whe she is carried away then u knw wat to do.....as for ur friend try n forgive him bt neva forget wat he did...so in future u knw wat to do.... i would av asked u to come n c me for one on one cancelling but am in Iraq nw for my Masters

Dude....please before u decide on what to do kindly see the movie...*savages*

Mrfils:

Ok I agree. U're still fine sha

tnks

OohMpa:
Don't stop there, tell us more....

Wetin dem drink?
How e take start?
Who comot first cloth?
Which positions the guy use?
Which name was she shouting?
How many times the guy and girl cüm?
Who give first head, second head and the chick give head?
When the guy realise say na mistake, after 45mins of kpansh?
The chick touch the guy nyash?
When they come know say na mistake, they cuddled näked?

Reply ASAP

Guy go watch N be happy waiting for reply will take years

Why did she drink so much in your absence?

Op u try 4dis ur fake story.................nice1

@OP your girl just got owned and she liked it.. please do not blame her.. human senses are very hard to control.. ask pastors who have fallen to it anywhoo continue with your girl, you won't be the first to chook her and you won't be the last (even if you decide to marry her)