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Re: 4 Huge Mistakes I Made As A Wife by Chillis: 12:03pm On Jan 03, 2015
bukatyne:
You better direct your rants to the appropriate channel undecided

I stated my opinions on the subject matter and when the second/husband's version came, I did same

Very funny you are playing the victim doing the same things; you lot, you This, you that.

Can you quote my posts on THIS thread that was an attack or a rant? Did you take time to read my posts on This thread or you just saw bukatyne and went into e-heartattack?

This is a new year please, respect yourself. This is a plea.

If you and others have problems with a group of posters or a particular one, quote the concerned and address your posts to them. You lot, you group etc. disgusts me a lot.

It seems some poster's know others who will avoid fights and them quote them to rant and refer to the ones they have problem with.

This is a new year and I will not tolerate such. I will avoid e -fights but if any yeye poster quotes me as a message to others, it MIGHT not be funny.
Buka don vex.

If a house fly enters the house. Two things. Open the doors hoping they will fly out or you kill them with insecticides or broom.

I prefer broom. Like that you know that same housefly won't bother you again.

Now if you let it go, it will keep buzzing in your ears and attracting its colleagues.

I hope you get my drift. wink

Pls, relax. Don't let anyone change the real you. Not worth it. Sometimes the people behind the computer will baffle you. Happy New yr
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes I Made As A Wife by EfemenaXY: 12:47pm On Jan 03, 2015
bukatyne:
You better direct your rants to the appropriate channel undecided

I stated my opinions on the subject matter and when the second/husband's version came, I did same

Very funny you are playing the victim doing the same things; you lot, you This, you that.

Can you quote my posts on THIS thread that was an attack or a rant? Did you take time to read my posts on This thread or you just saw bukatyne and went into e-heartattack?
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bukatyne:
This is a new year please, respect yourself. This is a plea.

If you and others have problems with a group of posters or a particular one, quote the concerned and address your posts to them. You lot, you group etc. disgusts me a lot.
grin grin

bukatyne:
It seems some poster's know others who will avoid fights and them quote them to rant and refer to the ones they have problem with.
ROTFLMAO!! grin grin grin


bukatyne:
This is a new year and I will not tolerate such. I will avoid e -fights but if any yeye poster quotes me as a message to others, it MIGHT not be funny.
cheesy cheesy

Okay, back to viewing mode... lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes I Made As A Wife by 5minsmadness(op): 1:54pm On Jan 03, 2015
bukatyne:
The OP claimed they are the Same couple

Happy prosperous 2015, my regards to your family.
No I didn't. Not categorically. But it doesn't matter.

This is a new year and I will not tolerate such. I will avoid e -fights but if any yeye poster quotes me as a message to others, it MIGHT not be funny
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You will not tolerate? So what will you do next time, flog my bottom? Chill out Jo.

I admit you were not the main culprit in this matter. Your case is more like one finger touching palm oil and another getting soiled.

I try to avoid e-fights myself as much as possible but it seems inevitable in this section.
Frankly I'm tired of the whole shlt.

You're right. Its a new year. So I'm going to take a step back. Happy new year.
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes I Made As A Wife by bukatyne(f): 4:46pm On Jan 03, 2015
EfemenaXY:
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ROTFLMAO!! grin grin grin




cheesy cheesy

Okay, back to viewing mode... lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Needed to do that
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes I Made As A Wife by EfemenaXY: 4:48pm On Jan 03, 2015
^^ Why na? smiley

I didn't really say anything that was worth quoting... tongue
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes I Made As A Wife by bukatyne(f): 4:58pm On Jan 03, 2015
5minsmadness:
No I didn't. Not categorically. But it doesn't matter.

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You will not tolerate? So what will you do next time, flog my bottom? Chill out Jo.

I admit you were not the main culprit in this matter. Your case is more like one finger touching palm oil and another getting soiled.

I try to avoid e-fights myself as much as possible but it seems inevitable in this section.
Frankly I'm tired of the whole shlt.

You're right. Its a new year. So I'm going to take a step back. Happy new year.
@bold: I am not the main culprithuh Can you quote my post that was offensive on this thread? This is a challenge

If you do not want e-fights:

1. Do not quote bystanders as a message to people you have issues with
2. If you see posters you do not like their post, jump and pass
3. ....

Please take some steps back

Take care
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes I Made As A Wife by Stillfire: 4:58pm On Jan 03, 2015
5minsmadness:
All you girls had to do was click the link and you would have seen both the original story and a man's side of it as well.

But no. You were too busy falling over yourselves to defend the woman even though the article clearly states at the beginning that the man was the one that cheated and walked out on the marriage. The wife actually did a lot of blaming and shaming of the man before she came to the realisation that she had a part to play in the breakup which is what was clearly stated in the first paragraph.

Even if I wanted to bring out the man's version in another topic the next day there was no longer any need as the whole idea of the thread was lost on you girls(you know yourselves) and the man's part would have simply been met with another round of illogicality.

You people have made family section so unfriendly that there is no talking to you know-it-alls. Quite frankly it is disgusting . You take anything issued at the female folk as an attack on your personal selves and honestly I can't fathom why. You take any issue/problem a man brings up as an opportunity to attack him even when he claims culpability and is simply looking for a solution. It is appalling.

And yet you call your cause noble and look for people to recruit ....whatever that cause is.

I am tired of explaining posts to you group of girls. I can honestly say I see no maturity in any of you(once again you know yourselves). I only hope people with more objective minds read and get the message from the post. Thank God its a free forum.

Feel free to insult and revel in response to this post as much as you like...i know its therapy for some of you. It is just unfortunate that many others find it difficult to stoop down to your level. But don't worry, I'm sure you will attract and retain the kind that will, especially on this section.


Over and out.
Na true. grin
Why is it the woman's part your itchy fingers were prone to post first? grin Confession time.................... cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes I Made As A Wife by bukatyne(f): 5:00pm On Jan 03, 2015
EfemenaXY:
^^ Why na? smiley

I didn't really say anything that was worth quoting... tongue
He is not the first

A poster some days back mentioned me (as unto feminist things) on a thread i had stated my opinion and moved on. Simply told him not to mention me again unless necessary

This is a new year and how the year starts might be how it will end grin tongue
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes I Made As A Wife by EfemenaXY: 5:03pm On Jan 03, 2015
bukatyne:
He is not the first

A poster some days back mentioned me (as unto feminist things) on a thread i had stated my opinion and moved on. Simply told him not to mention me again unless necessary

This is a new year and how the year starts might be how it will end grin tongue
Take it easy dear.

Some posters are not worth responding to. Downright rude, attention seekers who yell the most but are quite "empty" within. They know themselves...

(Not referring to 5minsmadness...he's okayyyyy...most times) cheesy
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes I Made As A Wife by bukatyne(f): 5:05pm On Jan 03, 2015
Chillis:
Buka don vex.

If a house fly enters the house. Two things. Open the doors hoping they will fly out or you kill them with insecticides or broom.

I prefer broom. Like that you know that same housefly won't bother you again.

Now if you let it go, it will keep buzzing in your ears and attracting its colleagues.

I hope you get my drift. wink

Pls, relax. Don't let anyone change the real you. Not worth it. Sometimes the people behind the computer will baffle you. Happy New yr
Thanks a lot

Not changing for nothing grin cheesy

Take care
Re: 4 Huge Mistakes I Made As A Wife by cococandy(f): 7:08pm On Jan 03, 2015
Chillis:
Buka don vex.

If a house fly enters the house. Two things. Open the doors hoping they will fly out or you kill them with insecticides or broom.

I prefer broom. Like that you know that same housefly won't bother you again.

Now if you let it go, it will keep buzzing in your ears and attracting its colleagues.


I hope you get my drift. wink

Pls, relax. Don't let anyone change the real you. Not worth it. Sometimes the people behind the computer will baffle you. Happy New yr
Try stand up comedy chilli. grin grin grin
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