freecocoa:
wow! So you determine the kind of relationship you have with someone by where you sit in a car for a journey of how many hours? This is just wonderful.

I bet your dad loved you less because his wife sat in front with him,how about when he drove only you kids? Did he love the one who sat in front more than he did the rest? This your theory sha.

Anyone could sit in front in my house while we were growing up, my mum even loved the back seat because it enabled her sleep peacefully whenever we traveled, this did not affect our family relationship for a second.

tintelch:
Oh! I m not a lady. Let me comment my reserve

Missmossy:
There's even nothing special about front sit

MizMyColi:
This might sound unrealistic, but no matter how boiled up I am, as a result of the new paradigms I now have towards relationships, I will sit at the back and genuinely love up on my man from there.

I will rub his head and kiss him and try to engage in meaningful discussions (and include the lady too). No matter how much I am hurt, I will do my best to remember that pain is inevitable; suffering is optional

Trust me, wearing a long face and nagging would be totally useless, though it's only natural to want to act on our impulses.

It is profitable to train your mind, condition it to do your biddings.

Except I'm not dating a guy who is worth it, except I'm dating an outrightly foolish guy; there's no way he won't understand and appreciate my approach and not allow a repeat occurrence.



If it happens next time, I'll opt for a cab or BRT or better still employ legedeez benz I won't even protest in any way, afterall last I checked, I am his girl-friend. No need for claiming entitlement that isn't freely given to me.

After all is said and done; it's a pretty awful position to be in.

Beamborla:


I wouldn't know if you just want to annoy me or you didn't see a better way to present your argument. My younger sister was a kid and psychology made us realize the father is always the first love of a girl child that should explain why she wants the front seat. The relationship between my dad and my mum is different from that which I have with him. I can't remember including the duration of the journey

ibrutex:
Sincerely no girl will like sitting at the back. They feel cheated .

MizMyColi:
This might sound unrealistic, but no matter how boiled up I am, as a result of the new paradigms I now have towards relationships, I will sit at the back and genuinely love up on my man from there.

I will rub his head and kiss him and try to engage in meaningful discussions (and include the lady too). No matter how much I am hurt, I will do my best to remember that pain is inevitable; suffering is optional

Trust me, wearing a long face and nagging would be totally useless, though it's only natural to want to act on our impulses.

It is profitable to train your mind, condition it to do your biddings.

Except I'm not dating a guy who is worth it, except I'm dating an outrightly foolish guy; there's no way he won't understand and appreciate my approach and not allow a repeat occurrence.



If it happens next time, I'll opt for a cab or BRT or better still employ legedeez benz I won't even protest in any way, afterall last I checked, I am his girl-friend. No need for claiming entitlement that isn't freely given to me.

After all is said and done; it's a pretty awful position to be in.

Janeify:
Let me ask you a question too. What's so special in sitting in the front?

MizMyColi:


Yeah True.

But I reckon that wisdom is profitable to direct.

We cannot keep doing things the predictable and stereotypical ways and expect tangible progress.
More than anything, I am learning that in this age and time; patience and doggedness (from both parties) does it for relationships that will last and be fruitful. In my opinion, Love is a decision afterall.

Tinubu:
Ok

#bakfromban


Op

You really think girls here will tell you the truth... Try it in real life na... Na area boys go help you separate the fight

Evandiv:


yes you ve said it all but may think girls here are not telling truth.... Well, that's your own opinion, i want you to know that i'm a different gal in the sense that i do nt coy abt ... I must stay where i wish to whether in the front or back depending on my mood at the moment.

Mathematical:
BACK OF COURSE.. EVEN IF MY BAE SAYS I SHOULD COME ON TO THE FRONT.. I'LL STILL RESPECT HER..DECLINE AND STAY PUT.. WHAT'S WITH THE FRONT THINGY? .

christybabe:
my guy should be the one to handle such situation, if he does not. I will use my eyes and tell him. Infact I don't even want to be in such situation, because it will be difficult for me not to get angry or jealous, and my guy will definitely notice it and do the needful.

dunkem21:
^^ Easier said than done.

The only thing I got out from your post is that you will be "boiling". Nobody remembers love when something is boiling.

If you tell me, you will take your old skuul shoe skull hammer him brain from your vantage back seat, I will take you more serious.

Women place importance on frivolities like this.

Good morning.

Good Morning.

**Modified**

Lmao @ break his head.

That's an option, but what does that solve really?
It'll only make the lady loose her cred.
This is africa, our men don't particularly enjoy women who drag strength nor voice with them.

It's not even a wise thing to do.

There's a place of stooping to conquer.

It's not a frivolity o.

Front seat is symbolic, in that context biko.

ivyy:
If its a friend I know really well sure why not?
But if its someone I don't knw hed have a lot of explaining to do when we get to our destination, that's if I do not eventually drop down half way (I don't do suffering and smiling)

Please note: if Its that I get to the car and he asks her to vacate the seatt for me or she does so on her own, I'd tell her not to worry and happyly go sit at the back the ideal thing is that he gave me my respect

For the critics: yes it is not my car o but you can never downplay emotions. Especially a womans emotion am sure my bf wouldn't like it too if I were the one driving with an unknown male friend at the front seat and he at the back!

winsome5:
honestly I see no big deal in occupying the back seat oh... abi dem dey give award if person sit down for front seat?

remember, first come, first serve.... enough said

they call me

- winsome5 -

Akranez:


Epistle of ivyy Chapter 4 vs 9

ivyy:



What can I do you 4?