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Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by chibwike(m): 10:27pm On Dec 22, 2014
Beennkumar:
I'm Nigerian, why? grin
I was thinking u were from india or something
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by MirrorMirror: 10:39pm On Dec 22, 2014
It depends on what you want out of marriage
or what your number 1 priority is for getting married.
are you looking to get married to share your life, joy, experience. moments with someone else
are you looking to get married for children
or companionship.

what ever your topmost reason, it is neither the best or the worst as personalities differ.

If children top your list please get married on time then. Fertility/conception COULD be an issue, and the earlier you start addressing it the better especially since women have time frame.

If you are getting married for companionship, you may want to delay getting married till all your friends and siblings get married and then when you get lonely you can begin to work towards it.

Personally, I admire ladies who graduated and willingly(not forced) got married in their early to mid twenties
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by MirrorMirror: 10:43pm On Dec 22, 2014
There is no reason whatsoever for a woman to get married later UNLESS for reasons beyond her control.
NB; definition of LATER is relative.
It is not compulsory for any one to marry
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by uzolexis(f): 10:47pm On Dec 22, 2014
chibwike:
Lol.....buh u barely knw me na....i might change in the course of our marriage
That's why there's something called divorce tongue
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by chibwike(m): 10:54pm On Dec 22, 2014
uzolexis:
That's why there's something called divorce tongue
Ha...so you re planning to divorce me in the course of our marriage
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Beennkumar(m): 10:59pm On Dec 22, 2014
chibwike:
I was thinking u were from india or something
My mum's from India, and I was born and raised in India.
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by uzolexis(f): 11:00pm On Dec 22, 2014
chibwike:
Ha...so you re planning to divorce me in the course of our marriage
if you change from the good guy i know you to be
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 11:26pm On Dec 22, 2014
MirrorMirror:
There is no reason whatsoever for a woman to get married later UNLESS for reasons beyond her control.
we kinda on the same page. It mustn't be beyond her control, everyone reserves a right to personal choices in life. The female folks ain't an exception.
If by all/any means marriage comes knocking - fine : If not, he/she should work on other areas of his/her life

NB; definition of LATER is relative.
It is not compulsory for any one to marry
I don't wanna go into all that word play @ Later is relative. I am focusing on the explicit meaning of LATER.
I never said it's compulsory either. cheesy
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Adaeze003(f): 7:08am On Dec 23, 2014
I like this thread but like someone said, you are married and you don't look 27-30 to me unless of course you look younger than your age.

If I'm right then there's some kind of hypocrisy in this post... you know, saying one thing n doing the opposite?

Oh well... like I said, I agree with the post, there is no specific age for marriage.
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 10:56am On Dec 23, 2014
Adaeze003:
I like this thread but like someone said, you are married and you don't look 27-30 to me unless of course you look younger than your age.
My marital status is not the topic here Ma'am

If I'm right then there's some kind of hypocrisy in this post... you know, saying one thing n doing the opposite?
Please what's your definition of hypocrisy?did I stamp the thread and impose it on everyone/anyone?
So bc I am married, I should 'force' every other lady to do same?
Are all my topics on NL supposed to be centred on my life? I never knew that.


Oh well... like I said, I agree with the post, there is no specific age for marriage.
Now, this is the topic @hand.
Thanks cheesy
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by joseph1832(m): 11:40am On Dec 23, 2014
One can not be married in life and come on social media and give reasons why single ladies/men should marry later in life. That sh!t is twisted men!!!.

You would have thought well to follow your own advice. In Barry White's voice: "Practice what you preach".
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by iamrealdeji(m): 12:19pm On Dec 23, 2014
chibwike:
I haven't met anyone...buh i really wanna get married before 25th...is that possible?
Lmao clown
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 12:29pm On Dec 23, 2014
joseph1832:
One can not be married in life and come on social media and give reasons why single ladies/men should marry later in life.
Once again Sir, my marital status is none of your business. The next time you would bring it up here(unnecessarily)....you wouldn't be liking me much- that's if you ever did.


That sh!t is twisted men!!!.
Define twisted? That I advice people to buy/drive Toyota cars doesn't mean I would/must do same.

You would have thought well to follow your own advice.
what's an advice?
an opinion or suggestion about what sb should do IN A PARTICULAR SITUATION
Take note of the words in caps. I am currently not in that situation- If I were,this is exactly what I would have done.



In Barry White's voice: "Practice what you preach".
I would only have to do this, if there is need to.
Thanks
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by joseph1832(m): 6:38pm On Dec 23, 2014
Kachisbarbie:
Once again Sir, my marital status is none of your business. The next time you would bring it up here(unnecessarily)....you wouldn't be liking me much- that's if you ever did.



Define twisted? That I advice people to buy/drive Toyota cars doesn't mean I would/must do same.


what's an advice?
an opinion or suggestion about what sb should do IN A PARTICULAR SITUATION
Take note of the words in caps. I am currently not in that situation- If I were,this is exactly what I would have done.




I would only have to do this, if there is need to.
Thanks
In the spirit of friendship, I'll let what I have to say slide.

Shalom.
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 7:04pm On Dec 23, 2014
joseph1832:
In the spirit of friendship, I'll let what I have to say slide.

Shalom.
lolz.
Thanks much.
Where do I send your hug to? cheesy
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by joseph1832(m): 7:52pm On Dec 23, 2014
Kachisbarbie:
lolz.
Thanks much.
Where do I send your hug to? cheesy
You can send it to laykorn, am sure he'll reel with delight. Lol.
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Obinoscopy(m): 11:13am On Dec 25, 2014
Kachisbarbie where is your source? Or are you the author?
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 11:29am On Dec 25, 2014
Obinoscopy:
Kachisbarbie where is your source? Or are you the author?
lolz.
Is this difficult to come up with Sir? angry
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Obinoscopy(m): 11:30am On Dec 25, 2014
Kachisbarbie:
lolz.
Is this difficult to come up with Sir? angry
Sorry ma'am. Just wanted to be sure wink.
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 11:34am On Dec 25, 2014
Obinoscopy:
Sorry ma'am. Just wanted to be sure wink.
Issokay.
Even though it was an affront on my sensibility and intellect.
Anyway, my sources are plenty - personal experience/ talking with people and reading a lot of relationship books (online/offline) grin
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 11:36am On Dec 25, 2014
hahahahaha going to my French lecture
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by 2scorehigh(m): 11:36am On Dec 25, 2014
Well, OP, I think I agree with you...from a man's perspective, though.

But for the ladies, well, I'd say, it's different strokes for different folks.
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by Nobody: 11:39am On Dec 25, 2014
ireneony:
what can't you create a thread that is more personal than all these top ten thread, is getting boring.
we wanna see the romantic side of you, stop been uptight
when I said you know nothing other than romance , peeps thought I was being harsh , when I said you are still slumbering because of your dull posts which is a reflection of how unintelligent you are , peeps thought I was taking it personal. why would someone show she is romantic to the whole world , what would she gain . is it on NL you can tell how romantic someone is . whats wrong with this thread , its just a piece of advice. am sorry , but how old are you.
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by seangy4konji: 11:40am On Dec 25, 2014
She is just growing up man. Easy on the girl. [quote author=joseph1832 post=29114142][/quote]
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by haibe(m): 11:40am On Dec 25, 2014
ireneony:
why can't you create a thread that is more personal than all these top ten thread, is getting boring.
we wanna see the romantic side of you, stop been uptight
am agreeing with you for the first time
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by femmycares(m): 11:41am On Dec 25, 2014
Everyone has his or her own appointed time for dis task.Wait 4 ur time as marriage isn't a race.
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by tosyne2much(m): 11:41am On Dec 25, 2014
Kachisbarbie nice write ooooo

I'm glad I have found the bone of my bone
grin
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by tosyne2much(m): 11:42am On Dec 25, 2014
Aunty Kachisbarbie nice write up

I'm glad I have found the bone of my bone
grin
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by zeb04(f): 11:43am On Dec 25, 2014
Get married later in life?
Please get married when you are READY not later in life.
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by haibe(m): 11:44am On Dec 25, 2014
majekdom2:
when I said you know nothing other than romance , peeps thought I was being harsh , when I said you are still slumbering because of your dull posts which is a reflection of how unitelligent you are , peeps thought I was taking it personal. why would someone show she is romantic to the whole world , what would she gain . is it on NL you can tell how romantic someone is . whats wrong with this thread , its just a piece of advice. am sorry , but how old are you.
excuse me but I think u got her post wrong. romantic side doesn't mean she should show she is romantic. I agree with her, all this top 5 threads are getting boring. by the way, we all know what the op is trying to prove even if she doesn't tell us. We need more serious threads.

I will however agree with u that ireneony post are sometimes annoying.
Re: Reasons You Should Get Married Later In Life by zenith4biz(m): 11:44am On Dec 25, 2014
It's better to marry early and struggle to sponsor your children than using your pension to pay your children school fees[b][/b]
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