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ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by PAT4HOT(m): 8:02am On Mar 08, 2015
Fellow Nairalanders, I am not attending a white garment church or the likes but a decent pentecostal church that believes in the teaching of the bible, but my girl wants me to change it in order to sustain our relationship.

Although I love her, I'm not comfortable with any other church doctrines (especially orthodox that she falls in), I love my church doctrines too.

So please advice,what should I do?

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by falconey(m): 8:04am On Mar 08, 2015
she want #CHANGE.

This look like a threat to me, Religion is an act of will. I suggest you let her go OP.

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by Fabdedon(m): 8:09am On Mar 08, 2015
PAT4HOT:
Fellow Nairalanders, I am nt attending a white garment church or d likes but a decent pentecostal church that believes in the teaching of of the bible
Although I LOVE HER, am nt comfortable wit any other church doctrines
So please advice,wat shud I do?
if she loves you too she can change.. My mum changed cos of my dad.. That is how things roll

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by Nobody: 8:11am On Mar 08, 2015
Is left for you to make your choice. But it's uncalled for, a lady to decide for a guy totally uncalled for. To me she woun't dare.

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by ibkgab001: 8:11am On Mar 08, 2015
She must be from Baptist Carcus
Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by PAT4HOT(m): 8:12am On Mar 08, 2015
Fabdedon:
if she loves you too she can change.. My mum changed cos of my dad.. That is how things roll
Thanks bro...

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by Hazardd(m): 8:14am On Mar 08, 2015
op, the choice is yours..
Do as your mind pleases

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by ShirelleBaby: 8:21am On Mar 08, 2015
I thought it was always the other way round.

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by ITbomb(m): 8:46am On Mar 08, 2015
For just a date?

Reject that kind of #change IJN, instead work on the #transformation of your mind and look towards developing your spiritual state and planning for marriage

GEJ till 2019

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by Nobody: 8:49am On Mar 08, 2015
How about stop getting opinions from others & go with what you feel is right? Chance are most everything you think & hear is wrong anyways. And for sure almost 100% of what society say's is a lie. So go with what your gut tells you & start a trend of truth vs. b.s.

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by Tallesty1(m): 9:01am On Mar 08, 2015
PAT4HOT:
Fellow Nairalanders, I am nt attending a white garment church or d likes but a decent pentecostal church that believes in the teaching of of the bible and my girl wants me to change it in order to sustain our relationship.
Although I love her, am nt comfortable wit any other church doctrines (especially orthodox that she falls in), I love my church doctrine too.
So please advice,wat shud I do?
Change your date.
Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by Henrypraise: 9:05am On Mar 08, 2015
PAT4HOT:
Fellow Nairalanders, I am nt attending a white garment church or d likes but a decent pentecostal church that believes in the teaching of of the bible and my girl wants me to change it in order to sustain our relationship.
Although I love her, am nt comfortable wit any other church doctrines (especially orthodox that she falls in), I love my church doctrine too.
So please advice,wat shud I do?

does all des pentecostal churches av any doctrine? wen eva i go to pentecostal churches it feels like m in da club n d pastor/ choir ar wack live band.

non d less u ar d man n u shud call d shots, but most ladies in orthodox churches like d rites n tradition during d marriage ceremony n not sum shoutin pastor tryin to confuse dem n also d ability of orthodox churches to carry d family unit along in dia own way.

i knw members of pentecostal churches will not understand wat i explained up dia. but bro u ar d man, u call d shots.

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by williamspaul22(m): 9:14am On Mar 08, 2015
Sometimes I dnt knw d word to describe some guys. Some guys re really...

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by elantraceey(f): 9:21am On Mar 08, 2015
Henrypraise:


does all des pentecostal churches av any doctrine? wen eva i go to pentecostal churches it feels like m in da club n d pastor/ choir ar wack live band.

non d less u ar d man n u shud call d shots, but most ladies in orthodox churches like d rites n tradition during d marriage ceremony n not sum shoutin pastor tryin to confuse dem n also d ability of orthodox churches to carry d family unit along in dia own way.

i knw members of pentecostal churches will not understand wat i explained up dia. but bro u ar d man, u call d shots.

Yea right they love the religiosity and ceremonies which in actual sense doesn't even reflect in their lives, i was once there .


Op I advice you know the reason why you're a christian and study your bible more, I won't say your church is the good or hers but I'll tell you to stay in a Christ conscious environment but changing because a lady wants you to isn't ideal . Sit her down and her to explain why exactly she want you to change then pick on her faults but this is most likely to work if you are spiritually discerned .

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by Henrypraise: 9:59am On Mar 08, 2015
elantraceey:


Yea right they love the religiosity and ceremonies which in actual sense doesn't even reflect in their lives, i was once there.


Op I advice you know the reason why you're a christian and study your bible more, I won't say your church is the good or hers but I'll tell you to stay in a Christ conscious environment but changing because a lady wants you to isn't ideal . Sit her down and her to explain why exactly she want you to change then pick on her faults but this is most likely to work if you are spiritually discerned .

I disagree wit d bolded, d ability for d religious teachings to transcends into one's daily life depends on d individual. D doctrines, rites n "religiousity" gives an ambience of tranquility, same tin pentecostals try to achieve wit dia "worship songs".

I agree wit ur post as regards d op's situation. Dialogue n tolerance is d key.

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by Ucheosefoh(m): 10:32am On Mar 08, 2015
When a man let a woman dictate what he will do he should know that he have sold his birthright to her simple

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by ivyT(f): 11:04am On Mar 08, 2015
Guy no change o ,una never marry na
Abi u wife her? wink

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by Nobody: 11:07am On Mar 08, 2015
Na she dey wear the pants for the relationship?

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by Airforce1(m): 11:07am On Mar 08, 2015
Ucheosefoh:
When a man let a woman dictate what he will do he should know that he have sold his birthright to her simple

lol
Seriously

i don't know the kind of men we have on nairaland

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by redcliff: 11:07am On Mar 08, 2015
PAT4HOT:
Fellow Nairalanders, I am not attending a white garment church or the likes but a decent pentecostal church that believes in the teaching of the bible, but my girl wants me to change it in order to sustain our relationship.

Although I love her, I'm not comfortable with any other church doctrines (especially orthodox that she falls in), I love my church doctrines too.

So please advice,what should I do?

Tell her to make sure she collects her PVC and vote GMB. grin

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by holatin(m): 11:07am On Mar 08, 2015
have it your way but wait will you change your surname because of her ?
what is her reason ?
if no cogent reason, tell her to go to ??

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by Nobody: 11:07am On Mar 08, 2015
March down buhari to grave
Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by Sijo01(f): 11:07am On Mar 08, 2015
Are you seriously seeking an advise for this?
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She is your girlfriend not your wife..... Change now and be ready to continue changing everything about you.

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by Apex32: 11:08am On Mar 08, 2015
Religious has to do with ur hrt not were u worshipping
Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by mmsen: 11:08am On Mar 08, 2015
Ditch your girlfriend and the church and you'll save enough money to buy (another) property in no time.

Win, win.
Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by Nobody: 11:08am On Mar 08, 2015
PAT4HOT:
Fellow Nairalanders, I am not attending a white garment church or the likes but a decent pentecostal church that believes in the teaching of the bible, but my girl wants me to change it in order to sustain our relationship.

Although I love her, I'm not comfortable with any other church doctrines (especially orthodox that she falls in), I love my church doctrines too.

So please advice,what should I do?

No be woman suppose follow man go church? Anyways if you love am die, follow her but mind you, today is church tomorrow may be something more serious so think it over!

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Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by Adyrin(m): 11:09am On Mar 08, 2015
Ask God not us!
Re: ADVICE: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Change My Church by brownlord: 11:09am On Mar 08, 2015
So what do you want?

For Nlders to tell you to change or not?

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