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Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by darlenese(f): 8:56pm On Dec 04, 2014

khiaa:
This is why some women are hesitant to move forward in their thinking, because of backward thinking immature people like you.

So maturity means begging to be loved I can see what ur forward thinking has made u become,

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by 100Cents: 8:57pm On Dec 04, 2014

firstkyn:
please i realy need to know,kus this is driving me crazy... so annoying that even if she has feelings for him she wil have to waith for him to strike a convo first.... why girls? cant you just save the shy guys?

Has she entered your room and you touched her and she removed your hands ?

Okay, you talking about secondary school love ?

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by Nobody: 9:05pm On Dec 04, 2014

firstkyn:
how abt the shy guys? what wil become of their faith?

life is too short to be shy nau, na wa for u o

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by Wisegeek01(m): 9:06pm On Dec 04, 2014

No"

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by Wisegeek01(m): 9:07pm On Dec 04, 2014

"Ladies been waiting for guys to ask them out first, since 1960" grin

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by KingTom(m): 9:15pm On Dec 04, 2014

Well ladies ask me out everyday na, I am a celebrity
grin

***Runs away while dodging bashers***
grin

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by Alezy(m): 9:37pm On Dec 04, 2014

evegran:
Well not asking out Per se. But my first year in the university I told a close male friend I was Hot and stuff happened. .
Oh however he asked me out and I said no, and things got weird and I stopped talking to him.

Most guys don't know when to stop, that is always a problem.

Well i shud agree wit u on dis but u dnt rily nid 2 blame dem much. I might just think she needs me for kips after stuffs must av hapund....But av u tot of feelings setting in after dat little stuff?

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by Alezy(m): 9:40pm On Dec 04, 2014

darlenese:
In other words closed legs don't get digged abi?

SMH

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by Mprex(f): 9:58pm On Dec 04, 2014

KingTom:
Well ladies ask me out everyday na, I am a celebrity

***Runs away while dodging bashers***

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by Nobody: 10:26pm On Dec 04, 2014

It happens in the western world but 9ja guys go label the gal cheap if she tries it here....

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by khiaa(f): 10:47pm On Dec 04, 2014

darlenese:
So maturity means begging to be loved I can see what ur forward thinking has made u become,

How is an adult iniating a conversation with another adult begging for love? SMH
This is ignorance, backwards, and immature. Grow up.

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Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Dec 04, 2014

khiaa the romance expert cool

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by Daddi: 11:01pm On Dec 04, 2014

khiaa:
There is absolutely nothing wrong in a woman asking a man out. It has nothing to do with being cheap nor desperate.

what I'll tell the ladies is 'if u love somebody walk up him and tell him u love am ooo'. It's ur life ur happiness forget what others say, if he dont feel the same way about u good. Dont die in silence or start doing funny things to get his attention when u've not told him what u feel for him.

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Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by khiaa(f): 11:02pm On Dec 04, 2014

CFCfan:
khiaa the romance expert

Hey CFCfan, How have you been?
The mentality of some people boggles the mind. grin

Have you been enjoying this rain we have been having here in Cali?

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by khiaa(f): 11:09pm On Dec 04, 2014

Daddi:
what I'll tell the ladies is 'if u love somebody walk up him and tell him u love am ooo'. It's ur life ur happiness forget what others say, if he dont feel the same way about u good. Dont die in silence or start doing funny things to get his attention when u've not told him what u feel for him.

Yes indeed. cheesy

Nothing ventured nothing gained, or suffer in silence. sad

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by Nobody: 11:12pm On Dec 04, 2014

khiaa:
Hey CFCfan, How have you been?
The mentality of some people boggles the mind.
Have you been enjoying this rain we have been having here in Cali?

I've been alright, juggling L School within other things.
I love the rain. I got tired of the sunshine.

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by darlenese(f): 11:12pm On Dec 04, 2014

khiaa:
How is an adult iniating a conversation with another adult begging for love? SMH
This is ignorance, backwards, and immature. Grow up.

Asking a guy is not the same as initiating a conversation okay,

U're obviously a teenager
SMH

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by khiaa(f): 11:15pm On Dec 04, 2014

KingTom:
Well ladies ask me out everyday na, I am a celebrity

***Runs away while dodging bashers***

Which ladies? They had better stay away from you, I need you to be there just incase I need my sidepiece. You must be available at all times. grin

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by haymoney01(m): 11:18pm On Dec 04, 2014

U are dull. It sounds like KIA(motor vehicle). I followed u all d way 4rm page 1

harrysterol:
maybe I need a private lesson

Am fine, hope ur day was gud

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by Nobody: 11:18pm On Dec 04, 2014

MzPreshie:
Hian! Last I checked, guys always wanted to be the 'man', to be in charge. So be in charge of the wooing abeg. From wooing now, you will start expecting us to propose marriage to you guys.

if ladies are to b proposing marriage den all men in dis world will b hooked nd married by now... cos una no dey tay to fink ofarriage atal ... lik say Na beans

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by jerome4u(m): 11:28pm On Dec 04, 2014

passionate88:
at last.... An enlightened soul... Any hope for short shy guys like me?...

. Dude, there is no big deal abt asking a gal out, If u are so shy to tell her how u feel, just tell her u want to be ordinary friend with her first, then wen u guys re close enough, u can then express ur feelings

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Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by khiaa(f): 11:29pm On Dec 04, 2014

darlenese:
Asking a guy is not the same as initiating a conversation okay,

U're obviously a teenager
SMH

You are the immature child, in order to ask him out you have to approach him and initiate a conversation, you don't just blurt out WILL YOU GO OUT WITH ME. grin

You have to be smooth about it.

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Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by khiaa(f): 11:55pm On Dec 04, 2014

CFCfan:
I've been alright, juggling L School within other things.
I love the rain. I got tired of the sunshine.

I know school is tiring, whenever you have a break lets catch a movie and I'll make you a home cooked meal.

Oh my goodness I just asked you out!!
I must be cheap, ugly, desperate, and begging you for love. grin

How will I ever live this shame down? LMAO

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by Nobody: 11:59pm On Dec 04, 2014

khiaa:
I know school is tiring, whenever you have a break lets catch a movie and I'll make you a home cooked meal.

Oh my goodness I just asked you out!!
I must be cheap, ugly, desperate, and begging you for love. How will I ever live this shame down? LMAO

I like your sarcasm. I'll pm u later.
Do u live in SoCal?

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by Nobody: 12:02am On Dec 05, 2014

They'll act as if they're not interested in you even though they are until another lady wins your attention then they come begging smh angry

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Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by donifez(m): 12:11am On Dec 05, 2014

Qoigord:
They'll act as if they're not interested in you even though they are until another lady wins your attention then they come begging smh

perfect explanation of accismus.

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Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by khiaa(f): 12:21am On Dec 05, 2014

CFCfan:

I like your sarcasm. I'll pm u later.
Do u live in SoCal?

I live in Palm Springs.

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by Nobody: 12:27am On Dec 05, 2014

khiaa:
I live in Palm Springs.

Chai! That's over 100 miles away from where I live

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by yungcyrus(m): 12:32am On Dec 05, 2014

evegran:
Smh!
Say "some girls ". Why you generalising
Like you know the heart of every girl or every Nigerian girl on the planet. 0_o

...sweety! Sorry nt some gals, but its almost all gals.

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by Nobody: 12:50am On Dec 05, 2014

I once told a guy that I liked him. He said he's willing to accept since I want to dash myself to him...
I was like WTF huh

dash myself? Like I was worth nothing.. I shook my head and blamed myself. So much for Westernism
I will never try it again. Now, if a guy likes me and I feel the same way, I'll make him beg. No guy will ever call me cheap again angry

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by khiaa(f): 12:52am On Dec 05, 2014

Qoigord:
They'll act as if they're not interested in you even though they are until another lady wins your attention then they come begging smh

Hey! They snooze they lose. grin

Re: Must A Guy Ask A Girl Out First? by khiaa(f): 12:55am On Dec 05, 2014

CFCfan:
Chai! That's over 100 miles away from where I live

Yeah your'e in San Diego right.

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