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Princecharmin:
is d fish whose brain u borrowed aware of how u'r misusing it?.....thunder fire u n dat book
































































































ode buruku
is d fish whose brain u borrowed aware of how u'r misusing it?.....thunder fire u n dat book
































































































ode buruku

Penboy:
lolz... Now, this got me laughing.

gospi:
Between,WHERE DO PEOplE GET DIS lAdies LIkE bAD GUYS POO FROM? SO MIsLEADING
NO NORMal LADY LIKES A BAD GUY!

Bimffo:
The reality is Ladies hate Nice guys..

I am not saying you should stop been nice, but if ur Nice level is on 80%, reduce it to 10% and see how it works..

Check out this moniker on Nairaland.. "CharlesNneji1" and get his books or E-books.. Mehn, it will help you alot.. You will be catching all those babes like Fish.. and they will swam around you like flies..

PS: Ladies will always be Ladies..

youngice:
its the other way round , she begins to hate me,

youngice:
Thanks , I tried pretending but it only got worse
BTW its youngice

No Hun, Nooo

You shouldn't pretend. You shouldn't.

I've been in your shoes too, and that's why I can relate with how it feels for you.

Our world as we know it is so used to people having manipulative tendencies, having a motive for being nice and just plain wickedness. So it beats the imagination of most people when a person is so nice.....without any string attached really. They'd label you a hypocrite.

But then, I understand that in this world.....there are certain kinds of people who are just that way. They are models of love. Burn them all you want, use them all you want......even if they decide to stop being nice (like they can anyway)......there's this feeling of discontent, this feeling of emptiness that they feel. The reason's simple --- they don't know how to be any less.

I take it you're in that category. I am too. But one problem I've had to and I'm still learning to overcome is that of insecurity. I think you should work on that too.

You need to embrace yourself fully......your gifts. It's not a cross, it's not a burden. You need to let your value for self and your worth emanate from within.

Finally, you need to guard your heart. You need to apply wisdom. Y'see, because loving's a default setting in you, you're prone to love and become attached to just about anything lovable and attachable, here's where you need to apply restraint and caution.

It's not a bad thing to think and fall in love carefully.

It's not a bad thing to be self aware and do your best to protect your heart from people who aren't worth it.

Ladies, at times can be mean .... I for one, even though I like to be shown affection and attention ..... I prefer when it's done in moderation. I expect my partner to be sensitive enough to know when it's time to just let things be --- and vice versa.

You just keep living and keep learning. With the right guidance and actions, I'm sure there'll be this lady who shares your values and loves just as much as you do, she might be on NL for all we know!!

I kid! I kid!
All the best

MizMyColi:
No Hun, Nooo

You shouldn't pretend. You shouldn't.

I've been in your shoes too, and that's why I can relate with how it feels for you.

Our world as we know it is so used to people having manipulative tendencies, having a motive for being nice and just plain wickedness. So it beats the imagination of most people when a person is so nice.....without any string attached really. They'd label you a hypocrite.

But then, I understand that in this world.....there are certain kinds of people who are just that way. They are models of love. Burn them all you want, use them all you want......even if they decide to stop being nice (like they can anyway)......there's this feeling of discontent, this feeling of emptiness that they feel. The reason's simple --- they don't know how to be any less.

I take it you're in that category. I am too. But one problem I've had to and I'm still learning to overcome is that of insecurity. I think you should work on that too.

You need to embrace yourself fully......your gifts. It's not a cross, it's not a burden. You need to let your value for self and your worth emanate from within.

Finally, you need to guard your heart. You need to apply wisdom. Y'see, because loving's a default setting in you, you're prone to love and become attached to just about anything lovable and attachable, here's where you need to apply restraint and caution.

It's not a bad thing to think and fall in love carefully.

It's not a bad thing to be self aware and do your best to protect your heart from people who aren't worth it.

Ladies, at times can be mean .... I for one, even though I like to be shown affection and attention ..... I prefer when it's done in moderation. I expect my partner to be sensitive enough to know when it's time to just let things be --- and vice versa.

You just keep living and keep learning. With the right guidance and actions, I'm sure there'll be this lady who shares your values and loves just as much as you do, she might be on NL for all we know!!

I kid! I kid!
All the best

youngice:
I won't deceive my self I'm a nice guy to the core
I'm the kind of guy that holds the door open for a lady
I call her by 6:45 to be the first to start her day. I don't shout at her , I'm a nice guy but I'm not a pushover
I don't take shiit (what I considered shit might vary from what others considered shit)
But I have perennial bad luck with women ,looks can be deceiving , I have the looks a player and also my startup lines and catch phrases are straight out of the players manual,I tried to be a player but it never worked out for me
Maybe it because I'm the only guy among 3 girls and mom ensured and still ensures that I treat all women like queens ,im yet to meet a lady that hasn't given me her her number and I'm very picky but I've only had 2 successes in all my dating attempts, admittedly I'm quite young (very early 20's) , but in all the ladies I've woed I've observed a pattern it goes like this

week 1 everything perfect, she calls I call , lovey dovey shi, love is in the air

week 2 I really have no idea what always happens

subsequently she hates me,absolutely detest me, she doesn't reply pings, see's me and ignores me I'm beginning to wonder if I have a problem because the pattern is getting very annoying
PS
I'm in an 'all guys uni (FUTO) and I'm in my early 20's with a young fac
please relationship experts advise needed
Only mature comments
Niaraland love experts
CC
Mizmycoli (Nairaland love expert )
Kachisbarbie ( pretty Lady analyst

IDEApro:
1. Woo a lady

2. Take her out on a date

3. Make yourself unavailable for as long as you want.
I. she calls and you promise to see her, don't go and give convincing reason
b. Give her surprise presents and don't yield to any of her request.
c.women are inquisitive in nature, don't be predictable.

4. bleep her after months of meeting her not within weeks.

5. continue the game of being unpredictable and she will naturally want to discover the real you. The more she try,the good she is obsessed and you see her displaying that weakness to be with you.

...a year later she will beg you to define the relationship because you are unpredictable.

Then tell her ''with the right attitude I will want to spend the rest of my life with you in the near future'' and you are guaranteed a steady bleep.

lacedup:
Well...d only things nyc in dis lyf are mums...n most baes don't wanna date a mum.. ...#JusSaying

MizMyColi:
No Hun, Nooo

thegoodjoehunt3:
I repeat, all those ladies hate nice guys are myths.

How many romance novels or chick flicks have the hero acting rude and badly to a lady?

Ladies keep reading romance novels and watching telemundo despite the guys acting soft and saying things like, MY LIFE WOULD HAVE ENDED IF NOT FOR YOU.

IDEApro:
1. Woo a lady
2. Take her out on a date
3. Make yourself unavailable for as long as you want.
I. she calls and you promise to see her, don't go and give convincing reason
b. Give her surprise presents and don't yield to any of her request.
c.women are inquisitive in nature, don't be predictable.
4. bleep her after months of meeting her not within weeks.
5. continue the game of being unpredictable and she will naturally want to discover the real you. The more she try,the good she is obsessed and you see her displaying that weakness to be with you.
...a year later she will beg you to define the relationship because you are unpredictable.
Then tell her ''with the right attitude I will want to spend the rest of my life with you in the near future'' and you are guaranteed a steady bleep.

thegoodjoehunt3:
I repeat, all those ladies hate nice guys are myths.

How many romance novels or chick flicks have the hero acting rude and badly to a lady?

Ladies keep reading romance novels and watching telemundo despite the guys acting soft and saying things like, MY LIFE WOULD HAVE ENDED IF NOT FOR YOU.

lacedup:
Never said nuffin bout romance bruv...girls lik dah shii...buh Deres a diff between romantic n being p*ss*.... everybody knows wah happens to p*ss*...need I say mor

lebesgue:
My brother, thank you. The fact is these women do not truly like these men. If a woman truly likes you, she no go do shakara. Trust me, there is a guy that she eyeing and not doing shakara for.

thegoodjoehunt3:
If she leaves her man for a guy that she is not doing shakara for, sooner or later, she will be eyeing another one. She will say, this my guy does not show me love like this new guy.

lebesgue:
My brother, thank you. The fact is these women do not truly like these men. If a woman truly likes you, she no go do shakara. Trust me, there is a guy that she eyeing and not doing shakara for.

thegoodjoehunt3:
Being a nice guy does not mean the guy is a P***y.

It is a myth girls do not like nice guys. When we are talking about a nice guy, I a talking about someone who respects and treats his lady with care.

lebesgue:
So where will one find a woman that is not like this?

aim5:
Only a fool would soften himself for a woman. You are a man, you're supposed to be concerned with how to make money and how to improve your physical appearance(weightlifting,etc.). Learn to be successful, don't meddle in all this love wantitin garbage. This is why most males are weak today. Haba.

thegoodjoehunt3:
I disagree. They are many strong and successful rich men. Men with good physical appearance that their wives cheated on them because they lacked real romance.

Explain a rich and successful man who comes home and finds his beautiful wife in bed with his driver.

Bimffo:
The reality is Ladies hate Nice guys..

I am not saying you should stop been nice, but if ur Nice level is on 80%, reduce it to 10% and see how it works..

Check out this moniker on Nairaland.. "CharlesNneji1" and get his books or E-books.. Mehn, it will help you alot.. You will be catching all those babes like Fish.. and they will swam around you like flies..

PS: Ladies will always be Ladies..

aim5:
Yes that's true, but the point is no man should weaken himself just to get a female. They aren't worth it.

Youngtekkey:
Bad guy, see that's the thing oooo Bro, I have come to discover in recent times too that ladies hate Mr nice guys

youngice:
I won't deceive my self I'm a nice guy to the core
I'm the kind of guy that holds the door open for a lady
I call her by 6:45 to be the first to start her day. I don't shout at her , I'm a nice guy but I'm not a pushover
I don't take shiit (what I considered shit might vary from what others considered shit)
But I have perennial bad luck with women ,looks can be deceiving , I have the looks a player and also my startup lines and catch phrases are straight out of the players manual,I tried to be a player but it never worked out for me
Maybe it because I'm the only guy among 3 girls and mom ensured and still ensures that I treat all women like queens ,im yet to meet a lady that hasn't given me her her number and I'm very picky but I've only had 2 successes in all my dating attempts, admittedly I'm quite young (very early 20's) , but in all the ladies I've woed I've observed a pattern it goes like this

week 1 everything perfect, she calls I call , lovey dovey shi, love is in the air

week 2 I really have no idea what always happens

subsequently she hates me,absolutely detest me, she doesn't reply pings, see's me and ignores me I'm beginning to wonder if I have a problem because the pattern is getting very annoying
PS
I'm in an 'all guys uni (FUTO) and I'm in my early 20's with a young fac
please relationship experts advise needed
Only mature comments
Niaraland love experts
CC
Mizmycoli (Nairaland love expert )
Kachisbarbie ( pretty Lady analyst

rittyben:
The same reasons why good girls r always treated badly