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He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by ayyyyo(m): 8:30am On Dec 09, 2014 |
Hey y'all . I don't know why am too shy . Especially around pretty girls. Well people too in general. When I was a lot younger I was loud and outspoken. But now I just turned to an introvert overnight .what can I do? Matured advice please |Ayo| |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by Godmother(f): 8:36am On Dec 09, 2014 |
Mix with people more and try not to be too self-conscious when you do. The shyness will fall off with time. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by chimerase2: 8:38am On Dec 09, 2014 |
Mix otapiapia with zobo Then u re good to go |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by simplemach(m): 8:43am On Dec 09, 2014 |
Good for you. Atleast now you wont have much girls around and that means cutting down on expenses. And in case you want to marry, just show your mum the gurl you like and she will help you talk to her and you are done. 4 Likes |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by Nobody: 8:45am On Dec 09, 2014 |
Godmother: i want you to be my Godmother abeg |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by echobee(f): 8:46am On Dec 09, 2014 |
chimerase2:W i z a r d |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by Ploy(m): 8:57am On Dec 09, 2014 |
simplemach: People like you should manage the economy of Nigeria. You sabi economics die. @op, I de shy too but when I manage talk to you for the first time, o boy, you don become my friend be that o. |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by ayyyyo(m): 9:00am On Dec 09, 2014 |
chimerase2:. Wicked God mother |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by okabe(m): 9:02am On Dec 09, 2014 |
Being shy isn't a crime, dont hate yourself 4 it rather embrace it and ppl wil luv u 4 it. Buh in d meantime, u can manage Godmother's advice |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by chimerase2: 9:02am On Dec 09, 2014 |
echobee:W I N C H |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by chimerase2: 9:03am On Dec 09, 2014 |
ayyyyo:God mother kwa? |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by ayyyyo(m): 9:04am On Dec 09, 2014 |
Godmother:. Thanks the main issue is that I have approaching problem. |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by Godmother(f): 9:29am On Dec 09, 2014 |
ayyyyo: My dear, I was like you, afraid to approach people thinking they would take me for granted. Not anymore. If I like a person I approach you, boy or girl and a friendship starts. If at the end you turn out to be a douchebag I just give you a wide space. I see it as their loss anyways. Lol 1 Like |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by Godmother(f): 9:30am On Dec 09, 2014 |
okabe: Well said 1 Like |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by iceberylin(m): 9:34am On Dec 09, 2014 |
WEED |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by Diffdeef(m): 9:38am On Dec 09, 2014 |
Smh,you need to be ginger*ed!! STOP F*CKIN' WHINING. Only YOU can overcome your own shyness. You're being a f*ckin' p*ssy. There is a miracle cure for overcoming shyness. It's called growing up. You are the center of your own universe. 2. END THE "NICE GUY" PROBLEM FIRST Being shy isn't your f*ckin' problem to begin with. Fact of the matter is, you're a "Nice Guy" and you're not gonna get any with that hangin over your head. It's time to grow up. Be a f*ckin' man. You've got your head full of romantic ideas about love. Newsflash, you're a guy! 3. ACTION You're too f*ckin' scared that you're going to say or do something that will offend the girl you like. WHO CARES? When you want something, you have to go out and get it. It's not going to magically fall in your lap. What you've been doing up until now OBVIOUSLY does NOT WORK. You've got to present yourself as a MAN, and ACT LIKE ONE! 4. FEELINGS Women want a MAN. You know a MAN's MAN. A Steve McQueen or a James Bond. MEN have 3 Feelings... HAPPY, MAD, & DON'T GIVE A F*CK. P*ssies have feelings like melancholy, existentialism, depression, romantic feelings. Women don't want a p*ssy boyfriend, they want a man. Nothing turns a woman off quite like an effeminate guy like you. 5. RESEARCH Do your homework, find out what dating and mating is all about. You've been raised with a woman's viewpoint about relationships. It's time you f*ckin' woke up. Watch "Desmond Moriss' The Human Animal" for the inside track on dating and mating. Find out what women are looking for. It's a biological drive for women to find a MAN. 6. YOU'RE A GUY Realize that! Live it! Men are not intimidated by women? Why should we be? We're Bigger, Stronger, More Successful, And BETTER LOOKING. Why else do you think women wear make-up and perfume... cuz they're ugly and they stink. You're letting a WOMAN intimidate you? How does THAT make you feel. You're a GUY! YOU dictate the terms of your relationship to a woman. Whether you're going to be her friend, or lover. If you want to be her lover, don't settle for friend, either you go out or you move on. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by justmag(m): 9:46am On Dec 09, 2014 |
Vodka and good kush will make you loose as a goose. |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by Maamin(m): 12:51pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
Brother! ladies dont mind if you are shy or not so far your joystick is not shy!..you are good to go |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by 1one: 1:18pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
Deefdiff As much as I would have wanted to blow your post into a billion pieces... I can't but admit that most of the things you've said are true. Aside from the fuucvk fuucvk part sha. |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by ayyyyo(m): 2:45pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
Godmother:. Thanks |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by Bleshh: 4:09pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
simplemach:haaaa, c ds madman ooo |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by SkinnyDude(m): 6:36pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
ayyyyo:fine big guy like you dey shy. have u not been approached by a girl before? |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by IamLEGEND1: 6:43pm On Dec 09, 2014 |
o.k |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by seankay(m): 11:37am On Dec 11, 2014 |
Bros start smoking weed, it helps. You should also go to events, shows, hangout wif friends more |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by Ilovenigeria(f): 10:54pm On Dec 11, 2014 |
Aee you generally shy or when you want to start something. |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by Nobody: 10:58pm On Dec 11, 2014 |
op do you masturbate? bcoz 80% of shy guys masturbate |
Re: He Is Way Too Shy, Advice Needed. by Richiy(f): 12:00am On Dec 12, 2014 |
There is nothing wrong with being shy at all. The right people will come around ultimately. You don't even have to deal with all the wahala that comes with keeping all these friends. P.S...I actually find it hard to believe your story after seeing your dp. |
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