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sexyseun:
hmmmmm.... Forgive and forget jare, its a norm.. i still slept with ma ex on the 1st dis month and ma present BF knew about it, wetin im wan talk? he cnt kill himsef na The truth is you really cant forget ur ex except you guys didnt do d do while u were dating.

Just forgive her and tell her if she does that again its ova between you guys


cheers

ggrin:

charijee:
Op you sure say e dey vex you at all?
I salute @3coins

i hail you too. . . Good morning

AbuMikey:
Tell Me You joking
What sort of relationship are You into with Your current boyfriend?

sexyseun:
hmmmmm.... Forgive and forget jare, its a norm.. i still slept with ma ex on the 1st dis month and ma present BF knew about it, wetin im wan talk? he cnt kill himsef na The truth is you really cant forget ur ex except you guys didnt do d do while u were dating.

Just forgive her and tell her if she does that again its ova between you guys


cheers

Xsenga:
NA UR ADVICE BE DAT?

JayKayMaybachz:
Guys

Dunno how to start shaaa......
But all the same, lemme start somewhere.
Okay, There's this gal I'm dating..... We've been dating for like 6 months now. Recently, I don't really have time for her cos i lost my mom and We've done the funeral though....
Recently she started complaining bout me not giving her attention and all that. She told me earlier that she doesn't take alcohol, but see what this gal did yesterday

She had to go sleep with her ex with excuse she was tipsy.... She told me that this morning ...

I haven't given her a reply yet

So my dear fam, what will you do......What will be ya reactions??



Please I need ya advice



Thanks

JayKayMaybachz:
Guys

Dunno how to start shaaa......
But all the same, lemme start somewhere.
Okay, There's this gal I'm dating..... We've been dating for like 6 months now. Recently, I don't really have time for her cos i lost my mom and We've done the funeral though....
Recently she started complaining bout me not giving her attention and all that. She told me earlier that she doesn't take alcohol, but see what this gal did yesterday

She had to go sleep with her ex with excuse she was tipsy.... She told me that this morning ...

I haven't given her a reply yet

So my dear fam, what will you do......What will be ya reactions??



Please I need ya advice



Thanks

Charles4075:
Op,from what I see here is that your girlfriend may have cheated out of a desire for attention or affection, or because she was not feeling emotionally fulfilled in some way. If she is remorseful and wants to try to make things work, then try re-focusing your attention on the relationship and mutually striving to meet each others' needs might make you better communicators and partners. Since no relationship is perfect, you may be able to change a bad situation into an opportunity to grow, both as individuals and as a couple. However, if you and your girlfriend have different emotional expectations and values or if you do not think you can meet your girlfriend's emotional needs, it may be better to leave the relationship. I feel your pains and I've been down that road before, lucky I'm not dead because I was driving on my way back from a journey on the highway when she called me and told me it's over that she lied to me and she cheated.. The next thing I knew I found myself in the bush but for 2 months I was in the hospital bed all because of love. Vowed never to trust any lady especially one who's so interested in you and beautiful.. But that was 4 years ago man, though I'm just living my life with no commitments for the now and my family has been of great help. What you need now is a lot of space and get close to your loved ones(family), and never ever go out alone driving or drinking bro.. Pls it won't be funny.

sexyseun:
its 100% true oooo... I stopped taking him for granted when he asked me for a 3some.. Guys sometimes can really be funny

Mynd44:
One shepe bottle standing on the wall

sexyseun:
its 100% true oooo... I stopped taking him for granted when he asked me for a 3some.. Guys sometimes can really be funny

MizMyColi:
Lolz

This one is strong o

It was a moment of weakness.

Like you pointed out, you weren't giving her the desired attention.
Perhaps, that might have motivated her actions - drunk or not.


This is why I keep hammering on ladies doing their best to ensure that their validation comes from within, we shouldn't be so dependent on our boyfy's attention and approval because guess what?
They're humans too, their feelings change, sometimes they might not feel like loving up on us.

The best you two can do now is not cry over spilt milk.
Jejely give her space, if I were in her shoes, I will do the same, I will run far away from you.
I will no longer consider myself worthy of you whether or not you've equally cheated on me.

I will take responsibility for my actions and walk away, despite my emotions saying otherwise.
Even if you begged me to stay, that I'm forgiven, mbanu.

In the end, it's both your call(s) to make.
If you take her back in the long run, be ready to face the reality that you two might not remain the same again - it could get better or worse.
All the best.

ROZZAYY:
Sorry dear for d loss of ur mum. Deyve all said it all take d best advise.

JayKayMaybachz:
Guys

Dunno how to start shaaa......
But all the same, lemme start somewhere.
Okay, There's this gal I'm dating..... We've been dating for like 6 months now. Recently, I don't really have time for her cos i lost my mom and We've done the funeral though....
Recently she started complaining bout me not giving her attention and all that. She told me earlier that she doesn't take alcohol, but see what this gal did yesterday

She had to go sleep with her ex with excuse she was tipsy.... She told me that this morning ...

I haven't given her a reply yet

So my dear fam, what will you do......What will be ya reactions??



Please I need ya advice



Thanks

obongproff:
Ufan, if a chic decides to be a community well, make sure u draw from dat well as much as possible before it dries up. It doesn't mata if u d well is close to ur house or not.