edwife:


LMAO see these my sisters o,these amazones and xena


i need to start delivrance oya lining up......
Armyofone follow the queue.....

Nah deliverance sure pass

EfemenaXY:


Lol!

Una get time sha. When are you lot gonna realize that the Family section has long since been overrun by bone-idle, keyboard happy teenagers, migrating over from the Romance Section?

I mean think about it. The so-called advisers spend 30 hours a day, 8 days a week, 15months a year dishing out "how to" advices... Kids barely out of Terry cloth nappies & pins advising married folks with kids "how to" run their marriages, kids, and family life?

Bunch of hungry, hustling, jokers everywhere sha...

Oh still in stitches here

aisha2:


You no get sense oh " sufferness" is what makes a good wife.
If you are enjoying your marriage and not going through all the suffer its either;

1. You are jazzing ya husband
2. Your husband is a weak man
3. You are a feminist
And my personal favourite
4. You are an online wife lying to gullible long suffering women because you cannot have a good marriage and if he hasn't cheated you haven't caught him yet hehehehehe.

Na the women like to suffer abeg leave them, I didnt come to this world to escort anybody to enjoy while I am cleaning, cooking, looking after battalion children, borning every year, cooking fresh soup every day, washing jeans manually, grinding pepper yet remaining sexy in red pant and bra. While still finding time to run all over town looking for those jazzebels seducing him as he claims and fighting with them while he looks on happy and satisfied that two stupid women are fighting over his pot belle and alcohol breathe. While you are busy doing all these he is on nairaland bashing feminists hoping praying and fasting you never become like them. Then once in a while he formulates stories like this so you know how lucky you are that he still stays with you and you haven't become a hopeless divorcee, lesbian or feminist

aisha and red underwear sha

oyb:

aisha and red underwear sha

Na Chilis dey sell am oh.

Here we go again.....

I love the first pic
Joining you with my raggae steps. .

byvan:




Nah deliverance sure pass

Bootybuttchic:
haa.....thank God hes left sha......he must have found peace by now....... men they try ....whew!







i hate when people pick mistakes too much,bully someone feelings(emotionally).turn a matrimonial home into a family house.....chai....plus the rest.........thank God for that mans life



Gid pls give me brain to treat my husband and home well....amen

lol..see your mouth.

Dreyl:
lol..see your mouth.

like ur mouth

armyofone:
I love the first pic
Joining you with my raggae steps. .

make sure you are bare footed.

Bootybuttchic:
like ur mouth

lol.. abi my sexy lips
btw where have you been with that your Arsenal

Dreyl:
lol.. abi my sexy lips
btw where have you been with that your Arsenal

duh!!!! ....been around ooooo......which arsenal

Bootybuttchic:
duh!!!! ....been around ooooo......which arsenal

ehn i miss you o, mehn that arsenal is set and loaded i'm sure it can destroy manchester city in a mili second, so how are you celebrating New year?

Dreyl:
ehn i miss you o, mehn that arsenal is set and loaded i'm sure it can destroy manchester city in a mili second, so how are you celebrating New year?

its honna be dry i bet ....missed u too.u havnt been around too like udual ......and close ur eye against the arsenal

Bootybuttchic:
its honna be dry i bet ....missed u too.u havnt been around too like udual ......and close ur eye against the arsenal

hehehehe...i've been around and everywhere like MTN, you know it's good to be a boss of yourself, no morøn will try any shít with you besides i've been looking at it for the past 20 minutes and my jaw is dropping like never before, i must admit that arsenal can make a nigga die young..

Dreyl:
hehehehe...i've been around and everywhere like MTN, you know it's good to be a boss of yourself, no morøn will try any shít with you besides i've been looking at it for the past 20 minutes and my jaw is dropping like never before, i must admit that arsenal can make a nigga die young..

rotflmfaooooo.......stop staring.....ex outta my wall

Bootybuttchic:
haa.....thank God hes left sha......he must have found peace by now....... men they try ....whew!







i hate when people pick mistakes too much,bully someone feelings(emotionally).turn a matrimonial home into a family house.....chai....plus the rest.........thank God for that mans life



Gid pls give me brain to treat my husband and home well....amen

God give you brain?? smh!!

EfemenaXY:


Haha!

Aisha, I'm quickly learning my lessons o! Right now, I'm at stage one: submissively cooking dinner in the kitchen.

After which, I hope to graduate to stage two: Barefooted, pregnant, and chained to the kitchen sink!!

Revelations chapter 50 verse 75...

LMAO... That cracked me up. Meanwhile, I have very good handcuffs just incase the one they used to chain you to the kitchen sink gets weak.

Bootybuttchic:
rotflmfaooooo.......stop staring.....ex outta my wall

happy new year

Dreyl:
happy new year

thank you....same to youu

There's a Part 2 to the story:

4 BIG MISTAKES I MADE WITH MY WIFE

At this point even bothering to call myself a husband anymore is just a sham.

If you're looking to learn from some other guy's mistakes when it comes to torpedoing your marriage with stupid oversights and selfish dumb-ass-ness, well, you’ve just waltzed in to the right place, partner. I've got the goods, the knowledge, and the juiciest steaks this side of Texas, so listen up. (And in case you think you don't need what I'm serving—trust me, you do.)

Chuckle if you want, but take it from moi: even if you think you're happily married, you're probably a whole lot closer to schlepping your six or seven boxes of comic books and old football trophies up to your new crib than you can even imagine.


Here are the 4 ways I screwed up my marriage:

1. I got fat

Okay, by "I got fat," I don't necessarily mean that I got fat-fat. I mean, I did get fat as a married guy in the sense that I added a few LBs, but I also got mentally lazy in my marriage. I got way too comfortable and I took everything for granted (just like a lot of married people do). And just like you're doing right now, probably. Marriage seemed pretty easy to me right from the get-go. I thought that my wife, Monica, and I got married because we were perfect together and that was that, and I was 99 percent sure that I could just be me and do whatever the hell I wanted to do (within civilized reason) and we'd be just fine. But I was wrong. I was so, so wrong. She made mistakes too, but I failed to address so many things, so many little things. 'Hey, how was work today?' or 'Yo, do you want me to rub your feet while we watch TV?' I didn't think of my marriage or my wife in the way that I was constantly thinking about, say, my job or how much money I had in my wallet or what I was going to have for lunch. I barely gave the marriage much thought at all. I was on auto-pilot, and that was a monumental mistake on my part. So start paying attention to your marriage the way you pay attention to stupid crap like the NFL or what music you’re downloading into your new iPhone. If you don’t, you're doomed. That's a promise.

2. Sex was all about me

I was just about one of the worst lovers of all time. You might feel a little bit smug hearing me say that, and that's cool. I live my life close to the honesty bone now and I'm a better man because of it. I'd be willing to wager a cold six-pack that you have no idea how badly you actually suck in the bedroom. You're probably saying, "But Serge, I'm pretty happy with the way things are going. I still have sex pretty regularly and that's more than most of the guys at work can say, huh?" I get it, bud. I thought the same thing. I'm 42 and I'm pretty fit and I can still have sex and dig it like the main-line narcotic of Biblical proportions that it is. But I must confess: the sex in my marriage was almost always about me. Not intentionally, mind you. I wasn't some sweaty drunk college linebacker trying to date-rape my wife. But year after year, even though she was fairly articulate and open about trying to tell me things that "worked" for her, or "didn't work", I never got it — because I was never really listening. In fact, sometimes I intepreted her intimate act of honest trust and confidence as her telling me I was doing it wrong. I loved having sex with a hot woman and that was it for me. But be forewarned, you Hot meatheads: These days, I have sex with no one.

3. I didn't help pay the bills

Look, I don't care how much your wife loves handling the finances, or how good at it she is, you should have a role in helping connect financial dots beyond just having a job. Don't get me wrong, I made money. I was never, ever happily unemployed. I made as much money as I could at every job I ever had. But I let her handle the family finances, and no matter how much more responsible and skilled my wife was at it, that was a huge mistake in retrospect. Most women want and deserve to feel cared for, no matter how independent and strong-minded they are. They want to feel that kind of security that can only ever come with knowing that her partner is both aware and proactive when it comes to sustaining a life together. And part of that is the actual act of paying the bills, making investments, and knowing what you’re spending at the grocery store. So deal with it and play your part.

4. I said things I can never take back

Nothing, and I mean nothing, can ever erase the things you say to another human being. You can try for years to wipe certain slates clean, but take it from me, when it comes to hurtful words (even words mostly spat out in the heat of some argument or insults you didn’t mean at all) you will regret them for the rest of your life. I know because I've spit venom. Many times. It was my main line of defense when my wife and I battled over this little thing or that. I didn't realize at the time how immature and stupid it was to deal with adversarial situations by throwing up castle walls of protection just so I wouldn't be hurt by someone else's accusations or attempts at grown-up discussions. Hopefully, this nugget of advice doesn't apply to you. Hopefully, you are the soul of calm/cool/and collected and you never, ever say mean or nasty things when you argue with your significant other. Seriously, I hope you're one of those guys. Because then you have nothing to worry about when it comes to the #1 absolute worst mistake I ever made in my marriage. But if you DO have that certain chip in you that sometimes kicks in when you're overwhelmed or hurt or outmatched or drunk, get help, however you can. I found a way to control my emotions and the things I say to the people I love. It certainly wasn't easy, but by being mindful every second of every day since my marriage ended, I've finally come to a place as a man where I wish I arrived long ago. Think before you speak. Really THINK before you speak. Breathe. Bite your lip until it bleeds. Walk the f*ck away. Just don't say things that hurt, okay? Because you'll never undo the hurt, my man. Yeah, I know, I know: you think you're so tough. You think you'd actually dig having ESPN blaring all the time in that little one-bedroom apartment where you'll end up when the marriage falls apart.

You think you will be just fine, microwaving your own dinners, the newly-single dude, free as a bird, dining alone on his new (used) futon couch.

But buddy, you have no idea.


http://www.yourtango.com/2014226873/mistakes-husband-ex-husband#.VKVibXtyWRg

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chaircover:
Very deep
Not excusing the man for his affair though . .
He should have found a way of communicating his "dislikes" to his wife before it got so bad & to the point that he switched off
Its good to learn
it is well.

You see some men might not be good with communication and I am guessing that the man in question might be that type of person

Bootybuttchic:
haa.....thank God hes left sha......he must have found peace by now....... men they try ....whew!







i hate when people pick mistakes too much,bully someone feelings(emotionally).turn a matrimonial home into a family house.....chai....plus the rest.........thank God for that mans life



Gid pls give me brain to treat my husband and home well....amen

Amen

Lisaflex:
Most stuff i've read abt marriage imply dt d success of a marriage is mostly if not entirely dependent on d woman...Is it dt a woman is not meant 2 njoy marriage bt jes kip working at mkin it work even wen its killing her? Wot exactly is d role of d man?...In ds write up, d woman appears 2 hv taken all d blame n its more lyk shez trying 2 justify her man cheating on her n leavn her n d kids...I bliv d guy also made his own mistakes in addition 2 d cheatn ish, d brk dwn of their marriage could hv been averted if d guy also played his part n didn't let fnz escalate 2 d point dt it did...I fnk 4 a marriage 2 work,both parties hv 2 work hard at it n not jes d woman

Nooo dear even on this thread the success of any marriage depends on both parties not the woman. When there is a defect from any of them then a huge problem would have occured.

1miccza:


Nooo dear even on this thread the success of any marriage depends on both parties not the woman. When there is a defect from any of them then a huge problem would have occured.

my point exactly.. der wld be problems cos 1 party or d oda wld always mk mistks at 1 point or d oda ( no 1 is perfect)... wen 1 party messes up, hw d oda party steps in n handles it plays a big role in d success of dt marriage

Lisaflex:


my point exactly.. der wld be problems cos 1 party or d oda wld always mk mistks at 1 point or d oda ( no 1 is perfect)... wen 1 party messes up, hw d oda party steps in n handles it plays a big role in d success of dt marriage

Absolutely correct infact you took the words out of my mouth...

Onegai:
There's a Part 2 to the story:

4 BIG MISTAKES I MADE WITH MY WIFE

At this point even bothering to call myself a husband anymore is just a sham.

If you're looking to learn from some other guy's mistakes when it comes to torpedoing your marriage with stupid oversights and selfish dumb-ass-ness, well, you’ve just waltzed in to the right place, partner. I've got the goods, the knowledge, and the juiciest steaks this side of Texas, so listen up. (And in case you think you don't need what I'm serving—trust me, you do.)

Chuckle if you want, but take it from moi: even if you think you're happily married, you're probably a whole lot closer to schlepping your six or seven boxes of comic books and old football trophies up to your new crib than you can even imagine.


Here are the 4 ways I screwed up my marriage:

1. I got fat

Okay, by "I got fat," I don't necessarily mean that I got fat-fat. I mean, I did get fat as a married guy in the sense that I added a few LBs, but I also got mentally lazy in my marriage. I got way too comfortable and I took everything for granted (just like a lot of married people do). And just like you're doing right now, probably. Marriage seemed pretty easy to me right from the get-go. I thought that my wife, Monica, and I got married because we were perfect together and that was that, and I was 99 percent sure that I could just be me and do whatever the hell I wanted to do (within civilized reason) and we'd be just fine. But I was wrong. I was so, so wrong. She made mistakes too, but I failed to address so many things, so many little things. 'Hey, how was work today?' or 'Yo, do you want me to rub your feet while we watch TV?' I didn't think of my marriage or my wife in the way that I was constantly thinking about, say, my job or how much money I had in my wallet or what I was going to have for lunch. I barely gave the marriage much thought at all. I was on auto-pilot, and that was a monumental mistake on my part. So start paying attention to your marriage the way you pay attention to stupid crap like the NFL or what music you’re downloading into your new iPhone. If you don’t, you're doomed. That's a promise.

2. Sex was all about me

I was just about one of the worst lovers of all time. You might feel a little bit smug hearing me say that, and that's cool. I live my life close to the honesty bone now and I'm a better man because of it. I'd be willing to wager a cold six-pack that you have no idea how badly you actually suck in the bedroom. You're probably saying, "But Serge, I'm pretty happy with the way things are going. I still have sex pretty regularly and that's more than most of the guys at work can say, huh?" I get it, bud. I thought the same thing. I'm 42 and I'm pretty fit and I can still have sex and dig it like the main-line narcotic of Biblical proportions that it is. But I must confess: the sex in my marriage was almost always about me. Not intentionally, mind you. I wasn't some sweaty drunk college linebacker trying to date-rape my wife. But year after year, even though she was fairly articulate and open about trying to tell me things that "worked" for her, or "didn't work", I never got it — because I was never really listening. In fact, sometimes I intepreted her intimate act of honest trust and confidence as her telling me I was doing it wrong. I loved having sex with a hot woman and that was it for me. But be forewarned, you Hot meatheads: These days, I have sex with no one.

3. I didn't help pay the bills

Look, I don't care how much your wife loves handling the finances, or how good at it she is, you should have a role in helping connect financial dots beyond just having a job. Don't get me wrong, I made money. I was never, ever happily unemployed. I made as much money as I could at every job I ever had. But I let her handle the family finances, and no matter how much more responsible and skilled my wife was at it, that was a huge mistake in retrospect. Most women want and deserve to feel cared for, no matter how independent and strong-minded they are. They want to feel that kind of security that can only ever come with knowing that her partner is both aware and proactive when it comes to sustaining a life together. And part of that is the actual act of paying the bills, making investments, and knowing what you’re spending at the grocery store. So deal with it and play your part.

4. I said things I can never take back

Nothing, and I mean nothing, can ever erase the things you say to another human being. You can try for years to wipe certain slates clean, but take it from me, when it comes to hurtful words (even words mostly spat out in the heat of some argument or insults you didn’t mean at all) you will regret them for the rest of your life. I know because I've spit venom. Many times. It was my main line of defense when my wife and I battled over this little thing or that. I didn't realize at the time how immature and stupid it was to deal with adversarial situations by throwing up castle walls of protection just so I wouldn't be hurt by someone else's accusations or attempts at grown-up discussions. Hopefully, this nugget of advice doesn't apply to you. Hopefully, you are the soul of calm/cool/and collected and you never, ever say mean or nasty things when you argue with your significant other. Seriously, I hope you're one of those guys. Because then you have nothing to worry about when it comes to the #1 absolute worst mistake I ever made in my marriage. But if you DO have that certain chip in you that sometimes kicks in when you're overwhelmed or hurt or outmatched or drunk, get help, however you can. I found a way to control my emotions and the things I say to the people I love. It certainly wasn't easy, but by being mindful every second of every day since my marriage ended, I've finally come to a place as a man where I wish I arrived long ago. Think before you speak. Really THINK before you speak. Breathe. Bite your lip until it bleeds. Walk the f*ck away. Just don't say things that hurt, okay? Because you'll never undo the hurt, my man. Yeah, I know, I know: you think you're so tough. You think you'd actually dig having ESPN blaring all the time in that little one-bedroom apartment where you'll end up when the marriage falls apart.

You think you will be just fine, microwaving your own dinners, the newly-single dude, free as a bird, dining alone on his new (used) futon couch.

But buddy, you have no idea.


http://www.yourtango.com/2014226873/mistakes-husband-ex-husband#.VKVibXtyWRg

OP didn't dig out This part or didn't know it existed.

Couldn't the wife also tell Hubby what she wanted? Nobody is a mind reader.

That said, now they know their shortcomings, can't they adjust and make up?

They are now armed with the attitude that will make their marriage work.

bukatyne:


OP didn't dig out This part or didn't know it existed.

Couldn't the wife also tell Hubby what she wanted? Nobody is a mind reader.

That said, now they know their shortcomings, can't they adjust and make up?

They are now armed with the attitude that will make their marriage work.

All you girls had to do was click the link and you would have seen both the original story and a man's side of it as well.

But no. You were too busy falling over yourselves to defend the woman even though the article clearly states at the beginning that the man was the one that cheated and walked out on the marriage. The wife actually did a lot of blaming and shaming of the man before she came to the realisation that she had a part to play in the breakup which is what was clearly stated in the first paragraph.

Even if I wanted to bring out the man's version in another topic the next day there was no longer any need as the whole idea of the thread was lost on you girls(you know yourselves) and the man's part would have simply been met with another round of illogicality.

You people have made family section so unfriendly that there is no talking to you know-it-alls. Quite frankly it is disgusting . You take anything issued at the female folk as an attack on your personal selves and honestly I can't fathom why. You take any issue/problem a man brings up as an opportunity to attack him even when he claims culpability and is simply looking for a solution. It is appalling.

And yet you call your cause noble and look for people to recruit ....whatever that cause is.

I am tired of explaining posts to you group of girls. I can honestly say I see no maturity in any of you(once again you know yourselves). I only hope people with more objective minds read and get the message from the post. Thank God its a free forum.

Feel free to insult and revel in response to this post as much as you like...i know its therapy for some of you. It is just unfortunate that many others find it difficult to stoop down to your level. But don't worry, I'm sure you will attract and retain the kind that will, especially on this section.


Over and out.

bukatyne:


OP didn't dig out This part or didn't know it existed.

Couldn't the wife also tell Hubby what she wanted? Nobody is a mind reader.

That said, now they know their shortcomings, can't they adjust and make up?

They are now armed with the attitude that will make their marriage work.

It's not the same family. They are two completely different articles from one random wife and one random husband as far as I can tell. No evidence that they are related.

Happy new year!

5minsmadness:

All you girls had to do was click the link and you would have seen both the original story and a man's side of it as well.

But no. You were too busy falling over yourselves to defend the woman even though the article clearly states at the beginning that the man was the one that cheated and walked out on the marriage. The wife actually did a lot of blaming and shaming of the man before she came to the realisation that she had a part to play in the breakup which is what was clearly stated in the first paragraph.

Even if I wanted to bring out the man's version in another topic the next day there was no longer any need as the whole idea of the thread was lost on you girls(you know yourselves) and the man's part would have simply been met with another round of illogicality.

You people have made family section so unfriendly that there is no talking to you know-it-alls. Quite frankly it is disgusting . You take anything issued at the female folk as an attack on your personal selves and honestly I can't fathom why. You take any issue/problem a man brings up as an opportunity to attack him even when he claims culpability and is simply looking for a solution. It is appalling.

And yet you call your cause noble and look for people to recruit ....whatever that cause is.

I am tired of explaining posts to you group of girls. I can honestly say I see no maturity in any of you(once again you know yourselves). I only hope people with more objective minds read and get the message from the post. Thank God its a free forum.

Feel free to insult and revel in response to this post as much as you like...i know its therapy for some of you. It is just unfortunate that many others find it difficult to stoop down to your level. But don't worry, I'm sure you will attract and retain the kind that will, especially on this section.


Over and out.

You better direct your rants to the appropriate channel

I stated my opinions on the subject matter and when the second/husband's version came, I did same

Very funny you are playing the victim doing the same things; you lot, you This, you that.

Can you quote my posts on THIS thread that was an attack or a rant? Did you take time to read my posts on This thread or you just saw bukatyne and went into e-heartattack?

This is a new year please, respect yourself. This is a plea.

If you and others have problems with a group of posters or a particular one, quote the concerned and address your posts to them. You lot, you group etc. disgusts me a lot.

It seems some poster's know others who will avoid fights and them quote them to rant and refer to the ones they have problem with.

This is a new year and I will not tolerate such. I will avoid e -fights but if any yeye poster quotes me as a message to others, it MIGHT not be funny.

ileobatojo:


It's not the same family. They are two completely different articles from one random wife and one random husband as far as I can tell. No evidence that they are related.

Happy new year!

The OP claimed they are the Same couple

Happy prosperous 2015, my regards to your family.

So Op, cropped the female version out and left the male version?


Nigerians. Na dia way be that