skyprofm:
Last friday my best friend wanted to go clubbing and we agreed to go together with my babe as she was around from school at my place. That evening I started to purge so I asked them to go ahead so as not too disrupt the plans. It was sunday evening that my friend sent me a text apologising for sleeping with my girl claiming they were both drunk and got carried away. Crazy thing is my girl is yet to tell me anything till now. I'm going crazy here. What do I do

EnlightenedSoul:


Nonsense. How did he cause it?

misszainab:
If that friend of urs is really happy with your relationship, he wouldn't have told you...since both of them were drunk, that doesn't count as your gal cheating on you, rather he took advantage of her drunkeness! Just discard that ur FIEND, and move on with your babe.

100Cents:


She enjoyed it.

But you caused it.

This is the kind of carelessness most guys display with their girls, later one lady will say, " My bf boss is asking me out "...

Letting your guards down isn't a way to life..

skyprofm:
Last friday my best friend wanted to go clubbing and we agreed to go together with my babe as she was around from school at my place. That evening I started to purge so I asked them to go ahead so as not too disrupt the plans. It was sunday evening that my friend sent me a text apologising for sleeping with my girl claiming they were both drunk and got carried away. Crazy thing is my girl is yet to tell me anything till now. I'm going crazy here. What do I do

skyprofm:
Last friday my best friend wanted to go clubbing and we agreed to go together with my babe as she was around from school at my place. That evening I started to purge so I asked them to go ahead so as not too disrupt the plans. It was sunday evening that my friend sent me a text apologising for sleeping with my girl claiming they were both drunk and got carried away. Crazy thing is my girl is yet to tell me anything till now. I'm going crazy here. What do I do

Greensquard:


Go hang urself..u deserve it cos u just enabled the situation so fvckouta here

nobilis:
Confront ur girlfriend first and know what she will say. Possibly, she is too scared to face you and that may be why she hasn't said anything about it to you. It might also be that the guy is lying to you. I know it doesn't make sense. But it just might be possible. Ask her to confirm the truth of the matter.

If ur love for ur girl is worth fighting for, then you don't have to discard her because she made a "drunken" mistake. You might find ways of punishing her for that mistake but u don't throw her out.

People will always come here and tell you stuff like, "once a cheater always a cheater", "I can't continue in a relationship with a cheater". Don't listen to any of them. There is a big difference between a habitual and unrepentant cheater and someone who made a mistake.

No two relationships are alike. So don't believe all d info u'll get here. because some people who will give u such break-up advice are as single and miserable as ever. In d midst of all the confusion u're feeling right now, there is a calm voice inside ur head whispering to u what u shld do. Listen to dat voice and follow your heart.

Love conquers a lot of things and most times the litmus test for love is the gravity of the offence for which you can completely forgive your partner. Forgiveness doesn't make u a fool. Rather it makes u strong.

skyprofm:
Last friday my best friend wanted to go clubbing and we agreed to go together with my babe as she was around from school at my place. That evening I started to purge so I asked them to go ahead so as not too disrupt the plans. It was sunday evening that my friend sent me a text apologising for sleeping with my girl claiming they were both drunk and got carried away. Crazy thing is my girl is yet to tell me anything till now. I'm going crazy here. What do I do