Marrying the wrong man/woman is not something palatable, It's like "Cancer in the marrow" and only the victim(s) could explain the pain(s) associated with such marriages(s).

When a young man/woman are planning on marriage together, it's a joyful and good things because it's the commandment of God. But, Brother, before you get married,PRAY to the Lord about it so you wont love the wrong woman, and Sister, tell God about it. The reason we have to pray assuredly is not far fetched.

Marriage is a fragile and a very sensitive issue, a matter of "till death do us part". So many would have made Heaven easily without trouble but alas! It's a pity! Wrong marriages have caused more harm than good. I would centre my dvise majorly on bachelors/spinsters seeking marital partners.

My Brother, when you want to marry, please don't look at her beauty(her fair complexion, brown like chocolate, or dark as tyre), and don't because of her hospitality marry her because so many have used these as criteria and are regretting now.

This makes me remember the case of a young brother, which we are going to make use as our yardstick to buttress this very important fact: "THERE IS DANGER IN CHOOSING IN OUR WISDOM AND THEN CLAIM IT'S GOD'S WILL".

Don't forget marriage is sacred and very fragile.

Back to the story of the young man.

He got married in a flamboyant way (heaven tingle, earth trembled). After returning home, the wife conceived and after 9 months, she put to bed a baby boy. Then, after sometime, the second and third children were born.

The wife started showing a strange signal at home: the 1st child mysteriously died, the 2nd and finally the 3rd child followed. "Ah! It's the work of evil people in your village", people were chanting not knowing it's the work of their mother, using them as sacrifices in her coven.

The worst part is that she killed even from her in-law's family. Her husband was an MD of a multi-national company in Lagos, but through her evil works, he was reduced to a destitute. Her words were always: if na pesin dey cause all dis calamity in my family, God wil judge una." See her level of hypocrisy?

But, the day the cat was let out of the bag, her husband couldn't believe it. Is this a dream or a vision? He was asking. This is where false Will of God led him to.

After the meeting, he went to see his pastor. He narrated everything about the MISTAKE he made during courtship. He lamented: "Please Daddy, save me, bail me out, i've made a terrible mistake. Daddy, you asked me then if i've prayed about it but i lied. I chose her based on her intelligence,her beauty, the gift embedded in her, and her hospitality which were what drew her to me". He told the Pastor point blank that he wanted a Divorce, forgetting God frowns at it.

The MOG told him to calm down first and he explain the "visions" the man told him then.

The pastor starts: "i asked you then if you have prayed to God about it. You said yes and even backed it up with the visions you had. Let me remind you, your response were: Sir, i can't lie to you, i have prayed and seen visions. In my first dream, i was fetching water when suddenly she appeared and offered to fetch the water which she did, then I heard the voice; That's your wife".

The last goes thus: "I suddenly found myself in the midst of people celebrating. I noticed i wore an expensive traditional attire, and on turning to my side, it was this sister i saw, to cut story short, we got married". These are the dreams you told me then", the Pastor concluded.

The pastor told him never to think about divorce because it's God commandment that none should put asunder what He has joined, and that he should remember those vows he made on the altar.

********My Advise*********
So, Sister, take heed, be wary of "sugar-coated mouth" brothers, there are many of them in the Church of God, BE WATCHFUL.

Brother, i exhort you too, Filing for Divorce is not Biblical(under whatever circumstances).
PRAY SO YOU WON'T PRAY.

Pray before you marry that sister. Sister, seek the face of God before you wed that brother.

You marry a witch and you wont divorce her?
Or at least separate from her?

I think it's not just praying. The problem lies in knowing the will of God. God does not give or look for a wife for you. It's he who findeth a wife.......The benchmark for choosing a wife varies and it's a subjective thing. Those who successfully prayed and got a good wife should tell us how God spoke to them and told them she's the right one. It's still based on inkling and perception coupled with series of observations. As for the issue of divorce in your last paragraph, divorce is biblical and it is restricted to particular circumstance(s).

Especially guys, just to get a Christian sister.

Good to know, well I don't have any reason to lie about the will of God. To those pastors lying about the will of God,God is watching in 3D and planning your punishing.

booked

Heheheh we are all guilty of this I swear

Lying in the name of God attracts capital punishment.

I no even read watin you write.. Too dry 4 me

tell them

You must be careful while choosing your spouse! Some has already applied grinded pepper(ata kuku), thinking it is red powder! There tears is coming....

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The OP..above...wetin happen..must you quote d own article


Too long to read

Christians do wat will favor dem alone. twisting God's word to suit us....d same xtians dt break all the rules of engagement and marriage, run back to God when d goin gets awry nd now even endorse divorce. Christians do wat will favor dem alone. twisting God's word to suit us....d same xtians dt break all the rules of engagement and marriage, run back to God when d goin gets awry nd now even endorse divorce.

In Ojo Ade's Voice
"Iyawo re niyen beni mo ba Ta ji"
"Ma boju to o,ko si ma gbadura"

wait self op.did dey not join him and the witch in church?datz a half question but i expect u to answer it in full

Vstuffs:
^^^^
The OP..above...wetin happen..must you quote d own article


Too long to read

wetin too long for dis one now?

d bible says: trust in the lord and lean not on your own understanding. d devil is like a roaring lion seeking whom he may devour, my brothers and sisters shine your eyes well b4 u say I do o, u can also add fasting if u wish

There is a way that seemeth right unto men but the end thereof is distruction:

Balancing our likes n God's will is the crux of d whole matter!
N he alone can help but how wud we know his leading when we r blinded by tasting first?

Stopped reading when I saw '' as sacrifice for her coven''... I know bullsh*t when I see one, that there @OP ranks in the level of bullsh*t.

bablononi:
wetin too long for dis one now?

Question

How is it your problem

Not long for you,but long and boring to me

Remember one man food na another man poison

Vikkie14:
Marrying the wrong man/woman is not something palatable, It's like "Cancer in the marrow" and only the victim(s) could explain the pain(s) associated with such marriages(s).

When a young man/woman are planning on marriage together, it's a joyful and good things because it's the commandment of God. But, Brother, before you get married,PRAY to the Lord about it so you wont love the wrong woman, and Sister, tell God about it. The reason we have to pray assuredly is not far fetched.

Marriage is a fragile and a very sensitive issue, a matter of "till death do us part". So many would have made Heaven easily without trouble but alas! It's a pity! Wrong marriages have caused more harm than good. I would centre my dvise majorly on bachelors/spinsters seeking marital partners.

My Brother, when you want to marry, please don't look at her beauty(her fair complexion, brown like chocolate, or dark as tyre), and don't because of her hospitality marry her because so many have used these as criteria and are regretting now.

This makes me remember the case of a young brother, which we are going to make use as our yardstick to buttress this very important fact: "THERE IS DANGER IN CHOOSING IN OUR WISDOM AND THEN CLAIM IT'S GOD'S WILL".

Don't forget marriage is sacred and very fragile.

Back to the story of the young man.

He got married in a flamboyant way (heaven tingle, earth trembled). After returning home, the wife conceived and after 9 months, she put to bed a baby boy. Then, after sometime, the second and third children were born.

The wife started showing a strange signal at home: the 1st child mysteriously died, the 2nd and finally the 3rd child followed. "Ah! It's the work of evil people in your village", people were chanting not knowing it's the work of their mother, using them as sacrifices in her coven.

The worst part is that she killed even from her in-law's family. Her husband was an MD of a multi-national company in Lagos, but through her evil works, he was reduced to a destitute. Her words were always: if na pesin dey cause all dis calamity in my family, God wil judge una." See her level of hypocrisy?

But, the day the cat was let out of the bag, her husband couldn't believe it. Is this a dream or a vision? He was asking. This is where false Will of God led him to.

After the meeting, he went to see his pastor. He narrated everything about the MISTAKE he made during courtship. He lamented: "Please Daddy, save me, bail me out, i've made a terrible mistake. Daddy, you asked me then if i've prayed about it but i lied. I chose her based on her intelligence,her beauty, the gift embedded in her, and her hospitality which were what drew her to me". He told the Pastor point blank that he wanted a Divorce, forgetting God frowns at it.

The MOG told him to calm down first and he explain the "visions" the man told him then.

The pastor starts: "i asked you then if you have prayed to God about it. You said yes and even backed it up with the visions you had. Let me remind you, your response were: Sir, i can't lie to you, i have prayed and seen visions. In my first dream, i was fetching water when suddenly she appeared and offered to fetch the water which she did, then I heard the voice; That's your wife".

The last goes thus: "I suddenly found myself in the midst of people celebrating. I noticed i wore an expensive traditional attire, and on turning to my side, it was this sister i saw, to cut story short, we got married". These are the dreams you told me then", the Pastor concluded.

The pastor told him never to think about divorce because it's God commandment that none should put asunder what He has joined, and that he should remember those vows he made on the altar.

********My Advise*********
So, Sister, take heed, be wary of "sugar-coated mouth" brothers, there are many of them in the Church of God, BE WATCHFUL.

Brother, i exhort you too, Filing for Divorce is not Biblical(under whatever circumstances).
PRAY SO YOU WON'T PRAY.

Pray before you marry that sister. Sister, seek the face of God before you wed that brother.

This story looks concocted just to prove a point.....

So you mean someone allegedly kills 3 of your children and you still can't divorce that person ??

I'm a christian but sorry to say, you sound dumb !!

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Some even argue that poverty is the Will Of God.

plenty pastors are guilty of this....lying against God.

They r busy going after fine fine innocent ladies to use them as pastor and mrs for poster purposes and abandoning the not so cute ones.


Ashawo

HARDDON:
There is a way that seemeth right unto men but the end thereof is distruction:

Balancing our likes n God's will is the crux of d whole matter!
N he alone can help but how wud we know his leading when we r blinded by tasting first?

*

Most people are too spiritually ignorant to know that ones you've had intimacy u've already welded, not wedded, ur selves! It takes grace to discern the wrong partner at this junction, because they are already joined in covenants! God is a respecter of covenants; because He is a covenant keeping God!
"....Without understanding, COVENANTBREAKERS,
without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
Who knowing the judgment of God, that they
which commit such things are worthy of death, not
only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do
them".
Stop joining yourselves up and down! Wait for the proper thing!

True talk. The question is is it only when it comes to marriage that we want to know his will? He must have been leading you through and through in all areas and when its time things naturally fall in place for marriage. God bless all the singles still searching

Vstuffs:

Question

How is it your problem

Not long for you,but long and boring to me

Remember one man food na another man poison

i can only see food i cant find poison

Waooo, you were able to translate a track on marriage from Evang. OJO ADE album titled TUJUKA perfectly. It makes sense. You must be a die hard fan of EVANG. OJO ADE just like I am. Can you try that of OJA OKUNKUN too?

Religious people would keep on confusing themselves..Marry the person you both understand each other and you are good to go..Na so one pastor would be telling some people not to marry somebody and they would not marry the person cos na my pastor talk am..Abegi,Make i dey watch CNN dey go jare..