Prayer

Lord I want to be a Good Wife And the best mum to my kids.

By your grace And guidance, Make me a virtuous woman like that of the Proverb 31 woman

Our mothers are the best.

beau49

wow!!!! interesting

Awesome. Sharing this to my 9k plus friends n followers on facebook now.....

Wow! I love it. A lesson for both single and married.

Best post I ever read outside my thread in 2015.

Op please tell mama Ngozi to give you a bag of cold sachet water...Bills on me

Japhet04:
My daughter this my daughter that

you would have said "24 things a mum teaches her daughter before marriage IN NIGERIA "

Who forced u to read through to the of the posts

Mind if I see u off this thread

REMIX: ( IDEAL MOTHERLY ADVICE TO NIGERIAN LADIES)


• My daughter, under the cocoa tree that I did meet with your Father was open and good enough for our discussions, yes; it was open and good enough if you understand what I mean.

• My daughter, if you and your husband eat a little food with love, you both would be satisfied. Times are not always the same; support him in every phase he’s passing through.

• My daughter, when your Father was riding a bicycle, I was always happy to hop on it and ride with him, not because I didn't see those men in their little cars but because my eyes also saw those men trekking to their farms.

• My daughter, listen to me, when I married your father, he was as tiny as his salary but I chose to grow with him and today, those cars out there are some of the results of what we started so little, together, and we’re proud looking at them.

• My daughter, in our time, we had sexy legs and firm bosoms to show our men , in fact, we had the finest ones, yet, when we dress, we cover those parts of our body, not because we were not civilized as you people would call it, but because we know that the eyes of men are hungry, many of them would only come, touch and go their way.

• My daughter, if you chose to live together with a man that you’re yet to be married to , and you are complaining that he hasn't proposed to you, oh, he already did. Whatever he said that made you start living with him was his proposal.

• My daughter, don’t ever try to date a married man, whether his excuse was that he doesn't find happiness with his wife or he would have married you if he had met you first, if you ever try it, I curse you already.

My daughter, don’t cause a separation between your man and his siblings; it could be dangerous for you when they finally speak with one voice.

• My daughter, you can see I still wear my night gown , yes, because to my husband; your father, I still want to look sexy. So, take good care of your body, look good for your man and don’t look like a grandma after giving birth.

• My daughter, a man would respect you and be more proud of you if you’re learned and not totally dependent on him. Strive to make your own money and while you're at it, be humble.

• My daughter, there is this thing you girls now practice, they say it’s feminism. Well, you can prove to be equal to a man in the society but please, not in your marriage because at my old age, I don’t want to start counting your husbands.

• My daughter, marriage is not a Rehabilitation Centre, if he’s not good enough for you before marriage, nothing he does would be good
enough after marriage.

• My daughter, for you to have a peaceful home and well-trained children, have one voice with your husband, join him to say NO when he’s saying NO before the kids but later when you both are alone, you can plead with him for a YES, if not, the
children will see a loophole to misbehave, either to you or their father.

• My daughter, know, learn and respect the culture and lifestyle of whoever you chose to marry . In some part of Africa, you knee down to greet your man’s parents while in some part outside Africa; you can even call them by their first name and ask for a
handshake. Whatever they believe in, if you've chosen him, believe it with him also.

• My daughter, look up there. That’s the wedding picture of your father and I, look at him smiling, I know you've seen it many times but what you did not know is that your father was angry before taking this picture, I hope you find a man whose anger doesn't last till the next day.
• My daughter, when I say over 52 years of marriage , it wasn't that I did not see any reason to leave your father, I saw a lot of them but I bear his faults, i forgave him to stay married.

• My daughter, these are part of the wisdom i have gathered over the years. and If I had taken my time to tell you all these, and your marriage doesn't last like that of your father and I, then I had wished i never gave birth to you.

powerful words of wisdom...only 4 those who can take 2 hrt...e.g #Feminism...nt more 2 say...modern day ladies beware!

A lady who want to be happy and hav a fufill marriage shud take ds advice.. nice one Op

Marriage aint the ultimate

no be girls. dey will never see dis to guide dem.

JeffreyJamez:


and many more to come.

yes o

I have seen it before, anyway its a good reminder if our ladies will listen and learn.

Reasons I always wonder y a single girl date a married man...if a mother says u r cursed.

IamK2I:
beau49

Yes sir.....?

A word is enough for the wise

JideTheBlogger:
Awesome. Sharing this to my 9k plus friends n followers on facebook now.....

Please do with due credit. Thank you!

This is really an eye opener; great!

These are indeed words of marble

Missmossy:
These are indeed words of marble

words ON marble Olodo

DeeBoiyy:
words ON marble Olodo

Olodo teacher

Don't teach me nonsense

DeeBoiyy:
words ON marble Olodo

Olodo teacher

Don't teach me nonsense


Quit being a stalker!

netizenbuzz:
Can I honestly ask some guys what they understand by "feminism"? It is obvious some dumbasses on this forum have not even bothered to do a research on this topic but are so ever ready to jump at feminists. You guys need to educate yourselves and remember that not everything about feminists are negative. I'm aware that there are extremists. Just remember that feminists are the same people fighting against violence against women.
That said, I don't totally agree with op about no feminism in marriage because what I understand by feminism is equal rights and fair treatment of women. So we equality rights in the society and fair treatment in marriage.

The truth is that most men know what feminism is and that it's not a bad thing. They just give a dog a bad name to hang it.

Missmossy:

Olodo teacher

Don't teach me nonsense


Quit being a stalker!

lol!

I ain't no stalker i know you

eligibility:


I so much appreciate this simple thought .
Have a rethink and don't be too hungry about western civilization. Lets try to be a moralist.
Some are created to marry more than one wife, though bible does not kick against monogamy ,its only the quran that says marry only one.
A pastor preaches against adultery but has many mistresses and still believe in monogamy.
Quranically,men are created to have more than one wife if so wishes.
Provided you are financially buoyant and energetic. Its hypocritical to have one wife and many mistresses outside wedlock . In a simple sentence, the population of male gender does not corroborate with the female counterpart. Its better to be a second wife than not to get married legally. 70% of our ladies will not be able to get married if we are waiting for single husband . Do your research?

@First bolded, You are hilarious!

@2nd bolded, God forbid.

dicefrost:




Fair treatment? ...... Agreed. Equal right with your husband?..... Your mother will be counting your husbands in her old age.

Not all men are like you.
Some men are actually pro-feminist.

beau49:



Yes sir.....?

You read what the Op wrote? I want you to be the best wife of our time and beyond. With this and more you already know I bet you, your home will be HEAVEN ON EARTH!

Nice one dear

IamK2I:

You read what the Op wrote? I want you to be the best wife of our time and beyond. With this and more you already know I bet you, your home will be HEAVEN ON EARTH!

Mmmm....no I did not but I might later,that's if it is interesting to read. For now I am spying of people's dairy and having a nice time while at it.