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No10:
In one sentence; It's a man's world.

Tallesty1:
We all know that there’s something inside us that fuels the desire to marry. If we are not married then we’re missing something. There’s something wrong with us.(or atleast we feel that way.) but I have seen men that have refused to marry and they are not being disturbed or gossiped like women.

Often times I do see posts on here that preach being single but the funny thing is that if you pay close attention to the message you will understand that the poster(woman) ain't happy being single.(in most cases)

In our families and society, we see single women as a problem to be fixed, a conundrum to unravel. No one can rest until they are sorted. Everybody will be giving advice/suggestions.

In fact, if a woman in her 30s should open her mouth and say that she is single and happy, I can tell ya that no one will believe her. No one. It's at that word 'happy' that everyone gets stuck.

Once a woman is in 30ish and not married yet ha, I can tell ya that she will be restless(most of them) unlike guys. A guy can be in his late 40s and still be cool with it, people will still not see any problem in it but the reverse is always the case if it is a lady.

So, together, let’s consider why men are generally cooler with being single than women!

khia:
But it would be nothing without a woman or a girl.

MizMyColi:
It's a societal conditioning of sorts that the woman's place is with a man, without whom she's a figurehead of sorts.
A dogma, an apogee.
It's been passed down from aeons of generations ago ---

Belief affects DNA y'know?
Catch my drift?

It's not gonna change anytime soon.

Another reason is this - The man's priority is provision, the woman's priority is procreation.
This explains why a man focuses his attention on provision related ventures, and the woman on procreation related ventures.

do you have evidence to support this statement?

'Cos if this statement is true, you're invariably saying Telekinesis is in existence.

decode55:
do you have evidence to support this statement?

'Cos if this statement is true, you're invariably saying Telekinesis is in existence.

Ewuro4:
Who told you they're cooler being single?

it's called pride swallowing dear, se than bursting into tears. A 40year old man ear drums are already rusty from constant marriage reminders and insults.

Just cause they appear "cooler" under those shades and saggy jeans doesn't mean they're all fine and dandy.

MizMyColi:
Just ask google. There are tons of documented research.

@Telekinesis
I say impossible is nothing.
The human mind is capable of so much more y'know --- with the appropriate conditioning.
For there is twice as much we do not know than we do know.

Have you witnessed a telekinetic episode before?

MizMyColi:
It's a societal conditioning of sorts that the woman's place is with a man, without whom she's a figurehead of sorts.
A dogma, an apogee.
It's been passed down from aeons of generations ago --- Belief affects DNA y'know?
Catch my drift?

It's not gonna change anytime soon.

Another reason is this - The man's priority is provision, the woman's priority is procreation.
This explains why a man focuses his attention on provision related ventures, and the woman on procreation related ventures.

lastchild:
its a man's world ,period!

I always tell people that this issue of age being a number is only in a man's life not women,women use that to console their selves

A man can decide to marry at the age of 50,a woman dare not try it

My father is 64 and is about getting married 2015,he keep rejecting women we bring saying he doesn't like them,his taste is too high even at that age

Can a woman of that age get married? Even if she does its a miracle and bigger miracle to bear children

So a man should be cool being single not woman

No10:
Self servicing is allowed.

Shirley07:
Where do you think all those retärd genes are from? Obviously from old men who failed to have children at early age.
Just tell your father it's of no use because we don't need any more retärds in the country.

khia:
So you enjoy your hand more than the kitty?

No10:
lol. Just saying the kitty has substitute and can actually be done without.

Shirley07:
Where do you think all those retärd genes are from? Obviously from old men who failed to have children at early age.
Just tell your father it's of no use because we don't need any more retärds in the country.

khia:
So you enjoy your hand more than the kitty?

Tallesty1:
Methinks that makes him gay!


Self servicing is just like giving another guy a hand-job

No10:
. I'd give two examples; A man is caught cheating on his wife and he cld easily get off the hook. A woman is caught cheating on her husband and all hell wld be let loose. Exp 2; A boy sleeps wiv so many girls and he's branded a player,but a girl does same and she's called a prostitute. So u see my friend,its a man's world. It's fairer to the male folks than their female counterparts,especially in the third word.

khia:
Actually it also comes from the old eggs of the woman.

juianne95:
...lolz..hope u know dat there is notin like old eggs..all d eggs in a woman r already there by d time of birtg

khia:
WOW!!! Come on now, you know as a woman gets older so does her eggs. Jeeeez!!!
You definitely need a sex educational class.

juianne95:
excuse me!!...no need for insults na..shoo....kids of nowadays sef

khia:
I did not insult you, just giving you words of wisdom.

juianne95:
..well,u can kip dem cos dey r not needed

khia:
Well you can remain ignorant, that suits you.

khia:
Sounds like the words that only a gay man would say.

No10:
. Trust me sweetie,this dude ain't gay.