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Urgent Advice Needed Please by shabyimulo(op): 10:06am On Dec 29, 2014
Good day nairalites, compliment of the season to you all. Please need advice on these issue. There is this girl we came to know each other and get alone then we started visiting but she does most of the visiting but often at times she comes on notice then one day she asked me a question that since I have been coming to your place I ve never met a lady is it that you don't have or what? Which I told her the truth. I express myself to her but she told me that she has a date but the choice is mine to be with her or not but after that we started going out we kiss and hug a lot but few weeks later she started acting funny which I confronted her but to my greatest surprise I was told her spiritual mother told her to be careful with me but still yet I never give up on her trying to reason with me but then she told me that we CAN'T never be that now she can't double date. Please I love this girl. Please need candid advice.
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by oluwakekz(m): 10:19am On Dec 29, 2014
What!!!!!! Ah! Aba! Easy jho bros, life is to short to kill yourself over this now, pls relax .you die there and loving her and she will come to your grave with her children/child and husband to drop that #200 rose flower,,,,,,(opinion ooooooo ,easy)
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by BluePearls(m): 10:20am On Dec 29, 2014
em...dude there's your hand writing on the wall, what else do you need?
She probably isn't right for you, lots of fishes out there, take your time.
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by Mprex(f): 10:23am On Dec 29, 2014
I dont understand
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by BluePearls(m): 10:36am On Dec 29, 2014
Mprex:
I dont understand
Abridged version: he wants something which he can't have. grin
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by shabyimulo(op): 12:56pm On Dec 29, 2014
My problem now is that she make me to fall in love with her and now she is telling me super story. I did ask won't I be a lacunas to her relationship which she said no but now am just perplex
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by Nobody: 1:49pm On Dec 29, 2014
Firstly, its Nlders nt Nairalites..
@ op, U caused it urself nw....
U r single and went on dating a lady who explained to u she already has a boyfriend...
Why den did u cast all hopes on a relationship u urself knw wouldnt last(being used as a side guy).
Wen there isn't scarcity of gurls.... Pls wake up and look 4 sumone out there who loves u cos she jex only gave u a flimsy excuse to throw u ou of her life.
Like ma broda said, Life's too short to go on brooding on d story of a girl who doesnt luv uhuh
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by FLAWLES(f): 1:56pm On Dec 29, 2014
Spiritual mother?
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by shabyimulo(op): 2:04pm On Dec 29, 2014
Segirl18:
Firstly, its Nlders nt Nairalites..
@ op, U caused it urself nw....
U r single and went on dating a lady who explained to u she already has a boyfriend...
Why den did u cast all hopes on a relationship u urself knw wouldnt last(being used as a side guy).
Wen there isn't scarcity of gurls.... Pls wake up and look 4 sumone out there who loves u cos she jex only gave u a flimsy excuse to throw u ou of her life.
Like ma broda said, Life's too short to go on brooding on d story of a girl who doesnt luv uhuh
thanks segirl 18 the correction. She made me like but she dump me like craps. Though I do call her and say hi. Don't know whether to keep calling or not
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by Nobody: 2:13pm On Dec 29, 2014
Another case of pismal dishmal.
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by Nobody: 2:15pm On Dec 29, 2014
shabyimulo:
thanks segirl 18 the correction. She made me like but she dump me like craps. Though I do call her and say hi. Don't know whether to keep calling or not
U r welcum... She knws best what she wanted to hv said yes to in d first place though.

But to keep calling her or not is seriously ur choice to make dearie.
If u think each tym u cal her, u feel hurt thereafter....then u should wisen up ur decision bro, then if its d other way round, no probs.... #My thought tho#
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by shabyimulo(op): 2:29pm On Dec 29, 2014
Segirl18:
U r welcum... She knws best what she wanted to hv said yes to in d first place though.

But to keep calling her or not is seriously ur choice to make dearie.
If u think each tym u cal her, u feel hurt thereafter....then u should wisen up ur decision bro, then if its d other way round, no probs.... #My thought tho#
really appreciate ur thought. Though want to stop calling her but don't want her to feel maybe is because she dump me that make me do that. Am confuse right now
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by Nobody: 2:36pm On Dec 29, 2014
shabyimulo:
really appreciate ur thought. Though want to stop calling her but don't want her to feel maybe is because she dump me that make me do that. Am confuse right now
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by shabyimulo(op): 3:16pm On Dec 29, 2014
FLAWLES:
Spiritual mother?
flawles thanks a lot, that is what she told me that her spiritual mother told her to be careful with me but I know maybe she might be lying or just giving me reason to reason with and accept my faith. But I blvd if I was the one she won't hurt me so bad. Still yet I do really feel for her but don't just know what to do.
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by Afrok(m): 3:54pm On Dec 29, 2014
Op U bleeped up big time... Why would U wanna date a girl that has a spiritual mother when U don't have a spiritual father? shocked abeg wetin or who be spiritual mother sef?
Don't U know that before spiritual children will date, their spiritual parents will have spiritual meetings in the spirit? huh.

Op put on ur sneakers and start jogging for ur life coz next one will be, she has a spiritual husband. But when will I fall in love sef even with someone who has a spiritual mother? cheesy

I've learnt my lessons that any relationship that is excuses bond will never workout.
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by FLAWLES(f): 4:17pm On Dec 29, 2014
shabyimulo:
flawles thanks a lot, that is what she told me that her spiritual mother told her to be careful with me but I know maybe she might be lying or just giving me reason to reason with and accept my faith. But I blvd if I was the one she won't hurt me so bad. Still yet I do really feel for her but don't just know what to do.
.see lie
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by shabyimulo(op): 4:17pm On Dec 29, 2014
Afrok:
Op U bleeped up big time... Why would U wanna date a girl that has a spiritual mother when U don't have a spiritual father? shocked abeg wetin or who be spiritual mother sef?
Don't U know that before spiritual children will date, their spiritual parents will have spiritual meetings in the spirit? huh.

Op put on ur sneakers and start jogging for ur life coz next one will be, she has a spiritual husband. But when will I fall in love sef even with someone who has a spiritual mother? cheesy thanks Afrok, her spiritual mother in christ not the other way round. Though I don't have spiritual father but I have Almighty Father that sees each tears that falls. She is just cooked this to push me away from her. But she keeps saying we could just be friends which I don't want to be in a friendzone with her. I trusted her but she make me a fool. I just thank her for every thing. I don't want to think of her but I often do but why?

I've learnt my lessons that any relationship that is excuses bond will never workout.
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by Afrok(m): 4:26pm On Dec 29, 2014
[quote author=shabyimulo post=29308854][/quote]u're welcome bruh... Just give urself time. With time if U don't want her to exist in ur life again even as a friend, it'll definitely be so. Thank God u've known and read about friendzone, that's the zone where u'll have call credit and data plan but U won't neither be able to call nor browse cheesy.
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by shabyimulo(op): 4:41pm On Dec 29, 2014
Afrok:
u're welcome bruh... Just give urself time. With time if U don't want her to exist in ur life again even as a friend, it'll definitely be so. Thank God u've known and read about friendzone, that's the zone where u'll have call credit and data plan but U won't neither be able to call nor browse cheesy.
thanks Bru. Noted
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by Nobody: 4:59pm On Dec 29, 2014
Mprex:
I dont understand
cheesy
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by Mprex(f): 5:08pm On Dec 29, 2014
samflexxy:
cheesy
lols. What is funny?cheesy i dont understand na
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by shabyimulo(op): 7:04pm On Dec 29, 2014
Mprex:
lols. What is funny?cheesy i dont understand na
is funny though but it happens how people u value so much tend to treat u bad
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by shabyimulo(op): 7:07pm On Dec 29, 2014
Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by shabyimulo(op): 7:08pm On Dec 29, 2014
samflexxy:
cheesy
that's how people u trust act
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