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I met this girl in sec sch and we've been friends. I love her so much and I know she loves me too alot. When I finally got the courage to ask her out, she accepted right away. I was not a good boyfriend because hiding it from my parents was tough. Although I was done with sec sch before asking her to be my girlfriend. She got admission while in SS 2 and she took it. So during that period, I was dating a university chick. We used to talk about how much fun our family is going to be. Although I wasn't showing it, I knew eventually I would marry this girl. Since the beginning of this year her attitude has changed towards me. By the way I've gotten my admission too. She no longer talk about our life together. Her excuse is that she doesn't want to put all her eggs in one basket. She claims she has no boyfriend apart from me. She's giving me mixed signals. Sometimes she will call me and be acting all sweet but whenever I go and visit her she gives me the cold shoulder. I don't even know if we are dating anymore. I've made up my mind, I'm going to enter into 2015 with a new determination. Either I stick with her or I dump her with 2014. All I want is your advice.

Thanks

have you eaten from her honeypot?

Why don't you concentrate on getting a first degree, than disturbing yourself with girlfriend issues?

saaedlee:
Why don't you concentrate on getting a first degree, than disturbing yourself with girlfriend issues?

Getting first class doesn't determine one's future. I'm a pretty good student by the way.

It's possible she is seein some1 in skool, from d way she is behavin towards u.. u shud think it thru, talk to her abt it.... BTW she said, she want to put her egg in one basket...that's d signal bro!!!

ernecy:
It's possible she is seein some1 in skool, from d way she is behavin towards u.. u shud think it thru, talk to her abt it.... BTW she said, she want to put her egg in one basket...that's d signal bro!!!

she behaves sweet on the phone and she turns cold when they see. help? are you missing something

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Well iono wat her reasons might be though, but I'm guessing her reasoning just expanded and she's actually thinking out of the box right now... She's securing her future in a way, before u start saying wats dis one saying lemme xplain... U guys were in sec skool thinking of marriage and family, bro if I have to say the thoughts then might be "childish toughts or thinking* then but know she's seen more and feel you guys should just take things easy and see how things will work out... If she puts all her trust in you and you eventually don't end up marrying her nko? Have u tought about that? Well she's jst trying to be concious of the situation iguess though

Nairaland:
Getting first class doesn't determine one's future. I'm a pretty good student by the way.

He said first degree not first class! ODE...

maaft:
she behaves sweet on the phone and she turns cold when they see. help? are you missing something

see guy!! She is seein some1 in skool!!!

pussyeater:
He said first degree not first class! ...

Yeah I already posted that before really reading his post.

ernecy:
see guy!! She is seein some1 in skool!!!

lol. but there's no explanation for the sweet behaviour on phone na. she has been blunt enough. it will cost her nothing to be dismissive on phone too

Nairaland:
Getting first class doesn't determine one's future. I'm a pretty good student by the way.

Abeg don't say that again. The quality of your result has a strong influence on your future... If you can get a first class, get it. If you waste your precious time on someone who doesn't value you again and ruin your grades, you only have yourself to blame!

pussyeater:
He said first degree not first class! ODE...

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