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Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by Maakhir(m): 3:04pm On Jan 06, 2015
That is the price that comes with having a relationship.
Pay her school fees and she just might appreciate you a bit more.
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by naijaboiy: 3:04pm On Jan 06, 2015
koolet:
i guess most of u guyz are still single.... u expect me to be mean?

but seriously i still love her so well.
Guy stop dey talk that Bullshit...

Her papa and mama don die? undecided

Just give her what you can out of the money based on the love.

Let her go and find the rest herself...if that action makes her to break up with you or act greedy then that babe does not like you,,shes just a leech undecided

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Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by Enegod(m): 3:06pm On Jan 06, 2015
koolet:
...she once helped with me 5,000 when her parent sent her fees last year,now shez owing the school 32,000...
bro its time to pay back ×6 of her sch fee u flex angry
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by misspeecollectn(f): 3:06pm On Jan 06, 2015
vizkiz:
Pay it na...sheyb her father is dead and she has no relatives...pay her school fess demmit! angry
My God deliver you from such rubbish
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by vizkiz: 3:08pm On Jan 06, 2015
misspeecollectn:

My God deliver you from such rubbish

so you had to create a new account to quote me
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by Nobody: 3:08pm On Jan 06, 2015
Have you paid your own school fees??

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Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by koolet: 3:10pm On Jan 06, 2015
kristina1:
Have you paid your own school fees??
no but.....

dad would soon send it.
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by lilmax(m): 3:11pm On Jan 06, 2015
koolet:
no but

dad would soon send it
and what happened to her dad?
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by Charles4075(m): 3:11pm On Jan 06, 2015
Op, would have given you my own opinion but at the moment I'm not obliged to do so. Don't ask me why. But I have one question for you though and it's ''What do you gain from the relationship''? If you can answer that, then you can find a solution to the problem you're into now.. Do have a great day.
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by misspeecollectn(f): 3:13pm On Jan 06, 2015
vizkiz:


so you had to create a new account to quote me
What ever you think...you don't go saying what you don't know or prove,and don't talk about peoples parent like that
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by koolet: 3:13pm On Jan 06, 2015
lilmax:
and what happened to her dad?
did you read my post atall?
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by lilmax(m): 3:14pm On Jan 06, 2015
koolet:
did you read my post atall?
no
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by koolet: 3:17pm On Jan 06, 2015
lilmax:
no
when she spent it, she dashed me 5k
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by lilmax(m): 3:18pm On Jan 06, 2015
koolet:
when she spent it, she dashed me 5k
she spent it? cheesy just do the same thing na give her 5k
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by lurther: 3:19pm On Jan 06, 2015
Hmmmmmmm! Is sex for sale?
ireneony:
Pay for her na, but if she say make u füùk her you nor go come tell us.
Yeye de smell
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by Nobody: 3:23pm On Jan 06, 2015
koolet:
no but.....

dad would soon send it.
Use dat noney to pay ur schl fees first,den u can give her lyk 15k as money,cos once you start it now,she wl alwaz expect you to continue

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Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by ireneony(f): 3:24pm On Jan 06, 2015
lurther:
Hmmmmmmm! Is sex for sale?
since not for sale don't date then.
Calculate the money you have been using to carry a prostitute then you will know sex is for sale
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by luigiajah(m): 3:27pm On Jan 06, 2015
koolet:
we've been together for months now, both schooling in different institution me in university she a polyte i livin alone coz my parent resides in the north played winnersbet these days and my ticket won me 45k , spent 5k wid my palz, got to her and broke the news, the next thing she said waz "thank God ahhhh atleast i would pay my school fees nextweek" inside of me i was like waaaaaat ,outspoken i told her ill see to it. although (.....she once helped with me 5,000 when her parent sent her fees last year,now shez owing the school 32,000, she said she bought some clothings and the rest miscellaneous )... honestly i was heartbroken till now coz i know her 2 be cool, but mehn i plan on washing-up too plus ave gat budgets.. i expect giving her 10k but damnnn shyt happenzz dunno wat 2 do just perplexed.... would i be the one paying her school fees i have friends i could involve buh i know they would be selfish and their response would be "dont mind her jare" plz jst lead me on nairalanders..... coz am owing 5k too

The Best Investment You can Make Is In A Human being... Clothes Get Torn.. Phones Get Spoilt.. Buh a person would forever be grateful to you.. She helped you.. What stops you from helping her.. Don't let her feel you're stingy or have any second thoughts..
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by pickabeau1: 3:28pm On Jan 06, 2015
Your gf spent her school fees on clothes and looking fine
She gave you 5k out of it and now expects you to pay that same school fees..

You are a fertile ground
5k to.yield much more

Can u introduce me and her herbalist


Koolet
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by Nobody: 3:28pm On Jan 06, 2015
if u r sleeping with her then u should not even be asking this. u ought to pay or at least give her something tangible. I don't like guys who cry wolf when it's time to pay the bills of a girl u r bleeping.

but if on the other hand ur relationship is platonic then pls give her a platonic reason y u can't afford her fees...
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by misspeecollectn(f): 3:30pm On Jan 06, 2015
All I can say is
If you have the money and the heart to support her then do,nobody should dictate for you how to run your relationship,after all if you can't take care of her in your own little way then some one else will.
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by lurther: 3:31pm On Jan 06, 2015
Is the OP's girlfriend a prostitute?
ireneony:
since not for sale don't date then.
Calculate the money you have been using to carry a prostitute then you will know sex is for sale
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by ireneony(f): 3:35pm On Jan 06, 2015
lurther:
Is the OP's girlfriend a prostitute?
she is not a prostitute.....but what happened to caring for your girlfriend..
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by lurther: 3:41pm On Jan 06, 2015
ireneony:
she is not a prostitute.....but what happened to caring for your girlfriend..
Sure, i agree on caring for your girlfriend. As stated in my first post on this thread, i am of the view that he gives her money, but, not calling it school fees. Giving her school fees is a disaster about to happen, as she may likely take advantage of it and and begin to exploit and extort him.

My only grouse with your initial post, is equating money with sex.
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by Karleb(m): 3:45pm On Jan 06, 2015
koolet:
undecided 10k


Give it to her and lock up, if she asks you for any money that isn't coming from the buttock of your heart, refer her to her father. Gerrit?
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by jmoore(m): 3:45pm On Jan 06, 2015
Prixus:
if u r sleeping with her then u should not even be asking this. u ought to pay or at least give her something tangible. I don't like guys who cry wolf when it's time to pay the bills of a girl u r bleeping.
but if on the other hand ur relationship is platonic then pls give her a platonic reason y u can't afford her fees...

So a girlfriend is a prostitute that needs to be paid, huh?
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by Nobody: 3:49pm On Jan 06, 2015
The girl was just being a true gf.
She knows you are her baeby and if she has a problem you will be able to stand by her.
Only that she should have asked for a little out of it knowing you may have expenses too.
She should have asked if you had pending issues to sort out.
I give girls and people generally cash so whats the big deal?
She helped you out once too. Haba.
You should have just decided within yourself to do what you can do and suck it up.

This means you have a feeling she is greedy and you probably dont like her much.

In this case, tell her that you may be able to help her with 12k because you have pressing issues too and watch her reactions.

Watch if she will appreciate it.
Watch if she will be concerned about your pressing issues.
Watch if she will become greedy and distant.
Watch her motives and intentions and you take it from there.

Good luck.
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by Nobody: 3:52pm On Jan 06, 2015
jmoore:

So a girlfriend is a prostitute that needs to be paid, huh?
not at all. but would it be fair to sleep with her anytime n complain when she's in need or would it be fair for a guy to keep footing all her bills n nothing happens btw them?
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by jmoore(m): 3:55pm On Jan 06, 2015
Prixus:

not at all. but would it be fair to sleep with her anytime n complain when she's in need or would it be fair for a guy to keep footing all her bills n nothing happens btw them?
Sleep with her? It takes two to tango. Is she an object?
Money in exchange for sex is prostitution.
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by ninovandross(m): 4:03pm On Jan 06, 2015
koolet:
( she said she bought some clothings and the rest miscellaneous )...
miscella what?
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by Melahou(m): 4:16pm On Jan 06, 2015
when you collected 5k from her did you ask for advice?
now you are CONFUSED.
one good turn deserves another.
PAY HER SCHOOL FEES NOW OR ...
Re: Advice Please "My Girlfriend Wants Me To Pay Her School Fees" by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jan 06, 2015
Fool

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